Cast Blog: #RHOC

Two Sides To Every Story

Tamra: Lizzie's Obsessed With Me

Shannon Settles the Score

Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Heather: Why Hate?

RHOC Reunion GIFs: The Gloves Come Off

Lizzie on That Kentucky Fried Nickname

Shannon on Heather's Double Standard

RHOC Reunion GIFs: Psychics, Opinions, and Shade

Heather Weighs in on the Dinner Party

The Difference Between Shannon and Heather

Lizzie Forgives Tamra

Vicki Wants the Best for Tamra

GIF Recap: RHOC Season 9 Finale

Vicki: I'm Tired of Tamra Causing Problems

Recap: 13 GIF-able Life Lessons from Bali

Tamra: Lizzie Is the Worst Kind of Person

Lizzie: Tamra Has it Out for Me

Shannon: There's No Hope Tamra and I

Tamra: Lizzie's Out for Blood

Heather: Can't Friends Disagree

Lizzie: What Tamra's Doing Isn't Right

GIF Recap: Kayaks, Crowns, and Elephants

Shannon Was Shocked Tamra Would Betray Her

Tamra: I Was a Fool to Defend Vicki

Heather: Newsflash It's Not All My Fault

Vicki's Warning to Lizzie

Shannon Isn't Putting Emotions onto Tamra

Lizzie: I Thought Tamra Was My Friend

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Lonely Birthday Dance

Tamra: I'm Going to Be a Tam-ma!

Vicki: This Episode Was Hard to Watch

Heather: I Did Owe Shannon an Apology

Shannon: Tamra Is Stirring the Pot

Lizzie: Tamra Is Stirring Up Sh--

GIF Recap: What Does Tamra Remember?

Vicki Is Trying to Stay Neutral

Shannon: Tamra's Lies Are Mind Boggling

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Dinner Party Disaster

Vicki Advises Shannon to Keep Communication Lines Open

Lizzie: "I Take Sun Kitten Swimwear Very Seriously"

Two Sides To Every Story

Jeana Keough shares the parental figures in her kids' lives, and apologizes for arguing with Vicki.

Colton didn't have a father around much when he was small because Matt was a baseball scout. It is always difficult trying to wear too many hats at once — Colton's dad was gone a lot when he was little. The neighbors picked up the slack and so did big brother Shane. Shane was Kara's fashion police (if the jeans were too low he made her change and was brutal about her early Spice Girls wardrobe.) She dressed conservatively or he gave her such a hard time it took the joy out of the outfit. My ex-husband Gary Tomasino helped the boys with their boy scout projects and there science projects.

Uncle Richie has played a big part in the kids' lives. He has been there for every birthday, Christmas, and Thanksgiving. I feel like I have another son. Colton says he acts older then Richie — they play X-box together and Kara and Richie go to concerts together. He takes Kara to dinner once a week in San Francisco during the school year and buys her groceries when she is low. He is a big shoulder to lean on and Kara loves their time together. Richie's dad gave Kara savings bonds when she was little and she uses those for all her college expenses.

Kara and Simon are soulmates — they have the same brilliant humor. They are both extremely intelligent and quick-witted. I know Kara counts him as a close friend. I am not sure if she considers him a father figure, but she does really enjoy him. I hope she shoots better than her mother.

Tamra made some funny comments in the limo — some comments may have been a little over the top, but they were said in fun. Gretchen is a good sport and she gives it back as good as she gets it. With Vicki and her ex, I feel sometimes women blame their exes for not being there for their children, but she moved the kids out of state. I didn't know the extent to which he failed to help with the kids' finances over the years, so I wasn't as compassionate as I usually would be. There are always two sides to every story, but in this case, Vicki was right to cut Mike out of the kids' lives. Donn was a great father and the kids are well adjusted so luckily it all turned out OK.