Cast Blog: #RHONY

Roll the Dice

Ramona on Her Divorce From Mario

Carole on Elitists and Bitches

Heather Says That's a Wrap

Sonja: Don't Take Yourself Too Seriously

The Countess: Sonja and I Are on the Outs

Aviva Says Bye for Now

Kristen on Surviving Her First Season

LuAnn: For Ramona Ignorance Is Bliss

Who Cares How Carole Wrote Her Book?

Carole on Stupid Things You've Heard on Bravo

Aviva's "Foul Ignorance"

Kristen: Ramona's Out of Touch with Reality

Sonja Is Very Private

Ramona on the Grueling Reunion

LuAnn: Sonja Is Off the Rails

Heather: Et tu Ramona Singer?

Aviva on Kristen's "Gatemouth" Look

Kristen: Sonja Could Be Successful

Sonja's Glad Aviva Threw Her Leg

Carole: Waiter, We're Done

Ramona: Aviva's Leg Scared All of Us

Heather Focuses on What Matters

LuAnn: Sonja Only Has Herself to Blame

What Else Does Aviva Have in That Bag?

Aviva: Leggy Blonde

God Gave me a Great Ass and His Approval

Sonja on Her Harry Situation with LuAnn

Ramona: Where Did the Time Go With Avery?

Heather Tips to Plan a Party for Carole

Aviva Rises Above the Nonsense

Love Kristen Tender

Sonja and Harry Aren't Good for Each Other

Ramona: Mario's Voice Is So Sexy

Aviva Defends Her Asthma

Heather's Sasha Fierce Moment

Nothing Is Too Romantic for Sonja

LuAnn: I Sing When I Feel Like Singing

Kristen: This Show Has Helped My Marriage

Carole: Oh Beautiful for Spacious Skies. . .

Ramona: Just Don't Ask Me to Go Every Year

Roll the Dice

Sonja thanks her support system and discusses the fetes in this week's episode.

This was a wonderful episode full of fun, family, and friends. Victoria and Avery are both wonderful girls and will go far, I'm sure.

Both parties were extraordinary. I wish I could have gone to both but my day was busy, so I chose to go to just Avery's nearest my home, and where I had planned on going for the longest time. Ramona had been planning forever and had been sharing the process all along. She had a private room off to the side out of view from the Sweet 16s.

I understand Avery had reached a moment where it was time for us to move to the private "parents room," but for Kelly to get between Ramona and her daughters relationship is wrong and to make further comments was wrong. I would have let Avery vent on me and left it at that. I would not make more out of it then it was.

I know LuAnn would have loved me there for her daughter's party but she always cancels me last minute, so I am sure she understood. We have that kind of social friendship. If we make it, great, if we can't it's fine.

Jill's sister, the lovely Lisa Wexler sent an email and offered to help with my financial situation, which is kind of her. Unfortunately, my many separate cases besides the Chapter 11 filing make for a complex situation, because they many times impact each other. Prioritizing has been difficult.

I have always put my daughter, and our time together, first. Whatever time left is devoted to my family, friends who are there for me, dating, my divorce process, my finances, and maintaining our home and gardens. On top of that is my charity work, movie business, my writing, cooking videos, my new gig on RHONY, and sharing my toaster oven recipes and lifestyle tips, appearances. Whew! Oh, and one should always make time for themselves, even if it's a bubble bath, a download yoga, a book, or a walk. Health is everything.

Ramona introduced me recently to Jeff Landers. He's Divorce financial Strategist and the president of Bedrock Divorce Advisors, which exclusively helps women like me going through a financially complicated divorce and/or women who need financial planning. He is helping me put together a "Master Plan" that will get me back on track and keep me there going forward once I gain my footing. Part of my problem has been that I didn't have one trusted, qualified person to coordinate all my legal and financial issues synergistically. Finally I found that person.

RHONY has been a fun distraction from the stress of my legal cases, and my charity work since I've been a young lady has always grounded me and reminds me that I am very fortunate.No one needs to feel sorry for me, I choose this lifestyle but I worked very hard from a young age and I have to "fight the fight" to keep what's rightfully mine. I have so much to be grateful for even during these tough times of change, because I don't know what I would do without the team of people who want to help me succeed and better their own lives alongside my dream. I believe in myself and the goodness in others, and I think anyone who rolls the dice with me has good odds. But really, at the end of the day, we don't calculate how successful the day is only by results, but by the quality of the time we gave each other and our commitment to each other. Of course, we have the goal in mind, but when we get there, we get there.

I loved Jill's party at Chez Josephine. I always loved that place and the host Jean-Claude Baker is a "one of a kind" personality.

Alex is right about quitting smoking. One has to be ready. I quit in 1991 after 10 years. I used SmokEnders, and it worked!

Avery definitely has a chic set of friends. I enjoyed spying in on her cute conversation. When Victoria was trying dresses, I said that is where my daughter will pay me back for all my short skirts. That is when I will have to wear a longer length for sure. If not already!

Why does everyone have so much criticism about each other's parties when they should be enjoying, eating, dancing, and flirting?

It's weird to me that Jill and Simon were friends in the first place, exclusively of Alex. So the fact that they have an issue now is perplexing. I think Alex's relationship with Jill should move forward without Simon. However, if Alex chooses to let Simon's beef with Jill come between her and Jill -- that's her decision.

Simon takes care of Alex and Alex takes care Simon. There are a family with children and it works for them and I would not want to come between that and any way.

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