Lynn-I think when you went out to dinner with Frank the two of you also should have been talking about your daughters. The first thing I heard from you was poor me I have to blow dry my own hair & I couldn't get a spray tan. OH PLEASE!!! How shallow!!! There is no way I would have turned the other way when your daughters were in the limo & drinking. Come on now! Your their Mother step up & tell them they will not be drinking..end of story. Ground them they need it & they need you.

who is Vanessa? Is she a professioanl therapist?

Lynnne you are a nice person but you need to set guidelines for your daugther to follow you never say no to anything concerning your teenager and she wants that because she has said it many times on the show til you do she will contuine to do want she wants.

Lynn; I have raised two sucessful grown daughters and the teenage years are not easy. However, you cannot go from letting them do pretty much what they want and then all of a sudden come down on them for behavior you let them get away with for years. It is confusing for them and stressful for you. Also you almost seem proud of having always lived above your means. It was as much up to you as Frank to take responsibility for your financial well being. I do agree with Frank you live in your own little world and do not deal well with the real life. It shows in your parenting, your financial situation, and your whole attitude. However, I realize I only see a snipet of your life and there maybe alot I do not know.

Lynn,
I felt like I was watching my life the other night when you were dealing with Alexa and she was going out after you told her to not to. We are having the same issues. I have been beating myself up wondering where my husband and I went wrong. This show made me realize it's not us, it's the culture.

I liked something Frank said, "We are parents dealing with teenagers, I'm sure we'll all get thru this. " Thanks for allowing us to see this part of your life. It really helped me.

Wishing you peace.

I don't agree or understand vicki nor gretchen in the show sometimes they are like so dramatic but oh well it's just them and their is no way out! How is alexa doing? I am so glad that raquel is changing a whole lot! Take care!

Hi Lynne
Everyone who has ever raised teenagers will agree it's not easy. But it does get better. I think it's time you and family took a vacation getaway. What better way to spend time together and make some good memories, take time to de stress!:) In my prayers.

Lynne, you are experiencing what most women with children go through who have teenage girls. Just never let your daughters see you upset or cry, that gives them the impression that they will be able to run over you, and talk to you any kind of way. Listen to what your daughters are trying to say, but don't let them use foul language when they are talking to you, don't be soft with them when you are disappointed in their behavior, be firm, put your foot down, take away all of her privilages and stick with and mean it. You and your husband are doing great with your kids, they are just acting out and trying to test your limits. Let them know your limits as well as theirs. Stay consistent with your discipline, don't back down when the tears come, it's just a way to gain your sympathy or to get a reaction out of you or your husband. Stay unified in your decision, and don't back down. I had to do all of this with my teenage daughter, my mom and dad taught me these tactics, and it worked. I tried to be soft and talk to her and be nice, and she just ran all over me. I spend many a sleepless night with that girl. But after the advice from my parents, family and friends, things changed. And definetly tell her she has to earn your trust and you may consider letting up on her when you see her behave differently, more responsible, and most importantly respect you and your husband. It will get better after that.

Hello Lynne, I COMPLETELY understand your frustration with your teenage daughter. I went through some of the same similiar issues with my daughter. She wouldn't call me when she was out, or answer my calls, we would have the same debate day in and day out, and it would drive me crazy. I tried grounding her, taking away the car. I tried talking, screaming, it was causing so much unhealthy issues between me and my daughter, that I had to step back and reevaluate why I was getting so upset with her, and why she was disobeying me, talking to me in an unappropiate manner. I also had to turn to my mom to get a different perspective on it. The first thing my mom told me was, teenagers don't like to listen to anything you have to say, because they are listening to their friends advice because its what they want to hear, not what we are saying, But PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN and take away all of her privilages, and put her to work, and don't take her speaking to you and any manner except respect. If she doesn't like it send her to stay somewhere with someone she totally wouldn't like and let her see how great she has it at home. But let her know you will not tolerate that language from her, don't be soft with her when she is using that kind of language with you or your husband. She will know you mean business. That's what it took for my daughter, and she turned around, and we have a better relationship now. So don't be discouraged it is hard, but it will get better. Never let her see you sweat.

Oh yeah, and Lynn? You're a damn good Mother! Don't ever think any different..........

Lynne, that Alexa is sure workin you and your husband.
Ever notice that when you confront her she starts the pouting ? and it works! you get all stressed , sad & angry . Either she uses that to put you on the offense or she is really up to something . Follow her. Tough if she doesn't like it . Who's the parent anyway?
What's she gonna do ? run away ? come on
Tell her that you're the mom and she is the child.
She should be the one that is stressed, are you the one acting like a 10 yr old ???

Lynne...
I am 20 years old. I know when I was 17 I wanted to go out all the time too. My parents were always very supportive and let me experience the world with ground rules. I had a curfew and I had to inform my parents where I was at all times. If I was going to be past curfew usually it was not a problem as long as I asked first, my parents knew where I was, and I let them know when I got home. To this day I tell my mother most everything and if she asked about the stuff she doesnt know I would tell her. I would just like to tell you that my two sisters and I turned out very well with a little bit of disipline and I hope you could use this in the future. I know I have not been a parent but I am fresh out of the teenage years. :-) Just remember your girls will always love you no matter what. If they are stuck in the house grounded it might seem like the end of the world to them and my kill you to watch but it will turn out helpful in the end. Good Luck.

Lynne, you are aMAZing. I mean that, seriously. When you first started the show, I just could NOT believe how Vicki and Tamara treated you. That was sad to watch. You are such a giving, kind-hearted and intelligent woman with a marriage that others can only envy. My husband and I have also been together almost 35 years.Yes, I know you like Tamara, but please watch out for her. Vicki also. They just do not have the heart that you do. I give readings Lynne, and have done so for over 20 years. If ever you feel the need for one, please, just ask. Free of course:) I don't say this just because you're a celebrity, or have money, or anything obnoxious like that. I am offering just because I know how REAL both you and your husband are. And HONEST. Which counts above all else with me or I would not offer. I only ask for your name. I hope you do not think I'm some kind of new age nut or something, as I'm just being sincere. Stay the way you are, and I am sooo happy with your jewelry line doing so well. I used to sell vintage jewelry, but am mostly a collector now. Anyhow, please take care, and your daughters LOVE you more then you could possibly understand........

Lynne, be grateful that Gretchen is such a good friend to be concerned about your kids and your family. I dont believe she was trying to tell you how to raise your girls or make you look bad. She was just making it known that she is there for you and your girls whenever you (or they) need her. You should feel blessed. I have two girls and I have a friend that would do the same and it makes me feel good knowing that I have someone as backup 'just in case'. Someone that looks out for the best interest of my family and my girls. Be grateful and blessed that you have such a good friend. They are sometimes hard to find!

To Lynn and her husband,

Kids need parents, structure, discipline. For a parent that claims she knows everything about her daughter you seem to be completely lost in your parenting skills. Alexa has enough friends,she needs parents. You felt so offended when Gretchen spoke with your daughter and are continously seeking the opinion of others to state "who is Gretchen, she is not a parent" but she did nothing wrong . On the contrary when she asked Alexa she immediately broke down and opened up, meanwhile she told you another story. She used the topic of Gretchen conversation with her to try to build communication with you . Just because Gretchen has made mistakes it does not mean that she was wrong or cannot give advice. A youthologist, are you serious? You and your husband do not need that, you seem to have a strong marriage which is great, use that, get together and set some ground rules, consequences, boundaries, it's not that difficult. Be a parent. The first thing that needs to stop is the way they swear in front of you both. Where is the respect, you two have let her go and now want to tighten the reins. Do it before she becomes resentful towards you both for not setting limits. The bible says " Spare the rod , spoil the child".

Lynne, I think you need to go back to your blog from last year and read it? You said Gretchen was a rare find and has a mothering intent.... The way you treated her when all she was trying to do was help your daughter is crazy! Your daughter has problems and you saying she doesnt is a joke. You trying to be your girls friend is not right you need to be a mom! Take it from someone who knows, I have raised two girls that are all grown up now, but you really need to wake up! Gretchen was doing the right thing Alexa is having problems, she even said so on the tv!!! I really liked you until you treated Gretchen like you did, you really need to see that all she was doing was trying to help...

Lynne, I really think you are such a sweet, thoughful and caring person. To me, you are the BEST person on the show. I like that you are not fake and you are truly who you are. You are a very beautiful person as well inside and out. You looked very pretty before the plastic surgery and after the plastic surgery you look younger that your children :o) hee hee! I could not believe how wonderful your surgery turned out. It was amazing!!!!! Like I said you were beautiful before and this just refreshed your look. Could you provide the information regarding the surgeon that you used???? To me after seeing you it would be worth the trip and time to have something like that done in sometime the near future (of course if you are able to provide the information). Also, I totally LOVE your jewelry. I have always wanted to do something like you are doing. It is such an artistic and creative thing to do and the fact you are doing such a good job at it and making money selling your creative ideas is THE BEST!!!! When I watch you and the girls, I can totally relate to you the most. I feel like we are alot alike. I am 37 and I love to work out like you do. . Actually, working out and eating right is a big deal to me. Anyway, regarding the show, again, You are THE BEST!!!!!!! You are always are so positive and upbeat. You never put anyone down and always take up for your friends. Its nice to see a freindly, true person with good values, someone who is real and really cares about people. Never Change! And if you can try to rub off on some people because some people really could use it. Stay COOL and Keep up the GOOD WORK. Yours Truly, Christa (I go by my initials C.C.)

Lynne,
I don't think what Gretchen did was wrong. Teens need someone to talk to and she just reached out to try and help.

Last night, Jan 8, I watch the episode where Gretchen speaks with your youngest daughter about her troubles and your reaction. As Jeana said in her blog, "it takes a village to raise a child" I saw Gretchen only trying to help and relate. When she arranged the shopping trip, she even told you that she was meeting your daughter to talk to her to try to get her to open up. So you knew this, yet you dissed Gretchen and focused only on yourself and your parenting skills. It is not about that, of course your a good mom, but good moms need help too. From past episodes, it appears your daughter needs someone to talk to, she is blatantly asking for needed attention and you are blowing it off. It is not about you, let it go and get your daughter help.

hey lynne i have two girls they r babies right but when the r teens i would want the same thing if they drink to call me instead of driving or keeping it from me. i just hope they dont drink and that would be great for me.have a good one

Kepp being yourself. Don't join the haters!

where were lynne and frank on vacation when she sat on his lap and talked about pole dancing?? can someone help me ????

Strong Beautiful Lynne,

So glad you are on the show the truth is your...a strong soul who is very creative and the only reason you are picked on is because you are a Truly Happy person without heavy problems and the only heavy weights on you is the problems of what others hold.
Your kids are finding their way and I know you and your husband will give them the confidence to do anything.
Kids do not come with instructions but partents will guide the path and provide a menu of possibilities.
My Best to you and yours.
Claudia D

Have seen all the shows this past season, and would just like to say,

Your Simply,

THE BEST!

Best Wishes to You and Your Family

My, sure wish I had what you have with your husband. even after all of this time, to find you still beautiful, is just the most precious thing. And you seem to be a good, hearted, person, who deserves only the best. Sure things are not always going to be easy, but you work it out and move on. It was really a terrible thing that the other housewives were ugly to you. But remember, that is the way they are in their hearts. So, I would pity them, not hate them. You have a good thing going. Be proud!!!

Lynne, it was great having you on this season. What a nice person you are! Almost too nice, actually. You allow people to walk all over you, especially your beautiful daughter. It was so painful to watch how you were treated by the queen bitches, Tamra and Vicki, this season. No one deserves that, especially from people claiming to be your friends. They should love and support you, not take every opportunity to stab you in the back when it is turned. You just keep being the fantastic gal you are and don't let them drag you into the drama. Also, don't let your kindness be weakness, whether with the other housewives or with Raquel. Crack the whip, girl! :)