Heather, I am so inspired by your gusto for life matched with such class and sophistication. Tamra is terrific, and although your backgrounds are like night and day, I love how you are becoming friends. You are the first OC housewife that honestly has the full time (not just to impress!) authentic OC extravagant lifestyle. You are the real deal!! Love watching you :)

Hey Heather, I got the outfit right off!! That is classic 80's!! Loved Terry's also. Love that you rise above the drama. From one brunette to another, you do great and dont you dare go blond!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Use your own advice and "Lay off"!

Hey you are my favorite housewife you are so pretty also you should be so proud to be the mother of your four beautiful children

I LOVED your 80's inspiration!

Tamta's friend Ricky was the classic "I'll make myself the center of the conversation even if I have no idea of what I'm talking about". Good for Gretchen for sticking up for herself (and you and Alexis, too) and telling Ricky to mind his own business.

I'm thinking that Alexis and Gretchen really were too young to remember the 'Addicted to Love' video, and Vicki was probably too busy working. You looked great!

Heather, While I'm grateful for your moral character, I question your desire to belittle others. While some may not share your gift of intellect, remember we are each blessed with positive attributes. Also, our Creator wants us to remember him always...Not just when we need something.

Love, love, love you! I thinkmyou are witty,smart, funny, and tell it like it is. I feel like you are the most genuine and being an east coast girl myself, I love what you bring to the show. A smart, dry sense of humor and class. Not an obnoxious dumb girl kind of humor. I think you can see right through fake and stick with what's real. Sooo glad you are on the show and I can't wait to see more!

Welcome to the cast!! I love having you added into the group of girls. You definately add a new dynamic to the bunch. You have a beautiful family! Your children are adorable and your husband a sweet heart. I just adore your home ( also watched a previous episode tonight) where they showed you with your family (which was so sweet). I was so impressed to hear that you and your husband designed the house and had it built. I can see why you are so conflicted about possibly having to sell, especially after having put so much into creating your home. Glad you've joined the cast and look forward to watching this season!

Heather, I have mixed thoughts about you right now. You seem to instigate issues between the ladies, than you make comments that sound like you are trying to be a peace-maker. Please, please, don't end up a petty, superficial, _ itch. Class is only classy if it's consistant behavior, otherwise, you just appear to be a wannabe.

Heather, why would you bring up what slade said in the comedy show? You had to know those comments would be hurtful to hear for Tamra. I see no ladylike behavior in passing along hurtful comments. I feel like you try so hard to be above the other ladies, but I would never be the bearer of that kind of news. Classy people stay out of conflict they don't egg it on.

I got the Robert Palmer girl look immediately. I don't like how you automatically took Tamra's cue to go after Alexis without drawing your own conclusions. It's obvious this was the game plan no matter what. I was hoping to like you, but not so much.

Heather, I was really concerned that editing was going to make you the Camille of RHOBH Season 1...after tonight I no longer believe that will happen. You are a say it like it is girl, without offending people. I have to admit I was worried for you, but after tonight you are going to be a season favorite! :)

My husband & I had fun with your hubby on Twitter tonight, reliving our favorite metal bands! My account is private, so you can't see my tweets, unless you're following me....which would be very cool! ;) Just in case you want to my screenname is @8smileys

LEAVE ALEXIA ALONE. YOU ARE MEAN A JEALOUS. DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND DON'T BE TAMRA'S FRIEND. TAMRA IS INFECTING YOU.

Heather you have the nerve to talk about alexis nose amoung other things.girl that is lame compared to what tamra just said about lex.tamra is a big bully.you do not have class at all at this moment.tamra talks valger and you think everything about her is so real.let me see who shall we say is not the so smart ones of the bunch.you also stated not to talk about ladies like slade did. tamra and you now are talking about alexis much worse. if you were confident you would not worry so much about her.by the way if we as christians want to go to the casino once or twice a year.play dice we can.usually if i say a prayer i win.stop labeling christians.tamra and gretchen seem so fake.no one will stand by her like lex did when everyone els was bashing them.slade and gretchen.lex and vicki my favs this season.you need to watch the other seasons.you are clueless.print this for heather.she should wise up.

Hey Heather; When I saw the wide coral ribbon your assisstant bought, then the toy guitar, I knew exactly what your costume would be. I can truly say you are far more beautiful than R. Palmer's girls in that video. I'm also a brunette with a widow's peak hair line, however mine is a little more pronounced. Being a fifth generation Texan with Scottish/ Irish heritage My eyes are blue. When I was a child, so many kids would make fun of my hairline...calling me Vampire, etc. Funny thing is, now I love my hairline and always receive compliments. I am curious if you experienced the same situations about your widows peak as a child ? I would love to get your feedback !! Heather, you are just what the Doctor ordered for the OC. They needed a " Voice of Reason ."

Heather,

Just love you. That was a "GREAT" costume. Although your castmates did not immediately recognize who you were. Believe me, A LOT of your fans did.

Get over bashing Alexis-it makes you look very small.

I have had friends for ovr 30 years and we never fight. Why do you and the others think it is so important to tell each other i someone else says something about them, doesn't that seem a lttle bit Jr High school to you?? I mean you are upposed to be a grown adult woman, an example to your kids someday ad yet you thought it was so important to tell what Slade did, especially since you were not even there when all Vick and Tamra did was bash him?? Why couldn't you keep it to your self like a mature woman would have?? Doesn't make sense when a bunch of rich women think it is so important to tear each other down instead of build each other up, I feel sorry for you all because you will never have any real true friendships if all yu can do is gossip behind each others backs, and Tamra is the worse but the she can't take it when it is handed back to her, please grow up and be a pleasant person.

I knew exactly what you were going as just from the Promo's and your hair/make-up. It was 80's costume was fabulous....

You looked fantastic as one of Robert Palmer's Addicted to Love women. Gretchen and Alexis are too young to have known about the video, and Vicki and Tamra were raising kids, and it's doubtful that they were watching MTV. I think you are a great addition to the show, and I like your husband too. I can tell that he has a great sense of humor. Please stop rolling your eyes at his corny jokes. We know that you've heard his jokes over and over again, but the eye rolling just looks so disrespectful...

Quiet Riot eh? That is crazy. Now that I look him up, they do look exactly alike. For once, I'm shocked in a pleasant way by something to do with this show.

Hi Heather, I loved you 80's outfit...although I have to say your very opinionated. Just relax and don't quit making snarky remarks...

You are a breath of fresh air, a wonderful addition destined to become a favorite

Brief read of your bio, seems you're frustrated by the lack of sophistication of your new home town. Hate to tell you Heather, you sure will not find it in this group. Peggy, the woman you are taking over for, was one of the more level headed among this group and I will miss her. Thus far, you do seem to be a breath of fresh air and I look forward to see if maybe YOU can infuse a bit of integrity and sophistication to their bane of an existance.

Thank you Heather for being REAL. I love that your from New York, my dad grew up there and New York people are as real as they get. Even though I was born here in Los Angeles California; I have the east coast attitude and I love that people can see it immediately. You are the most articulate of all Housewives of the O.C., and I do mean all of them. I'm sure pretty soon you'll get your own spin off. Much Luck to you and your family

Heather, being that I graduated High School in 1987 I got your outfit and thought it was a great idea. Totally 80's.

LOVED your 80's outfit. I knew exactly who your were. Tht was one of the most famous videos from the 80's. Glad you didn't go straight for the neon and krimping iron. Finally a housewife I can look up to!

Heather.. It's all good. Only a moron would not get your costume, and..you nailed it. Good job.

I'm really enjoying you!

Do you not see you talking ugly behind Alexis' back as classless? You need to re-watch that seen. If your blossoming friendship with Tamra is making fun of another...that is not a friendship a "classy" individual would have.

I loved your outfit. Robert Palmer's Addicted to Love was one of my favorite videos from the 1980s.

Your 80's costume was THE BEST!!!

Loved Loved Loved your outfit!!! How original!

I so agree with your comments about Alexis, she just seems to be phony and a craving any kind of attention. I think she is insecure and basically will do whatever to keep Jim happy.

Why do you always have something negative to say about Alexis you just got on the show give me a break!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I loved your Bunco costume & I DID get it! And as for Alexis; she probably made a big deal out of the consult because Peggy was worried last season about her surgery...Understand? (Shes a COPY CAT)

I immediately thought "Robert Palmer!" when I saw your outfit. You looked steller!

Heather, stay away from Tamra. She is friends with you now but you will be her target of attack sooner or later. She picks one housewife each season to trash talk about. Who knows, it might be you next season!

You will stay on the 'like' list as long as you don't team up with Tamra! She will bring you down, fast! Stay neutral and watch and learn, it will keep you above the rest ;)

Heather: You make us proud to be from NY! I got the costume you looked fabu! Also you have a beautiful family Mazel!

Great 80s outfit. I think the others didn't know what yours was bc most of them aren't really that smart. It's funny when you hang out with Alexis bc it just emphasizes her lack of intelligence. It's nothing you do intentionally; you are just on another level. Also, so cool that your husband's brother was Kevin Dubrow. I kept wondering why your name was so familiar.... Sorry that he has passed.

I got your outfit right away - and remember the video vividly. I actually heard that song on our local radio the other day - and what comes immediately to mind is Robert Palmer with all the backup girls - looking just like you did at the party. Too funny. These girls can easily suck others into their drama, be an outsider where that is concerned - not worth it.

Heather... I wasn't sure if I was going to like you as you kind of started out a religious prude in the first couple of episodes, but when you laughed at Tamra's 'hairy there, so no camel toe' comments, I thought you might be opening up a little and showing us the true you. I am falling for you! :-D

Hi heather! Oh what a fresh voice you are. I love how your friendships are developing and appreciate that you listen to the girls but watch how you comment on camera. Very smart. I agree, not the right time for discussions about Slades performance. BTW-you looked stunning and I was a big fan of Quiet Riot and saw the resemblance when Terry walked in. What a great sport! xoxo

Well, I recognized you as a Palmer girl the instant I saw you! You did a fantastic job, too....looked just perfect! Really enjoying you this season, AND Terry. So glad you joined the crazies! ; )

I loved your outfit also, I knew who you where as soon as you walked through the door...Awsomeness on the outfit...don't understand what is up with commentor "JustPLNrong", I think u r great even if u r a brunette, nothing wrong with being a blonde here....

Heather - you are definitely a breath of fresh air on the show. Love your style and grace. Glad you came aboard and hope you stick around!

Heather,first of all I love your name. I have a 19 year old Heather! I am so sorry for the loss of your brother-in-law. I love how you are just yourself and don't brag about everything. Your a joy to watch!

I certainly do remember Robert Palmer and that great vide0!! You looked fantastic! Yes...Alexis and her over the top, completely ridiculous 8 year old behavior related to an elective procedure. You honestly would have thought she was a toddler getting 12 immunization shots at once! I was embarrassed for her actually. She's not the brightest bulb on the tree and every episode she seems to validate that. Her reaction in that MD office truly annoyed me when you look at how Brianna is handling what's on her plate! I mean, seriously????? I do enjoy watching you. Your comments are witty, fast and funny!