Heather Dubrow

Heather Dubrow tries to find a way to kickstart her acting career again.

on Apr 27, 20120

My personality is I call it like I see it. The moment anyone calls Alexis out on her behavior, she plays victim. I have said from the start that I am trying to figure her out -- she can be sweet and fun, and then she says other things and acts in a way I don't condone. It's phony. All of the ladies see it and are commenting on it as well. At some point, if everyone says you are dead, LIE DOWN!

OK, enough of that rant.... Vegas was really fun and I hope you are enjoying the trip! See you next week!

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105 comments
ColsLover
ColsLover

Heather after all these seasons you are by far my favorite! I love how real you are with all of the ladies and you have such a great personality and family. Such a breath of fresh air!!!

RHWWatcher
RHWWatcher

Heather, you kill me! I love your wittiness! You are so hilarious, and smart, successful, and just a class-act!!! Keep these women in line like you've been doing! You MAKE this show! Thank you!

Delsey Dining
Delsey Dining

I love Heather...I find her smart, sassy and very amusing.

Her husband Is adorable....i love him to bits too.

I think they are a great couple...long may it continue.

Heather has a fabulous home...too big for me though, it echo's LOL and i dont like that.. But Heather and Terry are the most down to earth couple on the show. I love Terry coming out with what he does..hes not mean for means sake..he just says it.

Go Heather and Terry x

GillyWok
GillyWok

You are stunning and beautiful, smart, well-mannered. Love you! You need your own show about your style, diet, exercise regime.

Angela 327
Angela 327

I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank god your on the show.. you and terry are so down to earth and luv your kids too!!

PLHogan
PLHogan

Heather, I have nothing but accolades for you. Can't wait to see you on the screen again. Hope you realize you are dealing with neanderthals when it comes to anything cultural; I mean that in the pure sense of the word. Film and TV are part of our culture and if they have never seen you on any media...well you finish the sentence. They poke fun at you when it only shows how narrow they are.

HawaiiViewer
HawaiiViewer

Love you Heather! I think you are hilarious! I see on the show how you are trying to figure Alexis out and I respect you for that! I think you are intelligent and classy and most of all, honest!

I LOVE how you say it like it is and I love the dynamics between you and your husband. You two are a pleasure to watch!

Good luck with your acting career! Don't let the other women's cattiness drag you down! :)

Curly 1
Curly 1

Heather, my first comment to you (after the first episode), was not very kind--I didn't really care for you. However, you and your husband have grown on me. I have one request from you: don't re-start your acting career in order to be exciting for the show. What you and your husband bring to the show is refreshing, just the way it is. I really enjoy watching the dynamic between the two of you and how you interact with your children.

I believe you should concentrate on your children until they are all in school. Trust me, they grow so fast and you can never get that time back. I worked hard for my career so when my children were born I always returned to work after two months. My children are now grown and I can see how their values are not like mine--they learned everything from their nanny. I have since lost my great job (bad economy). Everything I sacrificed--including my children--was for nothing. If I had it to do over again, I would certainly choose my family over my self gratification of a professional career. I didn't give my family a chance to show me that they could have fulfilled my needs. Stay smart and don't make the mistake I made.

teri o
teri o

Welcome Heather hope you are having a good time on the show; we are sure enjoying it. Please don't go too far out of your way to point out Alexis's (many) shortcomings. Best wishes with your acting career

Get real!
Get real!

You are the best!!! Love you calling out Alexis. You are my new fav! It's about time BRAVO!! Get rid of Vicki and Alexis and the show would be really fabulous!

Lana1
Lana1

Love ya Heather! I think out of all, you have the most class. You're refined and poised. Teach the rest how to act like classy women........PLEASE!!

Perrygirl2588
Perrygirl2588

Heather!

Your are one awesome Lady! You are a class act, honest and to the point in such a controlled and well thought out way. Your points are valid and well made and I admire you for that. You are a fab. addition to this cast!

Gigi 1
Gigi 1

I really hope Heather doesnt take some of these comments too seriously..Heather does seem "98%"real to me...I know to really know someone you need to spend time with that person...so to judge Heather on only 5-6 episodes is not really fair..Now Alexis..yes, she deserves some of those comments because Alexis talks crap, and always has, season after season and just gets worse and worse. This season has to be the worst....So "Hang in there Heather" you should be ok on the show, just stay real!

GMomma2
GMomma2

If you are an "Actress" get a real gig and leave reality tv alone- Please!!!!!!!

alicemarie93
alicemarie93

I absolutely love you the most on this show. You tell it how it is. also, I was trying to figure out where I recognized your husband and then it hit me he was the doctor on the tv show Bridalplasty! You guys are the best!

TArk
TArk

In you blog you apologize about being mean and immature but make some of the same negative comments at the end of your blog. That is not classy or smart. As a matter of fact, smart people do not have to remind others that there smart!

quirkygrl16
quirkygrl16

I'll be honest..at first I didn't think I was going to like you but I must say i'm soo happy you are here this season. You bring a breath of fresh air.Your husband is great as well. I love that you've come out of your shell a lot more.

SouthernLady1
SouthernLady1

Heather, it took me a while to figure out where I had seen you before! My husband and I absolute loved That's Life with you and Debbie Mazar. I respect you for your ability to prioritize your life - family should come first and there is nothing more rewarding than having your adult children tell you how much they appreciated you being there to support them all the way. The show is far from "reality" with some being much more mature than others ;-)!

Ricci20186
Ricci20186

As the great Hunter S. Thompson would phrase it... are you sure that your husband is not "artistic"? I'm sorry, I had to put it out there. I can't be the only one thinking it.

Avasha
Avasha

I use to watch this show as a weekly break from the real world, because let's be honest, its a bit ridiculous. But now I watch this show because its nice to see someone like Heather on the show - a fellow New Yorker, smart, savvy and a woman of substance. I love how her and Terry function, they're a team, open and honest with another. Her approach to the women, such as Alexis, to resolve a problem is how the real world works. These women live in this world where they act like children, and sometimes I do think shows like these are why women are dramatic and think its okay. Tangent - bottom line, Heather, you're awesome, I think you're a great addition to the show, way to do transplanted New Yorkers proud.

Soda7nb
Soda7nb

Don't comment on other people's marriages unless you don't mind other people commenting and criticizing your own! Word of the wise!

Boston Housewife
Boston Housewife

Saw your stuff from the past. You are funny and a really good actress! I'm sure that you will get what you want. Keep auditioning!

CindiofGV
CindiofGV

you are awesome. The show needed a breath of fresh air and you are it. Its great to watch a loving mother have it all. Keep it up. Alexis is a wanna be and thats all she will ever be.

lilmouse123
lilmouse123

Heather I admit when u first came on the scene I thought : "oh boy here we go again, another pretentios and snooby one". However, as the show progressed, I was glad I was mistaken. You are truly classy lady, an excellent mother and a lovely mate to your husband. I have yet to see you make a mockery out of yourself as have all other hw. done. I was particularly impressed on how well you handled Lex, as she was ranting & raving like a lunatic on and on at the bunco party. You stood ur ground, were firm but non condescending and tried to appease her, alas to no avail. I would like to see Vicki try to step on ur toes, but I'm willing to bet this will never happen. That nice dinner u took her and the other bimbo to L.A. showed once again how far above all those other women u are. Vicki stepping out 2 answer a phone call without saying at least sorry for interrupting your dinner, is the point I am trying to make. And her heavily negative attitude when you shared ur aspirations to open a nice restaurant? Well typical Vicky- she simply can't stand anyone being successful but her.

lovetherhoc
lovetherhoc

you are my fave! glad you are on the show. you handle everything in such a smooth and classy manner. :) Your husband seems like a total jokester and it makes me laugh. Maybe you can puta little class into some of the ladies there.

jacklyn e
jacklyn e

Heather ,thank you for coming on.I wasnt going to watch this seaon, there is only so much illiterate, fighting and plastic surgery I can stand.To see someone real and with a brain is refreshing.You remain first class through all the chaos of their , fighting and phoniness .Way to go Heather

MissMisty
MissMisty

Hi Heather! :) First off that's Alexis, that's all she's ever done since joining the group. But first, she has to ask her master if she can do anything on the show. I'm very surprised he's showing his face after he said he didn't want to be around "those girls." You and Terri are so good together, can't say that about some others. I think it's fabulous that you're looking for the work you love, and you already have it figured out with the kids, very smart lady! Stay true to yourself like you always do anyway. LOL Love you, Terry and your beautiful children. PS. Don't let (any one;)) get to you, not worth it!

jacklyntoots
jacklyntoots

Oh Heather , you are a breath of fresh air , and i love you. Your the most real, most educated , and the only first class woman in the bunch.Thank , if you werent on my friends and I would have stop watching this fighting fake bunch of ignorant women this season.

Lass1972
Lass1972

love your family..... I feel that you are an honest straight to the point person...and if certain people like Alexis find that rude...well many people only want to hear what they want and not what they need too... Alexis seems to feel she needs to state the things she has...I guess to make herself feel better...and Itseems like she can only wish she had a relationship with her husband like you do...he is so supportive of you and will do whatever to make things work where as Jim...well...he is the totall opposite ...and she has to fake the happiness where as yours is genuine....

C& S
C& S

I have to agree with post above. You bring some much needed intelligence to the show - totally love you , Tamra and Gretchen and it cracks me up how people post on Gretchen singing etc...at least she did it..and she is fun! Please help Vicki & Alexis realize their downfalls..time for some professional therapy for those two. As to your family/home situation , I have worked in insurance/investments for along time . That allowed me to never miss a game, cheerleading ..academic event field trip. Kids grow up so fast , if you have the luxury to be with them do so. I recently left job in Dec...now I am a poolside mom..I am still busy with the kids. You can balance both, just try to make sure you can go and see whatever events, etc your kids are in ..Good Luck with audition!

ceily
ceily

Jim should pay attention to your relationship........You are just too much for me. Hope your perfect world is never rocked, not sure you could survive!

DVIEWER
DVIEWER

HEATHER HAS THE MOST AMAZING STYLE!! Both in home decorating and fashion!

Merpcola
Merpcola

Heather, you are the Housewife I look forward to seeing each week! I love to see the strong partnership you and your husband share. You inspire me to remain calm no matter what insanity is going on around me. You are truly a breath of fresh air. I always find myself smiling whenever you are on the screen!

B-More Real
B-More Real

Didn't see much difference between your conversation with Terry and Alexis' conversation with Jim....both men said they didn't want their wives away from home for 12 and 14 hours a day. Both were fairly condescending and both you and Alexis painted them as "supportive". I believe you and Alexis both believe your men are awesome. That's great. I'm not even arguing that point - I just wish you would stop playing holier than thou - Heather - you are not better than anyone else! And P.S.: Just because you speak more slowly than the others that does not make you smarter!!!

kateee
kateee

I enjoy you on this show. You give it class and personality. I hope they add more people like you on the show next season. I wish Peggy never left but I don't blame her with crazy Alexis and lying Gretchen. I can tell they are trying to bring more class and wealth to this branch!

Carobelle
Carobelle

I love your contribution to the show! Your witty personality, style, and real family values are refreshing and I enjoy seeing you handle situations with class in a ladylike manner.

Colorado Viewer
Colorado Viewer

I think you are a wonderful addition to the show. I appreciate that you acknowledged not only your own comments but those made by Alexis as well. She is not a victim and you are not a "mean girl."

Michelle23
Michelle23

Heather - glad Bravo added you to the OC cast! You're a classy lady and some of the other cast members like Alexis could learn a lot from you!!!

Go Heather
Go Heather

So glad someone is finally calling Alexis out on her BS. Ignore her fans' rude comments here...she has many people fooled. People fail to see the fake, superior, self-important side of her personality because sh throws the Christian thing in there all the time. She is incredibly good at playing victim while throwing jabs at everyone around her. Keep doing what you are doing...she could use a tiny bit of your class. (c'mon...nutjob Sarah counts her as a bestie...enough said. LOL)

heatherfan
heatherfan

Kudos to you, Heather. Finally a housewife who is smart, sexy, witty, and honest. I love the dynamic between you and you're husband. Please stay true to yourself and don't. let any negative comments get to you. I am sure the viewers will see what I do as the season unfolds . We need you around to class it up.

annaob
annaob

you keep doing what you're doing. alexis is alexis. if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, talks like a duck; it;s a duck....... alexis makes no sense to me either. i've stopped trying to understand her, i leave the room to do something that needs to be done when she;s on, especially if it has jim there also.........

kitty cat
kitty cat

Heather- Keep on being you!! You are the only one of these ladies I will miss when the season is over. And your hubby! I certainly hope you come back next season- I only began watching because of you this season and I will not be watching next time if you're not there!! xx

Funniest line spoken in HW history for me: "Where did she park her spaceship?!" said by Terry. What a smart and funny guy! I laughed out loud that when he said it and I am going to put that one in my memory for future use. Hope that's OK with Terry!!

H- You are upfront and witty- when you find you have stepped over the line, you apologize, own it, and move forward, which is far, far, more than most of any HWs do. You also don't pull punches and you are fair and kind.

When a total idiot is in front of you (Sara), you have still tried to be compassionate, but that fell on deaf ears. So be it. You can only do so much before it's useless.

Alexis needs to stop her whining about you- it's so old. She is taking out her personal frustrations on you, she's a confused person. I don't think she intends to be mean-spirited, it could be a consequence of being confused. I do feel sympathy for her, but don't think she will never be free of the thumb she is under. She knows she will be on her own if she tries and I don't think she knows how to be on her own. Heather- you ARE everything Alexis wants to be!! I'm sure it's hard for her to be nice to you- secretly wishing some sort of negative energy on you. But what she doesn't realize- you will always land on your feet no matter what happens- this is what she needs to learn how to do.

Anyhow- I wish you the best and hope to see you again!! Good luck with your family, your career, restaurant, etc., and whatever you choose to do. Thanks for letting us get to know you and your family. XX

carolyn f
carolyn f

I think Alexis says things like she wishes they really were. Delusional or positive thinking? I don't think you're mean, Tamra and Vicki have been saying the same thing since Alexis first came on. So, that's how many people?

I love you on the show! You and your family are great!

RealLONGBEACHhousewife
RealLONGBEACHhousewife

Heather, I LOVE YOU!!!! You are a breath of fresh air! Finally, a RH that has brains, beauty, and a mouthpiece! You go girl!

Fontaine
Fontaine

I think your GREAT! Finally somebody normal on the show. I love that your so balanced and calm among so many crazy women. Amazing.

NYBurbHousewife
NYBurbHousewife

Heather, I love you! I think you are soooo lucky to have Terry and vice versa....I think anyone who calls you a Mean Girl is off their rocker! You are REAL and I must say you, Tamra and Gretchen are my favs this season....I wish they would replace Alexis with Peggy then I'd be happy! Alexis is soooo phony and I'm glad people are finally calling her out on it!

lholly14
lholly14

If the shoe fits, just wear it already. Anyone watching the show can see you are picking on her regardless of whether or not she calls you out on it in her blog. And actually Alexis doesn't bash you at all in her interviews, aside from a few harmless remarks she made when she 1st met you (that I'm sorry to say seemed pretty on point).