Ramona....I really felt bad for the way you were treated by that psycho Aviva.  I...like you...say it like it is.  Aviva is vicious and toxic.  She needs to go.  She is the epitomy of a victim and thrives on it.  She is so full of it.  And don't even get me started on that Father of hers...just disgusting!!  Anyway...you keep on being you and make no apologies!!

I don't understand why Aviva is still around.  Didn't a house fall on her years ago? Or was that her sister.

Ramona... You are a red hotttt pepper!!!  Good for you for not apologizing to that nacisstic freak Aviva!!   Id post on her blog but I see she is hiding so no one can post to her.

Anyone that constantly says she doesnt want attention to her diability, yet every episode she

constantly brings attention to it... anyone who thinks that just because she has a panic disorder can use that as an excuse to act the way she did in not one but 3 episodes about how "thankful" everyone should be for her presence and that of her husband Reid's presence needs  MUCH MUCH therapy and shouldnt even be on that show.  She is a disgrace as is her "80 yr old" pervert father.   She should be so ashamed of how he acted to her friends on the episode that he was on, acting like a rude, crude, over sexed pervert to Aviva's girlfriends and on national TV.  HE also needs THERAPY !   Maybe they could find a place that would take both AVIVA and her father!   They are both narcistic and self centered, selfish and loud mouthed  where only their opinions matter.

So good for you for sticking up for yourself and not apologizing to Aviva.  I saw you apologize to her at least 3 times when you were on vacation with her, no need to do it anymore.  its HER that needs to apologize to you and the WORLD for her behavior and that of her fathers behavior!

Ramona I sure hope you are acting, otherwise you need to seek some serious help.  I have never seen anyone so full of herself.  You delibertly go out of your way to create problems for everyone you encounter.  You are loud and borish, you would like nothing better than to see LuAnn's relationship crash and burn.  You would think that someone who is as fortunate you would have something better to do with your life.  The rating on this show are probably dropping because of you.  You are bully and create drama where ever you go.  I personally will not watch this show again as I have better things to do than listen to you scream, fight and do whatever the hell that is that you do with your freaky eyes.  Thank god you were not invited to London as you would of made the whole trip about you and whatever drama you could create.  I feel sorry for everyone that has to work with you.  God help your husband

Ramona don't change your self as you are great. I love watching you and all that you get up to. They should pay you double as you are great entertainment.

you go girl

...enjoying the programme but I'll be glad when it's new episodes and not endless repeats! Happy New to you all, from me in the UK x

do you ever stop talking long enough to take a breath???  is your ego that big that you have to put your nose into everything? Really Ramona, I'm positive the other housewives would enjoy themselves at gatherings more if you could keep your mouth shut long enough to enjoy their company and not be so jealous of their acheivements.

Ramona I am gay man, but I am madly in. love with you!!! Don't change a thing about yourself, oh yes and your husband is HOT. lol

Every time Ramona is on I want to change the channel. Is there anything in there between those freaky crazy cross eyes??

Do you ever stop and listen to people? You react from partial information. My favorite part was when you accused Heather of talking behind your back when that is all you ever do on every episode! You are insane. You have never been my favorite housewife. Perhaps the phrase "think and listen before you speak" is in order.

Dear Ramona, I love you and your honestly. Without you and Sonja, RHONY would not be worth watching.

The Real Housewives of NY was suggested to me by a friend to help with my boredom levels while bed bound as she knows I am a great people watcher. Well, I never really understood the terms car crash tv & trailer trash till I watched this programme - series 5. Firstly I can't understand why any intelligent person would want to sign up for this - I'm guessing it's for the money, or to flog something ie dodgy wine, strange underwear or how to be a countess. How Ramona has survived this long is beyond me, she is absolutely ghastly, words like Drama Queen, Alcoholic, Control Freak, Liar all come to mind. All this rubbish about speaking her mind, it's just a good excuse to be as rude as she like's to people without ever thinking about the ramifications, but that's probably down to the alcohol. Let's hope she realises she has a problem and stops drinking the profits!!         

Oh, and lastly, these people are NOT the real housewives of New York, I lived there for many years and 99 pc are NORMAL, not like these weirdo's.

Loose cannon and alcohol dependant. Excessive use of alcohol. Went all 'Jack Nicholson crazy' when Andy commented on her drinking at the reunion. It's common knowledge that when people become defensive when questioned about their drinking as well as when numerous people express their concerns about someone's drinking that there is indeed a problem!! Nevertheless, Ramona is a classic reality tv star - cant imagine Housewives without her. So unique and out of control, I'm addicted to watching partly because of her! I also think she is a smart business woman , particularly for starting her brew the season after being called an alcoholic.

vile!!! Y is she still on the show- huge big turn off for people in uk. And Ramona you aren't as pretty as you think . 

ramona and sonja are enertaining and i like them unlike aviva who really believes she is something special. It made me sick the way she expected everyone to bow down and kiss the floor in thanks because she got on a plane, is this women real? people do have phobias but do not keep harping on like she did. what a complete idiot. she is the worse cast member so far and a turnoff, i hope they get rid of her quick, she spoils the show. 

I do not understand how anyone can think Ramona is the only honest one! She is obnoxious and most people in the UK do not like her! Bring back Jill at least She was fun to watch even if She said some silly things. Ramona speaking before she thinks is a very kind way to describe her. In truth She says things in a very calculated way. Then says She didn't think!!! Get rid of Aviva and keep the others at least they see Ramona for what She really is!

Ramona, Yes, you do speak before you think. However, that shows that unlike so many of the other women, you are totally honest and open. Women such as Luanne and, I'm afraid, Heather, are rather calculating and I find that uncaring and devious. I think of your generous party for Sonia, the way in which you celebrate others' achievements and wonder why anyone sees you as a nasty person. Your marriage seems strong and Mario obviously adores you. I expect that there is plenty of laughter between you off camera about the nastiness you have had to put up with this season.

What worries me about the new women is that they are actually nasty and quite calculating. Yes, I agree with  another blogger that they are quite bright. However, this does not excuse the level of unpleasantness exhibited by them. There is a constant attack on Ramona and claims that she and Sonja want the limelight or begin the fights. So often a clever little twist by Luanne or Heather starts the argument - Sonja and  Ramona are just noisier about it. 

That Aviva has such horrible words in her head and that she also lets them out is a worry. Her phobias might be able to be understood, but that she cannot see that her  father's behaviour towards Ramona at Ramona's charity event  was highly questionable is a problem. Carolyn and Heather, in supporting him, demonstrate that they have no understanding of the issues raised at that event. Hopefully, these 'brighter' women will learn, become more interesting or leave. Ramona and Sonja carry the housewives.

I think the problem with Ramona and her behaviour is because she drinks too much. How Mario puts up with her is amazing. She has no clue what is happening in the real world because all she thinks about is herself. What a selfish arrogant bossy bully Ramona is, a really vile person. There didn't seem to be anyone the whole series who had nice things to say about Ramona. Sonja is just frightened of having Ramona as an enemy so she agrees with everything she says. Even Mario has said even when Ramona is wrong she is right. I hope Ramona watches it back and sees what a nasty vile person she has been to everyone but some how I think she will just do what she always does and blames everyone else for her nasty behaviour. I am sick of watching Ramona get more and more drunk every series. It is time she went.

sorry about the previous reference to alex and miss foxie that was a message I also posted on Alex's site. and forgot to edit 

Ramona is vile. She doesn't listen to anybody. Act your age

who does Ramona think she is, just watched the episode where she falls out with Aviva then has the abuse charity party (proves she only looks after no.1 when she refused to accept the charity donations). Its funny how Ramona accuses people of verbally abusing  her (acting all upset) when all she ever does is scream and shout at everyone else. If I was Mario I'd ave left after I said "I DO". And how she speaks to other people is discussing, like with the taxi driver,and the ladies in the restaurant when meeting Aviva, I'm surprised someone hasn't told her where to shove it yet. I miss Jill and think she took alot of flack for situations created and made worse by scheming foul mouthed Ramona. And Alex I have to agree with Missfoxie you changed and you began following Ramona and were becoming abit of a "mean girl". When you first started you were quite nice and had your own opinions instead of following suit. Anyway back to Ramona, she is unable to take any form of criticism of anybody hence why she feels the need to scream and shout, she thinks she is sooo perfect and that everyone should bow at her feet. And when she said to Aviva that some women would give up a limb to live the way they do, seriously is she for real! I found that truley discussing. Ramona thinks having power and money is everything and it makes you more superior when in fact it just means you have further to fall and I'm not usually a nasty person but I'd like to see Ramona knocked off her pedestal and be knocked down a few pegs. When she keeps saying her marriage is perfect its crap, how can anyone be married to her and not have a wandering eye. Anyway Alex feel free to speel check this I really couldn't care less..... BRING JILL BACK ...

The reason Aviva has an issue with you is because you remind her of her mother .. Who was a party girl who died of alcoholism.. The anger she is giving you is really for the mother she never confronted..

Dear Ramona, WE LOVE YOU, here in the UK we love your honesty, love for life and your PIgnot Grigio, who says you cant have it all, your a beautiful looking lady, good buisness woman and a party animal.............................woop woop you go girl keep true to yourself one faced unlike some of the other ladies ( Lu Ann)   kisses fro London xx

YOU are the show Ramona - it seems like it all revolves around you. Love or hate you - got to say you are the best car crash TV I have ever seen. You fascinate me & I envy your energy & stamina. I have yet to see you relax, even on the beach you couldn't sit down. Do you ever stop? I have even thought you may be bi-polar as at times you do verge on mania - but have yet to see a downside to your personality. I know people attribute some of your behaviour to drinking but you don't even seem to be hungover - EVER. What is your secret? Please plug the vitamins or medication if there is any - I SO need them. 

I never watched this program until this week when I was home ill, Ramona I LOVE you to bits, you are so out there and people don't like that, as you have said you say what nobody wants to say haha sometimes it's just at the wrong time, but I find you interesting and very funny so you now have a new supporter, I also love Sonja what a laugh she is, the two of you enjoy life to the fullest and most people who have had a lot of negative things to say are probably bored with their own lives...and the racist remarks, pfft I wouldn't go to Morroco or any country that 98% disrespects woman, that's not racists, that's having a choice ...anyway you have a new fan and I look forward to the new season

Watching Season 5 here in the UK and Ramona you are just as rude, just as self-obsessed and just as "crazy" as always. You have never learnt to be respectful of others and it appears - considering how apparently nasty your father was - that the apple never falls far from the tree because you are just the same. Your idea of resolving issues is to throw your hands around in people's faces then shout at them and then storm off before they can explain their side of the argument. Let's hope your daughter grows up to be more rationale and mature then you have. I am amazed these women even want to be in the same room as you.

You come across as the crazy woman of the group

chin up lass x your bloody hilarious x big hugs x

Ramona I think you feel threatened by the new women this season who clearly are very much smarter than you. Previous seasons you thought you were better looking and much smarter than the other women and now you are not. You are very defensive all the time and try to put peope down because it makes you feel better about yourself. You never take any responsibility for any of the nasty things you say about people instead you try to blame anyone else but yourself. In a previous season I remember you having a cooking party where you chose not to invite Gill yet when someone doesn't invite you to something (because they don't want you there) you go berserk and think it's wrong instead of looking at the reasons why people don't want to invite you. I feel for your husband because I bet you treat your husband like everyone else you come into contact with. Unless he does whatever you say I bet you give him hell. I think you have a drinking problem which is why your outrageous behaviour has got worse every season. Watch out Ramona people really don't like you because of your foul mouth. You don't really have friends just people who are too frightened to say otherwise.

You have a fantastic marriage Ramona, a beautiful daughter and successful businesses - accept there are those who will be jealous!!! Those who tried to trash your marriage on the words of a two bit fortune teller need some therapy coz it says far more about them than it will ever say about you and Mario. May your massages go on and on !!!

Ramona you are the best , I got so angry when you are treated unfairly , like being blamed for men coming in the house at night in St Barths , when it was Luann that brought home the Jonny Depp look alike pirate, and then pretended it was a  bunch of Italian friends. Luann is such a snake , she is a liar and certainly no lady , her English and gramme is very bad , she was talking to one of the other girls about having a baby with Jacque  and in one sentance she said 'you know ' five times .

As for Aviva I thought the crazy one had gone when Kelly left the show , but now we have another in Aviva , she is so wrong about so many things and her phobias are a pain. 

Please come back in the next season , you and Sonja are great , true friends and I love your honesty , love the show , hate some of the women in t .

I am a huge of the show, the girls are amazing but their lives do not apply to all of us because I feel I am a lower person to them , their life sytle is so unreal, I don't go out, I do not dress like them and I HAVE no money I work hard  and I have 3 young boys, I am struggling with my life but I am not like them at all. I woull like to say to Ramona something very important when LuAnn ask her to go to Morocco, Ramona said I do not want to go because in  Morocco men do not respect women and it's a third country, then LuAnn said back to her, Morocco is a sophisticated country and is open to Europe and it's very Exotic. If Ramona can judge a country by their people she is ignorant rich and racist person, Men sometimes do not respect women all around the world it doesn't matter where you come from? American men doesn't respect women too. I lived in Britain for 20 years I never hear a such comments in my whole life. It's hurt me because I was born in Morocco. Ask Ramona why  former president of US DID NOT RESPECT HIILARY by having an affair. Ramona should apologise to Moroccan people for saying that. In any nations there is good abd bad, Moroccan men are very nice .Ramona you have no class and money doesn't buy you maners, you need to educate yourself as a human being. I will still watch the show LuAnn is my favorite.

KIND REGARDS,

nadia penn from  England. 

In Europe we've had a couple of days of Series 4 after back to back of Series 2 and 3. Ramona I'm sure you're a good wife and mother but as someone on the show you really embarass yourself at times, especially when you've been drinking, you become too emotionally hyperactive

Ramona, you've a good heart, but please you really need to keep your emotions under control, you need to know when to choose to resolve a misunderstanding with people, i like you and i really appreciate your honesty, Can i also ask that you control your wine consumption, its really letting you down.

Ramona, you so easily condemn and point out others' faults and behaviours but cannot stand to look at your own acts. Instead you deflect by not talking but yelling at others and shift blame. I believe that Aviva called you out and for that, you cannot stand her. You answer so unfiltered but when it comes back around you call someone crazy. Have you grown to accept that you are an adult and people speak to one another not yell. You overreact to be the center of attention at every party. Are you not embarassed with your etiquette and uncivilized manner. It baffles me that you are an adult and have made it thus far, but then again I guess you just throw temper tantrums along the way and yell like a spoiled brat on pinot grigio.

all you guys act like fools. you are grown ups, act like it. if you want to be trashy then join the bad girls club

All I have to say to Ramona is that she is the 2nd most annoying housewife to watch , Adriana De Moura from RHOM being in 1st. I thought Ramona was bad but Adriana got you beat. LMAO

Ramona, Ramona, Ramona! Why do you do so many things for attention? Such as getting up and pretending you thought the show was over during the reunion shooting. Why did you demand the air be turned up...just for you when everyone else on the panel was cold? Why did you scream, "take a Xanax"? You looked insane, a trashy.  Where did you get your sense of entitlement? Why do you need so much attention? Perhaps your past is not really in the past. If not, take care of it and become the caring person I know you are...All attention is not good...positive attention is the best...Try it....

Ramonia needs to go far, far away ... she gives a whole new meaning to the word "inappropriate."  I find it silly that she could take offense at anything Aviva had to say about her when I have watched everything she has said and done over the past seasons ... just as bad.  Aviva is a nutcase ... just like you, Ramona.