Alexis Bellino

Alexis explains what she was hoping to achieve at Heather's party.

on Jun 29, 2012

Whew that was a long season! And an interesting one at that! This has been a rough one for me, but rest assured, it will not get me down for long! I may have struggled over crazy emotions, confused friendships, and overworking. . .but I love my life and am so thankful for everything that has happened this year! I've had a week to sit back and relax, which I MADE myself do... and I feel refreshed, energetic and ready to take on the world again! I have learned so much about myself this season -- some good, some not-so-good. When I really contemplate what is important in my life I realize it's all in check, so everything else will fall as it may, and my life is still pretty darn fabulous!!! Thank You God!

I think Heather's party was beautiful. She did a phenomenal job, and it was truly breathtaking to walk out to the back yard of white leather furniture. Every detail was carefully thought out, from the cake with the edible diamonds, all the way to the toast of giving away a real diamond. Yet with all these material things. . .I'm the pretentious one.

As long as we are on the topic of Heather's party, there is one important message I must make clear. I would never invite someone to someone else's party. Sarah told me she was already on the guest list, so when she asked to ride with me, I said yes. Just to be crystal clear, Sarah was ALREADY going to Heather's party, with or without me, so when she wanted to ride with me, of course I said yes. I was also very aware of the bowling party incident with Sarah, and I wanted to be sure to avoid a recurrence of that situation, which is why I lectured Sarah about not drinking too much and even encouraged to switch to water.

I have known Sarah for many years, and the bowling party incident was so shocking to me because I had personally never witnessed that side of Sarah before, so I was going to try to avoid it from occurring again. I also know Sarah was/is going through a difficult time with her break-up, and I'm not about to turn my back on a friend just because she is going through a rough patch. I will not kick my friend while she is down. I would rather try to help her through it.