Sonja Morgan

Sonja explains where she is with Heather and with her toaster oven's production.

on Oct 16, 20120

I was just laughing and enjoying myself teasing LuAnn but its none of my business if she got a ride home with Tomas. She's a grown woman and makes her own decisions. I don't meddle or judge I just live in the moment with my girlfriend making light of it.

I like that LuAnn admits she lied about her ride home because she was afraid of everyone's reaction. She's owns it since everyone made such a big deal about it.

Why does Lu take what Ramona says so seriously? Sometimes I just have to giggle at the vintage "RamonaLuLu" dynamic! It really does have a life of its own.

I think Aviva would have a lot more fun on the show if she wasn't so judgmental. What happened to everyone's sense of humor?

Lets be honest -- it's clear to the viewers that I really wasn't interested in her dad. I was just rolling with life. Being respectful to a new friend who said she had her hands full with a dad like George. I seem to be losing my sense of humor also towards the end of the season with all the hard work and pressure I have been under.

165 comments
DCrevier
DCrevier

Hey Sonja...what can I say...you are beautiful!  You remind me of Barbra Streisand...who is another beauty.  I love how you put Aviva out of your life.  She is vicious & toxic.  Stay strong and all the best with this hideous divorce...what is your ex thinking? 

 

MCheeky
MCheeky

I love you Sonja!  You're fun with a triple X ;)  I need a new toaster oven too!

kramer1968
kramer1968

To bad you couldn't buy yourself some class with all the money you saved having Heather work for you. Don't you just twinge with regret when you watch yourself on TV?

Pinchella
Pinchella

Other than your fabulous figure, you are everything I don't want to be at 49 years old. You brag in your blog about how much you have done and who you know blah blah blah but your behaviour seems desperate. It made me cringe watching you beg for attention from the waiter in St Barts. Why do you talk and behave like Ramona when you are around her? It makes you look insecure. You were so rude and ungrateful to Heather regarding the toaster oven debacle. At this time you indicated low intelligence and no professionalism. You did a crap and careless job of organising an event for Aviva. You also showed immaturity and obnoxious behaviour by comparing your difficult situation with your dog to Aviva's charity. Yes it is deeply sad when a pet is old, sick and dying. The suffering and endless challenges children with prosthetics face daily is incomparable. Shame on you. Your definition of a girls only trip away is tragic. Your definition seems to be about acting promiscuously and sharing your body with a random young pirate the night after your friend? Yuck. This is total Jersey Shore behaviour, not Real Housewives class. You might have a taste for luxury Sonja, but luxury certainly does not have a taste for you. Trashy however, does.

Folaflow
Folaflow

Love Sonja alot,and I like the fact that u didn't let that arrogant Aviva take u for a bad ride with her words pls don't be friends with her bcos she's jealous of u,u will c the light of financial breakthru again.

sharnalee
sharnalee

You are absolute fun and a joy to watch. Your sad moments are few, but clearly heartfelt and I sympathise. So although you see yourself as losing your sense of humour you more than made up for making your viewers sad along with you. Please don't ditch Ramona - your friendship is part of your fun personality.

claire5710
claire5710

you'd be so much better off without Ramona she's trashy and brings the show down, I like you but you often get tangled in Ramona's messes- ditch her 

ivyalbaladejo
ivyalbaladejo

You have more class then Ramona please don't be to close to her evil Why you put Ramona in your business leave out she didn't  let the man talk bla bla bla bla like a parrot. But I like you style love you.

sandif
sandif

love ya Sonja, you keep on rocking with Ramona and don't worry about what other people think...life is for the living...Aviva is a pain who is not only judge mental, but truly up her own (ah)  she still doesn't realize the sun don't shine from there!!! Rock on girls !!!

Britfan
Britfan

Stop being a Ramona fan club it does not do you any favours, she is a loose cannon and will turn on you eventually.Be the person underneath the pretence Sonja people will like you more.

Charlie1984
Charlie1984

You should pick your friends more carefully, Ramona is not a good friend. She will be fine as long as you agree with everything she says but as you have seen this season if you dare to have your own opinion or do something she doesn't like she will turn on you. You need to stop flirting with any man that you have dealings with it doesn't make you look very clever.

annie17352
annie17352

On the first season with you I really didn't much care for you, I thought you were too 'out there' but, your heart has been exposed and your soft underbelly, and I am not writing about your dips in the pool. You appear to be a good person, going through some challenging time.  It was hard to see your tears when the meeting with your ex didn't turn out the way you anticipated. It was clear, your feelings ran deep...Sorry...

Tell Ramona that she really looks 'odd' at times demanding attention. If she was comfortable in her own skin she would not keep saying "how happy she is''

 

Take care

Jazzyrose
Jazzyrose

Why the HELL are you selling toasters anyway?  Do you look like Julia Child.

Not even Julia sold stuff like that.

You should sell classy stuff like Sonja fragrance, lotions and lingerie.

I'll but it.

rosyposy
rosyposy

Sonja, because of your closeness to Ramona, I tried not to like you.  But I cannot help myself.  Girl, you are a blast!  I get a kick from your expressions while the rest are going nuts.  Did you realize that you kind of smile through the craziness sometimes?

melindaannie
melindaannie

You have a kind heart, lots of charisma, and you are beautiful on the inside and out. I wish you every success and happiness..... You really are a very humorous, light and easy, Bravo housewife. I wouldn't enjoy the show as much, without you on it!

AudreyEH
AudreyEH

How could I forget to mention this????

 

Sonja-- the FUNNIEST bit on the Reunion show was when you compared the "girls" trip (with someone bringing their husband along) to a "guys" trip in Vegas!, one dude's wife is joining and the other fellas are sitting around in their boxer shorts, puffing on fat cigars + contemplating having a few professional ladies stopping by...!

 

HILARIOUS! I really needed a good laugh the first time i viewed it and you delivered ---- BRILLIANT!!!  You have a knack for comedic storytelling, my dear!

smedly151
smedly151

love you...i could see how Heather wasn't really hearing you in the small snipets of time we did get to see.

you are bigger than this issue that is for sure.  you will move on and forward.

I will toss up a prayer for you my dear.  Love your blog.  Love NYHW!!

I watch NJ too but I may have to stop it is just tooo dark for me.

If you ever get the chance be-friend Teresa.

AudreyEH
AudreyEH

ahh Miss Sonja,

So wonderful to see on the "Lost Footage" episode, that you've come to terms with your behaviour towards Heather when she was helping you with the branding of your Sonja "Home" and "In the City" enterprises.

Wish those bits of you + Heather  speaking about the "best + worst" moments of the season had been included in Part 2 of the Reunion. ...though better late than never!

all good wishes,

see you next season ---- with a fully loaded toaster oven on the shelves already :O)

nursenj
nursenj

i like you sonja. i feel sorry for you and i hope everything works out for you. i think you are a good person.

Alph
Alph

I don't like you! As the RHONJ would say, Go Scratch!!

kiki13
kiki13

Sonja- when you and Luann removed the paintings from your dining room, it was a very touching moment.  I understand that pain and I am so glad Luann was there to be with you.  Looking forward to seeing you, Ramona, and Luann next season.

 

 

deirdreb
deirdreb

SONJA MORGAN YOU ARE THE REASON I GOT BETTER FASTER FROM AN ALLDAY SURGERY, WHILST RECOVERING, I WATCHED OVER AND OVER THE EPISODE OF WHEN HEATHER RAN INTO THE POOL AND YOU AND RAMONA JUMPED IN HAVING A LAUGH IN THE POOL, ITS THE FUNNIEST EPISODE I EVER SAW IN THE REAL HOUSEWIVES SEASONS, OF ALL THE HOUSEWIVES BOTH YOU AND RAMONA ARE SO WORTH WATCHING, IF LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE, I NEVER TOOK ONE PAIN KILLER, I WATCHED THAT EPISODE OVER AND OVER AND DEFINATELY WOULD SAY THIS EPISODE WAS THE BEST MEDICINE FOR ME!

Lynda58
Lynda58

After watching the lost footage and seeing some chumpy guy name drop "The Donald" in order to partner up with you for your non entity makes me wonder how in the world you functioned for 20 years without the input of Ramona (who you seem to require for your every move)?  How independent have you been in your life without the continued support of new friends?  I have a feeling you've needed many shoulders over the years.  You seem sort of dense to the fact that you have little imagination, talent nor work ethic.  Get a grip.  Get a job.

Starting a business with little business acumen and relying on others is really not much of a strategy for success.

lookimjustsaying
lookimjustsaying

Just so sad! You are entitled and delusional, as so many people have stated on your blog. I hope you can take some of these comments to help yourself grow as a person. You are definitely entertaining to watch, but wouldn't you like to be more than just entertainment? People sometimes are NOT laughing WITH you, if you know what I mean (don't be a joke) You are holding on to your past too much girl! Just let it go and start learning from your fabulous friends, instead of acting as if you are on the same level (business wise I mean) because you are not a business woman (at least not a very good one) and you could learn a lot if you would listen more, and stop pretending to be something you are not. Heather hit it on the head when she said "you wouldn't know hard work if it bit you in the a" Also, Heather wrote in her blog the MANY things she has accomplished since the show, and you well, still no Sonja toaster ovens on the shelf. That is because you do not know what you are doing sweetheart! Good luck, and I hope you can tone it down a bit before you do hit the end of road..

lolly1946
lolly1946

Sonja, you beautiful girl ! Hang in there. I understand you completely. You work hard and you play hard. If people dont understand that then too bad. You dont have to answer to anyone. You have strength and confidence which are genuine and are rocked by people who proclaim to be your friend but desert you when you need them.  Except Ramona. Loyalty is what you look for in relationships and you are devastated when betrayed. Its a lonely road we travel my friend but I have confidence  you will come thru it triumphant. You are a survivor and will be fine. And dont give up on JA Morgan yet. And tell Aviva to kiss you _ss. See younext season.

randrew
randrew

I'll just copy and paste what I said to Lu...

I love love loved you all last night.

I LMBO at you Lu when she was trying to get a walk in the park with Ramona and Sonja.

"oh well, she tried"! :D

 

You all are such a breath of fresh air compared to NJHW's it's not even real. Way cool lost footage

 

J901
J901

Just watched the "lost footage" and have to say, what is your problem with Aviva's ex husband? You cut her off every time she tries to talk about him, and since she's the one that married him don't you think she might know him a little better (and certainly differently) than you do? Try listening instead of talking over her and maybe you'll learn something.

sexyma
sexyma

Stop yapping!! Start writing a book. You have alot to say girl. Save juicy details for the book.

DRUSCEEKELLEY
DRUSCEEKELLEY

You do you Sonja, you pay your own bills not the women you are on the show with at this time.  Life is full of surprises and you love life it is obvious but in a positive way.  I hope all works out well for you financially it's tough out there for women at times but you are an overcomer - hang in there!  And you know what rolling with life is not a bad thing it just means you are comfortable with who you are and you are trying to enjoy life.  It's short - it can end quickly.

 

IcyAll
IcyAll

Sonja, I get you.  You try to be the peacemaker, the go-between, the one who takes the high road.  This has caused some people to think you're a ditz.  You're not.  I appreciate the humor and am glad you are on the show.  Good luck!

KimPiper1
KimPiper1

Sonja if you ever get the toaster oven on the market I will be the first one in line. I've always wanted one, but at this point I am willing to hold out for yours to hit the market. Hopefully it will be soon!

bravoista
bravoista

WHEW! 5 pages in your blog and most of them were about you explaining why you are adequate today based on your life 20 years ago. The past is the past and one can’t keep living off of it my darling. It’s what we do today with what we have that matters. It would be nice to see you turn your talk into action, otherwise you just look flighty.

Blanca
Blanca

Up til this week, I thought Heather was 100% on target stating that the one word best describing you is "entitled".  After watching you on the reunion and reading your blog I realize another word is even more on the mark: "DELUSIONAL"!

Jazzyrose
Jazzyrose

 @rosyposy

 Yeah!  This outrageous firecracking Ramona-Sonja duo really cracks me up.

Especially when they drive Aviva and Heather crazy.  (They remind me of LUCY & ETHEL)

 Aviva should get off the show - she just can't handle the stress.

terrypv
terrypv

 @blackberry

 There is a difference between the guy you date to see if you want to have a serious relationship with and possibly marriage and then there is the guy you know you will never be serious about and just want to have fun with (especially on vacation).  As for the investor friend, she also brought Ramona into it and he also seemed to be listening.

Lynda58
Lynda58

 @blackberry I think SonJa relies on others to lift her up.  She probably was impressed with the tubby guy because he dropped the "Donald" bomb.  Did RaSonJa even bother to check his credentials?  

lolly1946
lolly1946

Oh my God, you are so hostile !! Obviously you havent lived life much. You should be so lucky to have a loyal friend like Sonja who loves life and is true to her friends

melindaannie
melindaannie

@withdiamonds ........So, why do you feel the need to go onto someone's blog and rip into them. Do you know for a fact, the heart of one that you speak of, I think not!!!

lynnwhitlock
lynnwhitlock

 @J901 Sonja was defending, Harry, a long time friend and knows that Aviva does not have a high opinion.  You are correct assuming they would know him differently.  The judgmental creature that is Aviva would not be my choice of defense. 

Ninon
Ninon

 @melindaannie real problem was created by Sonja when she brought Ramona to the meeting with Heather, HUGE MISTAKE! that was the end with Heather, I totally understand why. 

RoseWind
RoseWind

 @melindaannie  Heather did "opt out" at their second or third meeting, and it was Sonja who called her a quitter.  Look at the old video.  The real problem here is that Sonja actually wanted every favor under the sun from Heather:  develop a logo and font, do photography and biography of Sonja for the box, provide tons of extra photographs for Sonja to use on her website and other projects, take care of the brand stamp and packaging of a dozen other products  --oven mitts, etc.  She never ceased wanting more.  For free.

Liznorris
Liznorris

@bravoista I've always felt like she was living in the past, and this blog really confirms it for me. Have you ever noticed that every time the toaster oven gets brought up she'll start talking about her production company? It's just sad. It seems as though she refuses to accept the present day. No matter how successful she was in the past the times are changing and she needs to let it go and get it moving forward! I for one am sick of hearing about it. It's one of the main things I can not stand about her.

Liznorris
Liznorris

@Blanca Hahahahahaha! Delusional kept popping into my head while I was reading this as well. I was also a bit confused by it. She spent 6 pages to tell us about who she was 20 years ago? None of that matters now! How about trying to focus on who she is now!

Lynda58
Lynda58

 @melindaannie  @Lynda58 To melindaannie, your ramble  is far too long and off point to read fully.  I appreciate your strident affection for SonJa.  I liked her in her first season.  She seemed light as helium and smart.  Since that time, she has bordered dependent on RaMOANa for everything.  It's ridiculous to put all one's eggs in one basket.  Yes, I do find Sonja's character has been shown to be a dim bulb (she forgot to wear underwear, for goodness sake!). due to her lack of self awareness, independence and gratitude for other friends' time (i.e. Heather), I've lost a great deal of respect for her.  

melindaannie
melindaannie

@Ninon ......I totally agree with you about that! Have a nice day.

Lynda58
Lynda58

 @Liznorris  @Blanca ITA!  SonJa could have done a "Cliff Notes" version of her past if she thought the viewers needed to know of her accomplishments.  btw:  A perfect name for her brand would be:  "SonJa FREEmont".  (Her maiden name is Tremont.  However, she wants everything in life given to her for FREE.)

hannahbelle
hannahbelle

@Liznorris@Blanca

AND……back to the main point, she not focusing on who she is now because she is still absorbed with and living in her past. It’s like watching a puppy chase its tail.

 

Lynda58
Lynda58

 @melindaannie  @Lynda58 to Melindaannie - You must have confused my comments for somebody else's.  I didn't call her ugly names.  I gave my assessment of her behavior.  btw:  I also stated that I originally liked her.  Frankly, she seems to have morphed into something else altogether.  

melindaannie
melindaannie

@Lynda58 ......Short version,,, I don't like to stand by and watch ugly names thrown at Sonja that 1; aren't' true, and 2; whether they realize it or not going into being on RHONY, it takes courage, we are all prone to cringe worthy moments!