You weren't there. Sonya should have never brought it up! You are all sad this year, no longer funny without Bethany! My Thursday nights are free!

i love your take on things, your so to the point

Luann:

Please be the level-headed one in this season....it is obvious from where I am sitting that Alex is being singled out. I pray this is not another mean season.

Luann

You are very refreshing this season with your sense of humor. Your comments towards Alex are right on the mark. I'm glad to see your keeping things light hearted. Congrats on making it through with your divorce and meeting a good man!

Countess, God made ADAM & EVE. Marriage was blessed by God between a man and a woman. Watch what you support darling, or maybe you don't care as long as you are in the scene. So sad what you all have become.

You really need to tell your friend Sonja what you wrote about her behavior or I hope she simply reads your blog. Her behavior was so disgusting. You and Kelly acting like Simon and Alex freaking was embarrassing. It's because they are truly passionate about why they were there! Alex should have controlled herself but who cares what she was wearing.

LOVE you this season. So funny and witty. Loved the comment about Alex's dress, social climbing, etc. Alex has been behaving inappriately at every event this season. She needs some manners as Sonja says.

Were we watching the same episode. Alex went to sonja's party and was not going to confront sonja about the march. Sonja is the one that brought it up to Alex and then wouldnt even let alex speak. Alex was speaking in a soft tone when sonja was yelling at her. I don't understand how we can all watch the same episode and have different perspectives. You werent even there for the beginning of the confrontation but spoke to sonja as if you knew what was going on.

Luann, you are really disappointing me. You unfairly took Sonja's word as truth, and made it worse by adding your comments and bringing others into the conversation. You have done this is many settings. You weren't there, you don't have all the facts, should be your mantra. Stop judging. Champion everyone and champion truth. You, Sonya, Jill and Kelly seem to have very selected viewpoints and spreading it is in bad taste, especially when false.

Were you watching the same show? Sonja broght us the march to Alex, and when Sonja didn't like what Alex said she went on defense mode. Not classy for either of them. But except responsiblity for what was started!

Countess I loved you the first season. I was confused on how I felt about you last season. Don't you think you should get both sides of the story before you give an opinion? In my opinion, Sonja was not a gracious hostess when she greeted Alex and brought up the incident they had the day of the Marriage March. I don't believe that was the right time or the place. Then she throws her out of her house when Alex responded to her. Please, please, please try to be objective and listen to both sides before giving an opinion.

Luann: Why don't you cut to the chase. You have never liked Alex and Simon. I have never seen you ever have one on one time with her you have only mingled with her in group settings. I think you think that she is beneath you because she is a working woman. The only times you have engaged her in conversations is to scold her about something. I hate to say it, but she is the smartest, most articulate and most educated of the group.

Countess I loved you the first season. I was confused on how I felt about you last season. Don't you think you should get both sides of the story before you give an opinion? In my opinion, Sonja was not a gracious hostess when she greeted Alex and brought up the incident they had the day of the Marriage March. I don't believe that was the right time or the place. Then she throws her out of her house when Alex responded to her. Please, please, please try to be objective and listen to both sides before giving an opinion.

First off, Alex was only responding to Sonja wanting to talk about MENY as soon as Alex walked in. Sonja refused to listen to what Alex had to say; as much as Alex tried to finish her point, Sonja was the one badgering, interrupting and then when the conversation was turning into something she didn't want to hear, Sonja is the one to become unglued.

Sonja started all of this. It stuns me that you all forget that we see video of what goes on -- you can say that it is the editing or the producers, but the truth is really revealed in these videos.

Sonja was screaming at Alex while Alex was trying very hard to simply say what she wanted to and leave -- Sonja's insistence on talking over her, screaming at her, etc. and then trying to portray it as something that Alex instigated is beyond the pale. Your comments about Alex are completely irresponsible and out of line.

I love love the dress comment about Alex. I am still laughing!!! You and Kelly were the only sane ones at the event. Alex claims in her blog that her and Simon rein in their emotions. Okay, I dont know what they would have done if they did'nt. So happy you have gotton on with your life with Jack (sorry if I spelled his name incorrect) Good luck!!

UM... I think you should look at the tape, Sonja brought it up and then pretended to not know Simon's name. now Lu-anne, I know you know Sonja was baiting her. For the camera's??? no idea but, judging from the vote tonight on Andy's show , she could be headed down the wrong road. I was dissipointed in many of the women tonight, but NOT you or Jill.Nice for a change. Keep up the good work.

Both ladies used poor taste in the way that they handled the event. Public negative displays at an event for a cause is never appropriate. Sonja was not there with true and honest intentions of the event, but for self promotion.

Also, I disagree with the argument at Sonja's home. She approached and attacked Alex as soon as she arrived. If she wanted to discuss the concerns that she had at the charity event, then she should have invited her out or waited until there were alone. Alex never raised her voice.

Alex did not chose the wrong place or wrong time, because she did no choosing that night. Sonja started in on Alex and then insulted Simon. After Sonja said her piece she talked over Alex and NEVER let her get a word in. I am usually a Sonja fan but not in this situation. LuAnn please review that scene again and give us a sincere honest Countess opinion.

Both ladies used poor taste in the way that they handled the event. Public negative displays at an event for a cause is never appropriate. Sonja was not there with true and honest intentions of the event, but for self promotion.

Also, I disagree with the argument at Sonja's home. She approached and attacked Alex as soon as she arrived. If she wanted to discuss the concerns that she had at the charity event, then she should have invited her out or waited until there were alone. Alex never raised her voice.

DId you see the show? Sonja bought the whole thing up, confronting Alex. This reminded me of the RHWOBH. When Kim was confronted and then blamed for "starting trouble" or in this case "having no manners" at someone's home/event. I used to really like Sonja, but after tonight I was disgusted. Maybe its because there are new cast members or something but I think folks are pushing Alex "out" and I think that among the ladies, things have become political. It is all about putting on a good face now, going along and keeping mum, and ignoring some ill behavior while highlighting and criticizing others. I miss the days when y'all kept it real and not like now when every one is like "ssshhhh just be a lady and hold you head up and keep your mouth closed" ... Just my opinion...

ummm...Sonja was the one who started it... at her own home... she should have talked to her at an another time...

Luann, it's not classy to make snide comments that put down other people. That is all.

Clearly you didn't watch the episode if you thought that Alex was wrong. Sonja was the one that brought things up at her home. But when Alex didn't back down, she got pissed and suggested that Alex didn't have manners. Sonja thought she was going to "handle" ALex and when she didn't she whined (loudly).

Separately though, if that was the speech that Simon was going to give at the event...I'm glad he didn't get on the podium. :-)

also why is every one picking on Alex. Its pretty surprising to see grown women like you acting like children. Alex is only standing up for her right. Yes she has found a voice why should she keep it to herself everyone is entitle to speak and i see the other women speaking so whats the problem.

consistent consistent consistent... It is not a matter of liking you I love that you are consistent... Would love to do power wine lunch with the countess...

As someone who has lived in NYC for decades, what is with the 'class' comments? Isn't that the that the opposite of class? Also, in terms of social climbing, wouldn't the real NY old guard have sometng to say about each and every member of this cast? Particuarly those that married older men who were well established in society?

I'm not big fans of Alex and Simon, but I'm also not a big fan of a snobs . The most amazing people that I've met in life are those that treat everyone with respect, don't count others people money/social standing and judge a person on their character. Something to think about as you continously accuse others of social climbing and being at parties above their station. So very "upstairs/Downstairs" and not very becoming to you.

Luanne I am appaled by your remarks.Sonja started the confrontation at her home and you lnow it. She should have let Simon speak and Jill was picking on Alex, but acted like she was being picked on!!You defend someone when they are right, not because they are your friend..otherwize ZIP IT!!!!!!

Countess: I totally agree about lunchtime drinking, the best! Although, i don't do it often.

Did you watch the episode last night? It's pretty clear that Sonja is the aggressor toward Alex. It really disgusted me and apparently several thousand people on twitter last night -- but somehow you think Alex was in the wrong? Maybe you should re-read your book.

Countess, i find you fun but kind of mean. It's clear you don't give Silex the time of day because you think "you're here and they're there." It's gross. Why don't you open yourself up to some new experiences?

Sweetie, where I'm from, hosts don't attack their guests when they walk in the door. Sonia wanted Alex on her turf and surrounded by her friends during that moment for a reason.

Fashion is just as subjective as art.

You are right that Sonya should have let anyone who wanted to speak but when you said that Alex was "annoying" because she was too into the cause...... come on. This is people's LIVES we are talking about. This issue is VERY important to them and Alex seems like the only one that really cared. This is the part of Charity that makes me angry. They know you don't really care so the only way the can make people like you come is to make it FUN or give them a tiltle "grand marshal". You all need to quit pretending you are supporting all these charities. You don't - you clearly don't even care. The only thing I have ever understood out of Kelly's mouth is when she said in her first reunion that if you are going to be charitable just BE CHARITABLE. Give money, actually participate and don't make the charity pamper you or do it for your own publicity to get you there. As Kelly likes to say: "its GROSS" !!

Hmmm...I am already figuring out who is "She's a thug in a cocktail dress". Being classy is to be diplomatic. I didn't see that in you when at Sonya's party.

She is never there, but always has something to say , and pick a side, then on reunions says " I do not want to be involved", after she says something- hilarious!

LuAnn, you walked in on the whole thing so how can you make judgement on alex when you werent there. watch the show again. Alex and Sonja both need to chill!

Countess, I am surprised that both you and Jill refered to Alex as a social climber. I thought you were better than that!

God did make Adam and Eve...and what a mess we've all done with the rest of it. For all of the support these housewives tried to bring to a cause they wanted to show support for..all they've really done is shown how foolish they can be, and have left with eggs on their face.

I think you should always listen both sides before you make a comment . Sonja's was the rude to Alex. You don't welcome a guest the way.She need to learn better manners.

Countess, you are absolutely a breath of fresh air on the show this season. Your humor and elegance and tasteful way of behaving....along with how much fun you have are great to see! How wonderful that you now have Jacques and some fun in your life! It was also refreshing to hear that you thought the outfit that Alex had on was S&M themed....I had just said to my daughter that the outfit was like something a hooker would wear.....but maybe Alex didnt know that. You are the best!

I'm confused at why you're watching Bravo if you don't believe in gay rights? You do know the network president is gay and there homosexuals on nearly every show right? I'd like to know what exactly it is you think Luann has become. She's a modern woman living in 2011. She has many gay and lesbian friends, did you really think she didn't support their civil rights? Get a grip.

God createcd us all, straight, gay, lesbian and anyone inbetween. Are you saying God made a mistake? Maybe you should reread your bible and try again.

I think without bethanny they are singling alex out - i hope alex stands her ground with the mean girls because i enjoy seeing her come out of her shell

Would love to know about the blue dress you wore on "The Talk"....you looked lovely. Please reply. Thanks.

I totally agree.. Sonja was the one who brought up the incident. She was not preparted of Alex stateing how she felt about the situation. Sonja was so focus on herself then the true reason of the march.

Arguments aside, it's so great to see a fun-loving more relaxed side of you! Just like in real life, the women of RH have periods of ups and down, and clearly you are having a real Up Phase! Good for you. It's a testament to what happiness in a relationship (or getting out of an unhappy one) can do for a gal. By the way, in my opinion there's too much ridicule on having a glass of wine (or champagne) at lunch--especially if you walk or ride to and from said lunch. I own my own business and occasionally bring out a bottle of champagne on a random afternoon just to take a moment and remind myself and others that it's okay to enjoy life, even at work. Especially at work. Kudos to you for showing that there's nothing wrong with loosening up just a little.

I so agree with you!!!

Countess! Read your book again! You, "my friend," were way out of line!

You've been hanging around Kelly too long!!!

You were not there, so why so readily agree that Alex was at fault? A bit of fairness and integrity never hurt anyone, "Countess".

I agree with you on all points except one. Alex didn't start the argument at Sonja's house. Sonja started the argument and was very rude to Alex. Alex was defending herself and Simon against Sonja's nasty remarks. Sorry, LuAnn, you missed the mark on that subject.

You are looking so much happier this season and right on mark about Alex she seemd to have a major problem now a days keeping her mouth shut she should have keep it to herself about the simon speech incident but of course had to run and tell Ramona as soon as she got to the event. stay clasy countess.