Life happens and you can't be at two places at once. Despite desires and best intentions, we all have responsibilities and duties to fulfill. That aside, there certainly isn't any excuse for bad behavior...even when someone else behaves badly first or consistently. Let's be perfectly honest and call a spade a spade Heather. You are just as guilty of some of the same transgressions for which you chastise Ramona and even Aviva on occasion. You have demonstrated poor judgement, tactlessness and altogether poor form. Your beautiful smile cannot hide your animosity. The old golden rule should always apply -- if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. Despite how others may act, it should not dictate your actions or reactions. Unfortunately my impression of you has dropped several notches after watching events unfold during the current season.