Jill Zarin

Jill chats about relationships, burying the hatchet with Alex, and getting sucked into the gossip.

on May 6, 2011

I want to begin by thanking all of Ginger's fans for all of your get well wishes. I am pleased to say that Ginger (@realgingerzarin) is feeling much better after her knee surgery. I also want to thank @DrCindyBressler for taking such good care of her. This is her third surgery, and I hope it's her last. Special thanks to Peaceloveworld.com for all of the clothes you sent her. She was the fashion queen in the hospital!

Coming back from Australia I felt incredibly refreshed, rejuvenated, and truly ready to film this season. Bobby and I took long walks on the water by the Sydney Opera House (to see exclusive photos, sign up for my newsletters at jillzarin.com!). In Secrets of a Jewish Mother we talked alot about relationships. At the end of the day, isn't that what counts the most? I am often taken the wrong way, and I need to be more careful with my words. What I can't control is when someone accuses me of saying something that isn't true. What can I do?

The other thing that was on my mind when I came home was Alex. I very much wanted to make things right with her. I feel like Housewives is summer camp and we are all in a bunk. You have a few BFFs and the rest of the girls "not so much"! You have to try to at least "get along" and that was my goal when I went to Alex's house. We had our ups and downs, as everyone else does on the show, but Alex just wouldn't let it go. She admitted to me that the "Bethenny situation" had spilled over onto her but of course that part was cut out of the show. I tried to listen. I have to say I was hurt when she said behind my back "I don't trust Jill." But I am letting it go since she said it before we made up just as I said "she is a F.B." at the wedding, also, before I went to her house.