Cast Blog: #RHONY

Kellyland vs. Negative Town

Ramona on Her Divorce From Mario

Carole on Elitists and Bitches

Heather Says That's a Wrap

Sonja: Don't Take Yourself Too Seriously

The Countess: Sonja and I Are on the Outs

Aviva Says Bye for Now

Kristen on Surviving Her First Season

LuAnn: For Ramona Ignorance Is Bliss

Who Cares How Carole Wrote Her Book?

Carole on Stupid Things You've Heard on Bravo

Aviva's "Foul Ignorance"

Kristen: Ramona's Out of Touch with Reality

Sonja Is Very Private

Ramona on the Grueling Reunion

LuAnn: Sonja Is Off the Rails

Heather: Et tu Ramona Singer?

Aviva on Kristen's "Gatemouth" Look

Kristen: Sonja Could Be Successful

Sonja's Glad Aviva Threw Her Leg

Carole: Waiter, We're Done

Ramona: Aviva's Leg Scared All of Us

Heather Focuses on What Matters

LuAnn: Sonja Only Has Herself to Blame

What Else Does Aviva Have in That Bag?

Aviva: Leggy Blonde

God Gave me a Great Ass and His Approval

Sonja on Her Harry Situation with LuAnn

Ramona: Where Did the Time Go With Avery?

Heather Tips to Plan a Party for Carole

Aviva Rises Above the Nonsense

Love Kristen Tender

Sonja and Harry Aren't Good for Each Other

Ramona: Mario's Voice Is So Sexy

Aviva Defends Her Asthma

Heather's Sasha Fierce Moment

Nothing Is Too Romantic for Sonja

LuAnn: I Sing When I Feel Like Singing

Kristen: This Show Has Helped My Marriage

Carole: Oh Beautiful for Spacious Skies. . .

Ramona: Just Don't Ask Me to Go Every Year

Kellyland vs. Negative Town

Kelly welcomes us back and gives us her strategy for this season.

Welcome back to RHNOY!

To clear the air, we weren't moved back because we were too boring, we were moved back because we had a new group of Miami mamas Bravo wanted you to see.

Honestly, this season of RHONY is off the drama charts. The ladies are in rare form throwing verbal daggers everywhere. Get your shields out!

I learned one valuable lesson last season: if you don't navigate well with dramatic situations, ZIP IT! What did I get out of sticking up for myself on Season 3? Nothing! When in drama or doubt, walk away, leave a room, or remove yourself. The biggest lesson I learned was to remove myself from conflict. Engaging in conflict does not get you anywhere, especially when you are on a TV show.

I get a lot of slack for living in "Kellyland." Why on earth would I want to hang out in "Negative Town," when I can work hard, love my girls, have fun with my friends, and be the best I can be?

Good begets good. Try as hard as you can to disassociate yourself from "Debbie Downers" and "Negative Nellies." Hang out with those who love and support you. Trying to befriend those with issues is like staying in an abusive relationship.

Life is too short. Living well and having fun are the best revenge.

Welcome back, follow me on @kellybensimon. Ask me anything you want, and please give me constructive criticism. I want to be the best Kelly I can be. Just don't mention my height, for I can't do anything about being 5'10"!

And, get ready for my sixth jewelry line, launching at the W hotels this April from $50-150. I want you to look and feel as hot as you possibly can.