I love you this season!! You seem so happy with Eddie, and I'm so glad you and Vickie worked on your friendship, however, knowing what it's like being married to someone so controlling, have you ever thought about reaching out to Alexis?

Love you this season Tamra!! You always seem to tell it like it is, and I appreciate that!!! You have a sexy man this season, so no wonder you are in a better mood!!!! I hate it for Donn and Vickie. He seems soooo sweet, and I just hate it for the both of them!! Best of luck to all of you ladies!!! :)

Tamra,

All you seem to do this year is apologize in your blogs for your behavior. Maybe you should change your behavior, if at all possible.

Tamra, it would be nice to have you not be so negative toward others. It is ok to not like someone, but it would be nicer to word it in a way to not be so hurtfuIl. I know you are now in a happier place and I wish you the best. Just remember, you have been where some of these other women are now. Try to be understanding and supportive of your castmates so that they too can find the happiness you seem to have now.

Alexis is jealous of Peggy? I think you have this mixed up. Ahem........isn't Alexis married to Peggy's EX boyfriend? I think Peggy is jealous of Alexis. Alexis seems to be the happiest of all of you women!

I have to say it, I am finally proud of you and how you handled the situation with Fernanda. You owned up to what happened. You were caught in the moment of alcohol, flirted and that was it. Of course Fernanda took it a different way...too bad for her. And you actually were a friend to Vicki and Peggy. You go girl! ......Never thought I would say that!!

What was the breaking news on Watch What Happens Live last week?

your blog are so postive this week stay positive.

If it wasn't for you this season -- this show would be so boring. You keep us entertained! Definitely the breakout star of OC.

Totally off subject here....but I was watching Zumba Conference 2009 on youtube, and could of sworn I seen Tamra's boyfriend Eddie in those videos. Is he one of the Zumba creators?

If you are truly happy in your life then you really need to be less focused on Slade and Gretchen...and now Jim (he doesnt like the caddiness that you bring everywhere you go you need to be nice to people) and Jeana...really if your that happy move on with your life. after watching this show thru all the episodes you have to be the most trash talking person there is. there is a quote by Bob Marley....(this is part of it!) "before you start pointing fingers... make sure you hands are clean!"

Love you Miss Tamara!!!!!

You mentioned something about breaking news on WWHL?? Please explain which episode you meant.. who was the guest? Was it with Kelly Ripa? I have them recorded and I must have missed it b/c I don't know what you mean and I HAVE to find it!!

Wait, Peggy used to date Jim? Really? Can someone clear this up??? What's the story there?

I have to disagree with you Sandy Lou. I think the reason everyone hops on Alexis is her "everything is perfect" attitude. Also, she is so judgmental of everyone but never admitts her misgivings or her friends for that matter. This is a reality show, the other woman show their arguments their divorces and there unhappiness in their relationships, even Gretchen. Alexis is the only one that has to constantly prove how perfect her marriage is. I have to say I don't really care for her because of that reason. She seems so fake to me. Tamara, well she is my favorite. I defiantly don't like all of her behavior but I have been in a relationship with a man the was emotionally and physically abusive. When you finally get free, you have to find yourself again and that is what she is doing. Finding herself, on that path you are going to make mistakes. She owns it and admit that shes wrong and moves on.

What was the "breaking news" on WWHL last night...I watched but must have missed something!

Who said Jim broke up with Peggy, it was the other way around. Alexis has a SERIOUS case of Step Ford Wife syndrome and I agree with Tamra everything she says about her marriage (which she tries to hide behind the bible with), is that she is his servant (arm candy) and he is her master. I find there relationship the most fake of all of them, I’m sorry but even if you’re a GOOD CHRISTIAN why can’t she complete an entire sentence w/out referencing the bible, god or being a good Christian? I find that very very odd. Does she have her OWN thoughts that don’t relate to religion or her master? In addition, her temper tantrum last week was rude and immature. She needs a reality check.

Seriously, STOP talking abount Gretchen/Slade already.

Happy Mothers Day Tamara... Just wanted to say that you and Vicki are the most entertaining ladies of the group. I think you try to be honest with everyone you deal with and I think that’s you most endearing quality. I totally understand the whole franada situation because I am a huge flirt, but I’m also a lesbian. However, I get into trouble sometimes when I send the wrong signals to some men. I see the beauty in men and have flirted and even kissed them, and have had no real interest in seriously getting with any of them. It was a stand up move for you to admit that you may have unintentionally given fernanda the wrong idea, because I’ve had the same thing happen to me with guys.

Thanks for keeping it real T

Lisa

Tamra, You rock this season, telling the truth and making me laugh out loud in every episode. Boohoo for Simon, and yeah for YOU!Girl you are MAKING the show this year. Keep up the fun and hold on to Vicki and Peggy, they are real. By the way, loved the campaign for equal rights ads! Very nice.

I SO AGREE WITH MRSMENDY. IF ALL YOU EVER DO IS SAY HOW SORRY YOU ARE OR WISH YOU WOULDN'T HAVE SAID/DID SOMETHING, WHY DON'T YOU DO SOME SERIOUS INTROSPECTION AND CHANGE SOME BEHAVIORS!

What was the breaking news on Watch What Happens Live last week?

Hi Tamra, You are your own woman and I think your great. A little wild but that is what is also good about you. You tell the truth. Most of the others do not tell the truth.You are evolving.

What happened on "watch what happened live" last week?

Tamra maybe Jim is a jerk but maybe he is also playing it smart trying to stay away from the ladies. Maybe he does not want his marriage to end up like yours and Vicky's. It seems like Vicky is just following in your footsteps, wanting a divorce, and trying to put all the blame on her husband. Next season, she will probably be dating a younger man also. She used to be her own woman but now she may be just your shadow:( I am thinking that you and Vicki should not be dishing out relationship advice to anyone...especially since you both have given up so easily on your marriages. Fame has not enhanced either one of you..it's only shown your true colors:)

Tamara- You seem to be SPOT ON about everyone and aparantly they can't handle the truth! I have always been on TEAM TAMARA, ever think about making shirts??

You're great Tamra!! I think you're 100% right about Alexsis being jealous of Peggy. It seems like Alexis spends a lot of time this season trying to convince everyone how happy she is with Jim but in the meantime she's crying or just seems plain miserable. Her relationship reminds me of your with Simon. One day she's just gonna flip out on him. Stay happy with Eddie and keep living your life, girls like Gretchen and Alexsis are just jealous. IT's written all over their faces :)

I wanted to let you know that you have redeemed yourself this season. I have to coment on the previews for next week. Just know this, nobody has the right to judge your marriage and what happens behind closed doors. If you felt mistreated then that is all that matters. You owe NO ONE any explanations! Be happy and love your kids.

I think you have to remember that these have all been prerecorded. There is a chance that she is changing her behavior and I think her apologizing is a good indication of this.

You mention that you work, where at? Haven't heard you mention it on the show. Can't say I blame anyone for not wanting to be around the OC women; the high school behavior is wearing thin.

Tamara, I will again say that you seem to be at the center of all the childish fights on this show. Eddie seems like a low drama man that doesnt like to get mixed up in too much drama. Learn from the one you love and stop acting like a child. If you dont change it, he will eventually get sick of it and walk out on you.

The only thing you should apologize for is not kissing Fernanda in front of the cameras. I think you should kiss her agian where everybody can see.

Tamra!! You're always my favorite housewife of all the housewives!!

Happy mothers day tamra

Hope Easy on the Eye EDDIE has helped make it a wonderful day

I love you and all the other ladies even though at times or some of the time yuo all get carried away. We as your tv viewers we go through that also. much success to you! God Bless!

No need to say any sorries, enjoy life and have fun. I have to say that I am glad Lynn and her daughters are off the show, she needs no cameos, though. Stay strong and life is too short, especially after Simon.

Tamra, I got to meet you last Thursday in Vegas and you were so awesome! You were scheduled to be there until midnight and I arrived at 11:50 hoping I wasn't too late but you and Eddie were still there! It was so great to see you in person, you're beautiful! Def one of my favorite housewives - keep doing what you're doing!

Thank you, thank you, thank you for being you and not trying to sell us viewers / fans anything like all the other housewives. You are very entertaining!

you rock Tamara! You tell it like it is and people cant handle the truth evidently! And yes Alexis has peggys reject! So I think she thinks Jimbo might have liked Peggy better. Keep doin your thing girl and have fun. Gretchen has to make comments about Eddie because she WISHES she could get someone that good!!

I love you! Your so fun and upbeat. Jim doesn't want to be around you ladies because your smart, independent woman and he's intimidated by that.

Dear Tamra, Although I think you brought criticism on yourself by going on about the age difference between eddie and you, I don't think you deserve the blogs that are sent. Alexis is 34, Jim is 48,not one blog was sent to her about their age gap, do you think this would be the same if Alexis was 48 and Jim was 34? I think not. Mary Kay LeTourneau and all the other women who were convicted of inappropriate behavior with a minor were all married to men their own ages. Those who are in age and gender appropriate relationships seem to be the ones who end up in jail or on probation for wrong doing. Yet, its people who are labeled cougar or in same sex relationships that are targeted. Tamra, I don't think you wanted to go out with Eddie because he was five years younger, I think it was more, so how does this make you a cougar? Labels always turn into something ugly if not scary. More importantly it takes respect and dignity from any human being. Word are very powerful, we all should be careful how we use them and maybe stop labeling. Peace.

I agree. It's gotten OLD!! Not a big Gretchen/Slade fan but surely there's something else Tamra can talk about.

Tamra, When you first came on the show I thought you were the hottest, coolest housewife there was. However, you seem to be going down hill, fast. You are a beautiful woman, and I am sure a great mom as well, but your attitude makes you so unattractive. This whole deal with Gretchen is so old, that it makes me think its all for the show. Just leave it be... how would you tell your children to deal with a situation about this? Would you tell them to be the bigger person and walk away? Or would you tell them to continue to argument? You need to take the high road no matter what Gretchen does. You don’t like the fact that Jenna is all up in your business with Simon, but you continue to be up all in Slade's business about his child support issues. Would like for him to toss you a cease and desist order, maybe toss a drink in your face as well? Tamra, you are doing all the same things. Girl you need to think before you open your mouth.

Alexis admitted in the after show (it's on this site) that Jim and Peggy dated. She acted like everything was cool, but it seemed this was a source of insecurity for her.

The bad press might go away if YOU stop talking about it. Don't you throw a drink in Jeana face for talking about you and you get furious? Ever heard of Karma? Stop talking about others and maybe others will stop talking about you.

It is great that you Have Eddie in your life!

Who cares about age when a man makes you happy!

Gretchen is so jealous of you that I was laughing so bad.... :)

Eddie is young, successful, rich and funny! Great Great Great Good for you!

Really Tamara Really..... give it up with the Slade thing! Have you ever heard what's comes around goes around? Be careful!

Tamra - You are awesome! You seem so real and relaxed now that you have moved on with your life beyond Simon. You crack me up every weekend. Keep on being your bad ass self and don't let anyone bring you down. You are a lot more tolerant than I could be being around Gretchen all the time....she has changed big time since Slade came into her life - try not to punch her out this season (high fives if you do). I thought Don was hilarious at Peggy's party, but I saw the pain in Vickie's face, and it's a shame it didn't work out. But as for you, I will keep on watching and hold on to that man of yours - he seems like a keeper!

The breaking news on WWHL was that Osama bin Laden was dead.

You and Fernanda should go on a real date!