Tamra you rock girl, i watch the show just to see what your going to say and do next. you went from being in a bad marriage one season to hot latin lover the next, nothing holds you down keep doing what your doing.

Eddie is going to get tired of being with someone who is always starting trouble. Take his advice and let it go. You got the hottie and your life is going up and up. Let it go and just have fun. Ignore the jealous. I mean really, wouldn't you cut Eddie down if you were stuck with that loser Slade? Eddie is sweet and hot. Enjoy.

Tamra I just wan.t to tell you I love you the best.you all ways say it how it is.and Iam so happy you got rid of your ex husband you did great you have a good guy.Iam so happy for you.I hope you have a long and happy life and the rest of the women Iam not sure how you can stand them.That Alexis and Gretchen I cant stand either of them please give them more crap I love it when you do.good luck cant wait to see more.Dyana

So do you spend all day on the internet looking for news on Slade and Gretchen? Oh forgot Jim and Alexis too. Making fun of working for McDonalds etc...rude!

Tamra you crack me up. Your thoughts are right on the money. Truth & comedy isn't meant to be nice!

You are hilarious!

Wow! Im glad you and I watched the same episode! I would have done the same things you did that night! Its funny how Alexis can tell you how you should act at her party, yet Alexis has to be the center of attention at Peggy's party! Keep being real Tamra and dont let anyone get you down. It kills me how much Alexis has changed from the first season! Also, keep up the comic relief!

Yes, your right is was bad behavior, not just yours, but several people at the table. Have any of you ever heard of the sayings "if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all", and "rise above it"? Jeez, what is wrong with you people? You eat great food, drive nice cars, live in nice homes, you should be so greatful, and stop being so mean and judgemental of each other.

Tamra, you went to this party with the intent to stir up trouble. By the way, your comments all season are not funny, just rude and crude. You are responsible for your own actions.

You, Donn, and Vicki were talking crap all night and were alot more rude than Gretchen and her friend. From what I saw Jim didn't come because of the way you people behave and we all now see why and don't blame him. I also thought the way Micah treated Alexis' friend was appalling. As for you and Eddie..Remember the story of how Stella got her groove back? We know how that love story ended.

Your behavior at the party - especially listening at the door - is consistent with the type of person you are. I expected nothing less...or more.

There is no excuse for your behavior. Two wrongs do not make a right. Just stop the back chat. It is none of your business what anyone does or doesn't do. It is not your concern whether someone pays their child support or not. It is none of your business if someone has a job or not. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. Let the others do whatever they choose to do, and don't stoop to their level if they are nasty. Be the bigger person and be grateful for your own life, your children and your new found love.

Tamra you freaking rock! I love you and vicki this season! If I can only give someone a round kick to the face thru my tv gretchen would be on her ass! Omg you crack me up all your interviews I have to rewind just to hear them over..lol! I swear to alexis(god) I'm so glad Simon is out the picture he depressed me just watching him on the show! It was like playing a game of Simon says with him around!

Hello Tamara! I think Eddie is wright! Don't listen to what other people have to say, as long as your happy that's all that matters! Their just jealous anyway!!!! And Gretchen got it wrong, Eddie is not a pretty boy he's a fine ass BMW!! Unlike her boy!

the bumping fuzzies comment was funny

i wish u and gretchen could get along

i love your honesty. really you're a breath of fresh air this season. even with the "kiss and tell" bit, you just told it like it was. i love how you "own it" and let it go. you and eddie are adorable together. gretchen is showing her true colors and they aren't that bright... i think you have done a complete 180. not that simon was a bad guy, but i think that maybe you two were together while you were in order to bring your children into the world. i'm so happy for you though that you were able to go through a divorce, pick yourself back up, and find someone who you can be happy with. you two are adorable together and to see you grow so much has been awesome. i wish nothing but the best for you, your children, simon, and eddie.

Tamra, I really like your no bull personality this season. I have to tell you that I didn't like you in the beginning but somehow I figured out why I like you more this season. You remind me of me as I have changed over the years with similar changes in lives occurring. Go Tamra...Say it like it is!!

Tamra, This Is "MY" Take Away on Eddie....he's awesome! A real keeper. You would do well to follow his lead up the high road more often. He has a very positive energy. I bet you could get him to gently remind you when you are being overly negative and get you to stop on the spot. You will get a lot more out of life if you focus on the positive and not so much on the negative.

Tamra, It was a beautiful evening, there is real love between you and Eddie. Gretchen was wrong and rude to talk about you guys like that I think that she jealous of what you have because in comparison, Slimey is not contributing, and I think that he could have been ticked off still at the "Tubby Wooby" comments. I feel for both of the guys that went with Alexis and Gretchen, they were caught in middle.....

Yay! Everyone got to meet Eddie and see the love you all have for each other. It might make people uncomfortable to see the mushiness, but the world could use more love! I agree with the comments on Slade. I think he would be an excellent sales person. He seems great at blowing smoke up peoples arse. I mean her parents see he is a moocher, her dad comments he steps in a little pile of slade! hahahahahah! I think both sides of the table were doing the ridiculous "mean girls" shat talking. Everyone needs to worry about whats is a foot infront of them as far as gossip goes. If its not in your face then ignore it. Heck with the escort comment, I would have told him I didnt have to dial a number for him I used the internet, and laughed when they gasped that I heard them.

Line of the night "I CAN'T EAT MY ASPARGUS WITHOUT MY BEST FRIEND". I'm so glad Donn had a good time. He is hilarious to me. Vicki is just a sourpuss, but she's overworked by her own doing. Eddie was sweet and Alexis and Wretchen were jealous.

You mean Gretchen was ripping on Eddie the way you and Vicki rip on Slade?? HOW DARE SHE?!? Don't dish it if you can't take it Tamra. It all comes full circle.

You are glowing like a beaming light. You are a happy person.

tamra i think u the best on the show.do y get paid f begining on the housewifes,because how can u support y family,i just love u the best

You have a fun, energetic personality. The only thing I'd change about you is your cattiness. Other than that, I think that you're smart and funny and bold. You and Eddie have a good relationship, but Tamra, c'mon, you can't let him be the more mature one when it comes to Gretchen and her sarcasm. Like it was said, she has Slade who is NOTHING like Eddie and she's a bit jealous. I don't think she wants Eddie, I think she wishes Slade were more like Eddie. He's a gem, keep him happy!

Tamra, You appear to be in a happy place in your life so stop worrying about other people, what they are saying and doing. Just enjoy.

Tamra, I love a girl who can admit when they're acting 10 and acknowledge when they're being treated badly. You try to keep it light and I think you saved Peggy from Alexis and you were being a good friend. Eddie's right. In this sea of sharks, ignore them and swim with the beautiful friends you have.

Tamra, I have watched RHOOC since the premiere..and you were the fav..but ever since the WWHL New Years Eve 2011 show..the behavior you have been showing is mean-spirited and spiteful ..it is starting to show up in your face..Pretty is as pretty does and your actions have been ugly..Be happy in your new found freedom and relationship..

Good blog. Well said.

I'm glad that you are happy now. But geez all of you guys need to enforce some manners when you are out regardless of the issues you have with one another. Not only showing Peggy the respect, but the chef, staff and the singer.

Quick question....where did you get the rhinestone cross cap?? Love it!

I thought you said Simon wasn't giving you support? whats the difference between him and Slade?

I love how people try to rip her for not being "nice". Until you have had to deal with catty women for a long period of time, do not judge her on how she acts. Its only so long before you begin to be a mean girl right back. I commend her on being so honest. At least she isnt trying to be fake to their faces. Being real is way more important than being nice. Life is too short to pretend. I love Tamra's comments! She is hilarious.

You are witty, funny, smart and you got the guy! I'm very proud of you for putting your personal life out to the public.....the good, the bad and the ugly. That alone takes a very special person who is strong and passionate about who they are and their future. The one thing that bothers me is that you seem to apologize for your behavior or something you have said almost every blog. Hindsight is 20/20 and watching it every week magnified to millions puts a different spin on things.....Just keep doing what your doing and continue to love the man who is your match!

You are so on point I love 3 of you! Vicki Tamra and Peggy are the only women I care about on this show!

So happy to see you in love and treated so well by Eddie. Not only is he hot he seems to be an amazing boyfriend romantically as well. Can you say jealousy after watching Gretchen do nothing but watch you and Eddie and gossip behind you back?! Keep your head held high and enjoy life with Eddie and kids, love you this season so good to see you being yourself again. Team Tamra all the way. :)

Tamra,I just live your energy,and Eddie is a very good looking guy.

you go girl! Alexis shouldn't have gone to that party if she was feeling that way. She totally wrecked it, because other people were worried about her. I don't care how Gretchen felt, she bothers me.

I'm enjoying you this season Tamra. You seem very happy with Eddie and your confidence is shining through. While the other ladies seem apalled at your comments - I find them funny and right on target. Just continuing being you and following your gut instinct.

Deb47 I agree w/you on most everything except how Stella got her groove back! Age is just a number and she is only 5 years older than him, I have a younger husband myself-going strong for 14 years, so I really don't think him being younger than her is such a big deal-I think Gretchen and Alexis are both jealous of Tamra because of Eddie-I am too-HE IS HOT!!

I wish I could have been there! I would have been right there with you! You are great, and you crack me up!!!

You rock Tamara! You are honest and real. Alexis has got some serious problems. She is beyond annoying. I am beyond tired of her Christian act and her acting like she has the perfect marriage and life. I have no respect either for a man who does not pay child support. I kept my oldest son's father in court,just about the entire time he was growing up. He is 26 now and his dad is still a jerk. My son has no relationship with him. It would have been hard for me to have kept my mouth shut too. There are some people who owe Peggy a big apology. You and Vicki are my favorite. Keep being yourself! Can't wait for next week!

Tamra you are awesome!!!Love you and Vicki!!!

What are your thoughts on Jim and Peggy dating in the past?

so Gretchen says, "So this is how the night is gonna go." When something is said she doesnt like, but she threw the first shot with the Eddie comments. Can't have it both ways.....

Glad you stood up to Gretchen. Loved how she compained, "So this is how the night is gonna be." When she threw the first shot about Eddie. Can't have it both ways,,,,,wackadoo of smiley

I think you and Vicki are the only two Real Women on the show... I am so happy that you finally found a man to treat you the way you should be treated....

All I can say is "WOW"! You're a hoot and last night was a great episode. After all, we wouldn't tune in unless there was drama, drama, drama going on. It would be boring if all you all talked about was getting your nails done, laying in the sun and getting your "ya ya" waxed. Let's face it, we love the drama and the more the better. It's about the "good" side vs. the "evil" side and this season hasn't let us down. You gals rock!

Tamara- you are now my fav on the show--- by far!! I do like peggy too. You should ditch vicki and have peggy as your new bff. good for you for admitting that it was wrong to eavesdrop. I am not a fan of alexis or gretchen.

Uh, deb? In that movie the two of them lived happily ever after.