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Tamra Barney

Friends or Enemies?

Are Tamra Barney and Gretchen Rossi enemies or besties? Tamra tries to decide.

January 20, 2009

Ok, are you as confused as I am? Are Gretchen and I friends or enemies? They are trying so hard to make it look like we hate each other but every other episode we are together laughing having fun. Hmmmm, it really makes you think. If it wasn't for those interviews it really would look like we liked each other? I invited Gretchen to my pool party because she has expressed to me she wants kids and the whole life style that goes with it, plus she is a lot of fun. Her dogs are the closest things to kids that she has so I said "Sure, bring them along." Once a month during the summer my friends and I try to get the kids together and have a party. It is always exciting for the kids and time for the adults to catch up. We all had a great day hanging out by the pool, eaing barbecued hot dogs and a bunch of junk food. You might of noticed Ricki? He is Ladera's gay househusband, he is a stay at home dad and has been with his partner 18 years and they have 2 kids together. (Well, not together — they had a surrogate.) They are the first same sex couple to have both fathers names on their kids birth certificates. He is an amazing dad and a great friend in our community.

Gretchen had mentioned that it is very hard for Jeana to keep a secret and Jeana will admit it herself. We often joke that if you want something printed in the OC Register then just tell Jeana. I tell her all the time that she should just blame it on "Mad Cow disease." For those of you that DON'T watch Boston Legal, Mad Cow is a term that William Shatner's character uses for his forgetful memory. It is impossible to get mad a Jeana because she has such a caring personality and really only means well. Things just kind of slip out of her mouth and she doesn't mean any harm. We all love mama Jeans and everyone in the world needs someone like her on their side.

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13 Comments

whats the name of the tequila that simon tamra hustband promoted o the show? and where can i get it? by the way love the real housewife of oc

Tamra,

I am not the type to post thing but I felt this is needed. I have wathced you all season and you really get under my skin. What happen to you? I hope you are better next season or they need to keep you off the air if your not. You really treated Gretchen very poorly. Yes we know she liked attention; that is how alot of people cope or deal with a stressful times like she was bearing. She still tried to be nice to you and you found it amusing to criticize her and be mean.

I do believe you and Vicki tried to make a fool out of her at your party. You used the excuse you were drunk, but once again your were very manipulative. I personally think your jealous of Gretchen. You claim to be her friend, FRIENDS don't talk about friends behind there back. You didn't have the balls to tell her to her face you were talking about her at the Derby when she asked you about it. If you can do it 3ft away from here then why not have the BALLS to tell her to her face.

I have watched you all season sit back and criticize everyone behind there back at least 2x and act all goody goody when they walk up. You are so fake. I USE to think you were a beautiful person inside and out. The sad part is you are a mother sitting examples for all your beautiful children. On a good note you do have beautiful children. Even my husband thinks your ugly now ...THAT'S SAYING ALOT!! POOR SIMON!

if these were the real housewives in orange county, orange county would be in trouble. these women have no goal or methods of direction to give their children! they have money but no intelligence. decent parents would be focusing on helping their children become productive citizens instead of how much booze they can consume or how many rolexes they can own. they are a bunch of stupid caddy twits.

Tamra, I think your great. At least someone came out and told the truth about Gretchen! She is just in it for the money and she is a liar. She was like a deer in headlights when you called her out. It was great. If you get sick of the other housewives, I would come and have a drink with you anytime. The REAL housewives of Atlanta are nothing like the nut cases on that show! Rock on, be yourself!

Thank you Andrea for your insightful comment regarding Tamara's courage to be truthful regarding Gretchen. Now that we know the truth about Gretchen, we can understand Tamara's behavior towards her. I feel Tamara could not share this information during the filming of the show and it caused her internal discomfort and it just came out in ways that now I believe she regrets. Tamara, I like you and I knew there was more to the story, and I thank you for being brave enough to share it. I personally will not watch another season if the producers allow Gretchen to be a part of it. It saddens me that such a beautiful women such as Gretchen on the outside is so horribly unattractive inside. Tamara, be you, be real , and I will continue to enjoy the show.

Tamra, I think that the comments above are shameless, I agree with you, from what was shown on T.V. Gretchen is a gold digger, I think that you telling the viewers about the Jay guy calling was just fine, I mean if she put you in the middle of her life and for that fact all the viewers watching in the middle we need to know the behind the scenes drama, as well. Some people can't handle the truth, but I'm thankful that there are still people that have the guts to be honest, I feel that you can take the heat as well, by that I mean you take responsibility for your actions others should too. When you open your personal life up to the public you have to know that the truth will come out at some point. I never liked how Gretchen betrayed herself and I'm even more convinced now that my opinion of her was correct.

Wow Simon has to be looking at you with such low regards and thinking what have I married you are a terrible example to your kids

Tamara,
I love the housewives show, but I certainly hope they edit you out next season. It is hard to believe how UGLY you act towards everyone! You and Vicki need to continue your friendship off the air.....It can't even be considered entertainment at this point. Perhaps you should take some time away from the cameras and spend that time with your family. Ryan is old enough to be on his own now, but your two daughters deserve a better example than you have shown. For their sakes, please do some soul-searching.

I agree with everyone on here as well. I know its "Reality TV" but who knows who is putting on a front to make good tv. All I have to say is WOW some people should return to high school where they belong I guess. I felt like I should of been watching all of the OC housewives daughter's this past season. The sad thing is, is that they actually act more mature than the older women. Gretchen is a Beautiful young woman and besides Lori (MY FAV) she is the HOTTEST housewife. Jeana is Gorgeous as well love her too. Tamra to me is by far the ugliest and mainly because of her attitude to others. Ugly personalities can make a pretty person UGLY and it definantly shows true with Vicky and Tamra. Hope your ladies are truly ashamed deep down after watching the show. God is the only judge so why dont know you stop judging other people and look at your own selves.

Tamra -
When first watching the show, I thought you were stable and very pretty. I have definitely changed my mind. The ugliness inside is no longer hidden. Your hideous horns, forked tongue, and long, scaly tail are in full view. Yuk!

Tamara!
You should stop STALKING Gretchen's life and get one of your own. Your soooooo jealous of Gretchen that it's gross! Your soooo mad, and jealous of her that you can't handle your OWN life!
Grow the hell up and stop obsessing over her life. You can NOT be angry at her because she clearly looks better than you! She clearly has a loving mother AND father - your jealous of! She's not a no good mother -like YOU and she obviously is not a stalker - like you! Tamara your FAKE in everyway possible! It's time for you to be a real mom, lady,and so called wife and grow the hell up!

By the way, stop displaying porno on tv and stop being Vicki's puppet!

GOSH TAMRA, SO FAR I DO NOT SEE VERY MANY PEOPLE THAT HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY ABOUT YOU.......AND FRANKLY I AGREE WITH THEM. HOW COULD ANYONE BE SO EVIL.

I understand that this a TV Show but, I believe that Tamra and Vicki's true colors came out in this season. I believe that money doesn't buy class... a real women wouldn't take the punches that Tamra took out on Gretchen. If she like older successful man is that such a bad taste in me, NO!. I think after Tamra see's herself on camera you can tell it's a front and very fake. I hope she becomes more humbled and down to earth like I think she is deep down. I blame Vicki bad negative name call booty.

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