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I was so happy to see the show stated out with my daughter's "red carpet" wrap party. Sidney is very much into theater and Beauty and the Beast was the musical she had just finished. I'm upset they didn't show a lot of the party and focused only the tension between Simon and me. Simon had every right to be upset, just not with me. I admit that the comment Ricky made was out of line, especially at a kids party.

There was so much more to the party. What you didn't see was award ceremony where the kids were given faux-Oscars and gave acceptance speeches. The kids walked the red carpet and sang some amazing songs from the play - there were so many talented kids.

St. Regis was a total disaster! I walked into Lynne's party NOT wanting to say a negative word to Gretchen. I sat there minding my own business and Vicki and Jeana kept stirring the pot. Gretchen and I even had a conversation, we decided we DID not want to have a fight on camera, and it was not the time nor the place to do it. We were there for Lynne and wanted it to be HER day. We both knew that we needed to clear the air and talk things out ... but NOT there. Then all hell broke loose and it wasn't my idea! It was a lot of 'he said she said' nonsense. I actually walked out of there and decided I was done filming and wanted off the show. This is not what I wanted this season, but I signed one of those things called a contract and there wasn't much I could do but try to change things around in the future.

Gretchen and I had a lot of outside influences that determined our lack of friendship last year. It was a lot more then a phone call in the middle of the night. I don't care to elaborate on everything that happened and if I have to take 100% of the blame, so be it. I really do try to move on this year and concentrate on the things that are important in life.

 

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114 Comments
11/19/2009 - 1:39pm
Bren 12

Tamra,
I think you are an amazing woman!! Down to earth like Vicky. Your husband reminds me of mine with the controlling behavior. I am a big fan of the show because of you and Vicky.

11/17/2009 - 10:58pm
Odie5804

Tamra, I loved it when you first came on the show, you showed yourself to be a strong and beautiful woman who knew her own mind and was comfortable in your own skin, something happened though and you became a different person when Gretchen was introduced. You are a great mother and I admire that about you. Quit worrying so much about Gretchen because that is beneath you, you are a good person at heart I feel but this war with Gretchen is going nowhere fast. Let's face we have all done things in our past that we are not proud of but the good thing about that is that it is in the past and we all grow from our mistakes, look at yourself as an example you had a child at a very young age and you are not that same person are you? Would you like someone looking at your past and holding that against you I think not. Keep being the good mother that you are and I am hoping that all your troubles will work themselves out and remember you are not alone.

ogb

11/17/2009 - 9:16pm
NiceLady

Well I couldn't get why whatever someone told you about Gretchen was of interest to you. You should have stopped it or had a block put on, to discontinue further calls to your home. If you were not interested that person would not have continued to call.

11/17/2009 - 11:02am
ThreeD

Tamara, I agree with Louisiana Girl that you & Gretchen may be a great deal alike & that is why you have trouble getting along. Obviously, both of you tell it like it is and are not intimidated by anyone. I think a lot of your trouble is Vicki. Maybe you should work harder on your relationship with Gretchen & Lynn & say goodbye to Vicki!

11/13/2009 - 11:01am
louisiana girl

Tamera, I think the reason you and Gretchen don't get along is because your so much alike. Both of you tell it like it is and don't take anything off anyone. The show gets better ratings while fighting with each other but HEY just go with the flow and enjoy the ride. At least you are getting a pay check from it and that helps in this economy. Even if Gretchen was seeing a man while engaged to another, it's not your buisness. If it's true about your upbringing not being so wonderful, that's none of anyones buisness either. Listen to a fan that likes the show and never misses an episode,RIDE THE RIDE TILL IT STOPS, WHEN IT DOES STOP, GET OFF AND BE ABLE TO SAY "LIFE WELL SPENT."

11/13/2009 - 2:50am
hawaii girl

tamra - dont hate celebrate. gretchen is way pretty - you are too in your own special way. lol

11/12/2009 - 10:58pm
camps

I just think the whole idea of who is right or wrong (with Simon) is not what matters, not at all. When you love someone the point is to understand them and vice versa--that is more rare and important than any momentary disagreement.

11/12/2009 - 10:10pm
texastech_angel

Tamra,
U r my favorite!! dont ever let anyone bring u down u and ur kids are amazing!!! email me i would honestly love to met u

texastech_angel

11/12/2009 - 10:08pm
team Gretchen

Tamara, You say you Don't care what Gretchen does with her life but every time the show comes on all you do is talk about her. If u dont care than get over it and stop being so Obsessed over Gretchen....Lol

11/12/2009 - 7:10pm
cherbear03

Tamara,

Look girl I love you...but can you pleae be a little more respectful of yourself as well as others and not judge Gretchen. You and Vicky are so judgemental. I think you are beautiful and fun but I dont like the other side of you. If you believed in God you would say a prayer for Gretchen and not belittle her.

11/12/2009 - 5:58pm
Often

I wish someone would tell Tamara that the "t" in "often" is silent. She says it in almost every scene, mispronouncing it every time.

11/12/2009 - 2:52pm
m & m

I see how it bothers Tamra to be put in the middle of Gretchen's situation and that she did not agree with the idea of the relationship between Jeff and Gretchen. I think that she has every right to have her opinion on it. However, I feel that it is not okay for her to openly diss Gretchen. It is one think when you think and have opinion, but when you act and speak upon it, you have to own up to everything you do and you act. Go ahead and hate Gretchen but why be the lower person to be mean and give her heard time. If you can care less, then it seems like it's a better choice not to care and leave it alone. I don't see the need to attack Gretchen.

11/12/2009 - 1:55pm
twoile

What has happened between you & Simon since the presentation of the 18 kt tennis bracelet for you last b'day?

11/12/2009 - 11:15am
tlajj

Tamra,
Sorry to hear about your home and marriage problems. Those are really tough things to deal with let alone deal with them being aired on tv. Remember, your family comes first above all things.....a tv show isnt worth it if you lose your family in the long run. Also, it must be said that sometimes you are REALLY harsh to the other people around you. Think about that when you look at your own life/problems. Everyone has problems and anger and rudeness doesnt help anyone. Take care.

11/12/2009 - 9:11am
Loo Pi

I find you entertaining on the show... just maybe be more positive in your dealings with some people? Trust me, the more positive energy you give to people the more you get back!! Looking forward to tonights epi!!

11/12/2009 - 1:53am
blndecook1

OC OUT i agree with evry word u stated. NICE

11/12/2009 - 1:06am
milehighchacha

Tamara,

Don't waste your energy hating. You have allot more on your plate. We don't always have to get along, but when you stoop as low to not give someone the minimum amount of respect that all people should have with each other ....... you become just as bad as they are.

I hope you can focus your energy on other things. Hate and anger are such heavy things to carry. LET IT GO.

11/11/2009 - 8:33pm
Frustrated Viewer

I read that you "don't want to elaborate on everything that's happened" where you & Gretchen are concerned, but how in the world does everyone expect the viewers to form an educated opinion on a 'housewife' when we are left out of so much of the loop. Just soon not see any of it if we are not going to get or hear 'things that count'.

11/11/2009 - 11:53am
Lori W. from Ohio

I am glad that we will see you move on this season. I really hope you and Simon work things out...you are such a cute couple. I would have REALLY liked to have seen the rest of the party you threw...sounds like fun and a great mom moment for you!

11/11/2009 - 9:47am
pk

i think its sad how the show has affected everyone. all the ladies are more like enemies and HS teens then women. the economy has affected some more then others and while friends should stick around through good and bad it seems like your "tv friendship" is not so good. good luck

11/11/2009 - 4:21am
MichP

Tamra - I really liked you before you started hanging out with Vicki! I think you need to spend more time with Lynne and less time with Vicki!!!!

11/10/2009 - 10:11pm
TX Housewive

Tamra,

You are my favorite housewive and I first have to start out with saying that I am so sorry with the trouble you are having with you home and marriage... I recently lost my home too, and was having marriage trouble too, and I know it can be stressful and a heavy weight in your shoulders. Before you lose your home do everything you can to save it, and when it comes to marriage the best thing to do is have communication, good listener, and take care of your husband by giving him everything he needs and giving him much love. If you go out alot I would say to minimize it and spend some more time with him, I know your young so am I but we have to do whats best for our families. Man have to carry all the stress when it comes to money troubles because they feel they are responsible, I hope everything works out.

11/10/2009 - 8:48pm
Kris10

Tamra... I think you are right on with everything you said! You rock!

11/10/2009 - 3:31pm
priss

Can anyone tell me where these ladies get their gorgeous embellished tops? Any ideas?

11/10/2009 - 1:19pm
Felisha

I watched the show and I guess that I am confused as to why it is anyone but Gretchen's business what she does.

11/10/2009 - 12:14pm
Unhappy Viewer

I have to say that this first episode was the biggest dissapointment and the largest part of that was due to the Tamara/Gretchen. If Tamara you really wanted to stay out of drama that night you could have you are an adult woman and it felt like I was watching the terrible reunion show all over agian. Looks like me Thursday nights will be directed to a different network!

11/10/2009 - 10:33am
gcprophet

Karma, Karma, Karma

11/10/2009 - 10:15am
Confused...

Tamara, when you first showed up on the housewives you quickly became my favorite one... I think you are an amazing woman and I believe you've had a lot of pain in your life.... And you're still standing and that's admirable. The thing with Gretchen is dragging you down to a level where I suspect you have fought very hard to get out of. I'm sure as viewers we only see 10% of what is actually going on but it seems you are very hostile towards her... Have you ever lost someone you love dearly? I have and I don't believe there is a measuring stick on how you should or should not behave. I can not imagine losing someone close to me and experiencing that pain and then also dealing with constant ridicule. The saddest part of this whole thing is I believe Gretchen would benefit from hearing about some of your painful experiences and how you managed to cope with them... instead of being constantly ridiculed.. You say over and over how you want to focus on other things this season but on last night's episode you spent your lunch hour discussing everything about HER life.. Is it easier to pick things apart in her life then to concentrate and fix things in your own??

11/10/2009 - 9:16am
Alecia

I think the Tamra-Gretchen thing is on cooldown mode because from the previews I saw, Vicki and the new girl are about to be on and poppin!

11/10/2009 - 9:15am
Amasha

Tamra, I have never blogged before. I have been a fan of the housewives from Orange County to New York and always kept my opinion to myself. What I have discovered is all of the shows focus more on the negative than the positive for ratings of course. I understand your point of view the only suggestion I have is Gretchen is the youngest and she needs positive influences. Maybe her values are different. Everyone does something wild and crazy in their 20's more extreme than others. Just do you who cares what people think.

11/10/2009 - 9:09am
B

Is it true your losing your house...... I hope not.... But seen it advertise. I hope you can get things under control... Sorry to hear that!

11/10/2009 - 12:53am
artblue123

lol!!!!

11/10/2009 - 12:46am
Angi

I love all these shows, they are just one of those shows that are like a car wreck, you just have to look. But I'm sorry when you have kids and a husband and a LIFE you really don't care about other people and their lives unless you are jealous and not happy with your own life. And Tamara's comment on how she doesn't want to be associated w/ Gretchen...umm HELLO you're on a SHOW with her! LMAO shows just cause you have money doesn't mean you have class or intelligence! But hell I'll still watch the car wreck, cause hell its just TFF to not watch.

11/10/2009 - 12:15am
aardvark57

Tamara I hope you mean what you say about burying the hatchet with Gretchen. As the saying goes "you can't judge a person until you have walked a mile in their shoes." After losing my husband to cancer last year I can relate to what Gretchen went through and while some may frown upon her actions at times I do not feel that she played the victim like you accused her of. I also hope that the show is editing scenes and only showing the negative aspects of your personality, because I really feel sorry for you if not. Life is too short to be judgmental and catty like you are portrayed. Last season everything seemed so perfect between you and Simon but based on previews things don't seem so rosy this season. Remember what goes round comes around.

11/09/2009 - 10:48pm
T

Tamara dont let Gretchen consume you. From the way it looks(only judging from the 1st episode) you are about to experience your own problems.... your hubby wass looking awfully P.O.'d... i pray things work out for you two. I know this is "for tv" however you still have a family that comes 1st.

11/09/2009 - 10:42pm
Kerri L.

Keep the positive attitude coming! :)

11/09/2009 - 6:10pm
FL Housewife

Forget the drama--let's talk about how GORGEOUS you look! You should doa makeup tip book. FABULOUS!

11/09/2009 - 4:33pm
Talaholla

I think that there is some jealously toward Gretchen. I don't agree with her going out when her finance was dying it was out of line. As far as her crazy photos. Everyone makes mistakes. She's single and beautiful. I'm happy shes with slade. As far as her and Tamara. I like Tamara and yes she does look pretty and refreshed this season. She and Gretchen could be friends if people wouldn't instigate. Vicki isn't one to talk she's married and was kissing and flirting with guys in the past. At least Gretchen is single.

11/09/2009 - 4:06pm
HILAREIH

Love you Tamra! So glad you don't let Gretchen get away with things. So glad you're back!!!

11/09/2009 - 3:31pm
Summer

Kinda a crappy way to start the season off, but I still love the show. I like Tamra and Gretchen and I do see tamras side of the story. Gretchens only human, shes alot of fun but sometimes i think she acts like the girl that finally got pretty.. just how i see it. But shes very entertaining and fun to watch. I love how Tamra speaks her mind, and stands up for what she believes in. I dont think shes jealous.. I like everyone on the show except.. Vicki.. i think she needs to get a clue! :)

11/09/2009 - 2:06pm
OC Out

I have decided to not watch this show anymore. I can't believe that most of you women are mothers. You would think you are all in high school. What used to be a fun, lighthearted show, has turned into a petty, embarrassing reality of what money and no class can do to people.
Tamra, if you don't care about Gretchen you should act like you don't care. You are constantly talking negatively about Gretchen which is why YOU come off as the bully.
You and Vicki are two of the most negative people and have turned me off of this show for good. You deserve each other.

11/09/2009 - 1:30pm
Tammie Vegas

Tamara you seem to be a very well put together lady. Don't think about Grethchen she looks like a corner girl and always want to be the focus in the room.I was very disappointed on the way Simmon seem to act they showed him three time being mean to you.I hope the two of you are doing better and I wish you and your family the very best.Good luck on the show and don't fall in with the reality curse.

11/09/2009 - 1:04pm
NYC12345

Tamra, you must realize that all your snickering and judgmentalism is going to come back to bite you one day and that day will be very soon. So sad that you have allowed yourself to devolve into the classic school yard bully. Try to be a charitable generous person. At some level you must understand that whatever their relationship, Gretchen had feelings for her fiancee and that his death was probably very difficult. Be a better person and withhold your judgments. One day you may be in a similar position.

11/09/2009 - 11:32am
NATIVETEXAN

Tamra, You are a beautiful woman with beautiful children. Don't diminish that by judging the lives of others. Everyone is different. Being forgiving, loving, and helpful to others will do more than any plastic surgeon. It will put you back on the top as the "Hottest" housewife... with the latest mean, negative actions it has put you way down on most lists.

11/09/2009 - 7:24am
Pam Phillips

Tamara...Just my opinion..Gretchen has obviously made some bad choices and decisions in her life. Sorry..you were pulled into the drama w/ the phone calls.
I think Gretchen, is a good, caring person, who has made mistakes.
jmo..
Good people do make mistakes. I hope you and she can get past this. Out of all of the other Housewives, I feel you and Gretche, could probably have a 'blast' hanging out together.
Good luck. Pam

11/09/2009 - 1:55am
kwood

Tamara really looks especially pretty this season. Yes a couple of the ladies were stirring the pot, I felt like they were anxious for something to erupt.

11/08/2009 - 8:47pm
Gwendolyn

Tamra you rock! your my favorite housewive, this isnt your fault that you and Gretchen had this fight on television because Lynne and Vicki kept bringing the situaton up, and if I were you I probably would have said something to Gretchen too about the fight you guys had. But anyways your awesome and I cant wait to see more of the Housewives of Orange County episodes!

11/08/2009 - 7:35pm
jenn121212121

I have to admit that I was siding with Gretchen last year. As I had been thru the experience of watching someone I love die from cancer. The reunion last year was a real eye opener as I believe you were the only one being totally honest. After that show and with all that came out on the internet, it was very obvious that you WERE the one that was telling the truth. And then comes Slade. If that doesn't tell it all about Gretchen. How does she want anything she said to be believe when she is with a man that doesn't pay child support, visit or call his son with cancer. Sham on you gretchen
Love you Tamra and how real you are even with all the major editing! Hope things are better with Simon

11/08/2009 - 7:09pm
OrangeCty FL Fan

Tamra - I LOVE your kitchen. Anytime they film in your kitchen, I keep wanting to see more! You have excellent taste...is there anyway you can add some pix of your fantastic kitchen to the Bravo/OC website?

As for the whole Gretchen thing - I am a widow (my husband died at 41 in a car accident), and please be happy that you have a wonderful husband and beautiful healthy children. I lost my husband when my youngest was only 2. Gretchen will find her way back after what she has been through. It's not easy, trust me.

11/08/2009 - 6:55pm
jen l.

Tamara,

I have been a big fan of the show since the beginning. Last year I didn't like the way the show was heading b/c it was so mean spirited. The St. Regis was more of the same, but I'm glad to read your blog today. I'm glad you are determined to be more positive this year...

No one understands why you are so mad at Gretchen, Even if what you say is true its still none of our business at the end of the day. So when you talk about her with such hatred it just makes you look bad. Just some food for thought :)

Take Care,

Jennifer

11/08/2009 - 6:34pm
Midwest Lady

Tamra, I have to say that you and Vicki make the show - and are why I watch. I don't care for Gretchen - too many phony things about her that are very obvious. Work on making you the best person you can be, keep your marriage strong (even if it isn't perfect), love your kids and stick it to all the rest of them!

11/08/2009 - 5:36pm
Bravo Completes Me

I met Tamra last night at a bowling alley in OC. Both she and Simon were incredibly nice to my friends and I when they could have easily disregarded us (they were out with their kids). Tamra, you are REAL and tell it how it is. The show wouldn't be the same without you and YOU ARE EVEN HOTTER IN PERSON. You really are the hottest HW in OC!

11/08/2009 - 5:30pm
Tree Tree

Let's face it drama makes the show interesting. You really bring the drama! I'm not watching to see what great house and car you have, but what smack down fight or argument will take place. Keep the drama coming!!!!

Tree Tree

11/08/2009 - 4:11pm
Dori

Tamra,
Don't forget that we viewers realize that there is a lot of stuff that happens "off camera" as well. Yes, Gretchen, Vicki and Jeana stirred the pot and pushed your buttons; but you let them! If you and Gretchen had come to an agreement off camera, then you should have said that and reminded her of that during the "scene". There is always an opportunity for someone to be a bigger person in a situation like that. In this instance, it could have been you, Tamra. You should have simply said, "I told you I wasn't fighting on camera with you." Then you should have made your exit gracefully from the situation. Just my opinion; but I think that would have been better. Gretchen has no children and very few responsibilities, that by default makes her much more immature. You should always conduct yourself in a way that your children will respect. (ok, so when at a bar with alcohol...not so much!) You should always ask yourself, "if my children could see me, now, what would they think?" If it's not a good thought...get out of the situation!
I think you are the underdog of the housewives; but you are hands down my favorite! I hope things work out better for you as the season goes on. I feel like I should send you a card! Hugs!

11/08/2009 - 3:38pm
sueinantelope

Tamara, you are so out there, you are the drama in the show, that's what makes the show so good, however, Gretchen should not be the focus for you, there's other fish to fry girl and let me tell you, drama causes more drama, leave the Gretchen thing alone, tend to your own.

11/08/2009 - 1:19pm
Racefanred

Tamra,
I agree with most of the blogs, quit worrying about Gretchen. I think there is more to your anger with Gretchen than what you will admit. Gretchen is not a bad person, she is just different than you AND THATS OK!!! Jeana to me keeps it real because she doesn't play the little drama click! Vicki and you could both learn somethings from her. Life is about counting your blessings and being real to who you are, Gretchen is living her life the way she wants to and she is not judging you on how you are choosing to live yours. You have a healthy family, so what are you complaining about??????? Jealousy is making you ugly and that is really sad because you are a beautiful woman.

11/08/2009 - 1:14pm
nikkic

Tamara, Thanks for always keeping it real! It's disappointing to me that Bravo even has Gretchen on the show-her actions last season, with her poor dying fiance that she never seemed to spend time with (except if she got stuff), was just in bad taste! I can't believe so many people sympathize with her, I guess they have never really been there for someone in their last time on earth. Thanks for showing the reality of your financial situation that many in this country are in-good luck to you!

11/08/2009 - 12:55pm
The Viewer Who Is Bored

Seriously, you and gretchen need to get over yourselves. It is getting so boring to see you to fight constatnly. I think you two are great people. Except it is to much to see all you fight you are grown women in your thirties and forties and all of you are acting like four year olds I think either quit the show, or move on.

11/08/2009 - 12:47pm
Jersey Girl 78

Tamra,

Why are you Gretchen's judge and jury? Her life is really none of your business.

11/08/2009 - 12:46pm
Lisha

Tamra, I really hope you and Gretchen can work things out.I think all you ladies are great in your own way.Remember there is nobody perfect so try to leave room for mistakes that people around you may make it may be you one day making a huge mistake. Stay beautiful and blessed!!!!!!

11/08/2009 - 12:32pm
Milly

Dear Tamra: I am a loyal fan of
the O.C.Housewives. But I was
very disappointed with the first show
of this season. Lynn invited all the
girls to her viewing. The least you
could have done was to be polite and
show some class toward Gretchen. I
understand that you have a problem
with what she has done in the past.
However, it makes you look like a
jealous person> Is that how you
want to be perceived? You have alot
going for you, your looks and husband
to say the least and a beautiful
family. Please move on in your life
and let this anger stop.

11/08/2009 - 11:42am
happy

TEAM TAMARA. For me Gretchen should not be one of the real housewives of Orange County.

11/08/2009 - 8:43am
Citydivah

Tamara, I love you on the show. You keep it real. I don't know why all these haters on here are blaming you for speaking the truth. Gretchen is always trying to make it look like you are picking on her, when all you are doing is calling it how you see it. It was evident she was a phony last season when Jeff was in the hospital dying and she was out of town partying with her friends. As far as people saying you are jealous, please..you look way better than Gretchen anyway :) Keep keeping it real :)

11/08/2009 - 8:17am
blt

I agree with Tamara- Grethchen is not that innocent person she pretends to be. Just look at some of the pictures that were taken of her, when she is engaged to Jeff, not a woman in love. Tamara is not jealous of her, I think just frustated that Grethchen is such a fake and a liar.

11/08/2009 - 2:58am
JenWhite

Tamra, you are so much fun to follow! I thought the red carpet idea for the kids was so cute, I just love to watch you. I have to tell you, I was disappointed when I saw the argument between you and Gretchen. I feel like it was unnecessary and like Jeana said, the rude comments aren’t productive. Don’t get me wrong, you guys definitely need to work this out, especially because you both have to work together for the show. Just realize you are both adults, you should be able to work it out rationally. Like Simon said before you left, “Keep it classy.” We all know Gretchen isn’t the most trusting person, just don’t stoop to her level. It is okay to open up to her and be her friend even though she is a tramp. I think the fighting is reflecting badly on you, worse than if you put effort into a friendship with her. I know you have a forgiving heart, it is just difficult when so many people are watching. And as much as I love Vicki, I think she is a bad influence on you. I will keep watching and rooting for you. Don’t worry your fans are forgiving too!

11/08/2009 - 12:42am
joco2006

whatever happened to being thankful for the blessings and things God has given you. Tamara should have walked into Lynne's party with the mindset of "Wow, I am attending a dinner at this beautiful hotel and I can actually pay for this. Thank you God" what Im trying to say is that people can still be civil with other people even if they dont like them, just like at a career job. This isnt a work environment but Damn going off on a women at a dinner party was not the way to resolve anything if she was really over it she should just shut her mouth and move on. She could have resolved the matter between themselves, Not at Lynne's party, that was tacky and rude.

11/08/2009 - 12:05am
Julie in Michigan

Please someone help me find out what brand of sunglasses Tamra is wearing on the first episode. I want a pair so bad!!

11/07/2009 - 11:38pm
MHousewive

Tamra does look amazing! She looks freshened up and has trimmed down to a skinny, skinny Tamra from last season. I agree with your husband that comment of "teabag" was inappropriate for the kid situation, not they would know or understand the term? But in a real red carpet setting, this kind of phrase is said, huh, so it slipped out. Tamra does have the "mean girl" streak in her and every comment verbalized through her lips is not filtered, but makes for interesting TV. It would be challenging to have Tamra as a true friend. These OC housewives clearly are only acquaintances and around Tamra they must be cautious, she seems to always have a motive or plan to create herself as the angel.

11/07/2009 - 9:21pm
edoc

Love you Tamra, you have got it nailed with Gretchen! You, Vicki, and Lynn are the real people on the show - go girl!

11/07/2009 - 8:09pm
Viewer Lynn

Tamra,

You are the spice of the show! Without you, it would not be what it is....it would be a lot of pretentious boooooring housewives. stay on the show- we love you!

11/07/2009 - 7:57pm
suzanna

WHERE IS LAURIE, THE CLASSIEST HOUSEWIFE EVER! PLEASE COME BACK:)

11/07/2009 - 5:30pm
Dani :)

I have to say, I love Gretchen sooooo much. I believe whatever she does is her own business. And if your saying she got you involved because that guy called you, you can take yourself out of the situation (NOW YOUR NOT INVOLVED). I dont think women know how much words can hurt each other. We should all step back and look at the big picture and stay out of everyone lives.

11/07/2009 - 4:37pm
Goldilocks

Tamra,
I've got one word for you....karma! And it looks to be coming your way!

11/07/2009 - 3:22pm
Brookie5858

Tamra I would be very sad if you were to stop filming! You definitely make the the show what is it! It just wouldn't be the same without you!

11/07/2009 - 2:58pm
HildyMarie

It isn't what you say - because most of us are baffled about Gretchen's very questionable behavior - it is how you say it. I would be very upset if you were invited to my party and then got into a fight. Edit, Tamra! Be the class act....

11/07/2009 - 1:20pm
labeille

All I can say is....watching the Real Housewives of ANY city just makes me feel good about myself....

11/07/2009 - 12:45pm
Sarah Childs

Tamra, you have always been my favorite...I wrote you last season and you did not listen girlfriend!! Stop trying to call Gretchen out on everything she does...let her show her true colors. It only makes you look like your completely jealous of her and the bad guy. I know it is hard. You wear your heart on your sleeve..You want people to know the truth, but please try to stay quiet. Let it play out on it's own - we all know the truth girl...we know! When she does something, you can WHISPER "Seee, told ya so people".

11/07/2009 - 10:54am
Moriah

TEAM TAMRA! Hope you and Simon can get past your rough patch. I wish it was just the originals still - ever since these new girls have come on the scene its been too dramatic. I miss just watching you girls live your lives without the drama and fighting.

11/07/2009 - 9:54am
Katey

It is very very difficult to change a lifetime of behaviors in one fell swoop. I am sure Simon has noted that and yet there he is trying hard to ask you to change. For that very reason I see many more difficulties ahead.

From what the show has depicted of you over the seasons Tamra I had a pretty good idea you would not at all be able to sit thru any contrived 'party' in the presence of those you do not agree with and remain silent. It is neither good or bad in my little book ~ it just plain is who you are and ONLY you can make the decision to truly work on changes about you ~ no one ~ not even Simon can do that for you.

As we already know the filming is over for this season so we will watch what has already happened.... and hopefully you alone have now made some choices to grab yerself by the hair and do what you need to to bring about not only a more Joyful Life for you but especially a more non caustic Life for the precious children.

Thanks for sharing here and best wishes in the future.

11/07/2009 - 8:34am
Cindy Beckey

I agree I think Tamara and Vicki are jealous of Gretchen, They need to leave the girl alone,like Jeanna said she's single and she can live her life any way she wants to, I think her and Slade make a cute couple, I say go for it Gretchen. You're a very pretty girl. Live life..

11/07/2009 - 6:17am
viewer1005

Team Tamra all the way!!

11/06/2009 - 10:30pm
GrannyJan

To "come on people": Nope, no one paid me to speak my mind. I only wish.

11/06/2009 - 9:43pm
Viewer11

I think you and Gretchen need to talk things out alone. I wish you luck working on your marriage with Simon. He seems very moody this season! Looking forward to see Alexis on the show! Best Wishes Hank

11/06/2009 - 8:52pm
Almitrus

Tamra, I don't feel like Vicki and Jeana were trying to stir the pot.I think their intentions were for you and gretchen to at least acknowledge each other in a room in a repectful manner.You don't have to like each other but at least respect each other circle of friends that ya'll share on the show.Last season your relationship with your husband was so loving and this season it's complete opposite and I'm lost as a viewer to what led to this point of your relationship on the rocks.

11/06/2009 - 8:39pm
VEGAS Mom

Tamra you are real, Any one with common sense can see it, I adore you on the show and think you are a fantastic Mother, for some reason bravo wants to glorify Gretchen as this innocent angel. I see it it is so OBVIOUS.

11/06/2009 - 7:43pm
Please

My question is why?? Do you care who Gretchen dates, photos she took, what she does or doesn't do? Take care of your own life. Maybe you would look happier.

11/06/2009 - 7:40pm
Beth S.

I am on "Team Tamara" when it comes to Gretchen. This has nothing to do with jealously whatsoever. I have a real problem with women who take advantage of older men (who are fearing death no less) and pretend that they love them only to reap the insurance benefits at their death. Gretchen received #2,500,000.00 in insurance benefits after Jeff's death. But then we are saturated with Porn Las Vegas photos with various partners on "The Dirty" when Jeff is in ICU on his death bed. Really, Tamara in on the mark calling Gretchen out on her "soft porn" escapades that have hit the internet. Slade is only latching on for the fame and money. He is a deadbeat dad who is $80,000 behind in child support. GO! TAMARA!!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK IN EXPOSING GRETCHEN

11/06/2009 - 7:40pm
Angmarie

I believe this season started out ruff, however, I like the fact that they are shown dealing with the same issues the rest of us are mainly the economy. I think Gretchen is obnoxious and she proved it on the after show, she is only interested in the money of men and I don't care how many homes you USED to sell you aren't livin on that anymore!. Why is she on this season anyway she isn't a "housewife". I think Vicki catches a lot of crap because she is a strong woman who works hard and I think that is commendable but if she back door'd Jenna then that is a crappy thing to do if you cant help friends what kind of friend are you? I know Jenna is going through a lot but she seemed odd in last nights episode.

11/06/2009 - 7:37pm
Team Tamra

GO TAMRA!! Gretchen may be pretty, but you are, too, and I'm glad you see right through her! She is the epitome of a gold digger. Those pics are so trashy..thanks for calling her out on it!

11/06/2009 - 6:55pm
SanDiegan

Tamara! you crack me up :D you're so full of it. great entertainment though. i am so glad to see this show back on the air

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