Cast Blog: #RHONY

Inner Coconut

Ramona on Her Divorce From Mario

Carole on Elitists and Bitches

Heather Says That's a Wrap

Sonja: Don't Take Yourself Too Seriously

The Countess: Sonja and I Are on the Outs

Aviva Says Bye for Now

Kristen on Surviving Her First Season

LuAnn: For Ramona Ignorance Is Bliss

Who Cares How Carole Wrote Her Book?

Carole on Stupid Things You've Heard on Bravo

Aviva's "Foul Ignorance"

Kristen: Ramona's Out of Touch with Reality

Sonja Is Very Private

Ramona on the Grueling Reunion

LuAnn: Sonja Is Off the Rails

Heather: Et tu Ramona Singer?

Aviva on Kristen's "Gatemouth" Look

Kristen: Sonja Could Be Successful

Sonja's Glad Aviva Threw Her Leg

Carole: Waiter, We're Done

Ramona: Aviva's Leg Scared All of Us

Heather Focuses on What Matters

LuAnn: Sonja Only Has Herself to Blame

What Else Does Aviva Have in That Bag?

Aviva: Leggy Blonde

God Gave me a Great Ass and His Approval

Sonja on Her Harry Situation with LuAnn

Ramona: Where Did the Time Go With Avery?

Heather Tips to Plan a Party for Carole

Aviva Rises Above the Nonsense

Love Kristen Tender

Sonja and Harry Aren't Good for Each Other

Ramona: Mario's Voice Is So Sexy

Aviva Defends Her Asthma

Heather's Sasha Fierce Moment

Nothing Is Too Romantic for Sonja

LuAnn: I Sing When I Feel Like Singing

Kristen: This Show Has Helped My Marriage

Carole: Oh Beautiful for Spacious Skies. . .

Ramona: Just Don't Ask Me to Go Every Year

Inner Coconut

Kelly talks about vaginas, her past, and finding the right kind of man.

Respect yourself.

The big V -- for those vagina obsessed, hats off to you. I'm just focused on my own vagina. (Potential TMI.)

As for Sonja and her cookbook, she has a really clever and easy idea there. We didn't need to see her vagina to help her sell books. Oof! See what I have to deal with?

I don't know why I told LuAnn something so intimate (which my dad calls "inner coconut"), but I was in the moment and sometimes you can't control what's really on your mind. LuAnn is a lot tougher and more secure than me -- clearly.

You can't choose who you fall in love with, but you can choose to keep your hands off of people. That goes for me, too. Since that incident which happened in my twenties, I learned a lot. I was fortunate enough to meet and marry Gilles, who is the opposite of what I had endured. Even though we aren't together, Gilles has always been and will always be an amazing man.

I know the man of my dreams is coming very soon. I finally feel good about myself and recognize that my happiness is not based on anyone else but my own. Watch out for the sharks, bottom feeders, and minnows -- there may be a lot of fish in the sea but, some of them should be thrown back. Check out Jill Zarin's book, Secrets of a Jewish Mother to learn about what kind of men are the marrying kind. I call it Type 1 vs. Type 2. Beware of Type 2. Type 1 is responsible, honest, and manly. Type 2 is pretty, lazy, and fun. Think Prince Charming, because you should never have to settle at any age.

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