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Kara Keough

Open Letter to a NYC Housewife

Real Kid Ashley Zarlin defends her skin care line.

December 9, 2008

Dear Miss Bethenny,

Being rude is not glamorous, original, daring or funny for that matter. Up until reading your blog, I had no clue who you were. So I called my mom to get the dirt on you, but for the most part, we just laughed at your expense. The world has plenty of people like you to go around. We need more people who can control their tempers and hold their tongues. I don't think you'll find anyone who appreciates your mode of communication the way you do, unless they are rude too. I understand that misery loves company, and you are clearly trying to cover up your lack of self confidence by trying to throw people under the bus. I have sympathy for you and I hope that one day you will find inner peace. Obviously at some point in your life you decided to be a baker - did your friends and family try to hold you back from pursuing your dreams? I hope not. Did you listen to the voices of those who tried to tell you that you couldn't do it? I find it disheartening that somebody who has once been in my position would be so negative of something that I am passionate about.

Being 23 years old and starting my own business is not cliche and definitely not unintelligent. What I find to be unintelligent is you making a preconceived notion about my skin care line after watching about 15 seconds of something you know has been edited for drama's sake. If you'd like I would be more than happy to send you some samples so you can try them out.

Until then, stick to what you know - baking cookies!

Ashley

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Bring It On Hear more about Real Kid Ashley Zarlin's skin care line. December 9, 2008 The Real Housewives of Orange County Season 4 / Episode 2 / Kara Keough

Comments

1 Comments

Being the only person to comment on this, I think the lack of response speaks volumes....Ashley, you just made yourself look even more naive and out of touch. Heres a tip - if you are serious about this you need to be able to take critical input from others. Hate to break your privlidged bubble, but you are young and have a lot to learn not just about business but life in general and you would do better to listen to people who have already made it than to cry and whine if they dont say something you like. You obviously know nothing about Bethanys business, she is not just a "baker" as you put it, in a condesending way might I add too. Your "letter" only made it look even more like you talk down to others like you are better than them and just shows you lack of maturity. You are so used to getting your way and what you want when you demand it that you think you can just snap your fingers and have a real business. And if it wasnt for your parents money, and this show, you wouldnt becuase it takes thousands of dollars and years of work and a college education to develop a skin care line that you actualy have a real part in. Yours is all the hard work of others with you name slapped on it. Not the same thing kiddo. You have a lot to learn. Being more humble would serve you well - you are not in the same league as someone like Bethany and if this is your passion you should know that by the hard work that goes into having a business. At 23 you dont know it all, you need to keep a level head becuase the 15 minutes of fame from a show your mother is on is making your head get too big. Listen to what good business women tell you and be thankfull for thier input, even if you dont like what they say. Its supposed to be constructive - offensive to you. Your way to personal. You also need to be able to handle yourself in a way that doesnt come across as freaking out over things people say like it highschool still, and being better than everyone else. These are things that turn people off in a big way and will hurt yout business big time! Work on it,mature a whole lot more,be humble, and work on being likeable - and most of all, not tied to your moms show. That makes it look like you are just fame hungry and wanted more air time by coming up with a new business idea. You need to stand on your own two feet. Less "letters", more taking advice and working on yourself. Lastly, a good business woman does NOT need to bicker and "fight back" and hold on to negativity, and doesnt try to make others feel bad even if she thinks she was hurt by them. Its not professional, and should not be a part of the adult world as it only hurts you. Let it go. Positive, good energy is what you not only want for yourself but you want to send it out to others. That is what people will come back for in your products - respect and kindness, and honesty. Work on you and you will see great results in your business.
If I were you, Id send Bethany an apology and welcome any advice she has for you - her book is on the best seller list becuase of her great advice!

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