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Kelly Killoren Bensimon

Me and My "Class" Mates

Kelly ponders the burlesque party and shares what she and Ally have in common.

July 7, 2011

What is going on?

So, Sonja, Avery, and Ramona decide to go to shop for Sonja's burlesque costume at a downtown haunt called, Patricia Fields. (Sonja, Patricia Fields is downtown, are you sure you'll be safe?!!) Patricia Fields is a New York icon and her store has been a haven for nightclub goers for decades. You may know/recognize Patricia -- she was the stylist for the Sex and the City. Why are Ramona, Sonja, and Avery picking out costumes for Sonja's burlesque party? What do you think about Avery coming to pick out burlesque clothes?

I have to be honest, I was not really in a partying kind of mood. It was late on a Friday, I had to get my girls to the beach right after, and it wasn't clear what the point of the party was. We were merely invited to another theme party Sonja was having. Right after Sonja's performance, which was a surprise for sure, I complimented her on how pretty she looked and congratulated her. Sonja said, "I did this for my daughter." It was at that moment when I realized that her performance had nothing to do with self-mockery. It was just another Sonja moment.

As for processing problems, many people deal with grief in a variety of ways. I grieved over my divorce for a long time. I made the right decision for me and my children, but it is very scary to lose all of your friends and the lifestyle that some men afford women, and work to reinvent yourself. It's hard for everyone involved. Personally, I went from protected to exploited. No one really knows the truth about Sonja's issue, and everyone has a story that they like to tell that suits their needs. As friends, all we can do is be there.

LuAnn is a very special woman. I've grown to love her. At first, I was intimidated but her emotional strength and impressed with her ability to weed through the bad seeds. Now, I want to know all the tricks of her trade. I don't need a "moment" with her, we just like to be together and talk, and talk, and talk, and talk. I could listen to her stories all day long. LuAnn has lived an amazing life, and has navigated her transition so well. To her, it's not how her relationship ended, it's how her new chapter begins that's interesting.

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Unlucky 13
Unlucky 13

Kelly discusses her meeting with Alex and this episode's symbolic number.

July 7, 201122 Comments The Real Housewives of New York City Season 4 / Episode 13 / Kelly Killoren Bensimon

Comments

33 Comments

Your comment about Alex & Simon's 50's household is so rude - where did you get your manner - LUANN - becuase I really believe she has some NOT you are as rude as she is

I have to wonder if you are capable what so ever of minding your own business. The way you walk around on your high horse, telling people how they should feel... you're lucky that you haven't had someone hand you your a$$ on a plate yet. People are entitled to their emotions. We all have to deal with you, you'll just have to deal with people's raw emotions from time to time, regardless of how uncomfortable it makes you feel. And if you want to be honest, THAT'S not normal.

The OPI nail polish is called Strawberry Margarita, not Summer Margarita.

Kelly,

I wish your visit to the orphanage in Morocco had appeared in the show. That was a lovely picture of you with the baby. My children started their lives in orphanages and they are the joys of our lives.

It's clear you're trying hard to overcome the "crazy" label you were given last year. The way to do so, however, is to behave kindly and rationally to all. Trying to make it seem that someone else on the show is "crazy" is a poor and unkind strategy. Rise above that label and earn the respect of viewers by never being petty or judgmental.

After making a PSA about being a 40-year-old woman who was bullied, it's very sad to see you bullying Alex. Please remember that listening is every bit as important as speaking. You have a habit of speaking over people and trying to quiet them when they attempt to respond. I hope you'll watch yourself on video and learn from your behavior.

I very much enjoyed your segment on the stuffed animals chair. We have a few hundred or so. . .

I hope you and your daughters are enjoying summer.

My best wishes,
Sanderesa

LOL at Liz H. :)

Kelly, some great reads are "The Help" by Katherine Stockett, and "Don't You Forget About Me" by Jancee Dunn.

I just read "Airframe" by Michael Crichton. As counter intuitive as it may sound, it help me rid myself of a life long fear of flying.

I like you Kelly - you are really cool and funny

I love you Kelly! I think that people are too hard on you. People call you crazy, but I understand, and agree with everything you have to say. Team Brunettes!!

Team Blondes!!! And I'm a brunette.
Team Bethenny!!!

Kelly, as my daughter would say, YOU ROCK1

U have become my favorite.

you have become my favorite. keep it up!

Kelly, you are my favourite housewife by far....Love your style XXX

Hi Kelly,

Love you this season.

TEAM BRUNETTES!!!

Do people really spend this much time reading Kellys blog then insulting her? Puhlease get a life and spend your time reading blogs you enjoy. While you're being negative, I'll be painting my nails with Summer Margarita. ;)

I don't know what to make of this week's episode. I am a huge fan of the show, and I don't really dislike any of the women on it. I get very unhappy when people fight and kvetch and backstab -- but I've noticed that you all are making up and dealing with each other more honestly and openly, and that's a good thing. As always, I'm impressed by how beautiful and stylish Kelly is. Every week, you look so beautiful, and I'm glad to see you out with Luann and going to all the events. You rock! Love your Facebook page too. Until next week...

I wish you and Bethenny were goint at it still. The show is so boring without her.

Kelly,

I have a book recommendation for you: "The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals" by Gavin De Becker. It's all about recognizing and understanding that little voice inside us that says "this is not a safe place" or "this is not someone I want to hang out with."

Wishing you good times and good luck!

i guess the Kelly digs from Ramona and Simon should just go unnoticed. really?
Wait till alex and simon are history.lol

Can you please just leave Alex ALONE?

I am really liking you this season-stepping away from drama, being more yourself you just seem happier! Where can we send you recipes? A great summer read is Friday Night Knitting Club or Sizzling Seventeen down at the beach.
Keep rockin' not knockin'.

Spot on Kelly, spot on. thank you!

I am a brunette, love your hair color, but...I am team blond. GOD BLESS YOU KELLY!

Hi,
I am happy you have a friend in LuAnn but just watch your back she is not a real friend...it was a party if you want to go you go if you don't you don't.

TEAM BRUNETTES!!!

is #icanmakeyouhot a cookbook Kelly??????? I'm wondering about the request for recipes.....please respond, I'd love to help.

love, love, love the KKB style tip at the end! You should do more of that... tips for moms. I have 2 kids and I want tips that go with my age. Going to Ulta today to get the polishes. Thanks!

Do you wish you hadn't intervened at Avery's party after hearing her touching report written about her mother? It looks like you stepped in where you were not welcome. I really don't understand most of your blogs.

Kelly,
You have found a friend in Luann, it is good to have someone to confide in. We all need someone to talk to from time to time. I understand you much more now that you have opened up. I love your blog, but with all you have going on do not take on battles that are not yours. Let Jill, Luann, Alex, and Simon work out their differences. You all are giving Simon way too much power.

Please stop your constant digs at Ramona... As it only makes YOU look bad!!

KELLY, I JUST THINK YOU, JILL, LUANN, CINDY HAVE SO MUCH FUN, YOU GUY'S ARE ALL ABOUT HAVING FUN AND ABOUT FAMILY, NOT DRAMA AND HOW MUCH CAN I DRINK AND CAUSE DRAMA. BUT YOU JILL LUANN AND CINDY TALK ABOUT FAMILY AND DOING FOR YOUR KIDS AND WHAT IS RIGHT FOR THEM, THAN YOU THINK ABOUT YOURSELFS, YOU ALL TRY TO HELP OTHERS AND LOOK OUT FOR OTHERS, I REALLY ENJOY WATCHING THE SHOW FOR YOU FOUR GIRLS. I CAN'T TAKE ALL THE DRAMA, DRINKING, ALL THE BACK STABBING, AND CAN SOMEONE HELP THE OTHER LADIES FIND SOME CLOTHES TO PUT ON, IF THEY WERE MY MOTHER'S I WOULD NOT WANT ANYONE TO KNOW. I BELEAVE THAT YOU, JILL LUANN AND CINDY MAKE THE SHOW, YOU ALL SHOW OTHERS IT IS BEST TO HELP OTHERS AND IT IS ALL ABOUT YOUR KIDS AND FAMILY FIRST, THAN IT IS ABOUT YOU. YOU FOUR LADIES ARE TRUE ROLEMODLES FOR THE YOUNG LADIES OUT THEIR WHO WATCH THE SHOW, KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND THE GOOD JODS YOU ALL DO. WE ARE JILL, KELLY, LUANN AND CINDY FANS GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. WE LOVE YOU

I think that what Ramona and Avery do is really none of your business Kelly.

Kelly--I am currently reading, "A Place of Yes" by Bethenny Frankel...it's fantastic and I highly recommend it! Just finished its 15th week on the NYTimes Bestseller List.

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