Wow, I can't believe the season is over. On the other hand, it seemed like it was never going to end. This was a really hard season for me and for some of the others. I have learned so much and honestly feel really bad about some of the things I said. I have learned that I need to keep my thoughts to myself, especially if they are not nice ones and to be more understanding of other people's problems! I do read my blog comments and I thank everyone that writes in, even if it was mean. I take them all into consideration and I try to become a better person. I definitely felt that I was the mean girl this season and although I think most successful shows usually have at least one bitch, I am not sure I liked filling those shoes. I wish they would have showed more of my kids and family life. We filmed so much together – BBQ, pool parties, birthday parties, father's day, family day at the beach, Harley rides. I guess those moments were too boring to show. I think the show took a turn in a different direction this season. It was more about all the girls filming together and capturing drama then documenting our individual lives. Any time you put a bunch of ladies together who are not necessarily friends, there is going to be some drama.
I was very happy that I got to film with my father. I know from a lot of the blog comments that people did not understand why I was so upset. It was not the divorce that hurt me and my brothers. For 25 years we had a very tight family, then in one day he stopped being there for us and he left my Mom for her friend and turned his back on his family. He never tried to explain his actions. We all know that divorce happens, and you deal with it the best you can. But abandonment, whether it is emotional or physical, is a very serious issue and hurts at any age. Having been divorced with a small child and having gone through my parents' divorce as an adult, I learned a lot. Make your kids first priority and just because you are divorcing your spouse doesn't mean you're divorcing your children. Communication is the key to happiness.
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Tamara,
I think you are fine just the way you are. I think it was your marriage that seemed to have brought out the worst in you. We all have that in us...you know?? My relationship is not as bad as yours...but I couldn't help sympathizing and thinking..."gosh, if only she was with a man who loved her in the right way..." You were with a man who saw faults in you instead of your strength. In the future, I hope you find a great man who will protect and appreciate for your heart and your beauty (yes, you are absolutely drop dead gorgeous!). I'd look outside of OC if I were you...I think OC men are kind of corrupted by the slew of easy women and blonde bimbos. They stopped appreciating beautiful and smart women. There's more to life than OC...quite possibly a great life :) Good luck to you.
Tamra:
You make me sick. Vickie is being your friend and standing up for you and you are punishing her for it. You are a crappy friend. I hope Vickie moves on and finds herself a REAL friend.
It's just a show!!! Everyone is so judgemental. Tamra, you are fine. I'm sure they edit most of the show to make you look a certain way. I hope you are not taking offense to all of this? Enjoy your life and try to be a good person. Life is too short.
TAMRA,,,, i love you you are my best housewife. but i was really shocked that you would be that cruel to gretchen, like how about if someone called you a gold digger and how about if you husband had cancer and is dying and someone said you are using him, that is so low and i can't belive that someone would ever say that, i couldn't sleep if i said that to someone. but there isn't any reason why you should of said that, and i bet you that gretchen is so hurt that you would do that, and be so mean in this time for her. I truly belive that you have a great heart and i love that you are so witty and fun and beautiful. but i think that you have to much pride and maybe you are insecure about where you are right now..
I liked the show with your Dad. It showed me that even as adults with children of our own, we can still be hurt by our parents or by something that we never got resolution from. I understood it wasn't neccessarily the divorce but that you felt abandoned. I admire that you put yourself out there for others to see and hopefuly get something out of or relate to.
Thanks for a great season!
wow. that's all i can say from reading this blog. You people here are so judgmental. Personally Tamra, i think your awesome. These people hating on you about Gretchen need to realize that if she didn't want people to know her buisness, why the hell is she on a reality tv show? so annoying. but non the less, you are fablous! cheers!
Tamra,
I'm your age & I think you look great, especially after 4 kids. You called Gretchen on her behaviour & it showed that she may not be so innocent. People shouldn't judge so quickly saying that you're jealous of her. We all have had moments where we've said or did dumb things, we just didn't have a camera taping our every word. You showed class in apologizing & saying how embarrassed you were of your actions. You're my favorite H.W.,& I enjoy your personality, I can't wait for next season.(P.S. I couldn't believe how Jeana was shocked at how you spoke to Gretchen when she allows her kids to talk to her like crap)
Even though I dont agree with a lot you did this season, You are so right in writing that we all make mistakes and no one is perfect,In saying this I hope that if you do decide to go ahead with another season that you take it a lot easier on the other ladies, remember just because they dont see things as you doesnt mean they are bad,
Your a bigger person then that Tamara and I know in my heart that what you do and say sometimes isnt the real person I truly believe you are,
To me I am a outsider looking in and so be more open to others and give a little of yourself let others see the real Tamara not the one you made us all think you were in last season,
In the very first season you were my favorite and I hope to put you back in that spot on the next season...
Enjoy you're summer and stay real
Peace to you and you're family
Judy
I love the OC Housewives most of all, but this season disturbed me alot. I think all of the wives have so much in their life to appreciate and its not about fighting, backstabbing and jealousy, I thought the show was to let us into your world once a week. Id love to see the real housewives again, without the gossip and hurtful jealousy. Everyone of you have more than I could ever imagine, and I loved the show because you all had so much class, and you didnt have room for petty jealousy, whats there to be jealous of, you all have great wonderful worlds. Enjoy it girls, not all of us are that privilaged. Who cares if Gretchen had a lover on the side, it wasnt costing anyone a dime, it was her business, and be nice to the new wives, its much more classy than being mean. Why cant you accept each other for who you are and just try to be friends. No one is gonna steal anyones thunder, we love all of you, thats what makes the show good. Bring back the OC wives we love
Tamara you are still #1. These other posters have the gall to call you mean???? Did they not read their own posts? Hypocrites.
You are my favorite housewife and always will be. As far as Gretchen is concerned you were only telling the truth. I thought this show was called "Housewives"? When did they start including "gold diggers"?
You called her out on everything I would have, BRAVO!!!
I wrote this very long response but I realized I couldn't send it. I don't feel that I'm in the position to be so mean and hateful to people, since I'm not perfect myself. Instead, we should be respectful and keep love in our hearts. Perhaps you should also learn that lesson - you have 21 years on me and should know it by now.
No matter what has been done and said, the season is over and the editing of the show,told the story. You are not a nice person and I think deep down inside you, you are a very unhappy person, and it comes out each time you make a nasty remark abt the other ladies. Your true colors show when you are around them and you hardly ever had a smile on your face,same as Vicki...I hope you are not modeling yourself after her..she is not a role model. Gretchen seemed to be the upbeat lady in the crowd,with the situation she had w/Jeff.....I am sure you are sick and tired ofhearing abt poor Gretchen and Jeff...your facial expressins showed that on the reunion and I was sad for you, since you seem to have no feelings toward other people. I would really like to know how you would have handled the same situation as Gretchen and lets see if you are the saintly person you think you would be..like Gretchen said, no one knows what they would do,until they walk in those shoes.She has the right attitude to NOT judge others,since you do not know their home life or the problems that might be in that persons life......but, then again, this has been said before and so many times, if you really read your blog, then you know, how people feel abt you and how unliked you are abt this issue you seem to have w/Gretchen. I hope you learn how to deal with this situation and you might be a better person for the next season, if not, I hope someone "Bitch Slaps" you on the show during one of the episode.
I honestly cannot say that I enjoyed this season's Housewives. Most of all, I had a hard time with Tamra. I've seen jealousy at it's worse, and for you to condemn Gretchen because she was trying to have a life in spite of taking care of her sick fiance` - you are such a child. So what if she had a friend, and so what if she dated or didn't date him - it wasn't your business. If you were such a "friend" as you called it, why didn't you just tell the guy to stop calling you and your husband or you will call the police on him. If he wanted to expose Gretchen, that was their business - let him!! You were mainly jealous of Gretchen, but most of all, you wanted to be like Vickie so bad. Believe me, Vickie is no prize either, with all her insecurities. She sat there at the reunion as though she was the queen bee, and you Tamra, was her flunky - doing and acting however Vickie dictated to you. You were pathetic to say the least, and I hope, if there is a next season, there will be someone to treat you the way you treated Gretchen. You deserve that!!
Tamra... First of all, I love you and all the women of OC (and NY too). Each of you are unique in your own ways with interesting personalities!
I don't think you were the mean girl this season. I think you were being honest. I am so tired of people getting beat up for being "human". No-one is perfect, no-one says exactly the right thing at the right time... EVERY time.
I can't wait to see what happens next season- don't EVER stop being yourself....Some of us love you for it!
I totally agree with Christy saying that it is none of your business about what Gretchen does with her personal life. It is none of your business who Gretchen dates and it should not affect you but it does because you are so jealous of her. Your mind is warped because you think Gretchen is jealous of you and what you have. Also, you and Vicki are very mean girls ganging up on Lynn and if you don't realize that you are mean then you are just incompetent!
U need to grow up(U R /40!) and stop being such a jealous B....
U are somewhat attractive for your age, but that "somewhat" flies away with your nasty attitude.
It's ok to be honest but, as someone who's been known to lack tact in my life, sometimes there are just better ways of saying things. Everyone can have an opinion about what Gretchen does or doesn't do but ultimately she's the one that has to live with it. Caring for a dying person is tough. I gave up a life when I wasn't much older than you to care for family who, one by one, have all died. It's tough & we get through it the best way we can, perhaps not always the "right" way but maybe we can hope to walk away a bit wiser for the experience.
As for you dad, I understand from a bit of a distance. My sister abandoned her child, died when he was very young. I could see the pain he still carries as a result but he doesn't understand that walking away was the kindest thing she could have done for him. She was screwed up & died before she could "get it." I think your dad got it but it's good that you were able to convey your feelings before it was too late.
Now if you could just figure out why the need to correct Gretchen's ways. I don't think she's a bad person. I made plenty of mistakes when her age, when your age too, but I got something good out of most if not all of them. Sometimes it's worth the trade.
My goodness! I feel I am back in high school where all the "she said, she said... and I am gonna tell on you, and it's not fair" is going on. But I guess that is all part of the show and why they use you. yep... use you.
I am glad the show is over. These women are so childlike. Tamara you are the worst! I am ready for RHWONY!!!!!! I am ready for some real laughs, and real class. With the exception of SILEX!
Tamara I always thought u were the hottest H.W. & still r . U know why ... because Gretchen is not a H.W. u r. Sooo it still belongs 2 u. Now that doesn't mean u were not off line w/ Gretchen. I just think u had 2 resolve some issues w/ ur dad. & I'm so glad u did. Because we all deserve that, I could relate. I also made peace w/ my dad after 3 yrs. I don't need 2 tell u any thing else about being an instigater & involving urself more than u should have, because I think by this time u learned the hard way & stuck it out like the strong woman that u r. Just find that kindness u have deep inside urself & let it out some more u'll see how u'll like urself a bit more. Think twice before speaking. It WORKS! Trust me.
You use to be nice what happened? It looked like you changed at 40...I get it but be nice to the ones you claim are your friends! You can never have to many freinds.
Tamara come on who are you to tell Gretchen she's a troubled girl.You were a very troubled girl and probably still are. You and Vivki are so jelous of Gretchen and yes you are jelous. When asked at the reunion show why you did what you did to Gretchen you said "well I guess I am a mean drunk" get real you planned on doing all of that to Gretchen while you were planning your etiquette party which is the funniest thing ever. you have none and no class or manners. Vicki was right there with you and you wanted your son to come on to her and hoped and prayed she would get caught on TV doing something bad so you could say see, see I told you Gretchen was bad. Get a life with your kids and try to help your son be a decent guy. you probably can't do that maybe Simon can. But remember your the "troubled girl" not Gretchen. You and Vicki need to grow up. You will both be off the show by next season your not the kind of women anyone wants to watch. bye, bye
Tamra, You are a very insecure woman. So is your friend Vicki. You have money, a husband and children who love you and you still are a very jealous, vindictive,unhappy, mean spirited woman. Gretchen did not deserve to be treated that way. Shame on you. You need therapy. I feel sorry for you and Vicki.
Last season I wasn't so sure I liked you. But this season I think you were great! You have a great sense of humor and similar to myself. A real person that was honest enough to express her real thoughts and feelings. We all do it, we just don't get them aired on TV. I think you would be someone that I could really get along with. It's not about jealousy at all, it is about an honest opinion of someone and you had Gretchen nailed to a "T". I was very happy to see the truth come out. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. You're GREAT!
Tamra
Way to go girl! You smoked the others. I love your one-liners.
Good Job Jill Easter you said it well!!!!
Tamra,
Hey I am 18 years old and started getting into this show when it first started. I loved all the HW at first and of course since I am young, the youngest HW are always my favorite. I think that you made some mistakes this season but in all honestly everyone does. There are alot of full grown women who are commenting you who need to realize that you are only human. I personally love Gretchen and she is very nice, but I think that she stole a little bit of your spotlight. What I wish you could have realized this season is that she didn't do that on purpose. I also wish they would have showed more of your family life. I miss the old show where is was more than just selling drama. You ladies all deserve better than that. I hope next season mellows out a bit..and I really hope to see you and Gretchen friends.
Being the son of a single mother I have great appreciation and respect for you as a mother. Of course it dwindled especially how you treated Gretchen and judged her as women tend to do. I am sure you are a great person but your lack of empathy for another's situation makes you ugly; At least in my eyes.
Maybe you are jealous of a younger more bubbly you? I am sure you must be envious of her relationship she has with her father. I just saw the reunion and see you make faces when Gretchen was speaking about her late fiancee. You have an ugly soul.
Let me just say that after watching the reunion show,I felt sick to my stomach. Whether or not Gretchen and Jeff were engaged,or she was just merely a "caretaker" is really none of anyone's business,especially to you Tamra. Also I could care less if Gretchen was doing the whole LA Dodgers baseball team,it's none of your business and neither is it any of ours,the viewers. Im sorry but what Gretchen does with her life is HER business NOT yours! If what she does in her life DOESN'T affect your life,then just STFU!!!!
granted, SOME comments were rude, but come on people, I don't care what kind of arrangement you make with your dying partner. By their bedside is where most of us would be. Gretchen was having waaayyyy too much fun in bass lake, vegas and all the parties she went to. And it got kind of old listening to her "poor me" excuses and crying.
And if you would watch and listen to the reunion again, Gretchen couldn't think of the lies quick enough.
She said all the right things infront of the camera when she had time to think about them during the season.
Hottest Housewife: Jeanna
P.s., Gretchen is not a Housewife! she is a single individual looking for money as was/is Jo.
TAMARA! you are my al time favorite housewife<3
"heeeeeey gurl heeeeeey"
I love how you were so up-front and real this season. Not alot of people can be "real" in front of cameras; and about the people cal you a mean jaelous bitch, forget them, they're jealous of your lifestyle, and the people who blog about you, they are just making you more famous.
To the hottest housewife in OC, can't wait until next season.
Hi Tamra,
First I would like to start by saying how sorry I am that you had the experience of abandoment by your father. No matter what age we are, when someone we love betrays us it hurts! I really felt your pain over that! After watching the show this season, I feel you were mean to people, especially to Gretchen. I can understand that it must have been frustrating for you to have some inside info that made Gretchen look like a phony. But the way you handled the situation and behaved toward her and others this season just made you look bad, not her. You were acting like a phony and a back stabber. I am not sure that Vicki is the best choice for your BFF, the two of you seem to feed negativity off of each other. Remember: what we focus on expands. So if you focus on anger, jealousy, and bitterness, those feeling will continue to grow inside of you and make you an ugly person. You are a beautiful lady, focus on the beauty inside of yourself and others, it may make you look at life in a different "light" and others will see the beauty in you as well! I hope to see the beautiful side of you next season.
Tamra, just finish watching the renunion, WOW!!! I cannot beleive how jealous you and Vickie are of Gretchen, You and Vickie need to seek counseling for your father issues which is half of your problem, And stop hating on Gretchen, she has it going on and you guys cant stand it because your old married and washed up!!!
Tanmara,
You are pathetic. You obviously are very jealous of Gretchen. You need to get professional help, and take Vicki with you. I will no longer watch the show because of you and Vicki. What a waste of time.
Tamara,
You are pathetic. It is so obvious that you are jealous of Gretchen it is ridiculous. You talked about moral character, damn woman, are you kidding? Do you even have the vaguest notion of what morals are? I highly doubt it. You and Vicki are two wannabes. You truely need some professional help.
So much JEALOUSY, So much denial of your actions.
I thought you and Vickie acted worse than Junior High girls. You were jealous of Gretchen, no doubt about it! Who cares if she was going with a man old enough to be her father? It was none of your business. Vickie was my favorite until this season. I hate to see women treat other women like you and Vickie treated Gretchen and Lynn. A good name for this season is "Women behaving badly."
You mean, jealous, nasty woman. You are clearly insecure about yourself and your own shortcomings. Why else would you find it so necessary to tear down everyone else? I honestly don't see one redeeming quality about you. It is amazing to me that Simon stays married to you. I guess arm candy doesnt have to be nice. Although, I would watch it if I were you, your 40 year old body will need to be replaced with a younger woman sometime soon.
Why attack Gretchen like you did? It seems to me at least that you were trying a little too hard to be Vickie's BFF. Don't you even see how she let you do all her dirty work for her? Do you really think she respects you? She doesn't. You are not even close to being somebody she would allow in her circle if you weren't put together on this show.
As much as you gave Gretchen a hard time, I've got news for you.. she is not only way hotter than you, but she is also sweeter and much smarter than you. When did she tear somebody down like you do? I dont remember seeing that at all. So she is a flirt, who cares? Why is that your business? She was never anything but nice to you. Even when she was thoughtful and gave you all gifts on the last show.. what did you do? Again, you and Vickie found a way to make fun of her.
You seriously disgust me and anger me more than any other fake housewife of the O.C.
I was a fan of this show but I stopped watching because of your horrible behavior. Being 'mean' isn't a trend, it is inexcusable. I hope Bravo reads these comments and gives wonderful and exciting women like Gretchen more of the spotlight and I hope they ditch you because you are an example of all that is wrong with this world.
I'd also like to know if your husband actually paid full-price for that tennis bracelet, or if he had a deal with the store or manufacturer, and so either got a huge discount for it, or got it for free, in exchange for the exposure on a popular TV show. It's called "product placement" and can be an effective marketing tool.
If he didn't actually put out the cash to pay for it himself, it's kind of a different thing, isn't it?
Tamra,
I sat cringing this season watching you and Vicki. You used to be my absolute favorite HW, but you completely embarrassed yourself. Whether or not you are jealous of Gretchen is besides the point. Your behavior was pathetic! She's younger than you, better looking, but most importantly, is NICER. Your trashy attitude made for fabulous tv! Hopefully you and your pathetic buddy Vicki will be back to redeem yourselves next year.
Shame on you Tamara!You could have redeemed yourself at the reunion show, but noooo! Your so mean and come across very JEALOUS! Seriously look closely at yourself and your own life.I can not watch another season with you trashing EVERYONE!You and Vicky need some distance between yourselves. Your poison multiplies when your together! It's very obvious you can't stand not having all the attention. Let it go!
The show definitely took a turn for the worse this season. One reason I always liked the OC housewives better than Atlanta or NYC was that the show was not all about the women being catty and mean to each other. There was not a lot of drama and it was just about their lives. This season the OC show followed the same path as the other two shows and was all about fighting and drama. Go back to how it used to be...the show was a lot better.
Hey Tamra,
Loved you this season in the O.C.
I was totally inspired by your ability to confront and
resolve your abandonment issues - and reconcile things
with your Dad. There's clearly a lot of love there.
My parents were divorced when I was 38, and I'm still
struggling to work through many of the same issues.
Please keep us all posted on the kind of response you
get when you list your old implants on ebay!!
Tamara
you are seriously my favorite house wife... i mean who cares if they called you the mean girls you were speaking the truth, so there for if its a fact then its a fact.... i hate how people try and make you look like bad when all the girls talked trash on one another threw out the show.... You rock... your hot and your a great mom.... cant wait for the next season be even meaner.. hahahaha
Tamra,
I was so surprised that during the final show you went for Gretchen's juggler....you seem to have a huge axe to grind...your facial expressions told the whole story...you were really out of line with her....I'm surprised she didn't get up and "bop" you one! Surely there is so much that goes on behind the scenes...but girlfriend, can't you control yourself on camera?
Hi Tamra,
I think all these posts are ridiculous. I loved watching you this season as much as every season before. You are a confident woman, that is invested in her family, and genuinely cares about others. You are definitely the hottest housewife!!
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