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Welcome back to week two of The Real Housewives of Orange County…"Woo hoo!" I'm in Atlanta as we speak and am hoping I'll run into one of the Atlanta girls while I'm here.

This week you saw me take my daughter Briana and my mom to Europe to celebrate Briana's graduation from nursing school. We actually went on a cruise for 7 days to Turkey, Greece and Italy and then when we were finished, we stayed in Rome for another 4 days. It was so nice to spend time with my daughter and mother touring Europe. Traveling abroad and building life memories are the fruits of my hard work. In this episode, my mom seemed a little negative or as she said "whatever" - I think she was just really ready to get home after being gone so long. On our flight to Italy, I experienced the first time my daughter using her nursing skills. They had just turned off all the lights in the cabin and people were getting ready to go to sleep when all of a sudden over the loud speaker system, a flight attendant said, "If there is a Nurse or Doctor on the plane, please ring your call button or head immediately to the back of the plane as we have an emergency health situation." By the time I could let the flight attendant know where Briana was sitting, she was already in the back of the plane assessing the gentleman who was ill. The flight attendant came to me and told me how reactive Briana was and that she handled the situation with ease. I thought what an ironic thing to experience as here were celebrating her success of graduating, and she was already able to use her knowledge 30,000 feet above the ocean. She really made me proud and it was very emotional.

I know Gretchen had commented about Lynne needing to be more strict with her daughters and I really don't want to comment either way on this. It seems Lynne has a great relationship with her girls and personally I don't think Gretchen has any right to comment on that. She is NOT a mother, nor does she know anything about raising kids. I know the teenage years can be tough and soon enough this will pass for Lynne and it will be just a memory. I think Lynne did the right thing and told Alexa that she was NOT able to drink at 16 and am glad to see her stick to that. I did agree with Gretchen that she told Alexa that at 16 years old, there is no reason she should be drinking at all. I had a "no tolerance" drinking home until my kids were legal and it seemed to really work for us.

 

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94 Comments
11/20/2009 - 8:47am
Amanda Morgan Durflinger

Hey Vicki! I just want to say that I absolutely love you on the show! You are such an inspiration to me! You are a FABULOUS mother and have raised amazing children! I am a stay at home mom right now,with 4 children, and all but 1 in school. We are very much struggling in this economy right now, and when I saw you on the DR Phil show, all I could think about is that this woman has a very strong head on her shoulders, and I too can be that woman. My youngest child will be in school next year and I will have alot more time on my hands, so with your inspiration, I am already planning on how to get my family financially stable, and be able to enjoy the "fruits of my labor"! Insurance sales sounds like a great way to start...I will surely be looking into it! Thank you so much for all that you do for the show and all the woman that you inspire. Love you bunches XOXOXO

11/19/2009 - 9:29pm
Victoria # 1

I would LOVE to be able to sell insurance like you do.
Unfortunately, I have fibromyalgia so bad, and now on
disability, that I'm not sure I could handle the load.
I was a work-a-holic before this, in a job I loved, and could always go back into, but your line of work sounds
rewarding also. Congratulations on your daughter, and
her nursing school graduation. AND her helping a passenger
on the plane. Good for her. I'm proud of her.

On the Housewives, I really hate Jeana is leaving the show.
( so I hear ) That really breaks my heart. I love Jeana so much. The new wife
sounds and looks extremely arrognant. Send her to the
New Jersey girls. I believe Gretchen has been picked on
long enough. She loved Jeff, and now he is gone, so let her be, and go on with her life. ( not you picking on her, but Tamara. ) Gretchen seems to look up to
you, which might get you into trouble with Tamara.

Well, the new season should be interesting. Been missing you Vicki, and enjoyed you on Dr. Phil today.
Love ya,
Vicki

11/19/2009 - 1:41pm
Bren 12

Big fan of you Vicki!!! I love your attitude on life and work ethic!! You and Tamra are the best!!

11/19/2009 - 12:00pm
Michelle G

Hello- Please don't cut Jeana out of your life. Throughout the seasons - she seems to have been a genuine friend and care about you. I hate it that she's leaving the show.

11/19/2009 - 5:47am
Viewer from Wa.

By the way...our Kickboxing Group is going Skydiving all
Solo jumps. One of our gals rides motocross, and the other is a Bank Manager of a major Bank, one attorney,
golf pro, Real Estate broker, massage therapist, chiropractor, etc.
Maybe Bravo would do a show on us, and find it a bit more fun than shopping and Botox.

11/19/2009 - 3:12am
Louisiana Viewer

It seems that from a business stand point you have set a wonderful example for you daughter on how she does not have to sit around and wait to be taken care of, she can and will take care of herself. It is however amazing that unlike many of the other young adults on the show, she appears to be the most down to earth, intelligent and sensitive of the bunch. Good job with raising such a sweet, beautiful intelligent young lady.

11/18/2009 - 10:50am
BackOnTheSamePage

Yay, Vicki! I loved you in the first season and became disenchanted over the next few seasons. Now I feel like you're back! Back to the LADY you were/are. I'm sooo happy to see how you're interacting with Don. As a happily married lady, I could barely stomach all of the derogatory comments aimed in his direction last season. You two are great together. Also, seeing you with Briana gives me hope. I have 2 young girls (5 and 7) that I love with all that I have and hope when they are grown they will still want to spend time with me the way you two do. Congrats to Briana, by the way. A trip like the one you went on would be a dream come true for me. You make me want to work harder in all aspects of my life and enjoy reaping the rewards. You are an inspiration! I wish you all the best.

11/18/2009 - 12:24am
Amy Martin

Hi. I just wanted to say that you seem to be a very passionate person with a kind heart. Don't be a follower because at times that's what it seems like. Your personality shows how strong you are. Don't get sucked into situations you know aren't "you". Keep up the good work, it does pay off!!

11/17/2009 - 9:46pm
Belleaboo

Your work ethic is awesome! I wish there more people like you! I believe in strong work ethic because in the long run, it is so worth it! Don't listen to those that make comments about you working so many hours. They are just jealous that you have a great job, especially during this economic craziness! WHOO-HOO!

11/17/2009 - 9:38pm
JASON WALKER

I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE FELT SUCH SORROW FOR A GROUP OF PEOPLE . I HAVE BEEN LAID OFF FROM MY JOB AND HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET A JOB FOR A YEAR AND A HALF IM TOO OVER QUALIFIED OR TO UNDER QUALIFIED I HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE.

11/17/2009 - 9:30pm
See Bee

I am 34 and I guess I would consider myself a hot mom but my husband loves you!

I am so jealous! Not to much just a little (Cat fight!). I like you the best because of your work ethic you are awesome!

11/17/2009 - 9:11pm
Housewife of Collin County

I love the show. I've watched it from the very beginning season and will continue to do so. I'm a former California girl now living (and loving) in Texas! Our family also enjoyed a month in Italy this summer and I was stunned when the filming of this week's show was with your family in the same restaurant we loved, "Le sorelle" in Rome! We also took family photos there and it was fun to see your family also enjoying the Italian way! Although, I will say that I took Italian lessons before our trip and it helped a great deal with the translations during our stay! Continued success to you and your family on the show and in life. Ciao!

11/17/2009 - 4:07pm
Glinda

Vicki - I bet you will survive these tough financial times just fine because I'm sure you saved money, instead of spending every penny as some others on the show have done.

Also, I bet your house, cars and your son and daughter's college tuition are paid.

Did I win the bet?

11/17/2009 - 1:52pm
paula aquino

your my one and only favorite REAL housewife!! I agree with everything you say, you are a great example for the rest of the housewives and I admire that! before I thought the housewives show made no sense but you make it better! because I'm able to see your succes, makes me want to work harder and believe that a woman can do alot and not only get things from the husband!!! you're great!
thanks! the other housewives should get to work!! haha!!

11/17/2009 - 6:50am
Breanna

Congrats to Briana and not just because we have similar names :)

11/17/2009 - 6:37am
Viva Italia

Do yourself a favor next time and learn some basics of Italian! The good thing is that if you learn the basics of one "romance" language then you'll be able to figure out the basics of other romance languages. For example, I know a decent amt of French and have been able to pick up some Italian and Spanish very easily because there are similarities.

11/17/2009 - 5:11am
Andreya

Congrats to your daughter. She's lucky to have a mom who is so proud of her. We should all be so lucky.

11/17/2009 - 1:20am
ocfan

Very nice that your fans are telling you so many wonderful things about your daughter. We all love her out here in BRAVO land!!! I wish Jeana all the luck in the world. I will miss her.

11/16/2009 - 11:43pm
Viewer09

Vicky, You seem to be different this season and I am not sure what to make of it, I will give you a chance. Why did you have to mention that Jeana asked you for money? I think that was in bad taste and I'm sure she didn't like it. Jeana is your friend and you should have helped her, you know she would have helped you if you needed it. I do admire you for being such a work horse and your children seem like good people. Also like you my husband and I have "found" each other again and it is wonderful so I know what you are going through and I am glad to see it. I felt bad for you last season because I was also going through the same thing. Good Luck to you and your family!!!

11/16/2009 - 8:33pm
stephrn

Just adding my two sense...I have never heard of a nursing program that takes seven years...your daughter is a nurse, not a doctor, right?? But from one nursing student to another...Go Briana!!

11/16/2009 - 12:54pm
ljw

Hi Vicki, I admire your work ethic and passion for life. I feel you were very harsh with Jeanna. You did not have to loan her the money, but it was rude to even mention she asked for it. I am sure she did not appreciate that coming from a friend. Also, maybe you could have a little compassion for her concerning her financial problems. You two seemed to be good friends and are the only two remaining from the start of the show. She seems to be a good person, not sure why you referred to her as toxic.

11/16/2009 - 11:43am
JB718

Hi, Vicki,

Good for you for working so hard and raising a well-adjusted daughter. Briana seems to be one of the few children on the show with any common sense.

On the other hand, your attitude and behavior towards others is distressing. A little more tolerance, forbearance, and patience with other people would benefit you as well as them. I don't know why you don't want to be with Jeana anymore, for example, but if it's truly because she is experiencing financial difficulties, then your own success is less valuable because you are not being a good person.

As for Gretchen, how she acts is her business--not yours. If you and Tamra really don't want to associate with her, then don't come back to the show for another season.

11/16/2009 - 10:27am
Gigi in NYC

Vicki, I think I am starting to change my attitude about you. While you can be difficult and judgemental, I have to give you credit for trying to be a better wife and being an excellent mother. Briana seems like an amazing young woman and you must have something to do with that. I also applaud you for being one of the few woman in the entire RHW franchise who actually has what she says she has. Most of the women are total phonies (i.e. Tamra and Lynne) and don't have the kind of wealth that they pretend to have. It is disgusting to watch their extravagant purchasing one season and then watch them lose their homes the next. That doesn't happen to people who have REAL money. As a business woman in the finance world, are you as infuriated as I am?! Afterall it is people like us who will be forced to pick of the check for those who are irresponsible! Please give your BFF some advice and a dose of that straight talk you are so famous for! And Good Luck with everything this season - I hope we see a kinder Vicki than we have seen in seasons past!

11/16/2009 - 10:15am
hadgi

I known this is a reality show but Geez ladies find some balance in your lives. I have to admit I can't stop watching this show because it instantly makes me feel better about myself. I, like Vicki, run my own business. The difference is, I know when to turn it on and off. You can tell by the way she treats people she doesn't get it. No question she has built a successful business and she should be proud of that. Now take a step back and see who your friends are. If you can only count them on one hand what have you accomplished in life ?

11/16/2009 - 5:40am
Funky Medina

Italy is my DREAM vacation. But... I think I would bring a transalator or something with me hehe

11/16/2009 - 12:30am
RN BSN

I will have to agree that an RN BSN only takes 4 years, as mine did. but good for your daughter to go into the field. it's rough and God knows we always need more nurses.

11/15/2009 - 11:16pm
Viewer A

Hi Vicki,
I am very happy that you had such a proud moment with Briana on the plane.
I do think you should ease up on Gretchen just a bit. She didnt seem to be judging Lynn, just kind of asserting that Lynn should probably deal with the girls and their drinking [which is rather obvious to the audience, as well]. I do respect that you followed that up by making a somewhat more kind comment about Gretchen's observations with the drinking.
I understand that you may not like or get along with Gretchen, but I must be honest, I find it much more fun to watch you when you arent judging Gretchen! I say: let Gretchen be Gretchen. If you don't like what she's doing, don't associate with her. Dont attack her on national television either. To your friends? Sure, why not? But to the viewers? It just makes us more skeptical.
I find Gretchen amusing and endearing...when I see you are Tamra attack her...I enjoy watching you less. When I see you alone, not attacking any of the other women, I respect you. And I REALLY respect Briana. Of all the children on the show, Briana seems the most put together.
You work hard, Vicki, and I respect that. I just wish you'd curb your hateful comments. Viewers want to like you. Viewers like Gretchen. Let us like you both! If you dont like Gretchen, that's fine...just don't attack her...or you may lose fans. I hope this makes sense.
All the best in this tough time.
-Viewer A

11/15/2009 - 6:32pm
IN fan

Vicky, keep up the hard work. You are awesome, i loved to see you wear the bcbg top with the silk sleeves. I have the exact same one.xogg

11/15/2009 - 6:29pm
IN fan

Vicky, keep up the hard work. You are awesome!!!

11/15/2009 - 4:27pm
whitney

I admire your work ethnic, I think there should be more people who love their careers as much as you do. Vicki you inspire me to work hard when I get a career of my own. My dream is to own a lot of money and live in a big house and you can only do that if you work hard. Congratulations! No offense to the other daughters on the show but Brianna is my favorite daughter.

11/15/2009 - 3:25pm
bravofan6

Vicky, you should be very proud of your daughter, she is wonderful! Congrats on raising good kids. But please, when in Rome do as the Romans do. Of course they do not speak english, they are in Italy!

11/15/2009 - 2:47pm
Babylove1

I have always admired you and your work & family ethic. You realize that one day we can be up, and no matter how hard we work, sometimes tides turn and your down. I felt a little dissappointed that you did not mention Jeana and the reason why is due to her financial difficulty, or was there tension prior? Either way a friend is a friend and unless they do something dreadfully painful, it is a relationship worth keeping.

11/15/2009 - 2:18pm
TyTy

Teach Tamra to follow in your foot steps in becoming an independant woman.

11/15/2009 - 1:53pm
Viewer123

Vicki! I am obsessed right now with the yellow embroidered blouse you wore in a previous season. It was shown in a "flashback" in episode 2 of season 5 when you were talking to Jeana about Mexico and told Don he wasn't going. PLEASE please let us know the designer and/or where it was purchased. I can't stop thinking about it! :) I'm in my (very early) 30's and live in So.Cal and identify with the way you dress more than any other housewife...keep up the good work!

11/15/2009 - 1:33pm
smokeandgun

You are a true inspiration! Hard work does pay off and you are
a classic example of that. Glad to see a successful business
woman represented on the show!

11/15/2009 - 12:42pm
texas girl 09

thanks for making the show worth watching! You have a very successful family and that takes a good mom, please tell all of these women to get over themselves....woo hoo!!

11/15/2009 - 10:14am
Endie

Hey Vicki,

I have always admired your business savvy and parenting skills. I think that Lynne's children would be totally different if they had you as a parent because you set examples and boudaries for your children. I bet Briana would have never asked you for a beer at the age of 16 and gone to a high school for bad teenagers. She would have known better. So, you should understand Gretchen when she says Lynne should be stricter. Actually, if you get Tamra out of the way, I think that you and Gretchen could be good friends with a lot in common.

11/15/2009 - 9:32am
2t

Isn't it funny how people criticize "workaholics" and yet when they are in money trouble, they are the first ones they call. There's nothing wrong with a lavish lifestyle - if you can pay for it. It's hard to feel sorry for any of these women with financial woes when last season I believe Tamra got a $40000 or some ridiculous amount watch for her birthday. Poor Jeanna has to sell some of her cars and art and maybe her 5.5 million house. Wow, that's really tough.
Sorry, no sympathy here for any of them. They should learn to live within their means like the rest of us.
PS Sorry but that looked like the trip from hell - leave Mom home next time.

11/15/2009 - 12:34am
OC Fan

Well congratulations Vicki on doing the right thing economically. I'm tired of hearing people with money say they're not going to spend it, that is what's wrong with the economy. I don't mean spend it wildly but don't stop living and the only way we can build up the economy is to keep it going, so good for you!

Congrats on Briane's graduation, your mom was funny as heck on that trip and you girls looked like you were having a good time. I hope you and Jeana can patch things up, you were such close friends and we really need each other at the end of the day.

I'm looking forward to watching my all time favorite housewives this year!

11/14/2009 - 11:25pm
Jade Alicia

Vicki, I give you kudos for working and having the money to send your kids to school...thats the way to do it. Your daughter, Brianna, who I love ....congrats for getting through nursing school in 3 years as opposed to 7...most people aren't as fortunate (have to wait tables or do other things they are not interested in...need I say more.....good luck!

11/14/2009 - 9:14pm
suzanna

Hard work has paid off for you. It looks like you are not about to lose your house or down size in any way. Guess the other housewives should have followed your lead instead of criticizing you on how hard you work. You seem to be very down to earth. I admire that.

11/14/2009 - 8:59pm
ChicagoMom

Vicki, God bless you for honoring your mother the way you do. I am a mother of 5 and I point out YOUR mother and tell my children they have permission to shoot me if I ever act they way your mother does.
You take her demeaning ways and keep trying, yet while you are trying to build a relationship and create beautiful memories she has the audacity to bitch her way all through Italy. ( I'll assume on your dime again as usual) Shame on her!

11/14/2009 - 8:56pm
charleston

Vicki, Thanks for being such a positive person. Your the only one on the show that makes sense to me.

11/14/2009 - 12:42pm
Peacock Princess

Hey Vicki....you're absolutely amazing...you really really work hard, you look wonderful and of course an inspiration. Congrats to Briana with her BSN and wish her the best with her career. Glad to see you and Don are doing great...that actually made me smile. Hopefully I won't see you being tangled in Gretchen's and Tamra's clashing...anyway...oh and good for you not saying anything negative about Lynne at the party....

11/14/2009 - 8:36am
cath capbell

Did Michael decide to go into the insurance business with you? If not what is his career?

11/14/2009 - 7:02am
zandra

It's good to see Vicki back, I wonder which hotel she stayed at, me and my grandmother are planning a trip to italy and we want to stay in rome, but that hotel looked awfully small.

11/14/2009 - 12:38am
Lainie

I'm so happy for the new season of the OC HW's. I live in RSM so thats one reason I am excited the show is back! I love seeing the local spots on TV and occasionally see the HW or family members around town. I sure missed you girls! You and Tamra are my favorites! I was wondering if you still had that funny assistant you and Jeanna did a make over on a few seasons ago?

11/13/2009 - 11:37pm
Katie M

Vicki,
I think you are awesome!!! You don't hide anything. You tell people how you feel and there are no surprises. I agree with you 100%!! Those other housewives are complaining about being broke but still spending money. Go out and work!!!!! You are my favorite housewife. You are hard working and you have 2 wonderful children! Keep up the good work!!!

11/13/2009 - 10:45pm
Dianne

Vicki,

Thank you for showing how much you like to work and not letting the other housewives laziness get to you!

I really appreciate your love for your family. Good for you!

Keep the WOO HOO'S a coming!

11/13/2009 - 8:56pm
Lizzybee

Vicki- I want to start by saying that I love not only your work ethic but also your excellent family values. I admire the fact that you want to continue to remain close to your children even into adulthood.

11/13/2009 - 6:16pm
atelierboz

thank god you were smart with your money

11/13/2009 - 5:26pm
Herbert

Honestly,

Congratulations in being the only housewive not affected by the economy. With that aside, when i travel to a foreign country i try to learn a little bit of the language, the restaurant scene was painful and embarrasing to watch. You trying to communicate and speaking of wines like the person knew your abbreviation of cabernet was. Once again another example of why we are not very welcome in other countries, the ugly american expect everybody to speak English.....

H-

11/13/2009 - 4:17pm
d mclendon

Vickie, I am very proud of you and your business. you are a great inspiration to me keep up the good work and live life to the fullest you deserve it.

11/13/2009 - 4:05pm
karen222

Vicki,

I like you and I find you inspirational when you talk about work. I agree we need more hard workers in this country. So many people want something handed to them on a silver platter.

However I don't think you are very nice to the new people on the show. Also I don't think Tamra should be attacking Gretchen like that. I think some of the stuff Tamra said is true but is it really her job to do so? Everyone can tell Gretchen did prey on an old man etc. But on the other hand he let her. He knew what he was doing. It's just a shame he died.

You need to work on being nicer to the other women on the show (even if you don't like them you can be cordial) and to your husband. Same thing. When you treat someone disrespectfully it is more of a reflection on you than them.

Karen

11/13/2009 - 4:04pm
Amateras

Hey Vicki !
I wanted to let you know I think you are great. You want to live big so you work hard. All of the other Housewives are lazy and do not want to work in order to live the high life.
Thank you Vicki for showing America that women can work to make their life better, instead of being the typical arm candy.

11/13/2009 - 4:02pm
ShaiMarie

When you travel, take a translator, please. It will make your time some place so much easier and enjoyable! Just remember that you're visiting their country, so, no, they are not all going to be fluent (or even semi-fluent) in English. If you know a few key words, you'd be amazed at the appreciation and attention you'll receive. It shows them that you aren't a self-involved American, but one that's voyaging out of the box. Trust me, I've done quite a bit of traveling (and not in $560/per night LoL). and wish Americans would remember where they are at ... not where they are from. (First time in Rome, arrive at night!)

(Don't judge others until you judge yourself)

11/13/2009 - 3:58pm
Kasey

You are right about the economy! It is not going away anytime soon! My husband is very smart and also saw this coming for many years. When so many lost money on their IRA's....we didn't. He had already protected ours several months before it happened. I hope you enjoy this beautiful weather we are having here in GA. since IDA has left!

11/13/2009 - 3:44pm
Allyson C.

Vicky,
You've always been my favorite housewife on the show. With the economy taking a deep dive, you've managed to keep a roof over your head, food on the table, the luxury of going on vacations, and repairing a wonderful marriage. I truly respect you as a woman, a mother, and a wife who is making her marriage work. Congrats to you and the other housewives! I hope the others can take some tips from you.
As far as the husbands on the show, get a freaking job and be the man to support your household! Stop living beyond your means to keep up with a high standard in the community (keeping up with the Jones's) and make it work with the income you do have and spend it wisely! This will be a good season!

11/13/2009 - 3:37pm
Lauryn G

Vicki you are my absolute favorite! You are such a caring and attentive mother and an incredibly hard worker, but so much fun at the same time. You are definitely the most sane woman on the show. I really admire what you.

11/13/2009 - 3:30pm
A happy wife.

Vicki,
I just don't understand why Gretch is on this show with the housewives of OC? She is not a house wife or a mother. She only has 2 dogs and whatever the guys name that always wants to be on the show. I think this show needs more housewives like you, postive, happy and hard working......am I right?

11/13/2009 - 3:20pm
LynnH

Vicki, Personally I don't think that you are a very nice person, I think that you, in particular should take a leaf out of the book of the NY housewives and get involved in some charities! You need to share with those who are in need around this country. The OC housewives are the ONLY housewives that never show any involvment in charity work. Shame on you!

Its a wonder that your daughter turned out so wonderful, you have been overprotective and controlling!

BTW, there is no nursing program that takes 7 years, nice try though! (that is a doctor!)

11/13/2009 - 2:40pm
Candice Cunningham

Hi Vicki~
I love you and your positive outlook on life. After watching the 2nd episode when you and your family went to Italy my heart went out to you every time your mother said something sour.

I believe that forgiving is going to be a life lesson for you and I'm sorry you have to go through that; however, you are doing an awesome job! You're so upbeat and your daughter is very lucky to have encouraging loving comments surround her.

Good luck with the show,
Candice

11/13/2009 - 2:38pm
Candice Cunningham

Hi Vicki~
I love you and your positive outlook on life. After watching the 2nd episode when you and your family went to Italy my heart went out to you every time your mother said something sour.

I believe that forgiving is going to be a life lesson for you and I'm sorry you have to go through that; however, you are doing an awesome job! You're so upbeat and your daughter is very lucky to have encouraging loving comments surround her.

Good luck with the show,
Candice

11/13/2009 - 2:35pm
miggy perry

VICKY! YOU'RE SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO ALL OF US! I SEE MYSELF IN YOU BECAUSE I HAVE TWO CHILDREN AND MARRIED TO MY SECOND HUSBAND. I'M LOUD LIKE YOU, A CARING MOM AND I WORK. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY SOME WOMEN WHINE ABOUT THE ECONOMY. IF THEY HAD YOUR WORK ETHICS IT WOULD BE A DIFFRENT STORY. WHAT A LOVELY FAMILY YOU HAVE CREATED! IF YOU EVER COME TO MIAMI CONTACT ME. I WOULD LOVE TO SHOW YOU AROUND AND INTRODUCE YOU TO THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF MIAMI!

11/13/2009 - 2:31pm
Viewerbev

you are such a harding working lady i love watching you on the show

11/13/2009 - 2:17pm
meredith

personally i think Jenna is frustrated by her current situation and lashing out on the fact that you have made it work in uncertain times. I applaud your decision to say im not going without and I'm not going to sacrifice what i already have, so yes im going to work longer and hard and my family will appreciate the fact that we and they don't have to worry. Sorry Jenna plan ahead!

11/13/2009 - 2:07pm
BostonGirl711

Hi Vicki,
I love your work ethic but you are way too harsh on people who aren't as fortunate as yourself. Most of America are in Jeana and Tamra's shoes. You should be more understanding and empathetic to other's situations. However, your daughter is a great young lady so mature and very balanced. She's great!!! Glad to see everything with your husband is working out he is a GREAT guy and didn't deserve the way you treated him. Best wishes!

11/13/2009 - 1:43pm
BrookeB

Vicki, I may not like you, but I have to say that you are a great mother. You raised your children very well and they turned out to be wonderful people. I know that you were very proud of the way that your daughter handled the situation with the man on your flight to Italy.

11/13/2009 - 1:25pm
jenjak

BTW, why is it that your blogs are so defensive? You are constantly giving your resume and seemingly embellishing every event that you seem to experience--for someone who has so much to be proud of, it seems a bit desperate and insecure...

11/13/2009 - 1:20pm
lendinglady01

Vicki You are very inspiring and there is nothing wrong with being a workaholic and this is why you are very successful. However, lately it seems you and Jeana are not in good terms and the "at least I have work!" is a bit of a low blow! I.....myself, being a Real Estate Professional understand what Jeana and Tamara are going through. Times are very hard and at the end of the day we need the support of our friends and Families. : (

11/13/2009 - 1:11pm
L

i was very proud of you last episode for keeping the negetivity to a minuum, i dont care a whole lot for you and that helped me at least tolorate you

11/13/2009 - 12:51pm
olyhulagirl

I know you are a very deserving successful business woman, but you also need to balance that with love and loyalty to your friends. I too have had friends come to me for help and I did not loan them money. Instead, I gave a couple of the ones who I knew were very decent people in a difficult situation, a gift of cash and asked them to pay it forward when they got back on their feet. It saved our friendships and hopefully helped someone else down the road. I hope that if I am down and out, I can count on my real friends to lend a helping hand. While making lots of money is rewarding, it is far more important to maintain my friendships. And please stop fanning the fire between Tamra and Gretchen. Your actions make women look bad and incapable of meaningful friendships.

11/13/2009 - 12:28pm
Wanlee

I'm glad to see u and ur husband r doing better. All I can say is u GO GIRL! Keep up the good work.

11/13/2009 - 12:19pm
missourimomof2

Amazing how you could spend so much money on a trip, yet couldn't help out a FRIEND when they needed help. .. If that's the kind of friend you are, I'd rather be friendless.

11/13/2009 - 12:02pm
Michigan Viewer

I think your daughter is lovely. I love how simple and matter of fact she is. That does prove something about you as a mother. I just don't think your are a refection of her. I wish that you were a better friend to Jeana. I saw how you kept hanging Laurie out the 1st year as if it wasn't for you Laurie was a nobody. And now you had the upper hand on Jeana, you did the same. I do not get how such a bright, hard working, intelligent woman, like yourself, still does not have any real confidence. I always liked your confidence and gentle side the first year. Please let me see it again, without you knocking anyone else down to make you feel better.

11/13/2009 - 11:44am
Mrs. B

Vicki, I think you are great, but take it easy with the "she is NOT a mother" comment you made abot Gretchen. Just because she is not a mom does not mean that she has no understanding of love & caring for another human being (not to mention the rules of the law). That felt like kind of a low blow towards someone who has said she wanted children.

Congratulations on being a great mom, wife and responsible saver. Just don't be so judgemental. You have your weaknesses too.

11/13/2009 - 11:40am
Art in NYC

While I admire your work ethic, I find it interesting that you seem to be so insecure that you feel the need to so vehemently list your credentials.

11/13/2009 - 11:20am
PrincessP

What ever happened to that assistant that you gave a makeover to?

11/13/2009 - 11:03am
meg9

I had great respect for you this week Vicki because you seem to be the only housewife who is living within her means and planning for the future. It's amazing to me to see the other housewives running into such money problems.

11/13/2009 - 10:55am
nursejeanne

I am so happy that emily and prin wrote the same thing that I am going to write! I think being proud of your daughter is just wonderful! I am so very proud of my daughter, as well. She and I are both RNs and we know that it only takes 4 years to receive your BSN. If your daughter had really gone for 7 years, she could have gone a little longer and received her masters and she could have become a nurse practitioner. I'm certain your daughter cringed as you said 7 years!!

11/13/2009 - 10:34am
RHDP

Oh, Vicki...I do not like the direction that this show is going in. I tuned in to Seasons 1, 2 and 3 because I think that you exemplify what a woman of the 21st century should be. Despite the perception of workaholism, your kids turned out GREAT, and it's because they came FIRST! It's called balance. However, each new housewife that has come in (exception: Lynne) is being taken care of in exchange for being arm candy or subordinates to their husbands/significant others. Please carry that torch for female independence, and carry it high. The "seven rules" are messed up.

11/13/2009 - 10:09am
Joy M.

Vicki, no question you work hard and have found a lot of success. Just remember though, there are others who have worked just as hard but through no fault of their own lost their jobs.

Whatever your problem is with Jeana it wasn't very classy to tell the world she (someone who was once a friend) had asked to borrow money.

11/13/2009 - 9:32am
kcagent

I love your attitude Vicki; this is why you are successful. Passion about what you do, and believing in what you do is what makes you successful.

11/13/2009 - 9:19am
RObinson

I hope all the Real Houswives of Orange County are very proud of you. Several viewers mentioned when the show first came out, I bet its a bunch of young women you get money handed to them by their men they only see at night in the bedroom. Well, you changed a lot of peoples perception. You really show what a hardworking person you are. You are a lot of fun to watch. Your daughter is amazing and really has her head on straight. Best of luck to her in the future.

11/13/2009 - 8:53am
ViewerWestPalm

Vicki,
You've got a great personality and drive for success....You inspire a lot of people.

11/13/2009 - 8:35am
LS

I think you are a great example of a woman who know how to have a career and take care of her kids and maintain some class. I am glad to see that you are putting a priority back on your marriage this season.

11/13/2009 - 6:11am
JTX_76

Wish I could go to Italy! As it is, I'm too worried about someone taking my job while I'm gone. :(

11/13/2009 - 4:08am
Cat from Illinois

Vicki,
I appreciate your hard-work ethic. You are very lucky since there are many unemployed workers these days. When in Rome … order wines from the region. I thought it was a bit embarrassing and rude for you to expect the waiter to know and select a similar Italian wine to a Californian Merlot or Pinot Grigio. You should have done your homework before going to a restaurant in Rome. At least know the different wines from the regions and pairing with Italian dishes.

11/13/2009 - 3:42am
Michelle Mendoza

Hi Vicki,
I loved your blog today. I also believe that hard work pays off. You are a role model for working mothers, including me. I have a full time job, a wonderful husband, and a five-year-old son. I'm also in a full time Masters program to get my MBA. It's not easy, but I have a goal in mind to make something of myself and to better my family. I really identify with a lot that you said.

There is a lot of negative energy on the show, and I'm glad to see you rising above it. The other ladies should take your lead. While no one is perfect, there is a better way to act, and I hope to see some growth in that department.

I love how you love life, love your kids, and have spent time improving your marriage. I wish you and your family a lifetime of happiness!

11/13/2009 - 1:50am
Cathy Merkt

Vicki -
You stated that it usually takes 7 years to get a B.S.N. and how proud you were that Brianna got hers in 3 years.You should be proud of her - what is her specialty? However, I've never heard of a B.S.N. taking that long - at least mine didn't!

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