Countess, you and Jill are my favorites! So happy to see you happy with your wonderful guy. All the luck in the world!!

Keep being you and staying out of the drama. Also your boo is so CUTE!

Love and respect you but the bridal white was pointed out in a fairly mean way on the show. I think you adding it here did nothing to lift you.

Actually, it is okay, according to Miss Manners, Judith Martin, to wear white or ivory, as long as it is not "unrelieved" -- meaning patterns or other colors make it not a wedding gown. As Alex's dress was not wedding gown like in the slightest and Ramona's was in a summer lace that also did not look like a wedding gown, both dresses were appropriate (by Miss Manners' standards) to be worn at a wedding.

I would think that you would use a reference book on etiquette by now as some of your etiquette expertise is needs a refresher course. Looking at one of the upcoming previews were you are quite critical of Alex's shoes, you are really quite rude.

SO glad you found some happiness! Jacques seems like a true gem, but doesn't he look a bit like the French "Ross" (from Friends)? That makes you Rachel, and everyone loves her!!!!

True.... the bride is the only one who wears white or ivory, but why would Jill have to make the comments. Do you think that it was appropriate for Jill to ask Cindy about her daughter's father?

LuAnn, I am so happy for you and your romance with Jacques! You look so happy and you deserve to be. Here's to a great season.

LuAnn, my advice to you is to stick to the high road. No need to make snide comments about others' fashion choices. It's just really unattractive. :o(

Hello, Countess!

I resisted as long as I possibly could, but I got sucked into RHNY landing on Bravo while channel surfing one night, and now I'm hooked! I find you to be the voice of reason in this cast, and I also find you to be the most down-to-earth. Brightest blessings to you and your family and to Jacques!

I have an interesting idea, something that I'm certain you and Kelly could handle, and would be hilarious for you and the rest of us to witness the other housewives attempt! What if, instead of participating in the competition within the wealthy community over the biggest house, the most vacation homes, the most expensive jewelry, etc, what if you reversed that and challenged the other housewives to downsize their lifestyles...whoever lives the simplest life for the longest time wins bragging rights! Whatever money you save by downsizing you could donate to local food banks, Operation Schoolbell, or your state Health Services Department to help pay for uninsured women to recieve free mammograms. It seems to me that you and Kelly could probably adapt to a very simple lifestyle, but wouldn't it be a hoot to see Jill or Ramona attempt it?

don't be scared of Jill, don't be a follower!

It used to be "traditional" to churn butter as well, but times change. It's hardly a big deal anymore, not unlike wearing white after Labor Day.

I think Alex and Ramona looked beautiful and appropriate at the wedding and you might be likable if you would distance yourself from Jill and her bad behavior. You and your guy are a cute couple, I cant imagine a nice guy like that spending time around someone that nasty to others as Jill is. so just sayin.... best wishes in your relationship.

You've always been one of my favorites, but I must comment on your rudeness. Being the expert on etiquette, the comment about the white dresses was harsh and there is always a comment or two that you make that you clearly shouldn't. Unjustly criticizing another cast mate about her looks or expression or what she is wearing is so not cool. I've never understood where you got to be the manners expert. On another note, I'm very happy that you have found someone to share your life with. He seems so likable and happy to be with you! Your still one of my favorites!

Hi LuAnn - yay another season! Seeing a lot of "haters" in your blog but don't let them get you down. You're still a lovely lady and I'm happy for your new romance. Nobody's perfect and we all make errors in our behavior from time to time. The fact that you value manners and etiquette and strive to apply them to your daily living is far more than what is done by most. And as for the upcoming episode where you trash Alex's shoes, although we haven't seen the details of that exchange yet, it already seems very apparent that she needs to be knocked down a bit. Anyway, looking forward to more of you!

LuAnn ... I agree with you that only the bride should be wearing white, however, the tradition of wearing white also means that the bride is a virgin ... so let's hope at least someone was being true to tradition.

It is so nice to see you happy with a new gentleman friend. (Can we have boyfriends if we are over 40?) And also nice to see you as the sensible, social, polite, reasonable woman we saw in the early seasons of the show. Last year your divorce and the upheaval in your life led you to doing and saying some things in search of Jill's support and friendship. So happy to see you rise above that this year and finding your bliss. Blessings to you and your beautiful children.

Some of us that are familiar with Berlin, Ct. miss seeing you and children at the fair.. Don't forget where you came from dear..You weren't always a countess..Stay close to your roots..

I agree SF! And enough with making sure to mention the label of her shoes and clothing. I find that people who do NOT go out of their way to point out how expensive their things are, are the people who are truly well off.

LuAnn - you live in the dark ages with your traditional views. Times have changed. Get with the program. You can wear whatever you want to a wedding.

Countess, From the clips I've seen of what is to come on the RHONY this season, Ramona is not the only one who should read your book after she stuck her finger in the cake. I'm afraid you've turned a little nasty and classless yourself this season. Maybe re-reading your book will help. Good luck!

I think Jacques seems like a fabulous person. He's very likeable.

LuAnn, I love the new boyfriend. He really seems to compliment you well. I'd say you seem more down to earth. Not so uptight. I hope you don't continue to be Jill's sidekick, afterall, you are no longer the "underdog". Honestly, everyone on the show seemed way too uptight and mean, except you. Hopefully, you are taking the high road. You look beautiful. Jacques clearly agrees with you.

Seriously, who cares what someone else wears? Wear what you want and stop judging others. Your life will be happier and more peaceful for it.

NorCal, you saved me the time of writing the exact same blog. Thanks!

Luanne, I am so happy for you because Jaques seems like a genuinely sincere person who loves you. But pointing out Alex and Ramona's faux pas is not very nice. Especially since you did not mention Jill's insensitive comments.

Luanne, I am so happy for you because Jaques seems like a genuinely sincere person who loves you. But pointing out Alex and Ramona's faux pas is not very nice. Especially since you did not mention Jill's insensitive comments.

Please Luann you have to open your eyes and see how mean Jill is.

Hello LuAnn:

You and Jacques make a lovely couple. Not only is he handsome, he also seems like someone who enjoys joking around. By the way, do you know whether anyone has ever told him he resembles David Schwimmer?

All the best to you!

Elizabeth

Really why do you care what color they wore???

I have been a fan of the housewives since the beginning and have never commented before. The reason I decided to weigh in was to give the point of view of a young bride who was offended by someone wearing ivory to my wedding. I wore ivory and didn't think it was appropriate for someone to do the same. It was my day and it hurt my feelings that someone wouldn't think of me on that day- I am not old and don't churn my own butter- haha. I think it was because of that comment that I felt i needed to comment. Just because we have advances to make our lives easier and automated that doesnt mean we should not have the same respect or manners that used to be part of society.Some of our casualness has taken the special touches out of life. SORRY I think you get my point.I do think Jill can take things to far at times and can be very harsh- Countess I think that you are wonderful and it's so nice to see you happy.I will keep watching!

You look great this season and loved the preview of you telling Alex to go back into the cupboard she came out of. Looks like Alex wont let go of any grudges from last season and has come back with a vengeance and more delusions about herself.

You crack me up....LOVE you. Furthermore, you seem to be the ONLY housewife in any city who seems to be fine with being age appropriate. If I see another HW with overly long extensions aging her beyond her years I will scream. I'm still in shock over Jill-Barbarella on WWHL.

Love that you and Jill are friends...I think you are both awesome

Hi LuAnn,

I am very happy for you and you and Jacques, you make a very lovely couple. I am sure your children are happy for you.

I truly appreciate your etiquette and manners advise. Don't listen to the haters and negative people that blog. Some people enjoy attacking others because they are not happy.

Let's all remember how cruel, mean and rude Ramona has been and continues to be. I am sorry for Alex that is becoming the same way.

God Bless you and your family.

Glad you have a nice guy in your life. There is so much going on in the world, it is difficult to imagine why it matters what color someone wears at a wedding. However, it makes for interesting viewing and I keep watching. You seem much more relaxed this year than in previous years, so good for you.

Countess, It is great to see you happy! And I agree. No white, cream or version there of is supposed to be worn to a wedding. From the brides perspective it is considered rude. Regarding Jill's comment about what Alex and Ramona wore..what do you people think women talk about? Of course we're going to talk about what you wear, who you came with, what you look like, etc. That's the fun part of being women.

LuAnn you are by far my favorite housewife! Your a classy strong women and I admire you in so many ways. I wish you and Jacques the best of luck and the same for your children.

LuAnn-

Love your fashion style and your grace! I agree with you about what colors NOT to WEAR to a wedding. Ramona and Alex did a Fashion NO-NO and honestly showed disrespect to the bride.

I am so glad that you are Happy and In Love with a Great man. It shows all over your face and that is Wonderful!

I wore Lavender on my wedding day, i didn't want to be the same old bride in a variation of White. And, I encouraged everyone to wear some variation of Purple or Lavender. It is my favorite color and I was so happy with my photo's that it was so purple. It was great. I don't think modern ettiqutte is so strick. I think people should be comfortable and on a Hot Summer day, I bet wearing Ivory was cooler than a color. I think you need to relax a bit and enjoy your new man, drink a little Ramona Pinot and enjoy life.

Darling Countess, I think your heart is in the right place, but the insults you have launched so far this season smack of Jill's influence and do not become you.

Luann- The classy thing to do if you feel someone has made a faux pas is to act like nothing has happened. You do not call them out on it or talk behind their back. If someone has made a mistake, don't call attention to it. Move on.

Your life is the one I am more interested about right now. I also love your kids.

Congrats on the new love you both look very happy. Good for you Luann you deserve it.

Jacques est tres gentil.

My boyfriend and I love you! My bf says that you're the classiest woman by far on any of the shows, and tv in general. You're awesome and a great role model for women anywhere in the world!

If you watch the background shots during the wedding scenes there are quite a few women in white/cream outifts besides Ramona and Alex.

Your boyfriend is wonderful!

The dinner scene with you and Sonja (and your respective beaus) looked like so much fun. You looked so happy--which is great to see. You deserve it.

Your boyfriend is wonderful!

The dinner scene with you and Sonja, and your respective beaus, was so much fun to watch. You all looked like you were having a wonderful time, and it is great to see you so happy! You deserve it!

Countess DAHLING......is it classy to say someone should ZIP IT? Since this is the United States I believe Alex has EVERY RIGHT to say what ever she wants. Get your class back hun.

Tradition is boring. What's important is that you're having fun with you friends, not stabbing them in the back, that is not classy.