WOW! I was so looking forward to the '80s-themed bunco party. I had no idea what was about to erupt!!! This group has a way of spinning out of control when you least expect it. It's like a hurricane -- it comes and goes quickly and leaves behind a crazy mess to clean up.
I'd like to address what happened at the party with Alexis. The problem is she had told us all that she was having sinus surgery and never mentioned any cosmetic surgery (except to Gretchen). No one cares if she wants a rhinoplasty. It was the different stories that got her in trouble. Either come clean or keep it to yourself!
It seemed like Alexis was itching for a fight the whole night. . . I feel like I have been attacked by Alexis since we met, and I'm not sure why. But when she got Terry involved, I couldn't stand by and watch. He had no idea who was being discussed (how would he know that Gretchen calls her "Lex"). Pick on me all you want, but you DON'T mess with my man!
Anyway, I would like to say that Alexis sent me a very sweet text message the next day. She said she overreacted and felt bad about what happened. I thought that was great, I appreciated it. . .And once again, I hope we can start fresh here.
Heather - I like you, and I think you make a good addition to this group. I like how you try to keep neutral with the women, and how you try not to badmouth the others. I think you try to be better than that. What I do not like is how you seem to treat your husband like a kid and not a grown adult. For example, when you told him to stop playing with your daughter when the three of you were in your closet, because the two of you would be late it appeared it was in the tone and manner you said it. It appears that you are speaking down to him. So many women would love their husband to give some attention to their children. I do not think you intend to do this, but I have noticed it more than once. Maybe it is the camera's presence. I do not know, but my husband has noticed it too even before I mentioned it to him. I wonder if other viewers have noticed it.
I like how you stuck up for your husband to Alexis, it was obvious that he was not directing his comments at her.
I thought it was great that you and your husband did the mud run. Way to go….
The original premise of the HW's series was to display OC wealth, and to make us all jealous about the "women behind the gates". Truth be told, none of the women with the exception of Vicki had any money or wealth. All of the HW's money was driven from the inflated housing market, and when that crashed, so did all of them. Heather is the real deal. She cannot help that she is six seasons too late for the OC show...
Just to make a correction on everyone's comments that Heather will be using her husband's money to open up her "Pet Project". Her husband said they will be bringing in investors and if it fails, well so be it. This man has no respect for prospective investors and for the patients that visit his office. Very bad choice for Bravo to bring Heather on. She's worse then Peggy and Peggy was a pig.
I think you and your husband seem to be great balancing acts for each other. You both make quiet the pair. I see a "Spin Off"!
Heather, I really enjoy you and your husband. You are good additions to the mix. Sometimes you do come off as a little prissy but I wonder if that is just nervousness.
You guys were real troopers at the mud-o-thon. You threw yourselves into with enthusiasm and had some fun.
I am looking forward to see what happens next...
You honestly flaunt your money.. Watching your husband and you out for dinner was hard. You are embarrasing him with your send back and constant dribble about the food. He anticipates your behavior because its a standard. Its sad. I feel like the guy probably works his ass off wants to come home and be apprectiated. Not picked apart for his wardrobe.. and more. I wonder when is that last time you kicked your heels off and let him lead. You are degrading him in public and private. I suggest you take a good look at Vickie and sit down and compare your behavior to that of Vickie. There are some parralles. You are both dominating and self absorbed. You have zero in common with Alexis.. move on. You have not been on tv or relevant for years. Own it. You claim to fame is Mrs Plastic surgeon now. For a woman who can not find time or interest in making her family dinner at home it is an irony that you would go into a restraunt business. I pity the chef and your send backs. I surmise you dont have a cook at home.. because of exactly those qualities. They cant meet your false expectations.
You watched the RHOOC before and it will be proven next week. It is apparent your husband snd Slade wants to be the next housewife. They should remove you and bring back peggy at least she had a storyline and knows how to behave in uncompromising positions unlike yourself.
Heather, Still trying to figure you out. Sometimes I think you may be truly nice but then I see "sleight of hand". The way you talk about being a co-owner of a restaurant as a "pet" project and if you lose the money "oh well". If you really want to open a restaurant, open a soup kitchen for the people who are actually going without meals. Stop being so superficial and actually put your husband's money to good use.
Anytime Alexis drinks alcohol, she makes a scene. Couple of seasons ago she tried to start a fight at Gretchen's house because she thought one of the women there was flirting with Jim. The girl later says "hey lady, get real, I don't want your man. No one wants your man. He's NOT attractive!" LOL I think there is something in Alexis' divorce papers from her first husband about her alcohol abuse. So consider the source Heather, nothing personal, the girl's just drunk.
Heather, I love that you're on the show. You are intelligent, brunette and seems like a great wife and mother. I don't know if anyone ever tells you, but you remind me of Victoria Beckham (in looks). Keep up the great work on RHOC and I hope you stay on it for a very long time!
you are gorgeoussss and i am glad that you are not dramatic and stupid like most of the orange couty wives
Heather, You are probably my favorite person this season. Its nice to have someone brought into the show that wasn't a long time friend of someone already on the show. I find it very refreshing that you call it like it is and stand up for what you believe in. I don't know what exactly it is that Alexis has against you but i think that Tamra is partially right by saying that she's jealous of the life you live because it's the life that she's been faking to live for years now. Keep being you and i hope that you come back for several more seasons.
All these haters OMGosh! Well bottom line is they can't carry themselves with the class you do. Your standards are higher. Your finances are better. Your clothes are nicer. Your friends are more educated. Your girlfriends are prettier than any of the girls on the OC currently. I say they are all jealous. I will say this though... sometimes you come off a little too privileged in an overly snobby way I was raised in Palos Verdes Estates.. ground yourself my dear..Standards are one thing but you are still a human being, like the rest of the world. Your works matter being of your lineage, you should be a help to mankind because you have the ability. Make others feel good about themselves by being helpful to show them how to be better to each other and thrive financially.. You have it all.. everyone has more potential you are lucky to have all the potential you have! share yourself in a positive way. Spiritually, financially, emotionally...then you will truly have it all. Not to mention it will show your children what true humility and class you really have..
Even after watching this show from season one and riding the RHOOC rollercoaster I have to say I never felt the urge to comment as strongly as I do now. Heather, I liked you in the first 5 minutes of your appearance and I thought that Bravo finally picked a classy woman but you sure did prove me wrong. I have to say you claim yourself to be classy and intelligent but I beg to differ. Flaunting your money is not classy, insulting and putting down other is not classy. Intelligent people do find fault with other but they keep it to themselves and never need to put down that person. I cannot believe the remarks that come out of your mouth. There is also a different between being Bit*hy and having money and you sure are on the B end. I’m sorry but Bravo made a huge mistake by pulling you on. Thank God we not have the ability to fast forward thorough show because I never watch your segments anymore.
Bravo please don’t every sign her on again.
I thought I was going to like you. I was wrong. This was very sad to watch. Why would you women turn on Alexis? You say she should come clean about having a nose job ~ that was so ridiculas. I don't feel like Alexis lied at all. She said sinuses and the bonus is she gets to have a bump removed in the process. Good for her! why in the world would you catty women jump all over her? You are taking the wrong side in my opinion and basically proved you are not a very nice person. oh well... life goes on.
Sorry Heather you are not very intelligent. First rule you learn at home is judge a person after you meet them not based on someone's opinion. You should have questioned Tamera's motives for wanting you to dislike Alexis. I liked until i found out easily it is to manipulate you. Most self proclaimed intelligent people are actually prime targets for bullies such as Tamera. You did not waste anytime bashing Alexis very intelligent along with you husband. Here's an etiquette rule: Do not bash someone at a gathering especially when they're a few feet away. Rule two: Don't insult someone to make yourself appear to be intelligent such as we want use any big words next time. Rule three: Your husband should not bash a woman on national television especially if he makes his living as a plastic surgeon (very girlish). We do not notice Slade anymore. Rule three: Be mindful of someone's feelings other than your own. That last one maybe difficult for you. Why? You are blowing a million dollars on a restaurant during a recession when most of the Bravo audience is struggling to pay their bills. Every new RHW arrives on the scene bragging about their finances and suddenly their in bankruptcy and unable to pay their bills. I am unsure of your storyline but I would like a replacement. i thought Bravo would bring in someone who is wild and fun possessing the true California spirit. Remember Bravo does not tolerate bullying and their cleaning house. Lastly, Peggy lasted one season and so did another housewife remember that when you are siding with Tamara. As a Bravo fan, we are trying to deter bullying but you and Tamara along with Caroline and Jacqueline RHWNJ are promoting bullying. Please stop we are having to many school shootings. Bravo is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!
Am I the only one that saw you working your husband's attitude toward Alexis. You knew that the way you guys were treating her was wrong...so you had to make sure that your husband saw it the way you wanted it spun. You prey on Alexis' insecurities. If you truly believed that a nose job was no big deal and her business, then why did you participate in harassing her about it. Bad for your husband's business...your attitude and making him look foolish. If you were protecting your husband- protect him from engaging in conversations that are actually booby traps of sorts- appearing to be asking his professional opinion when the intent is just to be immaturely gossipy and judgemental. If you really believed that you were better than Alexis- you wouldn't be so passive aggressive towards her. She shouldn't be a threat to you. What are you afraid of.
Heather, Seriously, you didn't know what you were getting yourself into, I doubt that. I'm not finding anything about you that is positive, in fact, I wish Bravo had kept Peggy! You're a snake!