Aviva, you are one of the most stunning ladies I have seen on any "housewives" show? I bet you were a model!! You are a model mom, thats for sure. You and Reid are a beautiful couple. You are tough though! The ladies all talking about Harry?? Harry did a wonderful thing, your 1st son! A gift with you that I am sure you and Reid relish every day. I noticed at the beginning of the series that you were understanding Ramona. Ramona has a very soft spot for you. She respects and is in AWE of you. I think her infatuation of your leg was just that! She wanted you to know that no one could pull it off as much as you did without it being even noticeable. I understand that! I had a person that worked with me and she had artificial limb. She had a limp, which you don't appear to have. But, she would have to decompress the suction when she would get on and off the stool she used (she was a bank teller in my office). One day I asked her and she proceeded to say the same things you shared with Ramona. But, as I understand from Ramona's blog, she was doing what you had asked. You felt uncomfortable because you didn't have a water leg with you?? So she stayed out of the pool, like you wanted to do???? But, you caved with peer pressure. so into the pool you went. Also, according to Ramona's blog you also talked about everyone having their "personal" say about Harry. Ramona tries to reel-in the conversation about Harry. so, my question is, was Ramona being a caring friend about your leg and was she trying to keep Harry out of the dinner conversation??? Everyone needs to lay-off of Ramona and make sure everybody is on the same page about her "controlling" attitude. So, fess up if you asked her to help with those issues. She was being a very dear friend. I hope you can see past her "unfiltered responses", but they come from the heart! Thats more than I can say for LuAnn! She wants to be on a "side", any side if it is against Ramona.