Since you are clearly determined to "move on" from the wine game incident with Ramona, I'll try to keep this brief. First of all, I cannot stand Ramona Singer. She is an absolute trainwreck and had NO right to insult your parenting. That being said, it was obvious to anyone with a brain that your intention was to have Ramona embarrass herself by (hopefully) saying something stupid about what would turn out to be her own wine. What is so annoying is not the fact that you did this to her, but that you are so bound and determined to lie about your motivation. Just admit that you really hold a lot of animosity toward Ramona (who could blame you?) and that you were trying to set her up with the wine game. I think you'd earn a lot more respect from viewers if you'd have the courage to admit your intentions and stop pretending to be innocent. It just makes you look like a liar.