I understand that she may have been uncomfortable with Aviva's dad being there. But What I don't understand is why she couldn't just take the check from Aviva's father. The main focus that evening was raising money for the charity. And of course the more money that is raised, the better off the charity will be. In that moment, Ramona should have put her own feelings aside and accepted the donation from them whether she had issues with Aviva or not. She made that moment about herself and her issues with Aviva, instead of what the whole event was about....raising money for Domestic Violence. If you truly care about a charity, you will accept donations from whomever is kind enough to give...whether you have issues with that person or not.