Heather I thought the decision to not invite Ramona on your London was a poor move on your part. As a business woman and a mother you should know better. While you might not have connected with Ramona, all of the other women warned you that this was a rather petty thing to do especially knowing that you were still going to have to work with this woman for an entire season. In addition, at the party Ramona was right when she said you never told her that you had an issue with her saying that you talked to much. When she asked you about it you denied being upset about it even though in reality you have not stopped discussing it with the other ladies on the show behind Ramona`s back. While Ramona can be rude in her delivery to people (and this is most likely why you were pissed at her) you were acting like you had no issue with her when you really did. Next time say what you mean instead of deny, deny, deny. 

Also, please stop with the black slang references aka when you say holla and yo it makes it look like your trying to act like a teenager. 

CG2012 This is not The Real Life of Heather Tomason, it is RHONY an ensemble! If she wants to set out to get back at someone who is hardly a notch away from being as annoying as she is she should ask for her own show! And you and her 5 other 'real' fans can watch it! I for one am not impressed with a know it all who only enjoys her own voice!

I dont understand why everyone on this blog is upset about you excluding Ramona on your London trip. The last time I checked this is a free country! Why travel with someone you don't enjoy spending your time with? So you can be miserable???? Makes no sense!!!  I respect you for avoiding conflict by excluding her.  Whoever Aviva invited on her trip is her prerogative too.  LIFE ISNT FAIR PEOPLE, get over it...

You are a great addition to the RHONYC!  You seem to be very generous with your time (Sonya) and down to earth.  Kudos for not letting Ramona bully you too!!  I don't think you were obligated to invite Ramona to London.  She is a new acquaintance (right?) and you didn't hit it off with her.  She was completely rude to you about your 'talking too much'.  

I love your your necklace in this photo, Citrine. Who makes the necklace or sells it? I must have it!

I agree. Heather seems to be bully!

I have really enjoyed watching you this season Heather! You truly have the ability to be a great role model for women. Please don't let Ramona's dramatic ways stop you from being a positive women on the show!

Heather love you on the show ,I didn't intend to watch the show if they kept Ramona and Sonja on as I felt they needed to go with the other Trouble makers . I love how you don't back down from that crazy ramona she's very in your face and always likes to keep the drama going . As for Aviva and Carole they talk behind evey ones back and are major troublemakers like Ramona and Sonja . So my Favorites are Lulu and Heather ,oh! don't let up on Ramona drive her crazy hopefully Andy will get rid of her and Sonja.

oh and the best is when you told luanne that sonja said that luanne always had to be first..hmm funny because im pretty sure you said it first. LIAR

I think you're great and your son is a real charmer. But don't you find it ironic that you promote people to be organ doner?? I have signed my self as doner, but according to the jewish belive, you are not allowed to do even a autopsy, less alone donating your organ. You need to be buried with all your organ intact.. That's why the Israel army stole organ from dead non jews until the media revealed the story... 

Heather, you're wonderful and a brilliant addition to RHONY. I also feel a kindred spirit towards you and your young son. I had a baby sister who had Biliary Artresia and she died at age 13 months in 1961. Back then they were not doing liver transplants in infants. There's been wonderful advances since then.  I must admit I get a little choked up when I see your son or when you speak of him.  Godspeed to you both.

I can't imagine the RHNYC without Ramona, you are boring. You should not be on the show.

Heather, I do not understand how you believe that by not inviting Ramona to London was going to work for you...of course she's not going to talk to you, you deliberately excluded her. That was a mean, tacky thing to do. I don't blame her one bit. Grow up..this isn't high school. Also, saw you throw Sonia under the bus with Luann...you are such a two faced person....it doesn't make friends to be that way...it makes enemies.

Heather keep smiling....luv Carole and Aviva breath of fresh air to the show...Ramona and Sonja should have been let go with the rest of the girls..just sayin!!!!

Oh Heather...I am so happy your on the show...you totally rock...I hope you stay away from nutty Ramona..I still don't understand why bravo has Ramona on the show..she is CRAZY...

I love your smile!! Keep on smiling!!!!

Heather,  Please do not sink to Ramona's level.   I think you are refreshing on this show.  KEEP SMILING!! 

Oh, Heather, how happy you make me. For years I've been waiting for someone like you to arrive. You're mature, tactful and professional around Ramona's ridiculous games.

You have what all mature adults have: a healthy ego (not insecure but not arrogant either) and the confidence to stand up against her mean girl games.

It's wonderful to finally see someone like you on a reality show.  

Heather, so happy you've joined the NYC cast!  A welcome addition, along wth Carole and Aviva. Although I must say, when I first heard you say "holla" in the intro to the show, and hearing you say on the show that you were studying Judaism, I thought you were saying "CHALLAH"....LOL.

You possess a rare quality of kind patience. It's unmistakable when we see you interact your son Jax, at the visit to his physician.

Yikes, your patience with Mrs. Singer is amazing! ...and I must admit hilarious how you followed her around at Aviva's anniversary party. LOL.

Just keep being your honest, beautiful self!

and KEEP SMILIN' !!!

The very first thing I thought when I saw you in RHONY was "What a lovely smile." It's radiant and disarming and it's no wonder that you flash it readily. I don't think it's phony at all. It's too bad that Ramona is immune to its appeal. I've been a Yummy fan since well before I saw you in RHONY. Great product! Kudos to you. Ramona is a loose cannon and I get why you didn't ask her to join you in London. I just wish that she had elevated her game instead of resorting to petulance. I love the energy you bring to RHONY. You and Carol are my new faves. Smart, successful, irreverent, self-deprecating and FUNNY!  Love the show. Thanks! 

I am throwing away my Yummie Tummies!  You are so obnoxious!

Great outfit at the party. Work it, girl.

Heather, I laughed so much when you were following Ramona around at the party. Just to see how she reacted was priceless. She truly did not want to have a civilized conversation with you. Just like you said, she drops a bomb and runs. I wish everyone else would hold her accountable like you do. You're my hero and my very favorite "housewife". Your smile is wonderful...and not just because It bothers Ramona so much.

"reelscreens" SHOULD RETRACT HER COMMENT ABOUT YOU AFTER VIEWING THIS LAST EPISODE.  CLASS-ACT??? NOT!!

Heather, I feel like you were given the job that others before you have had to endure.   Ramona's target for her bad behavior at times...most of the time; you do seem to have received more hits than others in my opinion.

 heather you handle yourself with grace in the face of crazy.....i'm guessing you're smiling at her because she's so ridiculous (does she watch herself?) she's unbalanced, and that's being kind. on a side note for all of ramona's "experience" in the fashion industry you'd think she'd know to take the thread tack out of the center back vent of her dress.....this was a couple shows back but anyone with real experience knows this. just saying............

Ramona has become intolerable on this show, and I'm sorry you've had to receive the brunt of it.  I'm glad though that you are tough enough to stand up to her...keep it up! 

Heather, I love how you handle yourself around Ramona and how you didn't back down when it came to (not) inviting her to London. You keep your cool and you don't get ugly. Obviously Ramona is hurt that she wasn't invited and has chosen to show her hatred towards you. I'm embarrassed for Ramona. And wasn't it a hoot how Lulu didn't even realize you were referring to her in your dinner discussion? Great job!

Yummy Tummy for the Mummy's!!!!!! The product is great.

I love you and the other new girls and how you handle Ramona. 

Ramona SAYS she wants everyone to be honest with her but her reaction to your forthrightness is proof that She Can't HANDLE the TRUTH!

Heather you have perfect pitch when it comes to dealing with that wack job!

I said it once before and I'll say it again.  You are a breath of fresh air!  I LOVE how you stand up to that wacko Ramona and do not allow her to bully you.  It is so refreshing to watch.  I'm loving you, Carole & Aviva on the show. 

francien:  To respond to your "fooled much" inquiry:

On occasion, yes, but no not often, but thank you for asking.  I can see that you are FOOLED, easily, though.

I love you Heather! Keep standing your ground against Ramona! She is trying to break you down for an apology...when you have no need to apologize. Let's face it: you are a successful, international businesswoman. Ramona is a glorified Mary Kay hostess.

I think Ramona is very jealous of you being new on the program..Ramona is the one that is insecure with you around..She is looking at you like you are the new girl that took all of her what she thought were her friends..Im glad you brought new life to the New York Housewives.

Heather, you seem like such a fun chick! I love your sense of humor and honesty!

Heather, Heather go away, don't come back another day.  I am tired of you already and we aren't through the season yet.  Just go away! 

I recognized that smile... I've done it myself! It's a mix of incredulity and irony. An authentic response to a ridiculous situation.

Hate to burst your bubble toots but, Carole's immaturity is FUNNY while yours....is just immature.   What on earth possessed you to first approach Ramona knowing she was pissed at you but to continue to follow and attempt to engage her at someone else's party just made you look incredibly childish and rude.  Nothing funny about it. 

 But, hey as long as you think your behavior is working for you, keep on keeping on.