Jill Zarin

Jill finds the humor in last night's finale and thanks the fans for following along.

on Jul 22, 20110

When I went to go check on what Sonja and Ramona were doing, I ran into Alex standing outside the bathroom. They didn't let her in. It really felt like they were excluding her. Imagine if two people who you thought were your closest friends were running around with a secret and not letting you in on it. I honestly felt badly for Alex. Is this foreshadowing of what's to come? Nobody sent her the memo to wear leopard either!

I can totally relate to Ramona's feelings. I too often regret not giving Allyson a brother or sister and feel Avery's pain. Ally is lucky to have three half-siblings and three step-siblings, but Avery doesn't have those relationships. If Ramona wants another baby, go for it! Is it too late? Only Mother Nature knows for sure -- but I saw the look of love in Ramona's eyes and I wanted her to be pregnant too. Sadly, she wasn't. Was it menopause? Maybe? I don't think finding out on the boat was the best idea. But hey, what's a Housewives show without drama right?

I want to end by also thanking everyone who helped make this the best season ever. Darren (Zarin), my manager, and Sarah Vitale, my assistant, I could not live without both of you or my family, who supported me every day. Special thanks to my cyber-assistant, Maggie, the Gingerettes, Team Jill Australia, and to every single one of you out there for all of your love and support this season.

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Don't forget to watch part one of the reunion this Monday.

Love,

Jill

122 comments
Ruth MacDonald
Ruth MacDonald

Jill................You are so honest and so adorable,I am a good old Canadian gal and would love for you and you Bobby and Daughter to come to British Columbia,Now you have my e mail address if you ever come to my neibourhood please e mail me and I shall give you my phone number.When President Clinton was here he loved our province,and the people gave him his privacy as they do to the hollywood people as well............That would be a hoot to have you down here.

saysitlikeitis
saysitlikeitis

Jill - You seriously need to get a life and stop being jealous of everyone. It started with Bethanny when Bravo talked to her about getting her own show - you saw red and didn't want anything to do with her. Ramona tried several times to get you two to talk but you wouldn't have it. When things didn't go your way you tried to blame it on Ramona for not letting you stay when you showed up when the girls were on vacation. PLEEEAAASSEE - you are so jealous of Bethanny and now you are jealous of Ramona. Get off the show and save us all from having to listen to you. P.s. Take Kelly with you!!!!

wil
wil

YOUR THE BEST!

YOU ARE THE BEST

jessica w
jessica w

You go girl!! Don't let them being you down! Every time you do something even a little wrong, everobe freaks out on you, but when the blonde bimbos do something, god forbid you so something. Omg tell them SHUT UP ALREADY!! Love you. Live like you and be like you! :)

F. V.
F. V.

Hi, From what I have seen on the 4 seasons, you are wonderful! You maybe have lost a friend but I can see that you 've grown a lot and always strayed true. Bobby is a lucky man to share his life with you! I hope I'll see you on tv for a long time because your guts and smiles are a joy in my day!

All the best!

F

keeping it real
keeping it real

Hahaha you are so funny. The line about Ramona and menopause knocking was too funny. I almost spit out my food ha ha ha thanks for the laugh...i needed one You have been nicer this season....but dont lose your honest humor

Tara Ricard
Tara Ricard

Team Jill! Can't believe how the reunion played out.

Shelly S
Shelly S

I think you have more growing to do. Just saying :0

wackeyeyed
wackeyeyed

Jill, you are GREAT..... A typical new yorker. I love your style, your guts, your wit, everything. Im so glad you didnt cave this season. You were yourself and you came off as the brilliant intelligent woman that you are. KEEP it up. Ramona has nothing on you. Let her live in her fantasy world that she thinks is so perfect. I love how you tell it like it is. Ramona is simply hurtful and spiteful.

brooke seitz
brooke seitz

I love you Jill I think your a bad ass in a classy way love ya love ya love ya!

Viewer1234
Viewer1234

Why do you always have to be up in everyone's business. Ramona and Sonja doing the test on the boat would not have been a big deal if you had not made it into one.

ccjs
ccjs

You are the only sane one on this show and the only real one. I do not find a single classy, honest or likable about either Sonja or Ramona (shudder). If I was in a restaurant and one of those two walked in I would ask for my check. You, I would like to meet and get to know .

JSSSS
JSSSS

Jill, You rock! I love how you have many comments and Alex has none that tells alot about her and how everyone is Team Jill..... YAY!

tk mosa
tk mosa

Jill - I just watched the reunion show. You were very classy, and to the point. It is true that Ramona makes a lot of accusations to people with no back up for it. No one was perfect (naturally), but I appreciate your introspection this season and your willingness to adjust your behavior. I mean that in a very positive way. I think last season stress was bringing you down. Stay positive. If I could make a wish, it would be for you and Bethany to reconcile. Perhaps in time. Keep being you, being true and always take time to think and evaluate your self and those you choose to share company with. Enjoy your summer!!!! Great season!!!!! Mazel (From an Irish Catholic girl!!!) I think that translates to "cheers"

tdenton
tdenton

Jill,

You are the best and I love seeing you and Bobby. Please stay you really make the show.

embones
embones

dear jill, hi! i am emma and i am 12. you and alex were my fav housewives last year. this season only alex is. i respect you but i think you are being mean to alex. in my school we learn about bullys, and you are acting like one to alex. i hope you can be nicer and not call her an idiot. plz plz stop picking on her. that would make me be a fan of yours again. Thx. :-)

Fellow US Housewife
Fellow US Housewife

Jill- you are awesome. I love that you are straight forward, quick witted, and loveable. I am team brunette all the way.

Peachpit
Peachpit

Jill, you are by far my favorite Housewife. NYC show is the best but it's you that make it so. Some of the women on the show tonight clearly are in need of some help. I think Ramona might have some deep issues. I also have enjoyed watching you're friendship with Lu Ann. You guys make me laugh. Sure hope you are back for another season. To tell you the truth I was never a big fan of Betthany, although she has made bank, she lost a good friend in you. I dont watch her show. Keep the laughs coming, we need it during these tough times. Regards, MY

KShousewife
KShousewife

You are fabulous. There are no two ways about it. Even when you're not perfect, I adore you

Jaccoo
Jaccoo

Go Jill~ (From Jack) Your Moxie and Steadfast friendships are FAB... Smooch Jack

TEAM BRUNETTE!
TEAM BRUNETTE!

Jill.... You need to surround yourself with the Brunette's and completely dissassosiate yourself from the Blonde Bitter Betties...Love you and your feisty no BS self.

patstom
patstom

Jill, I agree with tallyb2 regarding the tip to Louann. I liked you better in season one though.........now you seem to create drama everywhere you go, like you HAVE to have more attention than everyone else and always jump on anyone's train that has a controversy, what's that about. You seem like a person that COULD be a great friend, but you have been soooooo wishywashy this season I would be afraid to turn my back on you. (sry). If you come back next season, I hope the nice Jill comes back.

Latina Housewive of San Diego
Latina Housewive of San Diego

Jill, love you, Funny, real, elegant, calm, bussiness oriented, well dressed, good manners, outspoken, good mom, good wife (I have not heard compleains from Bobby on the show ;-)), good friend, I wish I have a friend like you. I think that's why you can't get alone with Ramona, she seems to be a nice person, but she is rude and play low if that's convenient to her. Too sad for her, you can't change it right?, congratulations, this was a good season for you ;-)

Tracy from Arizona
Tracy from Arizona

LOVE YOU JILL, I think you are a great person who speaks their mind and i admire you, keep being who you are :)

GrammyRobin
GrammyRobin

Jill I love you Your Honest out going DO NOT LET THEM MAKE YOU CRY especially Romona that nut job cannot even see her old man is a cheeting liar at least your Husband loves you, You remind me of my Sister Joann Your The best!

csweetie4696
csweetie4696

Jill I just wanted to say I love you the most out of all the housewives.

EnglishMajor:)
EnglishMajor:)

Hi Jill. You are my favorite housewife! I think i'm the youngest viewer..ahah:) I'm 14 years old. I have to read books for my honors classes, but i tend get off track with this show. It's my guilty pleasure. I think your actually the one i feel is really true and real. I like Luann too, but your the best:) i like how you speak your mind and not afraid to say it. You speak the truth and its a language you know how to speak really well:) Hope to see you next season.:) Best wishes and the best of luck in just.. everything:) -

Viewer
Viewer

You are awesome. You say it how you see it. Alex, Sonya and Ramona are insane!!!

ViewerinHI
ViewerinHI

Jill, you are my very favorite. I never had an interest in going to New York; however, I do now. Wish I had a friend like you.

chopped salad
chopped salad

Dear Jill, I absolutely love and adore you. You looked stunning at LuAnn's party and i think you are fun, real and funny. Much love to you!!

WindyCity1
WindyCity1

This WindyCity agrees with WindyCityWondering. RHONY has become nothing more than an infomercial for the housewives businesses.

It's time to bring back some real programming. Reality programs are getting tired!

Barbara baltimore 73
Barbara baltimore 73

Hi Jill Hope you are well just wanted to say I dont know how you can stay friends with Ramona and her friends. She is trouble. They work together to make you look bad.JUST LIKE they did when they went against you for Bethany. You were a good friend to her ,she will be sorry one day. Love you>

Barbara117898
Barbara117898

Jill i think your the best on the show. Luann also , i dont know how you can remain friends wiht Romona,alex ,and sonja. I hope you and your family do well.... your the best! :) Barbra in baltimore ps... love Kelly too

Aleina
Aleina

This season you did change so much more. It is easy to get caught up in image issues and it is even easier to become cynical and say negative things and entertain drama and that is why it was so impressive to see how hard you tried to be yourself and to not enter in so much with all the bad behaviors. That is so commendable and is seems that you are much more like yourself....a compassionate, opinionated, but very kind and supportive and strong Jewish woman. Great to have YOU back and hope to see you next season!

Sara from IL
Sara from IL

I LOVE watching you on the show this season. You are so funny and so real.

NDHousewifefan
NDHousewifefan

Hi, Jill! Thanks for a great season. I saw the change in you, and was enlightened by it! Yes, there were times when the old Jill came out, but everything takes time. It was so obvious from the start of the season that there would be a division of sorts with the brunettes and blondes. I was impressed of the maturity of yourself, Countess LuAnn, Kelly and Cindy. I'm sure that it was frustrating for you at times, but you brunettes took the high road. I was also very touched seeing the affection between you and Bobby. It wasn't as obvious in previous seasons as this one. I wish you well, and keep smiling! If ever in the state of ND, please look me up, it would be a hoot to have a cup of coffee with you!

Real MS Housewife
Real MS Housewife

love love love you Jill - when you are good you are so good and when you are bad you are so good at being bad!!!! Most important you own it either way - not like someothers on the show!!!!! Hope to see you back next season!!!!!!!!!!

carolinahousewife
carolinahousewife

Hi Jill Just wanted to say you look fabulous!! And kudos to you and Kelly for addressing the bullying! Congrats to you on a great season! I was very interested to read about your children having arthritic conditions, Im so sorry! I was such an active woman and was diagnosed 3 years ago with severe RA. It has completely changed my life and I am trying to deal with it. I have three beautiful daughters and a special needs stepson that we have full custody of.It breaks my daughters hearts to see how I have changed. Hopefully I can get better adjusted to living with it! I am going to do some research on charities you do for arthritis and try to help, I think that would do wonders for me! Keep on being you!!

leahautumn
leahautumn

You had the best line of the season..."knock knock"!!! You're hillarious and my favorite on the show...even last season. We do some ugly things when we're hurt but you have recovered gracefully. I hope you stay longer and I hope Ramona grows up...Hang on to your real friendships with Luann, Kelley, and Cindy...loved you ladies together!

firefly10
firefly10

Go Jill..don't let Ramona and Sonja get you down..you have way too much class for them. All I want to say is that you and Bobby are classier than the two of them. Those two don't really belong in society I don't think.

chrissyinky
chrissyinky

Jill, want to write this b4 reunion show. ALWAYS HAVE LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU. But after last season, you kinda lost me there. But after watching Bethenny ever after, YOU WERE RIGHT, SHE WAS ALONG FOR THE RIDE. So so sorry, about your friendship. I LOVE LOVE LOVE THE NEW JILL........ AND THE OLD JILL ALSO........... You have inspired me also to take a look at myself, and change also. LOVE LOVE LOVE YA, GO TEAM JILL, GGO BRUNETTES.

VanillaBean
VanillaBean

Love you Jill! You say it like it is without holding any punches all the while showing class (OMG did I just use the "C" word? LOL) You back up your friends which is hard to find in the best of circumstances let alone on a reality TV show. Enjoy your summer-can't wait to watch you next season :)

Christy7
Christy7

Jill I think you are great and you are one of the most honest and real women on the show. Its sad that Alex and Ramona spent so much of the season attacking you and Louann, it only showed them for how petty and phony they were. Ramona has always been tacky and rude but Alex really showed her true colors this season and it wasn't pretty. For someone who goes on about people talking about her behind her back she did more than her share of that where you Louann and Kelly were concered. Can't wait to see what next season brings

pasha
pasha

Dear Jill, I am a new viewer to the show and I find you the most refreshing and to the point person. Your style is beautiful and I love your interaction with Bobby. Stay true to yourself, A FAN OF JILL

Deborah Long
Deborah Long

Hi Jill, P-L-E-A-S-E R-E-A-D You are amazing! You are my fav on the show. Please don't take this the wrong way but I love that you are so funny, so nebby and so miss-know-it-all (LOL) (I love that about your personality) I mean all of this in a good way. If I could be like anyone in the world it would be like you, I just find you a breathe of fresh air. Also you are beautiful and I love your hair. When you say things about the other women I don't think you are being mean at all I think everyone does that and you don't mean them any harm, and everything you say is all true, you are just hilarious. I think you can be a good friend. If I were you I would not change a thing. I wish Bethenny would give you a chance to work out your friendship because it seems like you were really a friend to her and that you truly love her. On a lighter note, I must tell you that I am addicted to RHONY. I never miss an episode and I can't wait for the reunion show on Monday. My dear you are the one in the group with the amazing marriage,it is so obvious that Bobby adores you and you him. I just love your relationship with Bobby (you were made for each other) that's what a marriage should be, what you and Bobby have. Your Bobby is a wonderful husband to you as you are a wonderful wife to him. And the two of you make a gorgeous couple I might add. I love your little remarks for example when you were in Morocco and when you seen the tent (you were taking pictures) after the camel ride (which was hilarious I might add) and you said "Oh my this is beautiful, where's Bobby" just the way you said it it's like you just wanted to share that moment with him (beautiful). Well Jill I just wanted to let you know how much I adore you on the show and let you know that I am your #1 fan. Keep doing what you're doing, don't ever change and don't let anyone ever tell you any different. And I wish you and Bobby all the best, you deserve it. Bless you. Your #1 Fan, Debbie (from Pittsburgh PA)

susanw
susanw

I don't know who Ramona's doctor is, but my doctor said your body starts menopause 10 years in advance before your menstrual cycle stops.