Bethenny: Sonja Isn't Owning Her Stuff

Bethenny reveals the confrontation that surprised her most during this trip.

Well this episode was fun. This is pure comedy to me. Ramona aka "the apologizer" is some piece of work.

I really do feel her pain in her divorce. How can I comment on a life with someone spanning a quarter of a century? I cannot really judge. They say it is bad luck to wear someone else's shoes. It is most definitely bad form to really understand unless you have walked in them, which I haven't.

I'm glad I got to calm it all down with Kristen. I own my stuff. I am guarded and difficult to get to know. If you only knew what I was enduring personally then you might understand. But, I don't expect anyone to worry about me. I'm a survivor and, as I said, we all have our stuff. Sometimes Ramona forgets that she isn't the only one dealing with something.

Sonja is all riled up, understandably so. She seems to feel like a caged and cornered animal. Sonja isn't owning her stuff here, she seems to be in denial, but it really isn't our problem anymore. Heather said it best: We don't need to solve, and we don't need to enable. This is above my pay grade, and I can't seem to extricate myself from it. I definitely have compassion for Sonja.

Ramona does love to drive the getaway car. She is totally part of the crime, but her hands are dirty. Let's face it: She was a sh-- starter this vacation, and she damn well knows it. I always say: just add Ramona.
Dorinda had an interesting perspective here. I'm not sure what she is thinking or doing when she says we're all a bunch of judgmental drinkers. She chose to separate herself from this conversation and be Sonja's support system. Let's see how this plays out.

Ramona redeemed herself with her ice bucket reaction. She not only possesses the gift for wearing macramé but also for cozying up to you until you're not pissed at her anymore.

Luann had me peeing while trying to shill her "eggs a la francaise" while Ramona was selling me down the river. I said Sonja has an issue to her face, so there is no mystery here. I also love watching her and Heather swim and frolic and the fun stuff. The cougar conversations about the puppy breath yacht boys also make me giggle. We really need to take our next trip to a college campus. Why beat around the bush at this point (or Luann's landing strip lol)? Good times.

The Dorinda and Heather stuff came from left field. I was standing right there. We were walking in, Dorinda assumed we were ignoring her, and she just went off on Heather, which frankly scared Heather, who is a tough bitch. I don't think she had experienced that this summer in the Berkshires, so she was thrown off guard.

As for my poolside lunch tiff with Ramona, she was on my nerves. She acts like a Cheshire cat to get everyone to do what she wants to do, so I called her on it. She is a Scorpio. She stings, but she gets it. We always work it out.

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