Cast Blog: #RHOC

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A Good Start

Tamra: Lizzie's Obsessed With Me

Shannon Settles the Score

Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Heather: Why Hate?

RHOC Reunion GIFs: The Gloves Come Off

Lizzie on That Kentucky Fried Nickname

Shannon on Heather's Double Standard

RHOC Reunion GIFs: Psychics, Opinions, and Shade

Heather Weighs in on the Dinner Party

The Difference Between Shannon and Heather

Lizzie Forgives Tamra

Vicki Wants the Best for Tamra

GIF Recap: RHOC Season 9 Finale

Vicki: I'm Tired of Tamra Causing Problems

Recap: 13 GIF-able Life Lessons from Bali

Tamra: Lizzie Is the Worst Kind of Person

Lizzie: Tamra Has it Out for Me

Shannon: There's No Hope Tamra and I

Tamra: Lizzie's Out for Blood

Heather: Can't Friends Disagree

Lizzie: What Tamra's Doing Isn't Right

GIF Recap: Kayaks, Crowns, and Elephants

Shannon Was Shocked Tamra Would Betray Her

Tamra: I Was a Fool to Defend Vicki

Heather: Newsflash It's Not All My Fault

Vicki's Warning to Lizzie

Shannon Isn't Putting Emotions onto Tamra

Lizzie: I Thought Tamra Was My Friend

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Lonely Birthday Dance

Tamra: I'm Going to Be a Tam-ma!

Vicki: This Episode Was Hard to Watch

Heather: I Did Owe Shannon an Apology

Shannon: Tamra Is Stirring the Pot

Lizzie: Tamra Is Stirring Up Sh--

GIF Recap: What Does Tamra Remember?

Vicki Is Trying to Stay Neutral

Shannon: Tamra's Lies Are Mind Boggling

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Dinner Party Disaster

Vicki Advises Shannon to Keep Communication Lines Open

Lizzie: "I Take Sun Kitten Swimwear Very Seriously"

A Good Start

Quinn Fry looks back on the third season of Real Housewives, and says a big thank you to fans!

What can I say? The season is over and just as I was starting to get the hang of it!

A huge thank you to Bravo and Evolution for our very special treatment on the day that we filmed the reunion show. I felt like a "star" complete with our names on our dressing room doors and wonderful wrapped gifts, even one from Tiffany! What woman doesn't love those Tiffany blue boxes?

It was an amazing experience, and looking back I'm a little sad that it's now over. I am really happy that I've gotten the chance to spend some quality time getting to know the other housewives and they are not nearly as scary as I once thought. In fact, last week Jeana and I went to a charity fund-raiser event at the Honda Center. Also last week Tammy, Megan, Lindsey, and I met up for some fun at a very silly OC Bachelor Auction. My pal Debbie and I went in halves and bid on Duff! Ha — that was interesting I must say. Now I hear that Duff is married. What gives? I had a blast hanging out with Tammy and her girls at 3 Thirty 3 restaurant afterwards. Jared was also up for auction that night and I was the one that actually auctioned him off! To me!? Ha! I'll just say that together we are too much fun. Anyway, never a dull moment here in the OC. Jared and I are planning on heading to Malibu for brunch soon. I'm glad that I met him, he always makes me smile and he is a such a doll! No, I am not "dating" Jared, he is a friend of mine, nothing more.

I've gotten myself back into the gym and with the help of my good friend Gina Adams at advancetrainer.net. She worked me out very HARD with weight training and cardio, and I have lost 27 lbs so far! Here is when I do a Vicki: WOOOOO-HOOOOO! I'm still working out hard and watching my carbs to get in even better shape. Who knows — maybe next season I'll give Tamra a run for her money for the "Hottest Housewife in the OC" comment ... just kidding.

Since the filming is over, I've been spending most of my free time with my family and friends. I haven't really gotten back out in the dating world just yet, although I've had opportunities. I just think I need a break to work on me. I'm feeling VERY good about things right now and am looking forward to this year. Colin will graduate this year and that's exciting. He is such a talented, strong, yet sweet young man and I am blessed to have him. I went up to Eureka and got to spend time with Shannon over the Christmas holiday. Sigh. I sure miss her truckloads! Maybe next season you can meet my beautiful daughter.

Finally, I wanted to take a minute to say THANK YOU to all the RHoOC fans. I'm sure that it wasn't easy letting me into your circle so late in the game. I'm new and I know it took everyone awhile to get to know me. Thank you also for all your words of encouragement and support in your e-mails and on the Bravotv.com blogs. Don't be too hard or judgmental towards us — this is all just meant to be fun and entertaining TV.

If you'd like, you can keep up with me a few different ways. My page on MySpace can be found at www.myspace.com/quinnfry. I'm also on Facebook. I just recently created a new website at www.quinnfry.com that I'll soon post OC happenings, pictures, and just general "Quintessential" fun type of things.

XOXOXO & God Bless,
Quinn

Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Lizzie thinks Tamra's comments about her children were meant to deflect from her own problems.

Happy Labor Day!!! I am going to make this blog short and sweet. It’s a holiday and I am going to be spending the day with family in Newport wearing a Sun Kitten and a smile. I hope you all are having a great holiday weekend.

To be honest, the second half of the Reunion was hard to watch. I think it got too ugly. I am not going to insult any of your intelligence in explaining this episode. We all know that misery loves company, and "projection" is as easy to spot as a $2 dollar bill. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that everything miserable that comes out of Tamra's mouth is a direct reflection of what is going on in her life. In my opinion, children are off limits. It's quite apparent that Tamra does not fight fair and when all else fails she will throw your kids, marriage, and even your body under the bus in an attempt to hurt you. We filmed the reunion for over 10 hours and after listening to so much ugliness my heart just couldn't take it anymore.

I do not regret telling Shannon all the things that Tamra said about her. Everything I shared with Shannon was something that happened and was said on camera. I didn't take anything and create unnecessary drama. I would do it again in a heartbeat and I would think my friends would do the same for me. I simply did not know the truth about Tamra. Danielle told me all the things Tamra said about me. That is why after my birthday I was so hurt by her. It's hard for viewers to understand because these things weren't in the show. She could have called me and said she wasn't coming. I called her after sitting on the bus for over an hour. The next day she made fun of me to Danielle, in addition to asking plenty of questions looking for negative details regarding my party.

On that one-year free membership to Cut Fitness: Let's delve into this shall we? I was the one that contacted Tamra days after my party. She did not contact me to give me present. I had invited Tamra, Eddie, Danielle, Joe, Heather, and Terry to the Kentucky Derby and Tamra was the only person that had not sent in the RSVP. It was past the deadline and it was getting borderline rude at this point. Tamra, in fact, was making fun of the Kentucky Derby and the charity event that would be hosting us to Danielle. So, I reached out to Tamra regarding the Kentucky Derby and she texted me back saying, "I want to give you a free membership to CUT for your birthday." Tamra knows I am already a member to a sports club and that was the last I heard of this "free membership." I never received any kind of certificate or card for membership. I suppose she thought I would have the gall to show up and say, "I got a text message from Tamra for a free membership!" It's almost laughable. Needless to say, I don't go to her gym and she didn't attend the Kentucky Derby with me.

There is nothing else to say regarding the Shag, Marry, Kill game that I haven't already discussed in great length in any of my previous blogs. I said the word "marry" and that's that. Tamra even glared at me on the way out of the Valentine's Party and repeated it. "Marry you?" Tamra has said multiple times she couldn't even remember because she drank too much and there are even text messages where she says it too. Her story changes continually, like the words that come out both sides of her mouth.

During the Reunion, Tamra said many more hurtful things that you didn't see. She went on to talk about my son Preston and my marriage. We all remember the episode in the park where Preston hit me on the head with his elephant. He was asleep in the car and he had a mini temper tantrum. He was three -- it happens. I would assume most mothers have had it happen at some point. In addition, my husband and I got in a fight on my birthday. I feel awful about it, yet it made us closer. I just wanted what every woman wants -- to feel special because of her man. I am a big time believer in learning from your mistakes and that won't ever happen again. However none of those incidents had anything to do with Tamra. But on her quest to hurt everyone, she managed to drag in some irrelevant topics. I know it's all to deflect from what's going on in her life and to make someone else look bad. . .but it does hurt nonetheless. My babies and my marriage are my life so I guess her goal was to attack the things closest to my heart because she can't fight fair.

I hope you enjoyed this season and I hope you had a fabulous summer!!! The fall is my absolute favorite time of year, so I say bring on football and cooler weather.

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