Tamra Barney

Tamra addresses the Gretchen/Slade situation, her relationship with Eddie, and her friendship style.

on Feb 29, 20120

It was the first time we all got to meet Terry, aka Dr. Look Good, (BTW. . .No that was not him at the lot in Newport). Dr. Terry Dubrow has a wonderful reputation around town and I remembered seeing him on the show The Swan. You will soon find that the dynamic between Heather and Terry is very entertaining and very loving. Terry jokes (like me) about 90 percent of the time, Heather is sensitive, has probably heard the same jokes for 13 years, and tends to roll her eyes a lot. They are so much fun to be around and so down to earth.

Gretchen meeting me at CJ's new store called X & OH. That turned out to be pretty entertaining and educational.CJ had just opened up her business and we wanted to show our support. There was nothing weird or kinky about it, just friends supporting friends. I am in the middle of opening up my own fitness studio and I know how much work is put into being a small business owner. I am very proud of you CJ!

I was so excited to see our dog Bronx in this week's episode. He has brought so much joy to our lives. Bronx is a pit bull and one of the sweetest and smartest dogs I have ever had. But he does tend to mark is territory much more than most!

My walk/talk with Eddie about moving in was a total surprise to me. It was really hard at the time to think a wonderful man like Eddie would want to take on me and my three kids full-time after 18 months of dating. Eddie is an amazing, kind-hearted man, and loves me unconditionally. But I don't think we were ready to move in just yet. When I have my kids, I stay at my house and Eddie never spends the night. When the kids are with dad, I stay at Eddie's, which means I have personal belongings all over the place. . .and there's a bit of confusion at times.

109 comments
cactusrose
cactusrose

Love your choice of dogs-I have been a Pit Bull Owner for over 25 years or more so we have had a total of 5 that have grown old with us and we have lost but we are now on our 6th an Old Family Red Nose named Chili and the sweetest soul ever. You know these poor dogs have been so maligned by haters that it is so to their benefit to be seen with celebrities like yourself. I have argued too many years trying to convince people that the only thing wrong with this babies are the parents they have and overbreeding. Maybe one day you will be able to do something to help change the opinions of all the haters out there. You think you guys get bad raps think about these poor dogs that just want to kiss your face and love and protect you. Two thumbs up and please post your dogs picture on your blog if possible.

lairskd
lairskd

Love you Tamara, don't let anyone put you down, you are a beautiful person inside and out, you have been my favorite housewife from the moment you came on the show,, and out of all the housewife shows, you are the best and the hottest,, anyway best of luck to you and your family and you and Eddie make the perfect couple

Sheltiegirl
Sheltiegirl

Tamara, When you first started on the RHOOC you were funny and I enjoyed watching the show then. But, you have changed over time and not always for the better. You owe Gretchen and Slade, yes I said Slade an apology. You and your side-kick were horrible to them over the course of the series first to Gretchen when Jeff was dying and then over Slade's financial difficulties. Never mind that you chose to put yourself into their lives via the internet and chose to judge rather than try to understand.

You need to take a look at your behaviors over the past couple years and try and learn from your mistakes. Don't let yourself become an extension of Vicki and her need to be in control and first in everyones lives. Over the 7 seasons she has tried to control several of the housewives and God forbid if they had opinions that didn't match hers. She's become more desperate over the years. She will be your down fall if you continue to be led around by her.

As for your relationship with Eddie, if you want to be with him for the rest of your life I suggest that you start being your own woman and tink for yourself. Stop acting like youra "20 Something" and grow-up. Your hypocritcal of Simon for his having moved on and then you act like its ok for you to move in with Eddie and your kids. Stop and think before you speak and act about what you are doing to yourself and the kids. If, you really are serious about marrying Eddie, then slow down and make peace with yourself and Simon first then and only then should you and Eddie move forward. Think about it.

LChaim18
LChaim18

Tamra, Your growth this year is incredible. It really started when you started standing up for yourself when you were with Simon but since leaving him, you are great! I love your sense of humor and how sensitive you are to those in your life who you love and care about.

Eddie seems so wonderful!! I wasn't sure about the two of you at first but I love how supportive he is of you. He's patient and loving and understanding and not threatened by you finding who you really are. Simon always seemed threatened by your independence. I am proud of you and how you have grown throughout the years. Keep on keeping on! The best thing you can give your children is to be a strong and independent woman. Someone who won't let anyone keep her from her bliss.

As for Vicki? I like Vicki but she has a lot of trust issues. In some ways, she resembles Simon in how she wants to control your relationships. I don't think she means anything bad, it's her own insecurities. I just hope that she can see that you can be friends with people she doesn't like and that it won't take anything away from how much you love and care about her. Your friendship will be stronger because of the trust and respect you have for each other.

Anyway, this is my first post but I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy this new and improved Tamra.

Renotta Williams
Renotta Williams

About time Vicki got a taste of her own medicine! And Tamra she wants to control you, she is not your real friend! Slade was childish but hey she kinda deserved it...

Viewera
Viewera

All I want to say is thanks for getting a pit bull and being proud of it!! I have always enjoyed your personality/watching you, and this is another big positive point about you. These dogs need all the positive attention they can get -- they deserve it! Way to go.

Samantha777
Samantha777

I love you! I think that you are hilarious and that you say what everyone else is thinking. A few seasons back I found you to be extremely vicious, but I can see it was most likely because you were in such an unhealthy and unhappy marriage. I wish you and Eddie nothing but the very best!!

TanyaFrmNJ
TanyaFrmNJ

Tamra, I think it is great that Gretchen is trying to work it out. It shows she is a truly forgiving person. The viewers have seen for many seasons Slade get attacked. I do not know why you and Vicki have attacked him and then don't think he is going to attack back? I do not condone how he makes fun of women's looks, but then you have to think....I dont think it was right to air his personal business on television; especially when he has children. You never thought maybe his sons watch this and get made fun of at school? But I can understand why Slade may not be so forgiving. For years, his reputation was hurt. Seriously, what did Slade personally do to you and Vicki for you two ladies to have started with him to begin with? Not every man is perfect, but it does seem like him and Gretchen have a great relationship. Couples disagree, couples argue. But I have yet to hear Slade ever beat up one of the women or committed some horrible act that is against society. I think he was the scapegoat for when all the ladies were upset/down and out with their man. And if Gretchen is fine with the situation, then so be it. It is HER LIFE. Gretchen is a beautiful woman and she knows Slade loves her for who she is. There are alot of men out there that would have used Gretchen or something else because she is a beautiful woman inside and out and many men would take advantage of her inner and outer beauty.

FanFare57
FanFare57

I liked your theme for the Bunco night. You looked fabulous! For the life of me, I can't understand why you would invite that slug Slade? He's beyond creepy. At least, you should have warned VICKI, your best friend.

watching a train wreck
watching a train wreck

I think you all have a lot to learn about sincerity and true friendship. Why can't all of you just stop being so rude in your behind-the-scenes interviews and in person? Even with all the "new and improved" relationships, there is still cattiness. You all know what you say is hurtful. I would hate to have a circle of friends like this. And I just have to say, Slade is my LEAST favorite housewife EVER! Why is he even at these parties with women he is so hostile to? Get him off the show! (p.s. people weren't laughing at his jokes. or was that just the editing that made him seem so unfunny? He also went to town on Jo, his ticket to the RH franchise and reality TV stardom in the first place. He should be sending her royalties on any money he makes from his celebrityness. His "tit-for-tat" with the ladies just proves he is not a gentlemen. His jokes were vulgar, demeaning, immature and overshadowed any redeeming qualities he may have possibly possessed.)

EllieEnlightened
EllieEnlightened

I don't know why I watch this mindless show but I have since day one. However after your incendiary comment about the 80's, "Reagan, not so much" cause several of my friends including myself to never watch again ANYTHING on Bravo.

s_shelagh
s_shelagh

Stay away from Vicki, she is out for all of you. Move on, Grechen is fun, loving.. and she cares...Vickis heart is made of Stone.. cold hard stone Shannon

Billye
Billye

You are doing things to upset Vicki on purpose. Why. Vicki has been a friend to you so far. You not so much. And as much as I like you - you cause a lot of problems between people. I hope your not that way for real

DA in NY
DA in NY

Tamra: you look fabulous! keep up what you are doing, just read you and Eddie are engaged congratulations! Best of luck to you both! DA

esther194
esther194

These must be friends of Vicky because they all wrote the exact same message!!!!! Viewer3308 on March 2, 2012; AllVolinTN on March 2, 2012; BrandiGilbertinTn on March 2, 2012; TennesseeMom on March 2, 2012.

Stay clear of Vicky because she devours anyone who becomes a friend to her. Does anyone remember last season when Tamara went to dinner with Vicky and V expected Tamera to open the car door for her, then wanted to circle wrists to have their first drink???? Rather strange behavior on Vicky's part I thought.

Cindy1963
Cindy1963

Tamra,

In the episode that you are in the fondue restaurant with Eddie, there is one thing I don't understand. How can you tell him that you don't like food? Everytime you look around you women are eating out. Doesn't anyone cook anymore? And how come at the restaurant you wouldn't even let the poor waiter finish talking and you kept cutting him off asking him about a diet menu or just having a chicken breast? Manners, Tamra. Remember-etiquette? Watch the episode and see how rude it comes off.

ViewerintheNorthwest
ViewerintheNorthwest

March 6 episode - you talk about how can Gretchen be with Slade who doesn't make any money, doesn't have a car etc.. and yet, you said the same thing to her when she was with Jeff.....Come on Tamara. Let he with with who she wants to and you can date whomever you want too ....

C-Lee
C-Lee

CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU TAMARA and EDDIE. Just heard you are now ENGAGED!!! SOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU.

filo
filo

I don't really blog but I am today because hopefully you'll get to read this. You are my favorite housewives of all time. You are gorgeous including hilarious you always make me laugh when i watch RHOC. You are the main reason why I still watch because you bring so interest and shine to the show. In my opinion you have the best personality. I'm glad we all get see the new improved woman that you are now. I always knew you were but drama always got on the way. I'm glad you were the bigger person and apologized to Gretchan. In my opinion both had wrong views. But I can tell you look and act way more happier this season and people can see that. Fighting about pointless things is unnecessary you can tell you don't care about that. You don't talk about anybody you stay out of drama. You try to keep out of situations. I can see you and Gretchen becoming great friends. Ya have a lot things in common goofy women's. Don't let Slade bring you down you are absolutely gorgeous and never age. You have a killer body this season you look healthy and still have curves but still this instead of being too unhealthy thin. Just wanted to say keep doing what your doing you are being a better person each and everyday. And know your faults fix it and move on.

filo
filo

Tamra you are my favorite housewives in my opinion you have the best personality. You are such a hilarious person you make me laugh every time your so down to earth. Even with all the fame and beauty you still shine compared of the rest your beautiful inside and out. And this season everyone sees the true you. I'm so glad we all get to see that you apologizing to Gretchen you both were wrong no one was right. I'm glad you realized it was really pointless keep fighting for silly things. You both are equally beautiful but of course you outshine with your personality. But you guys being friends i can seem ya becoming great friends. I also see a lot of similarities. You seem more happy and just living in the moment with no drama. You don't talk crap about anyone you stay out of people's business. Keep being the new Tamra that we didn't get see previous seasons. YOUR THE BEST! BTW you look gorgeous you look healthier and haven't aged a bit. Don't let Slade bring you down you know who you are. You are a gorgeous healthy curvy( in a good way ) women. In my opinion you have the best body!

patsy from colorado
patsy from colorado

tmara i too am pleased to see you trying to be more open. i believe you are a better serson lately. im glad you are trying with gretchen. viki is a mess right now. this issue with her new beau not payong child support is a big one. i hope viki sees the error of her ways. she talked a lot of non stop smack about slade and cant stand those same things being said about her.....oh well "what goes around"! yada yada having said this i am happy with the new tamara!

mags gg
mags gg

BY THE WAY "BLUES MAMA" I COULD GET SLADE A JOB RIGHT NOW- I WORK IN A VETERANS HOSPITAL. I WORK 16 HR DAYS AT LEAST 5 DAYS A WEEK AND THEN MOST OFTEN COME IN AND DO NURSE AID WORK ON MY DAYS OFF. IM TRYING TO CONTRIBUTE TO MY COUNTRY AND THE TROOPS THAT ARE DEFENDING US. IM SURE I CAN GET HIM A JOB AND YOU TOO, FOR THAT MATTER. YOU BUSY?

mags gg
mags gg

Tamra you looked great tonight in your 80's costume!! Loved, Loved!! Eddie looked so cute too. You guys are great. I agree with your new philospy with Slade, maybe if you can shut him down it will help you and Gretchen to strenghthen your new friendship. Please dont let Viki pull you the other way! It would be great if somehow (?) you all three, the women I mean, try to patch things up slowly and be friends.

mags gg
mags gg

NO BLUES MOMMA, I DONT LIVE IN CA. I LIVE IN A STATE WHERE THE ECONOMY IS REALLY TOUGH. THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN SAY THAT THERE IS NOT ONE JOB AT A GAS STATION, FAST FOOD, OR MALL THAT SLADE COULD NOT HAVE GOTTEN? IM A NURSE AND I WORK 16 HOUR DAYS AT LEAST 5 DAYS A WEEK SOMENTIMES I EVEN COME IN AND DO PAPERWORK AND NURSE AID ON BY DAYS OFF. WHAT DO YOU DO, SINCE YOU ARE SO WORRIED ABOUT IT? THIS IS A FORUM THAT EVERYONE IS SUPPOSED TO BE ABLE TO COME ON TO AND VOICE AN OPPINION...ITS CALLED THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. DRINK ANOTHER ONE BLUES.

TerrellPaulette
TerrellPaulette

I cannot believe after everything Tamara and Vicki put Gretchen through when her fiance was dying and then afterward they harassed her about Slade. Now they getting some of their same medicine and they are upset over it..... The insensitive little hussies. Don't dish it out if you can' take it.. and Vicki's nose is ugly. And Tamra is a Bitch....She need to be on medicine. her personality is the worst.

Real Housewife of Nebraska
Real Housewife of Nebraska

Tamra, I think it is great that you have become such a positive person! I think it takes a lot of strength to take on life's challenges the way you do and turn them into something you can be proud of. I see the similarities between your and Camille's (RHOBH) journeys (dropping the dead weight) and how you have made an amazing transformation for the better. Your true beauty is now shining through, which is encouraging for all of us viewers that are also working on life improvements. By the way, out of anyone you would be the best comedienne with that quick wit and sense of humor!

wareislarine
wareislarine

tamara, how soon we foget. last year you were afraid of your husband. You had the same issues with vicky and your husband, and learned to managed them in seperate ways. Give Gretchen a chance she is trying. vicky is always going to be negative because she does not like sharing her friends. (grow up vicky).

Jus4unMe
Jus4unMe

Tamra,

Did you ever think that Slade is reacting the way he is is because you've rut him over the years? I think what he said was mild compared to some of the things you've said about him and Gretchen over the years.

fashion police
fashion police

It's nice to see such a positive change in you this season, I hope we continue to see you in this light.

DLC
DLC

Tamra, you really need to learn to treat others the way you'd want to be treated yourself. Almost every episode since the beginning of your time on this show has demonstrated that you don't consider that at all. Please give it a try - put yourself in the other person's position and test what you're about to say or do. You'd be much more respectable and likeable if you would develop that habit.

Larry B.
Larry B.

I enjoy all the Real Housewives of O.C. I am glad Tamra and Gretchen are trying to patch things up and have a friendship although, Slade will destroy any friendships between the ladies. Slade is jealous of all the housewives and their friendships with one another. I've watched the O.C. housewives since day one and will continue. I like the women, the homes, the cars and the glam. I know that area very well and can relate to the places these women patronize. Thanks for a great show and I hope it continues.

Gagan
Gagan

Tamra, you have really changed and grown this year and it is very clear as a viewer that you have stayed true to your initial word from the first episode that you have a new light in your life, and want a change. It is so refreshing to see your happy, in love, and moving forward and rehatching relationships that have gone bad in the past. It is really admirable. Also you look amazing! You look like you reset the age clock 5 or 10 years, and I think you really inspire people by your energy and new and improved self. Keep on goin' girl! xox!

Devin Love
Devin Love

Tamra! You are the reason I watch O.C.! You have always been my favorite housewife on the show, and this season even more so. You always have been the one who keeps it real and not afraid to poke fun at yourself or anyone else deserving of it. You have shown that you can stand on your own, be an independent mother, and rise above all the bull$h!t haters throw your way. You inspire me to take the high road when it comes to people who simply want to drag you down and pull the worst out of you. Keep it up girl! You TRULY are the HOTTEST girl on this show (and all my friends agree)! Love your number one fan!

TamaraL132
TamaraL132

Tamra, I could never understand your fights with Gretchen, the 2 of you when you are on are the BEST! I LOVE LOVE LOVE you together as best buds, you kill me laughing, together you are the best. I don't fully understand your friendship with Vicki, but I don't understand Vicki at all. I don't get her, and I've been watching since day one, the very first RHOC. She is just odd & I don't see you having much in common. She's so controlling, & you are so strong, I don't see why you let her be so controlling over you. Anyway, if you can all get along, the more power to you. And KUDOS for patching up with Gretchen.

I am so glad too that you didn't hold stupid Slade against her. What does she see in him?? She's the best, she is so funny, and she has a big heart, I don't understand that pairings at ALL. You are so right on his mom being the funniest. OMG, she was the BEST when he was practicing with her at Gretchen's, she had the BEST lines. I don't hate Slade at all, I just don't see him & Gretchen together & I think his trashing YOU was his jealousy over her being friends with you. WAY to go Slade, nice of you to consider Gretchen when you did that.

And as a one time single mom who had to make the same decision about a new man in our lives, KUDOS to you too for not moving in right away with Eddie, the kids consideration come first. That takes time esp the younger they are & Eddie will wait. He seems so wonderful, & it seems like he'd understand. This is a hard time for you. Hang in there. And remember, you & Gretchen together, the best.

Hulali
Hulali

I think you did the right thing for your children when you told Eddie it was too soon to move in together. It was also really sad when you said your youngest was crying in the fetal position about there being no room in her fathers house for his girlfriend. But where was this motherly concern for your. Hildren last year when you took that pornographic bath with Eddie while you were still married?!! I think you are purposely changing your image this year to stay on camer more!

Blues Mama
Blues Mama

So Mags gg. You live in so cal? Guessing no cuz things have been tight in California job market! My sons roomate graduated top of his class with a masters from USC a few years ago still looking for work and no Mc Donalds Walmart, or entry level job has been hiring! Poor folks are hanging tight onto these jobs! Where do you work maybe you could get Slade a job since your so worried about it! Tamera so glad to see you came out of your negative stage and moving into the positive! I can clearly see a difference! Simon had to go, you can't believe how hard it was to watch you go through all of it! Your fans were mad and confused at how you were transferring the crap he was giving you to everyone else! And finally you made us cheer when you 'got it' and he was gone! Eddie is a great guy! But you are right to want to stand on your own two feet a while. You only have your kids a short time in life, do the right things and you won't have to spend the rest of your life wishing you had done it without the regrets! Good choices you are making girl and it shows! You look BEAUTIFUl this season. And the best is yet to come...

Realitychecker1
Realitychecker1

Normally I don't blog about these shows but I really wanted to comment on your hypocrisy on the episodes thus far. You have called Alexis jealous of Heather from the first episode saying that Heather is everything Alexis wants to be...is it so easy to recognize for you because Gretchen is everything YOU want to be??? (I don't expect a truthful answer but it's as obvious "on your face" as you claim it is on Alexis' face.

2-Just because Gretchen decided to forgive you, does not mean Slade (whom I do not care for) has to forgive you. You were a mean girl to both and said hurt ful things to them both; therefore they both have their own issues with you. I doubt you can give Slade a friendship bracelet and have all be forgotten.

3-Why do you appear to relish in Alexis' problems so much? You almost appear to have a slight glint in your eyes to know she has sufferings.

4-You have been throwing flowers at Heather's feet since you met her. Is making a profit that important to you? Did you loose all of your dignity in the bathtub last season or what??? You should have kept your mean girl comments to yourself and allowed Heather to form her own opinion. No matter how subtle your comments were, they were influential. Heather obviously likes people to be in awe of her and you are doing just that.

5- Last but not least, you cannot be so foolish to think it was ok to put another man's hand on your boobs WITH your man sitting right next to you...SERIOUSLY???? You didn't take responsibility for it either, you blamed Vicki and Eddie for 'flirting' You so called cried, yet you didn't shed ONE SINGLE TEAR... Perhaps you should stop and look at yourself BEFORE you judge & make nasty comments about others. Otherwise, you'll be giving out a lot more friendship bracelets

Seekay Us
Seekay Us

I hate to say it but one the comments above about Eddie really does seem true. Tamara he is really controlling. Seems like your afraid to be yourself around him. Be careful watch out and DO NOT let him control you. It seems like your always holding back now. Just be you and if he gets upset so be it.

Tpoulos
Tpoulos

Okay...I disliked you so much...then you had to mention you have a pitbull. I have a softspot for this breed and have one myself. I also have a softspot for anyone who overlooks their bad rep and has adopted one. Yes they are the smartest and sweetest dogs!!!

Wackypatty
Wackypatty

Your a great mom etc. .I agree with people about telling Vicki. Glad your being nice to Grechen but i don't buy "outsiders came between you two. I always thought Vicki and you had a great friendship it's not her fault with the child support issues not a great reason to dump on her

realhousewifea
realhousewifea

You look more happy these days! I support your decision of leaving the hate in the past and move forward in developing a friendship with Gretchen. I believe that move was influenced by Eddie. Somehow he brings the positive in you. He seems like an honest and true gentleman. Regarding Vicky.. live your own life not hers . Best luck to you

MadgePadge
MadgePadge

Tamra, I have never understood how a woman can be married to a man for 12 plus years, and separate from him only to be involved with another man, within four to six weeks. Moving yourself and your children into Eddie's home will be a huge mistake if you are not financially capable of taking care of yourself. Eddie appears just as controlling as Simon ~ except he's just wrapped in a different package.

mags gg
mags gg

Tamra, I think you are right on track about Viki. She is the one who can only have one friend at a time. She did the same thing to Jeanna when she became friends with you. She comes off as controlling and jealous. As for Slade, he truly is a waste of space and air. What in the world can Gretchen see in him? Even his sweet mom talks about him not working. How long can he blame the economy? Mcdonalds is hiring every single day. I do believe Eddie is in love with you and you have a great relationship. I also think that on the boat you were right. Viki also kissed him straight on the mouth when he got in the limo. Inappropriate much there Vik?? How creepy that she also decided her marriage was over and started dating a man 5 years younger...just like you. I think she survives by trying to be just like you. Don was a very sweet man, who on multiple occasions, asked or commented on the fact that Viki was never home. She loves her job and we all know cause she has shoved down our throats. Please dont let her destroy your new friendship with Gretchen. Take care, and btw you look great. You have encouraged me to start running again!!

michigan fan
michigan fan

you cannot hold Gretchen responsible for Slade. That is like you being responsible for your ex dogging Vicki?

Just like Gretchen for what she brings to the new friendship with you. She did voice her concers to Slade. Do I think Slade is wrong? It's his right, just like you and Vicki talking smack about him. Now, Vicki has a guy who doesn't pay. What are you to do? Vicki will not kick him to the curb, her mouth is bigger than her bite. I guess we viewers only see what producers what us to see? Who are we really to judge. If we fans didn't post...you would not be on the air.

PLHogan
PLHogan

Tamara I agree with you about Vickie's jealous comments in her blog. It is SHE who can only have one friend at a time. That has been commented upon in past years. I believe you responded correctly on the boat and said so in a past message to you. You do have to make amends with Slade and I think you will. He felt very attacked but I don't think he is into being a victim. Yes, maybe the tabloids would have found out about the divorce and made the same accusations, but you are not a tabloid, you are a person who did that. It turned on you. I applaud you for not running to live with Eddie. Not a good idea. I am regaining my respect for you, you earn it and you are truly and honestly looking out for your children first. Unlike Vickie who even made Brianna's illness about her at their dinner. I would stand back from Vickie for a while. See what happens. She has a looooong way to go in self growth. You are checking off that list and I have liked what I have seen of you, this season.

tam. e.
tam. e.

I adore you Tamra! I have gone through some of the same things as you; i.e. a controlling husband, deciding when is the best time to move my daughter & fiance in together, getting my body back in shape, et c. Keep on BEING YOU! And I really appreciated Eddie telling you that he would support you 100% in whatever you do! He is awesome!

Crystalclear
Crystalclear

Oh BTW, Eddie's got a great body, but he acts way too femmie!!!

piperoni
piperoni

you need to listin more than you talk.that mouth of yours gets you in trouble.i would rather be anything in life.alittle silly alittle more airheaded etc...but a valger mouth always talking about sex even to other men like brooks.so not lady like.take a class on proper words that you shall learn.

BadMammerJammer
BadMammerJammer

Tamra,

You know how you can kill Slade with kindness? Apologize to him for all the things you've said about him in the past. Although there are rumors of his not paying child support, no one except the persons in the situation know the whole story. And the fact that his ex, Michelle, would tell you something about him, someone that she hardly knows, is revealing. She used you to embarrass him. Di you ever ask yourself why? I thought you were smarter than that to let someone use you. Do you talk to Brooks about his not paying child support but can go on romantic trips with Vicki?

In the earlier episode you said you were making amends with Gretchen because you guys were digging stuff up on each other....Gretchen never dug stuff up on you, you were at her from the time she came on the scene. Last season she started fighting back and she was winning. It was then you decided enough was enough. I do like the fact that you aren't letting that you aren't moving in with that slimy Eddie, though. His true colors are starting to show....it is just a matter of time.

SheC
SheC

Eddie's dog Bronx looks cute. Just be very careful. A one year old pitbull just attacked by 5 year old golden retriever for no reason. Be very careful with the dog around children. Unfortunately they are adorable but also unpredictable. Love the RH of OC!