I want everyone to remember that I enjoy writing, and it is actually therapeutic for me to write out my feelings, so if you don't like that my blogs are long, then do me a favor and just don't read them.
This week we see some funny moments between me and Slade. This is our normal morning routine (when I am actually in town) and unfortunately, I am not a morning person and so Slade has to pry me out of my bed! I love my mornings with Slade though. He is such a wonderful man; he is always taking care of me even when I don't know I need it. He makes me coffee and turkey bacon almost every morning when he is home. He knows if he doesn't make me food, sometimes I forget to eat or I start to get so busy that I don't take time to make food.
Slade has seen me work my butt off for the last two years trying to build my companies, and therefore he picks up the slack in areas that I need. That is why he makes a great partner! Obviously Slade and I don't take each other too seriously, and we are constantly making fun of ourselves. That is the part about our relationship that I just love. We make each other laugh, and the perception from the outside might be that he is my bitch, as I jokingly said, but we know exactly what we are to each other and that is what keeps us going strong. He is obviously not my bitch, but from the scene in the bathroom it might look that way. And if we don't make fun of that, everyone else will!
Slade has been one of the best things to happen in my life ever. Everyone is always asking why I'm with him, and the best and simplest answer I can give is because he is my best friend. That is what has made us work despite any arguments or disagreements, during the good or the bad times. We know each other's hearts and intentions, and we protect and love each other so deeply. That is all anyone could ask for.
Now to my sweet assistant/employee Shawna. Tamra's condescending comment saying, "What does she need an assistant for," is laughable to me. Maybe she isn't aware of all the things I had going on in my life, like launching the Gretchen Christine Collection, going on Shop NBC to launch that collection, continuing to build, market, and promote my make-up line, building a (thankfully very successful) e-commerce website, launching and maintaining "Gretchen's Closet," which is my E-bay store, continuing to book hosting opportunities, filming commercials like Turbo Tax, making several personal appearances all across the country, recording and performing my music, managing a music publishing catalog, filming for this show (which takes so much time as we all know), and one of my personal favorites, interacting with customers and fans on my personal website, daily blogs, beauty community, twitter, and facebook pages. The fact is I need a full time employee just to keep my two companies running everyday, because I travel so much. If Tamra doesn't think this is worthy of having an assistant/employee around, then I would like to see what she considers worthy of it.