Ramona Singer

Ramona thinks Sonja and Alex should have held back, but she knows it's easier said than done.

on Apr 14, 20110

OK, Episode 2 here we go! Where do I begin?!?

Please connect with me on Ramonasinger.com.

First of all, I believe in the gays right to marry. In the last episode, I said gays should have a choice. I do not always express myself well with my words because growing up was a war zone with my dad's non-stop abuse and we never spoke or had normal conversations in the household. My sister is gay and I love her dearly! All gays should have the same choices and rights as straight couples -- to marry, to have heath care benefits, etc. I could not attend the march, but I deeply support the cause.

I was surprised at the passion that came from both Alex and Sonja. If I was there I don't know what I would have done, as I love them both dearly.

I was even more shocked to see what happened at Sonja's home before I arrived. It was such a heated argument that I don't know if it was the best idea for Sonja to bring up the march as soon as she saw Alex walk into her home. It was not the right time or place to discuss it. As soon as Sonja brought it up, Alex should have squashed it by saying let's have this conversation another time. But easier said then done! As an outsider I can give this advice, but I know I too get "Ramotional," heated, and at times I can't contain myself. It is hard to hold back for the right time or place when something weighs heavy on your mind. I am at fault numerous times on this!

53 comments
DMD2
DMD2

Ramona.. Any chance Mario would include a line of religious jewelry for gay people? Say a wedding ring? Does Mario also support gay marraige? Thanks...

NYwatcher
NYwatcher

Why did Kelly call your friend Pocahontas and why didn't your friend call her out on that? strange -

YAY!!!
YAY!!!

Love you Ramona! You are a real woman and person! You have fabulous insight into yourself and that kind of security only comes from wisdom and honesty...please keep Alex under your wing...it's fabulous that you two (four if you count the hubby's) are getting closer and seeing from where you all started, that is testament enough to how mature and intelligent people can get along in the world! Kudos! (And the jewelry is lovely!!)

hulali
hulali

Love love love you!! You're strong enough to say what you feel and not get caught in the drama like the other ladies! I really find it amazing that you can hurl the insults like nobodies business, sincerely apologize (if necessary) and get back into the friendship like notheing ever happened. I wish the rest of the ladies could be more like you and stop harboring these weird grudges over trivial stuff.

Viewer Ramona S.
Viewer Ramona S.

Ramona,

You are by far the most interesting and fun housewife. You forgive and forget even though you get caught up in the moment/drama. You make the show so much fun.

CAROLK1
CAROLK1

SHUT THE FRONT DOOR!!!!

Ramona, I love you and your smart, funny, successful and all that. You really should give that poor girl that you made almost cry a job!!! She was dressed okay and was very pretty, you would not want someone talking to your daughter that way. OMG soo funny at the wedding first when you got caught talking about the cigar. Not bad enough then Alex brings you into more drama with Jill... You needed to get drunk and I dont blame you for slurring those words...It was funny the look on your face was priceless...

sop
sop

Ramona, I think you should tell Sonja to get over herself a little bit but Alex does need to relax. Keep taking the high road and staying accountable for yourself - I love how you are honest and require honesty from the other gals.

gcprophet
gcprophet

Love you! You say what you mean and mean what you say. As long as you stand in your truth, that's all that matters.

Colorado housewife
Colorado housewife

Ramona I love you!!! Thanks for my new favorite word: Wackadoo!! lol

Debbie P.
Debbie P.

I love you! You and I may have been separated at birth. I too get way to emotional if someone unfairly attacks me or another person who doesn't deserve it. You are so funny and a blast to party with. Also you never take yourself too seriously and are not a snob. You are like Alex, very real and down to earth. Keep up the great work. And God Bless your family.

IrishElle
IrishElle

Ramona, I have to say that I wish you were at the party when Sonja attacked Alex, I think you could have been the voice of reason! I think you and Alex are great and I love you guys being such good friends. I just hope "they" don't get you to turn your back on her. You are looking better than ever Ramona and I can't wait to see you in action in the future episodes!! TEAM RAMONA & ALEX ALL THE WAY!!!!

Molly Lynch
Molly Lynch

Ramona,

I have to say that out of all the housewives, I have seen the most growth in you over all the seasons. By that, I mean that you've always held true to who you are. Unlike other castmates of yours who still continue to make excuses for their behavior, you have always been Ramona through the good, bad and the ugly. Keep being "Ramotional," and keep going on your "Ramonacoaster!" You should be very proud of yourself for being the independent, self-sufficient, successful and spitfire woman that you are! What an absolute role model you are for your daughter (who is growing more beautiful every time I see her on TV)!

Cheers from Chicago, Molly

sem407
sem407

Ramona, Lov,Lov,Lov You this season and last. Cheers for keeping it real!

StephenieCoonrod
StephenieCoonrod

I think you are an amazing person and you speak the truth without holding back. In many cases it does stir up emotions within your group of friends but you arent fake about it and I admire you for being YOU. You are different then the first episode a couple years ago and I am excited to see how much further you will go with your changes. I think you are a great career woman and I love that you give Avery the example in life. I see so much of you in her and she is a great young lady with prospects in life because of the doors you opened to her! Keep going Ramona and be strong! You Rock!

Ms. Faye
Ms. Faye

You're my favorite. You can be aggressive, but you are honest about your feelings. Don't change. I could work for you.

HOUSEandGARDEN
HOUSEandGARDEN

LOVE YOU RAMONA, YOU HAVE A CONFIDENT, POSITIVE LIFE & FAB FAMILY. But I am finding you to be a HUGE instigator this season, perhaps more than ever, between Alex and Jill. You then complain that "you are in the middle". Come on Ramona, we all know you are too smart to play dumb.

BAMA  GIRL
BAMA GIRL

Ramona, you are the one housewife I feel I can really relate to. You are just you and we the fans love you for that. You say out loud what we at home wish we could. Just keep being YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!

otroganov
otroganov

Ramona I know that this was taped last year during summer or fall, but i have to let you know that you look great, please do not hesitated on putting people in there place. Stay true to yourself , by the way your husband is very handsome this season too. Best of luck Otroganov

Ray04
Ray04

Ramona you are the BOMB!!

La-di-da
La-di-da

Ramona, I just love watching you continue to evolve.

I think one of the reasons you and Alex are so popular with fans is that you both own your mistakes, don't try to justify them, and move forward.

Are we going to get to see you with the noodle this season?

indymom
indymom

You are great! So sweet trying to make Kelly not feel left out. Keep up the good work of being kind, thoughtful and smart.

Kristin B
Kristin B

I get such a kick out of you, Ramona! You are definitely the housewife I identify with the most, and with that being said...you're my favorite. ;)

SF Viewer
SF Viewer

You are great, Ramona! Of all of the ladies, I think by far you are the most "real." You just are who you are, not perfect but in the end try to do the right thing. I really admire this in you. I wish you continued success & happiness, so glad you are still on the RHoNY or it might not be worth watching!

Oregon
Oregon

Love you! I only wish you and Bethany could have a sitcom... Ditch those no class snubs and go on being yourself. You are a fun loving straight shooter, its so refreshing after watching all the BS the others are not doing. Bless you and your family and may you kick butt in all your business adventures! We support you.

kehaulani
kehaulani

You are a jewel !! so enjoy you being you !!! thanks for keeping it real !

watch all the housewives
watch all the housewives

We want to see more TURTLE TIME.

And what is up with Kelly calling your friend Pocahontas. Crazy! We love you! I'm glad we are seeing more of Mario. I'd like to see more of your relationship with your daughter. And don't let what people say about your interview comments bother you -- I love that you are straight up!

Auntiecairo
Auntiecairo

Ramona - you are hilarious - and I like that you are outspoken -- much easier to deal with than the backstabbing that goes on with some of the others. I think Sonja failed to tell you she's the one who brought up the march -- I was embarrassed for Sonja in this episode - she's so desperate to be noticed - and the whole sex talk thing -- I guess there's more going on than we see. Anyway I enjoy the humor and energy you bring to the show - BTW when Alex and Simon were in Dallas promoting their book they had great things to say about you and Mario -- it's clear they really do "get" you.

IrmaJ.
IrmaJ.

I love you, Ramona. Keep speaking your truth, and owning it when you get it wrong. The best people speak from their hearts and apologize when they get it wrong. That's us! Thanks!

Paulette1234
Paulette1234

I love riding the Ramona coaster. You have no filter and are real to the bone. Brava to you babe and good luck on your Ramona wine venture...where can we get it in florida?

Viewer in Il
Viewer in Il

Love you Ramona!!! You and Alex are the only reason I am watching this year. Stay strong!!!

lysh
lysh

I agree with you!!!! Especially about treating Kelly as a child. There is no point in getting your point across with her eventhough this last episode she was tolerable.

Jjmm
Jjmm

Ramona I am so proud of you, you showed us what a classy women you are including Kelly and the way you handled yourself. But watch out I think Alex is heading for a nervous breakdown too

Ashley Fan
Ashley Fan

You're still one of my favorites out of all the housewives series! Your expressions crack me up, I often wonder....what is she about to say. You're a beauty, sweet, and just a funny person in general.

Suzyblue
Suzyblue

Ramona- I'm so glad you mentioned where you fabulous jewelry came from! I especially loved the necklace/chain you wore with the grey sweater (during your speaking head shots). I adore you!

berkleygirl
berkleygirl

You are terrific Ramona.....did the right thing at the Gucci party.....

FTWTX
FTWTX

Love the Ramotion!! I'm so glad that you and Alex/Simon have become friends. It would have been great if you could have been at the march because we all know you would have set everyone straight and kept things moving. I'm also glad that you're around to deal with Jill. Thank heaven! WWHL the other night was hilarious. You make me smile Ramona :)

ZAnnie
ZAnnie

You appear to be the only rational one left on this show. Through all of the drama, your remain relatable, and not at all fake.

realhousewivetoo
realhousewivetoo

Ramona , Not everyone is perfect. Sometimes we all have a moment that we are not proud of(yourself included). You seem to be stirring the pot with jill this season. Not very becomming of you! You are totally on the Alex and Simon train this time around and I hope you offer all the advice to Alex that you make a point of offering to Jill.

Viewer111
Viewer111

Ramona, I love you. Keep telling it like it is. The women talk about you being mean but at least you do it to peoples faces and not behind their backs. I think you and Alex should just forget about the rest of the housewives. The countess is not classy in her actions towards others and Jill is so not a nice girl. Keep being you.

Daria
Daria

You are doing great this season! I think your renewal worked last season - keep up the good work! Please keep your friendship with Alex going. It looks like she will need you as Sonja seems to be jumping on the Jill wagon. It is great that you are keeping Jill in check with her spin on why she and Bethenny are no longer friends. Bethenny didn't kick Jill out of her life. Jill kicked Bethenny out and Jill got burned for doing it. I know she is trying her hardest to kick Alex off the show but do not let her do it! I do not get Sonja at all this season. I guess last season she was a provisional housewife and on her best behavior and now that is is a RHNY she is letting her true self out. Not good. If she was your guest for the Gucci event she should have warned you she was coming with Kelly to spare you the anxiety at your table. Bad manners!

VALLY BUTTERFLY
VALLY BUTTERFLY

Ramona, Love you. You are the real deal. A wonderful role model,a great friend and wonderful wife, Mom and business woman. Youre the reason I watch the show.

MelG
MelG

You said exactly what I have been thinking!!! Sonja should NOT have brought it up and Alex should have just stopped trying to talk to a brick wall and wait for another time!

DHelene
DHelene

You are 1000% correct...Kelly did lose touch while on your trip and no one else seems to remember how bizarre her behavior really was. We all watched it...but her version of events continues to differ terribly from what we all saw! Glad to finally hear someone say it aloud - good for you. Your are also correct that Sonja should NEVER have brought up the subject of the march when Alex arrived for the 'art show'. Odd she would feel attacked when she initiated the conversation and Alex was never really allowed to get a word of explanation in at all! Very nice of you to attempt to include Kelly at your table. You took the high road...it becomes you!

Bonnie ellen Kulick
Bonnie ellen Kulick

I appreciate you correcting yourself and your remarks from the last show it makes me feel better that you are not anti-gay so to speak Now as far as your friends fight you should remember the best rule of thumb I learned in life it is none of my bussiness and I should never put my nose where it does not belong because it only gets you in trouble. And I love the picture of you on your blog.

Italy
Italy

Ramona, You have come a long way baby! I adore you. Thank-you for being such a good friend to Alex and Simon. Sonja was so out of line on many things that happened tonight. I think she's trying to be "the Bethenny" this year. She was down right rude. LuAnn is a joke. Enough said. Yu are looking so happy these days. Give Mario, and your daughter a hello for me. Again, soo sorry about your dog. Bless all of you, Nancy

sbajorek
sbajorek

I was just reading the RHONY wikipedia page and I just HAD to say - I would NEVER have guessed your age. I thought you must be a bit younger than Jill and LuAnn. Girl you are AGELESS! When i heard you say that on your episode I was like... ok, whatever, but now I understand!! You look fabulous!! If your skin care can make me look 1/2 as good as you at your age, SIGN ME UP!!