It was nice of Vicki to stop by and see how I was doing after surgery and to catch up on what I had missed. But I guess she was not a fan of me removing my implants. She didn't understand why anyone would want to be part of the Itty Bitty Titty committee. Oh well, I guess little boobies are not for everyone. I happen to love my new '70s Disco boobs! Sometimes less is more. . .right? I think there are a lot of big busted woman that would love to have their implants or natural Ds made smaller. Big boobs are just not fun! Tip of the day ladies, your old implants make great ice packs.
I was so bummed that I did not get to go camping. I have been trying to put together that exact trip with the girls for three years and it has never worked out. Go figure it worked out when I was not able to go.
I have plans to take the kids to ElCapitanCanyon.com this summer and we can't wait. There are a lot of other things to do there besides sitting around a fire drinking. Like bike rides, concerts, whale watching, jeep tours, rock climbing, horseback riding, and kayaking. It really is an amazing place, from what I hear.
I was pretty upset to hear Vicki say that she likes Alexis now because "I am not in her ear telling her NOT too." What the hell does that mean? Do I have that much influence over Vicki? Does anyone have that much influence over Vicki? That is the biggest crock of s--t I have ever heard in my life.
I totally agree and think everyone who gets them eventually grow out of that stage and now they aren't so Important. I want mine out so bad however financially I can't get it right now. I am Praying for the day I can have them removed. Could you tell me a little about your scarring, sorry to be so forward in asking I just want an opinion of someone else like you. He said I'd have a lollipop scar which makes me nervous. I really pray I can have them removed in this year. Trying to change and become more healthy and wanting to appear smaller and not so massive when the rest of me is not big. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
I love your comments on this post. You are being so confident with yourself this season and not so worried about talking about everyone else.n Removing your breast implants proves that!!! I think you look much better and naturally pretty without them! I didn't like your attitude the past 2 seasons, but love you this season. Just quit talking about people and worry about making yourself happy and surrounding yourself with good people! So glad you are finally friends with Gretchen; you two are too much alike not to be!
Good for you that you are the one who decided to have your implants removed. It is nice to see someone want to be just who they are instead of flaunting fake boobs. As a woman, you are more than boobs. You have come into your own and I am impressed to see you evolve into a strong woman who makes up her own mind. I think if you avoid hanging out with Vicki too much you can avoid a lot of the silly drama that she seems to thrive on. Stay true to yourself, enjoy your relationship with Eddie and love your children as only a mother can.
Love your new boobies! You followed your heart and will hopefully feel much better. I am baffled by women who get huge boob implants. I am a 34DD naturally and have difficulty finding bras that fit correctly. And also would love to be able to wear clothes without a bra sometimes. Now you can do that! Hurray for you!
I think you are very brave getting your implants removed . It's hard to keep up with society today, and by you doing that just justifies you are your own person. You are right less is more. I also love that you and Gretchen are friends you seem to have alot in common. You have always been my favorite housewife! Goodluck and lots of love xo
I like the "new you"…you seem much happier and do more for yourself in this season after Simon. Its nice to see you making amends with those you never thought you ever would. I enjoy your personality this season, more real and less drama.
YOUR BREAST REDUCTION LOOKS FANTASTIC! YOU LOOK SO ITTY BITTY AND SO IN PROPORTION!!! Please don't put much stock into what Vicki was saying in regards to her feelings about Alexis without you around, it's just the same way you feel around Gretchen without Vicki....please just let it go and continue to strive to be friends and at peace with everyone. Good Luck
Hi! You looked good before, but I think you look even better now without the implants. You look younger! I am an exotic dancer and I refuse to get my breasts done because I think natural is much more attractive. Welcome back to the itty bitty titty committee! Little boobs rock!
Tamra, I was never your fan before, but now I am. I'm sure you have earned more fans now, because you've changed, big time. Now you see how Vicky can be a bad influence. Stay away from her as much as you can. JUST BE NICE. BTW Mending your differences with Gretchen was the BEST thing you did this season. I admire you for doing that....keep up the new you.
Tamra- I'm so happy you and Gretchen are moving forward and becoming friends! It seems like both Vicki and Alexis are a little jealous of the friendship and act out. I know Vicki is your friend and all, but she seems a little pissed about it. I really like you this season because you seem very happy and at peace with your life.
You look a million times BETTER sans the fake boobies. You look younger, healthier and even smarter. Definetly loving the "new" Tamara this season :)
I'm enjoying the person you've become, your body looks fantastic ... but I think you cleverly spilled the beans on Gretchen's will-she-or-won't-she performance in Vegas! Oh well, I'll still watch what happens :)
I am so loving you this season! You are my favorite! I think the way you are handling yourself, your boobs, your friendships and love life is so impressive! You go girl! I like your friendship with Gretchen. I very much dislike Alexis and to be honest often have to turn the sound down during her airtime so I am happy you avoid her. I would hate to have to miss what you have to say just because I can't stand her so much. Please re-examine your friendship with Vicki she is not very nice.
Way to go....Gretchen left it as a tease to her fans to wait and see if she was able to perform, and her "friend" announced that she did. Having said that, Kudo's for having the confidence to go back to your normal breast size. It sends a wonderful message to women, especially since you are excercising, hiking, and being so active. Big breasts can be a pain. I miss the itty bitty titty days, but I have gained weight, when I lost it my boobs stayed big. No implants to remove :( You have your confidence back, you are being healthy, please try to quit with the negative, dwell on the people you enjoy. Maybe you and Vicky bring out the worst in each other, I have seen positive changes in your behavior and hers.
Smart move on your part this season making amends with Gretchen (or producers). I just hope they gave Gretchen a nice increase on her contract for having to get along with you.
Tamra is the BEST HOUSEWIFE on the show. She gets it. And she is setting an example for all women. She is a beautiful woman and much stronger now. She sends a great message to all the young women out there. You rock Tamra!
I never thought I would say these words,but I Love you this season,you really have grown,now if only you could see Vicky for the selfish person she is!
You really have grown and I never thought I could ever like you,but this season I started to look forward to you!Now if only you could see Vicky for the selfish person that we all see from this side of the TV!
Now you are getting to see the real Vicki. When everything was going her way, she was a great friend to you, but now that you are doing things you want to do, she is trying to one up you. I think you are right about Brooks. So right. I think you look absolutely amazing now that you had your implants removed. Don't let anyone tell you different. Most of the women in the OC are plastic. Thank God you are no longer plastic. I wish you so much luck, in life and your love life. Make your own decisions and stay true to yourself, like you have been doing. Love, love your sence of humor!!
Tamra, I am really happy that you decided to be the bigger person and talk to Gretchen! Thank you for making a positive step! You look beautiful!
I so hope that breast implants go out of style! What horrible things women do to themselves in the name of beauty.
I've always liked Alexis- she doesn't attack or make fun of (How old are we?) people just to make fun of them. You Tamra have always been mean to almost all of the HW cast members, even previous ones. I think your relationship with Gretchen is FAKE- you made it your full time job to talk about her constantly then in a blink of an eye you are friends with her.
I like your new look. Don't you think Vicki's comments might well be coming from a place of jealousy? Your boobs aren't the only thing that's gotten smaller :) You look terrific! I think Vicki might be one of those "friends" that enjoys being a friend when you're down. She liked being involved when you were struggling with Simon and she could talk badly about him and encourage you. Now that you're happy, well... It's hard when friendships change and people disappoint you. Don't let her get you down and keep being positive. Even with Gretchen. It's nice to see!!
I love the new friendship between you and Gretchen. You two are now my favorites to watch....and I really enjoy Heather. I am glad that you do not regret getting your implants removed. You have always been thin, but you look so much more proportional now. You look great!
You look great and seem to have recovered so quickly with so little help, no "nurses" to pamper you and follow you around, no complaining and no feeling sorry for yourself. I guess that's what makes you so easy to watch and likeable. You are not one of those competitive "all about me" pseudo-Christians" that make so many of us just want to hurl. Hats off to you for being you. Keep being real.
Tamra. You're my fav.
Better "itty bitty" than one big boob (i.e. Brooks).
I have had implants for years and have wanted them removed for over half that time. I've been afraid, so kudos to you.
WOW!! with friends like Vicki, who needs enemies. She was so mean to you. She is soooooo jealous of all you ladies.
Tamra, Tamra, when are you going to learn that Vicki is only a "true" friend, when she benefits from it. If there is nothing in it for her, then she's out and her true colors sure do shine thru!
I love you tamra but I wish u would give alexis another chance. I wish u all would just get along ad be there for each other
Tamra, You look Beautiful this year... I am happy you have your itty bitty t's back..They look great.. Vicki was rude and mean when she came over.. She sure is missing a heart this year... And yes she is going to alexie to get you angry.... Don't ride that train with her.. Stay true to her.. but keep her at arms length, She needs to prove herself to you... Like you did to her last year...She needs help... And if her love tank is full... I think it may be full of ----... nothing more... You and Eddie are great.. he is a good man... and a keeper... stay happy Shannon
Ah, excuse me, but your comment " I did not or never will tell a grown woman NOT to like someone because I didn't care for them" is a total lie. You have been in Heather's ear from day one, telling her not to like Alexis. That's the only thing you talk to Heather about, you try to isolate Alexis and make people not like her. Watch the first couple show of this season and you will see how you've acted. You always have to pick on someone, the last years have been Gretchen, but that hasn't worked out for you, so now you are on to Alexis.
Your new boobs are awesome! I think you look butt looks great as well. I can definitely tell you workout and this is the best you've ever looked. Being in love looks good on you!
I'm just loving you this season!!! You've got a take charge attitude and you have the strength any woman would love to have. I, for one, love the empowerment. It's what every woman nowadays needs and should have. I am SO incredibly happy for you! I'm happy too, that you've become friends with Gretchen. I have always liked her and for you two to be friends is just awesome!! As for Vicki, I agree with you COMPLETELY about Brooks. He seems a little shady. And, her all of a sudden becoming friends with Alexis?? Seems a little odd....and so completely out of character for her.
Tamra - Congrats on the new boobies. They look amazing. In my opinion the big fake boobs aesthetic is outdated. You look so much more modern, athletic and youthful with the smaller boobs. What a great decision and a fantastic result you achieved! I typically don't have a problem with Vicki, but I have to say this season she seems very insecure. Her comments about your new boobies and (supposed lack of) booty were from a mean-spirited and jealous place. Why would you say those things to someone who JUST had surgery to improve their self esteem??? That is just mean and pure evil. And I agree that her friendship with Alexis is completely founded on jealousy and spite. Don't let Vicki drag you down. Stay true to yourself...and stay true to Gretchen because I do think she wants to be a true friend to you. Be careful with your friendship with Vicki - nothing good can come from a friend who is jealous of you and has so many insecurities. But you seem like you know how to deal with Vicki.
I do think that you and Vicki together do tend to bring out a lot of catiness in each other. Perhaps you should spend more time with Gretchen and Heather. Let's face it, Vicki is too old to be your BBF. And her boyfriend makes my skin crawl. He's so creepy.
I'm no fan of Slade, but he does seem to really love Gretchen. Perhaps that will work out. Who knows? In any event, I think they'd be a lot more fun to hang out with than Vicky and Alexis and their significant others.
It's interesting watching you evolve this year. I agree, you never looked better or happier than you do now. You have the body of an 18 year old. Eddie is so nuts about you. Big FAKE boobs are just ridiculous. I had very large natural breasts that I had reduced years ago and I never regretted that decision. I actually think that men who NEED them are immature. If they like them so much, maybe THEY should get implants!
Tamara..What a change from last season..OMG..Its like you are exactly opposite from what you were...I couldnt stand to watch you last year because you were always MAD, NEGATIVE, or just a mean person. Now? I see you as a bright, happpy and mostly concederate woman. I hope this is all REALLY you Tamara..forgive me for questioning it because last year you were so very mean to Gretchen and Alexis...(Alexis can be a bit to much for me, she never ever stops talking.,She is the one I can not stand this year..she wants the camera on her at all times I think) I wish you nothing but the best for you and Eddie and I hope you stay happy, Healthy and mosy of all "nice"!!!
Tamra, you look so much better! Those things make the rest of the women look like linebackers! You also look years younger! Way to go!!!!
Vicki was so mean to you after your surgery. She showed her true colors. If someone said that trash to me, we would not be friends anymore. Vicki is jist plain cruel to people sometimes. You look really great so screw Vicki.
Tamra, as a person who works in the cosmetic surgery arena, I have learned it is a VERY personal decision to either have implants put in or to have them removed. I get a little tired of Vicki always having to have her say in the most intimate avenues of each of your lives. I really wish she could live her own (which, by the way, is flawed too). I agree with other posters that you seem more comfortable in your own skin this season. I too am glad you and Gretchen are/were able to bury the hatchet, and you are able to try to rise above the drama. In regards to Alexis... Why waste your time and energy squawking about someone you obviously don't care for? Needless jabs at her make you look petty. Just ignore her and move on! You don't have to be friends with EVERYONE!
Tamra- Anyone who has been watching RHOC for awhile knows that Vicki didn't like Alexis from the day she started the show. She called her "classless trash" and that was without your influence at all.
I think that in the past you and Vicki have had a tendency to feed off of each other. What I really suggest, is that with this newer high road you've taken, PLEASE take Alexis into consideration.
Just be nice to her too! You may think she is dumb, but really you don't have to be mean to her still.
Your boobs look great and they are not itty bitty..they just aren't ginormous! You look beautiful.
Tamra...Vicki has issues, she always has...I LOVE that Gretchen put her in her place about 'minding her own business' and 'child support issues' especially as they apply to Brooks.
Vicki's issue is that she cannot stand that you are happy, happy, happy....if it doesn't have to do with her - she can't understand it...
So happy for you that you got rid of the fake 'part's! NO ONE needs to be fake to be complete or happy. Now....be yourself, STOP the 'mean-girl-talk/gossiping, and make a life for yourself! You're gorgeous, talented and I believe smart....so use it all to the advantage of growth and class....not making yourself feel better by always bringing someone else down!!! You're better than that!!!!
Vicki is jealous of you - simple as that! You have come a long way to be in your happy self! Vicki is not happy, I don't see that she will ever be...she def needs therapy!
How mean it is to make fun of your body....she just wishes she had your body...own it girl, and work it like you have been!
You are an inspiration to all of us who have been divorced, in bad relationships, single mom - only to find the love of our lives and happiness!
Love you Tamra!
I commend your decision to go "au natural" regarding having your implants removed. You look great as you are/were. I did find Eddie constantly looking at your breasts to be juvenile. He was like a frat boy trying to cop a feel from his first date. He is so young and doesn't seem very bright overall. I'm not sure if you are just rushing into another relationship in order to derive emotional security. You have a lot to give any man. You're clever, funny and stunning (with or without big boobs). Regarding Vicki's new found friendship with the dim bulb, Alexis: I don't get it at all. Vicki's too cool for school; while Alexis probably studies for her PAP test. I also doubt that you coerced Vicki to like or dislike anyone. That's ridiculous. Vicki makes her own decisions on who to befriend or reject.
neither you nor Vicki gave Gretchen or Alexis a chance...you were both in miserable marriages & were dysfunctional friends...so it wouldn't surprise me one bit to see you & Vicki grow apart this season now that your lives have become more full of real love. Love the natural boobs. Love that Eddie didn't get any input on that decision. I'd like you more if you were nicer to Alexis.
I love the new boobs they look very preportional to your frame. The bigger ones made you look heavier not that you are or where. You look great! love em!!!