What can I say!! I am 49 from Dublin, Ireland. Now living in Northern Ireland with my wonderful husband for over 25 years. We have 2 sons aged 22 and 18. My husband and I live in a loverly house in the county and we both have reaonably good jobs but are not self-employed. I tape 'Housewives' every day anday and can't wait to get home from work to view. I really like Vicki and Tamra. I have to say I have a soft spot for Donn but did not feel that Simon was particularly nice to Tamra. Of course this is TV and we only get a snippet of what is really happening which can distort our views. I am jealous - not of bling, clothes or lifestyles but of the beautful weather and the opportunity to wear summer clother. I have to know, do all the ladies have spray tans or do they sunbathe a lot??? When does Vicki get time for her beauty appointments and clothes shopping. Does she have help in the house?? I have a lady who cleans for me, I work 4 days per week and still cannot keep on top of what is required of me. Please give me some tips!!! I would love to have more time to exercise. I can't belive that I have written this e-mail - you have all won me over. Jenny

Dear Vicki

I'm an African woman living in England who has only recently gotten into watching the show. I must confess I wasn't wild about you or Tamra at first, but now you're my favourites! You in particular are made of the same stuff my mother, aunts, sisters and frinds are made from - they're all very strong, driven women. They value friendships and look out for each other. And not many people get to mess with you and win - something we have in common! I'm rooting for you and Donn because it would be nice to see you back in that emotional place you were in when you renewed your marriage. And he seems to have so many good qualities compared with other OC hubbies (though Micah's pretty cute!). Don't allow the sniping and gossipping to distract you - you are sooo cool when you're just getting on with your own life.

Take care
AP

Hang in there! You're a wonderful and beautiful lady. You an Tamry are bith a class act!

Vicki,
I LOVE you! I am sorry about your divorce. You are a good person. I dont know Donn so I cant say but you stay strong and this too will pass. We've all been there and are better afterwards. We learn and grow.
God Bless You!

You go girl!! I just admired you so much on your strenghts and your go get it attitude.. I would love to know more about your insurance on how to get involve and see if that's something I would be good at. I would love to enjoy life as you do and expose my son to more in life so that he will be able to see more than what he is use to. Keep doing what you are doing you are such an inspiration to all women..

Hello vicki,

I just wanted to share that I admired your hardwork and strenghts. I love strong women who take care of their business. You are my favorite housewife I would also like to know more about your insurance business and if I can become involved. I would love to enjoy life as you do.. Keep doing what your doing!!! Donna

We are coming to know you better this season and some of the reasons you may have been lashing out a bit the past few seasons. This softer, more vulnerable side of you is fantastic. I want you to know there are millions of people praying for you and Donn, and hoping you both find what you are looking for in your new journeys. God is with you and we all look forward to seeing you grow and change into the woman you have been repressing........Please just do us and yourself a favor, stop saying you work....sweetie we know....
Hugs from a new fan of yours,
mema k

Vicki, there were times you weren't exactly my favorite housewife, but you have grown in a very positive way over the years - with the exception of what you're going through with Donn and your marriage. I came close to divorce last year so I can understand the pain you're going though. Luckily I went to therapy (alone) and my husband did a complete 180 to make things work shortly after I put a deposit on an apartment and brought home the divorce papers. I wish you nothing but the best. You have a good head on your shoulders and I know you will be fine after you work through your pain and grief of the divorce. Take care.

your a smart and beautiful woman

Vicki you are a tribute to the female gender and I salute you! I have always thought men were...how do I say this.. well not as quick! We walk, talk, etc all before males do. The independent woman Vicki, stands up for her friends, lives in this reality and is a hard-worker can appear intimidating. Yes, you are a bit of a control-freak but I love you all the same. One thing I wish for you is to take time and meditate and find a true balance between work and the rest of life. Stress is an amazing thing and it affects us in different ways, and you are too lovely and truthful to for us to loose - so find your center young lady.

Toogirly

Vicki, I love you and Tamra! I watched tonight's episode 5/23/11 and I FEEL your pain regarding your marriage. I am going through the same thing. I cried when you said you wanted a hug at night. I've lived with the crappy situation for five years and I finally made the decision that this is the end. I am tired of the tension and can't live like this anymore. And neither can you--we deserve to be happy and I'm sorry this is happening. Tamra is a good friend and I can't believe Alexis and Gretchen. They're idiots. Be happy and I'm scared as well. Take care and I'll watch for your next blog. Be well and take care!

Vicky,
I can totally relate to you and your life. I went through an early menopause, and got severely sick, that started in my thirty's which made it even worse.
I was so scared and uncomfortable and even worse so lonely with no one by side. Even though I've been in this mess of a marriage for 26 years, he got a out of state transfur with his job as far away from me and our children as he could. Even though we needed him so much, they were teens at that time. The last twelve years there has been no communication, no sex, no nothing, and I feel like I wanta die. I, just wanted to be happily married, but when I got sick I wasn't able to work my stressful job, as a registered nurse and he quit respecting me. I like you hated the thought of being divorced and all alone, and because of my spiritual beliefs, I stayed with my faith and hoped that god would help us through these horrible times. During all this my husband swears he loves me and only me, and he's wasn't with anyone else,didn't want anyone but me. What a lier with absolutely no conscience. I'm still miserably married while, he runs around like most eligble bacculor, sleeping with anything, so dangerous. I don't have my nursing to fall back on because my health. Vicky, I need your help. to start a new career with you teaching me the insurance bussiness. Please help me, to have faith that I will be able to change careers, and make it on my own, away from the drama of living with this lying pathological narsissistic ass. Help save my sanity please.

Please help me,
Your needy fan,

Pamela

I divorced my husband after 34 yrs of marriage (together 37 yrs together) I was scared to death!! I was 52 yrs old, had never been by myself before. It was the hardest decision I had ever made. We were just like you and Donn. We even renewed our vows on our 30 wedding anniversary. There was no affection, no sex, we were just room mates, etc, etc,etc. The day the divorce was final I felt as if the weight of the world had been lifted from my shoulders.
I feel better, look better and I've even remarried (after telling myself I would never remarry). Remember, you are not old, age is just a number. Women are strong and we can do anything!!!!! God bless you....

Vicki, I left my husband after 34 years of marriage at the age of 52. (I had actually been with him for 37 yrs) It was the hardest decision I ever had to make in my life. I was scared to death, had never been on my own before. My marriage was just like yours,we were room mates, no affection,we even renewed our vows on our 30th anniversary etc. etc,etc. The day my divorce was final I felt as if the weight of the world had been lifted off of my shoulders! You will learn age is just a number!! I look better, feel better and I actually remarried (after telling myself I would never remarry) Women can do anything!!!! God, bless you.

VICKI you are a smart woman if your husband cant see that then he doesn't know what he's losing you are a very very beautiful and very smart hard working woman any man like me would want a woman who works as hard and still can look as beautiful as you do

Vicki, you are a strong beautiful woman. you are a wonderful mother.you are an incredible businesswoman. life is too short to stay in a relationship that isn't working. you have happines out there on the other side of this. you can do it. God will bring you through it.

I saw the episode tonight and even though we as viewers are behind- i wish you nothing but the best. Many people do not know the difference between being alone and being lonely. I have seen maybe 3 seasons of your show and can see that you are a strong, beautiful woman. Women like us always come back up stronger. I hope you get better (healthwise) and remain beautiful-- always your friend, Jessie from TX.

I just wanted to say my heart truly went out to you tonight Vicki. Watching the show I could see how lonely you had become and I felt so sad for you. I believe that we have seen some of what you see with Donn. A few minutes of T.V. time isn't enough to get the whole gist of someones marriage and it is easy to prejudge someone by those seconds. I think we got it all wrong. Your morals and views on marriage are definitely honorable. I think most of us woman want what you described. Wow very moved by what you said. I wish you all the best. I hope you can find some peace and true happiness in your life.

VIcki, you are so inspiring with your work ethic and how you strive to be such a positive woman in the work force. Just a piece of advice. Obviously you have seen yourself on the show and you've seen your own children make comments on how you are hard to deal with. Seriously. Sit back and think about your relationship with Don. He's such an amazing guy. If you leave him, think how hard it will be to find someone who will actually put up with your "anal" OCD tendencies. Don is honestly trying so hard to save your marriage and it seems obvious you aren't even giving a damn because that's the easy way out. You are a strong, sophisticated woman and someone to look up to. MAKE IT WORK GIRL. You can bring that marriage back. Save that romance. You and Don deserve it. Stop making your life about you and your work and prioritize you and your marriage. Your work may be rewarding but it certainly won't give you and orgasm !

Vicki, I totally agree with Jamie W! I so wish I had someone in my past like you!
Yes, you are a work-a-holic and can be controlling, but you seemed to be the only OC woman that is true to herself, her friends and the heck with anyone else! We all could learn a lesson in that and not worry about being somebody we're not! Luv you!!!

I love you Vicki you rock!!!!!

I'm a huge fan of yours. I wish you well.

Thanks for bringing me back to simple truths! I love that website!

Vicki, you are a amazing woman! You have a amazing family, great kids, a wonderful husband and a business that you built and should be very proud of! I have watched some episodes that are on Bravo today from 2006 and Brianna was graduating and to see her now and you then you look so much a like. I watch every show and would love to be as successful as you. You should be very proud of yourself as I know your family and friends are. I was so excited last year when you and Don reconnected and you were so cute together and now this year it seems as you are so far apart. I pray for you and hope everything gets better. I just saw where Sunday your in the hospital and I hope your OK. Love and blessings to you! Whooo Hooooo!! :)

I love you Vicki you rock!

You seem very sweet and honest, you wear your emotions on your face for the world to see, which is good and bad. You appear to be a good friend to Tamra and don't need any bull in your life from the rest of them.