Speaking of letting the past be the past, the tension between Heather and I is growing tiresome. I didn't react well at the party. I definitely pulled a hit and run but I had gotten to a point with Heather where enough was enough. I didn't want to deal with it anymore. I think Heather double-talks. She says one thing and then five minutes later changes it. "Ramona's crazy." "No, I said Ramona's acting crazy." Just say what you mean and stick with it. I can't keep up with her when she changes what she says and contradicts herself. I hope this whole situation between us will pass and we will get to a better place like LuAnn and I. Perhaps, in St. Barths and in calming, relaxed atmosphere this shift would occur.
In closing, I wanted to touch on the sudden and tragic passing of Lynn Hudson. Lynn had come from very little and was able to develop a name for herself by writing a popular television blog. While sometimes controversial, Lynn worked hard and was filled with passion. I was fortunate enough to meet Lynn and was always quite charmed by her. She was a hardworking writer, dedicated mother and passionate Housewives fan. RIP Lynn.
As always, keep up with me on RamonaSinger.com
Wow, I just read the last post and couldn't have said it better. A prepubescent is the perfect analogy. You are no more friends with Luann or Heather than you are with the man in the moon. The truth is you attack one person at a time and right now it is Aviva. Once you choose your victim you buddy up to the others trying to get them to side with you. They are all on to you my dear. Only Sonja is left to be your friend. We are all waiting for the day she wakes up and sees you for who you really are.
You "say it like it is" ?? It's more like you have absolutely no filter what so ever and just spew whatever you want. Not EVERYTHING needs to be said. You come across like you're a prepubescent little girl who will say and do anything for attention. You shout, yell, scream over people then stomp off like a child.
I would LOVE to see one of the others do an impersonation of you while you are talking to them - bet you'd blow up and then accuse them of being rude.
Even if you are abrasive and sassy, it was very humane of you to mention Lynn n Chicago's death. There were only a few housewives that took the moment to acknowledge Lynn's work and dedication to Bravo . I am quite impressed that you did this, says a lot about who the "REAL" Ramona Singer is, not the staged Ramona.
Ramona, Jumping the gun here. The words white trash are very strong. I don't know the circumstances why Aviva called you and Sonja that but with what I've seen I don't believe it was not warranted. You and Sonja need to calm down and act like ladies instead of a couple of nut jobs that don't have any class at all.
Barbarajean Remember what the scorpion said after he stung the frog and they both were going to drown? "I can't help it. It's my nature."
I'm sorry, but that is an insult to NeNe. NeNe is rational and consistent.
It looked like you and sonya went to the have beauty treatments instead of going to Aviva's benefit. So Aviva is right and calling you both out. What kind of friends are you any way
why does heather have to call you and tell you she doesn't want you on the shoot. Just stop trying to control every little thing. I think you are a huge control freak
Ramona, I think you are such a cutie but you are so over the top sometimes. Hoping you will mellow with age.
I kinda think you repeated the dermatologist's address to the cab driver for the benefit of the viewers. You probably got free treatments for that plug in.
I was never a fan of Ramona however I have a whole new respect for her in regards to mentioning Lynn in her blog. She was a diehard dedicated bravo fan who had a blog and took quite a bit of heat with her posts. She passed away of a heart attack on her 49th birthday just the other day. Thank you Ramona for mentioning something that actually matters!! I still cannot believe people are commenting about a silly fight. Some things arent that important....
Ramona ... Both you and Mario need to get over the fact that you were not invited to London and go on with your lives. You running around making accusation and calling people names is outrages ... just because you did not get your way.
The way you are acting I would not invite you to the corner for a hot dog.
Pewth mizrosy I haven't seen Heather running around making accusations. She remarked that what she had just overheard them say about Jacques wasn't nice. Hardly an accusation; it was pretty self-evident.
1love1heart Pewth mizrosy Heather explained it herself last week. Aviva was her friend, not Ramona: "I just could not let Ramona and Aviva trash talk Jacques without at least addressing it with Aviva directly. The others didn't surprise me, but what's going on with Aviva? I mean, that they started in on him before the front door was even closed? Come on!"
1love1heart I sure hope they are "over the trip". I do recall that Ramona and Heather met for drinks and discussed their relationship and they decided that if something thing happened in the future they would talk it out. However, since then Ramona is always running up to Heather yelling, you talk behind my back .... you are a liar ... you are fake ... and then runs off without discussing the issue. So Heather asked the question and it was Mario that brought up the trip to London again ... and again Aviva put in her two cents. Enough, please.
Ramona earned her "major dis" by treating Heather so poorly when she was a guest in Ramona's home. She was the cause of her own exclusion from the London trip. Why does everyone forget about that part---the cause?
cehemise 1love1heart mizrosy
I agree with cehemise...why should Heather walk on egg shells for Ramona when Ramona herself is extremely disrespectful.
So how many people did Aviva invite to Florida. It was like she was doing tit for tat. I would never invite Ramona on a trip giving the way she behaves Heather doesn't owe an explanation to anyone.
gabbyval That's a good one, exactly right! All she has to do is take a TAXI,lol across the GWB and she is in New Jersey. Ah yes, two of a kind-what a scary thought! Can you imagine having the two of them on the same show? I could never handle watching that!!
gcvlmv Frankly, I was thinking it would be "just desserts" to have Ramona, Teresa, NeNe, and Alexis all on one show. They'd all get a taste of their own medicine.
jmos1234 gcvlmv I think they should have the "MEAN HOUSEWIVES" with Ramona, Vicki,Teresa,Brandi and Jill
Okay, here's the thing about what you complain about with Heather -- YOU DO THE SAME THING. You got mad at her for talking behind your back, but you talk behind her back all the time! You might want to think about your own actions before calling someone else out on theirs.
Ramona not only talks behind Heather's back..she talks behinds everyone else's too.
You are a crazy person but Aviva was acting controlling. Both you and Sonja had reasonable reasons why you couldn't attend the event. You had a reaction and needed a doctors attention. Sonja had a dog that she thought might need to be put down. I would have been by my dogs side no matter what was going on.
The argument between Aviva and Heather was crazy. It was Heather who was being controlling then. I don't like her. She came on the show controlling and swinging. Not a good way to start. You however need to stop running away. It makes you look weak. On the other hand, arguing with Heather is like watching a ship sink. Your personalities are alike but she won't run from an argument.
Sorry that she didn't invite you on the trip. That is a snob. However you do cause drama where ever you go. You fight with everyone. Sometimes it is hard having you around. Stop picking on LuAnn. Your arguments are crazy. It would be nice to see one show where all of the girls get along.
Why would Heather invite Ramona? Did you miss the episode where Ramona and Mario told Heather that she doesn't give people a chance to talk?( Ramona doesn't give people a chance to talk either)
If someone doesn't give you a chance to talk you just avoid them..but not Ramona and Mario. They had to go and reprimand Heather like she was a child. Who does that? They were only in her company a short time since they even knew her and had to go and insult her? That doesn't make for a wonderful friendship..but what do I know?
Sometimes you are over the top. Sometimes you speak when you shouldn't. However Heather annoys me too. She talks about you all the time behind your back. She's not letting bygones be bygones like she said she would. In the end I'm team Ramona however sometimes you could tone it down- just a little.
realityjunkE I think everybody on these shows play up to the cameras. Ramona could you have posed any more obviously for the men with you bathing suit ?
Just keep on being you. Heather is an obnoxious witch and that will not be changing anytime soon. Try not worrying about it. She is a back stabber and double talker for sure. Hopefully she will not be around all that much longer. Mario is a doll. You are very lucky.
I quit watching this season after the 1st episode due to your obnoxious behavior. I decided to give it another try this week. Thanks to your vile use of the c-word, I now have another hour free during the week to pursue something other than watching you and your antics.
Heather admitted to saying "you were crazy", then Aviva very appropriatly pointed out how rude that was so she said your right "Romana is ACTING Crazy" and you were! You listned in on someone else's conversaion, only you missed the first part so for some reason you thought she was talking about you she wasn't! You owe her an apology! Also, you all were rude to talk about Jacque as soon as he left so wer'nt YOU talking behind someone's back? The one thing you hate everyone to do to you? I'm confused. Walk your Talk our stop yelling!
1love1heart bfair It appeared the dissing of Jacques was so loud it would have been difficult not to overhear it. Without the gossiping, there would have been nothing to have been overheard.
RUDE Ramona...she literally hides behind Heather's back to listen in and then pounces. Who is she paying off? Why else would anyone put up with her.
Ramona, your excuse for not going to Aviva's charity event is lame. I think you have been to the dermatologist enough times and had enough treatments that you know how your skin reacts. Your treatment of the cab driver is inexcusable.
LaserOne Aqualover I've dealt with cabbies , waitresses , hotel employees . And I have NEVER treated someone as she did .
Ramona, you say: "I think Heather double-talks. She says one thing and then five minutes later changes it. 'Ramona's crazy.' 'No, I said Ramona's acting crazy.'
Actually not. She said, "Well, she's ACTING crazy." This wasn't an example of double-talking. A good example of that was when you got mad at Heather for talking behind her back, then you did the exact same thing two times at least during the same party: once about Jacques and once when you were talking to the socialite.
Please... less hit and run, more sanity.
Ramona you're the best. You tell it like it is, aren't afraid to admit it when you're wrong, and don't take yourself too seriously. You and Sonja make the show.
Also - I think you should have given that cabbie one of your notebooks.
I have three dogs and love them dearly. Had it been me, I would have missed the event as well. However, I would not have gone on and on about it as if they were more important than prosthetics for children. Just would have made my apologies and leftit at that. Sonia looked foolish, but then she usually does.
Ramona--you and Heather are a lot alike--neither of you can see it.
Seriously, why don't you buy a car and hire a driver to take you wherever you need to go--he can open the door, etc. and treat you like the royal person you think you are. You were very condescending to the cab driver.
Ramona...wrong...wrong...wrong...and again you are wrong. You jump to conclusions and need to be a "know it all" constantly. Either with Heather or the cab driver, you are so judgemental. Calm down and enjoy the show. Make all those wrongs into rights.