Alexis Bellino

Alexis explains how she keeps her marriage working with Jim and questions Tamra's doubts about Brooks.

on Apr 11, 2012

I hope everyone had a wonderful, fun, relaxing Easter! The other night I was organizing the kid's baskets and candy and consumed 22 pieces of candy. Darn that Easter Bunny! I think their candy may have to accidentally end up in the trash can so mommy doesn't get a tummy ache again!

This episode, Tamra is worrying about Vicki, but I can't tell if Tamra's concern for Vicki's boyfriend, Brooks, is sincere. I can understand someone caring for the best interest of their friend, however, I do not understand handling it in a manner that would hurt or offend your friend. At the end of the day, it's really none of our business who Vicki dates or falls in love with. I have met Brooks on many occasions, and he does say all the right things, but I've also seen him and Vicki bicker like any normal couple. We can all sit around and pick apart each other's boyfriends/girlfriends, but I truly believe that you should not offer your opinion where you are not asked.

If Tamra is truly concerned for Vicki's relationship, she should sit her down, A-L-O-N-E, and give Vicki her points of concern. And then once she has done that, if Vicki is not receptive, guess what? You should butt out! Vicki is a big girl and very intelligent, and Vicki will come to the conclusion on her own if what Tamra is saying is true. Vicki is vulnerable and newly divorced, which sounds exactly like Tamra when she met Eddie. I'm just happy Vicki is happy because if Vicki's happy...EVERYONE's happy! LOL!