Wow, I just read the last post and couldn't have said it better. A prepubescent is the perfect analogy. You are no more friends with Luann or Heather than you are with the man in the moon. The truth is you attack one person at a time and right now it is Aviva. Once you choose your victim you buddy up to the others trying to get them to side with you. They are all on to you my dear. Only Sonja is left to be your friend. We are all waiting for the day she wakes up and sees you for who you really are.