Ramona Singer

Ramona doesn't understand what else LuAnn wants from her.

on Jun 11, 20120

If LuAnn wanted to clear the air with me she should have invited me to meet up privately. Confronting me at Sonja's party was not the right thing to do, and was inappropriate and disruptive to Sonja and her guests.

When we finally did meet up, I was not prepared for what was about to happen. I have apologized privately to LuAnn about last year's reunion, and when that did not seem to be enough, I apologized publicly. LuAnn is very passive-aggressive, which can be equally offensive, and hurtful. I felt pushed against a wall at the reunion. Regardless, I should never have brought up her daughter. People make mistakes, and it's important to acknowledge and learn from them. Children are off-limits. I apologized immediately and repeatedly. I'm not quite sure what else LuAnn is looking for?

When the word "blackmail" came out of her mouth, I was shocked. It sounded like a line right out of a movie. And just like movies, this story was completely fabricated! It is difficult for me to know what else to say about it because there is no truth to it. Not only does blackmail sound ridiculous, but what rewards could I possibly gain from it?

I'm not sure why LuAnn has fabricated this story and continued this saga. That is for you to decide. Don't you think she needs somethIng more relevant to dwell on?

87 comments
Messenger18
Messenger18

I think what LuAnn wants is for you to mind your own business and stay out of hers, along with not talking badly about her, and being such a rude abrasive person. You were wrong, make your apology like you should and LuAnn deserves.You like to brag about being so honest and telling it like it is, but your honesty is rude and hurtful, and telling like it is, is according to Ramona, not necessarily the truth of the matter. You come across as such an unhappy person taking it all out on all around you, is it Mario? I have a feeling he isn't the devoted husband you like to portray.My husband really wouldn't dare drool over other women with me in his presence!

Picket Fence
Picket Fence

I agree. You look great this season, Ramona.

NeutronBomb
NeutronBomb

Ramona, you are a riot...but you NEVER apologize! You always just say: "I am sorry you feel that way". That is NOT an apology lol!

racecar402
racecar402

First of all I don't always agree with the way these woman deal with things. However, kids should be OFF LIMITS cause if we "judge the parenting style" based on what we see on tv!! Then no one is doing very well. In "reality" we only see or here what "tv" wants us to hear and that isn't the way it is. As "friends they should not go there. Now in my opion Ramona you judge to much and really shouldn't. You are not the perfect "Mom, Friend,or Business Womman" you think you are. So all of you should step back and try and "get real" as much as you like to think you are.

Joyce-E Clark
Joyce-E Clark

All I want to say is: Team Ramona all the way!!!

natalie-luv
natalie-luv

you are the QUEEN of interrupting! And calling Heather out at your party (in "public" no less) was incredibly inconsiderate. ramona you need therapy. and some medication

Tatiana A
Tatiana A

Ramona I just happened to watch the NY wives reunion recently and for the first time. After that day, You really caught my attention & interest. Since then, I've been a loyal NY wives fan of yours! All I can say is that I find you amazingly entertaining in everyway!! You really bring something special & unique to the show. You are petite in size but great in everyway!! Bravo Bravo for this show & for casting wonderful ladies like Ramona, Carole & Aviva!! I love the show!!!

Tieara
Tieara

I am surprised that at the reunion it was brushed under the table when LuAnn said by the way how is your marriage. And you then said something about her parenting. Yes it was wrong and you have apologized but LuAnn is not in reality. Her own Nanny and son said she is never home so you hit a sore spot because deep down she know you was right. LuAnn tries to act like she is not a mean girl and she's not rude but she is. She says sly comments and try to twist it around. When Jill and you had that fight last season she tried to act like she wasn't coming to attack but she was, her first words were why did you do that to Jill. She was so concerned about you apologizing to her but where is your apology where is Bethany's apology?

ogates
ogates

Luann is every bit the "snake" Bethenny once dubbed her. Don't let her under your skin Ramona...

mel@redondo
mel@redondo

Ramona, Every time Luann brings it up she just keeps digging herself into a deeper hole. One comment I read said that you called her a weekend mom again, so that comment now becomes current news. No way! If that is all Luann wants to talk about, is having you get down on your knees & take back what you said, or persist in needing blood to call a truce, she is going to get a lot more information talked about than she wants! I truly thought she was smarter than that! She seriously & thoroughly needs to give all good, bad or ugly fights from last season a rest! Let sleeping dog lie! Bury the hatchet! This fight IS TIRED! You gave me the best laugh of the night when your mind wandered off into thoughts of your new nail veneer! You are a gem, & a great New Yorker!!!

jb5513
jb5513

Ramona--LuAnn will never accept your apology no matter how many times you have apologized. She doesn't have Alex to bully this season, so she'll bully you. And she'll take a page out ofJill Zarin's book and manuever the other castmates to be on her side. You're better off just saying hello to her if you're at the same functions and then just walk away.

tobey
tobey

I love Ramona but feel she is being forced to fight with LuAnn and visa-verse. Even so, I will always love you. Ramona. I have never liked LuAnn and never will, she seems to have that spirit I hate in people, called "I am right" and also "Bow down to me". BTW, she also sounds like, "listen to my problem, but I won't listen to yours." Ugh, not how a lady behaves.

Ande`
Ande`

Keep being you! The show would not be the same without your greatness!

susie q.
susie q.

Love you Ramona - tune it down a notch! LuAnn is only sticking w this story bc it is all she has - to keep her in the limelight! You are an easy target for her - beware - do not fall into her trap!!

Grammar Girl
Grammar Girl

Thanks for the manicure tip! Let us know where you get your nails done. You look fabulous this season. Your skin positively glows.

LTH
LTH

Thank you for knocking LuAnn off of her high horse. Who the hell does she think she is?

kikihawaii
kikihawaii

Romona,

You were rockin' those boots and leather jacket at the park with Luann!

SZara
SZara

With your conversation with Aviva you said you you have an problem with me bring it up to me, come to me. It is not exactly easy for anyone to deal with you. Your so defensive and you speak over people. Luann have been trying.

aljora
aljora

It was inappropriate for LuAnn to initiate discussion of a prior dispute with you at Sonja's party, I agree. It was also classless for you and Mario to point out Heather's shortcomings (interrupting) at a party you were hosting, to which she was your invited guest. She was only just getting to know you. Do you always put your guests "at ease" in this manner?

Sundance
Sundance

Ramona, can't stand Lu Ann, just keep trying to shut her dow. You are my fave on the show, you say it like it is, have a hot husband and a lovely daughter. Love the lighter blonde hairdo! If the show didn't have you and Sonya I wouldn't watch at all.

princessbride
princessbride

I am SO happy Ramona is standing up to that nasty trouble maker, LuAnn. It's about time someone called LuAnn out! Good job, Ramona!

Texas girl
Texas girl

Ramona, It not as if Luann was not warned, you gave it right back to her.

SAYWHAT??
SAYWHAT??

I really like your personality! Its a true NY one and if people cant understand that then too bad. :)

red5957
red5957

Could someone please move Ra"moan"a out of NY? Sadly, she's making this season unwatchable

pennyone
pennyone

ramona i do not believe luann for a min. i think your daughter seems like she has such a big heart. ramona i enjoy always watching you.

Viewer101
Viewer101

LOVE YOU!!! BRAVO get rid of that fake Countess LuAnne already. There are so many wealthy and elegant women in NYC.

Housewives Guru
Housewives Guru

How can you say Luann doesn't work? Shes a mom! That's a full time job, even if your kids are in school.

Flowers
Flowers

I believe Luann. The look on your face confirmed it.

gocart
gocart

Ramona, First, I was admiring your necklace and earrings so much last night when you were having lunch with Aviva.... I was wondering whose they were and then remembered you make jewelry. Just beautiful. Second, all I can say is, LuAnn seems to be a textbook case of how a woman cannot handle menopause. I have always loved you and your beautiful family and your spirit. LuAnn is the last of the mean-girls. She really has to stop acting like she has Jill sniping orders to her (which I am sure she does!) Keep on being YOU! Rock On Ramona!!!!

Amanipeach
Amanipeach

Finally, someone says what needed to be said to LuAnn. She is a bully without any class or manners. I'm glad that you said that she is making up lies. I noticed that on previous season's, but wasn't sure I was right. You never know what really happens outside the camera's eye. I love your spunk and honest ways.

RHONowhere
RHONowhere

I just want to know where to get my pinot-filled hat!

loyalfan
loyalfan

I think Bravo should have a new show staring Teresa (RHONJ) and Ramona. Let's see who survives who - LOL!!

OCAlly
OCAlly

I don't know how anyone could like LuAnn. Ignore and avoid her. Nothing would get under her skin more. Completely ignore her other than an occasional smile and wave. She will go right over the edge. We may even get to see a Kellamity moment.

mella laverty
mella laverty

whats up with your birth name being Singer and your husband's name being Singer with a first name like Mario??????????

Bella Shannon
Bella Shannon

Ramona, stay just the way you are...honest and direct. You say what's on your mind without being mean spirited. How people take your comments is on them. Don't worry about LuAnn, she has the same problem with EVERYONE. You totally pegged it...she puts you down to make herself look and feel better. Don't change a thing!

PortiaE
PortiaE

Bethenny called it early on when she said LuAnn was a snake. You waste your time trying to reach detente with her. Don't turn your back on her or you could regret it.

rck
rck

YOU NEED TO GET THE PINOT .G. OUT OF YOUR .......... AND GET INTO AA

IsabellaY
IsabellaY

Ramona,

Wearing earrings that are identical in design to your necklace is tacky and very, very outdated. Just can't believe a jewelry designer does this.

IrishElle
IrishElle

Wow Luann's few friends are trying to persecute Ramona!!! GET OVER IT PEOPLE!! Back off Luann's minions, go bully someone else - we've got the best with Ramona!!! She doesn't LIE & will always tell the truth, no matter what it is! LOVE YOU RAMONA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Barbara
Barbara

Ramona should never had been asked back. Her actions are getting old, just like her. Love the new housewives, that should get Ramona acting more neurotic. Sonja is getting stale.

tjames
tjames

Ramona,

You are crazy as hell but in a good way. So far you Sonja, Luann, and Heather are interesting the rest of them are boring. I'm Sorry last night I missed the other ladies (jill Kelly, and Alex) besides you and Luann disagreement the show was very boring.

girli22
girli22

I think your right Ramona, she should not have bought it up at Sonjas, and she should not have bought it up to the new girls. I also agree with you in that LuAnn is condescending in the way she speaks and good for you for calling her out on it. i do believe at this point just agree to disagree and move on. LuAnn is a good person she just needs more time away from Jill. Unless, Jill is still tweeting in her ear like a little birdie who knows. I think you and LuAnn can be friends LuAnn's a good Egg down deep!!

Viewer =zai
Viewer =zai

as you said ramona, lu ann needs to get a job!!! period. she is jealous of you, never been divorced, great kid, great husband, suceessful businesses, you've got all she wants!! at the park we could all see that she was lying abt the threats n blackmail!! phew,,,,please dont change who you are for anyone, say you mind!! you are 95% of the right. love u sooooooooo much.you are one of the reasons i still watch the show

juliana53
juliana53

Can't decide who's telling the truth about "blackmail', but you did impugn Luann's parenting. As Carole said, that's not cool!

NY carey
NY carey

Ramona, what a scene with Luanne. She was actually speechless for a few seconds. I am so glad you stood your ground. It will be interesting how the season plays out. You are still my favorite!

EveyV
EveyV

I'm not a doctor, but I'm wondering if you have adult ADHD. You speak really fast and sometimes your hard to follow.

Patricia Haswell
Patricia Haswell

This is one time I am in LuAnn's corner. She appears to be an excellent mother; shame on you Ramona. I think if I were you, I would be paying more attention to your goodlooking husband!

yaya and granny
yaya and granny

Ramona You were so funny with the nail comment. It looked like Lu was about to crack up, it's nice to lighten up a moment.

RoseanneV
RoseanneV

Just my opinion - but you need to let people finish talking FIRST! Seriously, you don't give anyone a chance, but I'm sure I might be the same way, if I was in your shoes, with the cameras rolling.

The best part of last night was watching Carole and her bf cruising down the streets of NYC! That's what I want to see, the lifestyle of living in NYC.

Sorry, ladies, but I'm already turned off by another season of high-school girls, talking about each other....

Wish everyone the best, but I think I'm done already.