Cast Blog: #RHOC

Under the Influence

Tamra: Lizzie's Obsessed With Me

Shannon Settles the Score

Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Heather: Why Hate?

RHOC Reunion GIFs: The Gloves Come Off

Lizzie on That Kentucky Fried Nickname

Shannon on Heather's Double Standard

RHOC Reunion GIFs: Psychics, Opinions, and Shade

Heather Weighs in on the Dinner Party

The Difference Between Shannon and Heather

Lizzie Forgives Tamra

Vicki Wants the Best for Tamra

GIF Recap: RHOC Season 9 Finale

Vicki: I'm Tired of Tamra Causing Problems

Recap: 13 GIF-able Life Lessons from Bali

Tamra: Lizzie Is the Worst Kind of Person

Lizzie: Tamra Has it Out for Me

Shannon: There's No Hope Tamra and I

Tamra: Lizzie's Out for Blood

Heather: Can't Friends Disagree

Lizzie: What Tamra's Doing Isn't Right

GIF Recap: Kayaks, Crowns, and Elephants

Shannon Was Shocked Tamra Would Betray Her

Tamra: I Was a Fool to Defend Vicki

Heather: Newsflash It's Not All My Fault

Vicki's Warning to Lizzie

Shannon Isn't Putting Emotions onto Tamra

Lizzie: I Thought Tamra Was My Friend

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Lonely Birthday Dance

Tamra: I'm Going to Be a Tam-ma!

Vicki: This Episode Was Hard to Watch

Heather: I Did Owe Shannon an Apology

Shannon: Tamra Is Stirring the Pot

Lizzie: Tamra Is Stirring Up Sh--

GIF Recap: What Does Tamra Remember?

Vicki Is Trying to Stay Neutral

Shannon: Tamra's Lies Are Mind Boggling

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Dinner Party Disaster

Vicki Advises Shannon to Keep Communication Lines Open

Lizzie: "I Take Sun Kitten Swimwear Very Seriously"

Under the Influence

Tamra doubts she has enough sway over Vicki to have stopped her friendship with Alexis.

It was nice of Vicki to stop by and see how I was doing after surgery and to catch up on what I had missed. But I guess she was not a fan of me removing my implants. She didn't understand why anyone would want to be part of the Itty Bitty Titty committee. Oh well, I guess little boobies are not for everyone. I happen to love my new '70s Disco boobs! Sometimes less is more. . .right? I think there are a lot of big busted woman that would love to have their implants or natural Ds made smaller. Big boobs are just not fun! Tip of the day ladies, your old implants make great ice packs.

I was so bummed that I did not get to go camping. I have been trying to put together that exact trip with the girls for three years and it has never worked out. Go figure it worked out when I was not able to go.

I have plans to take the kids to ElCapitanCanyon.com this summer and we can't wait. There are a lot of other things to do there besides sitting around a fire drinking. Like bike rides, concerts, whale watching, jeep tours, rock climbing, horseback riding, and kayaking. It really is an amazing place, from what I hear.

I was pretty upset to hear Vicki say that she likes Alexis now because "I am not in her ear telling her NOT too." What the hell does that mean? Do I have that much influence over Vicki? Does anyone have that much influence over Vicki? That is the biggest crock of s--t I have ever heard in my life.

She obviously told Alexis that was the case, because she said the same thing. Vicki not liking Alexis has been going on since she met her. She called her pretentious, dumb, fake, a weak woman, and constantly talked about how Alexis couldn't go anywhere without a mirror. She went as far to call her husband a smelly dork. I did not or never will tell a grown woman NOT to like someone because I didn't care for them. You even see me question Vicki when she told me that Alexis called her. I was shocked that they were talking. I shook my head and told her I was trying to wrap my brain around that one after all the years of her talking about how dumb Alexis is.

Listen, I am all for making amends and becoming friends, but I honestly feel that the only reason she was telling me this is because I have become friends with Gretchen. If Vicki and Alexis are friends then I am happy for them and would never ever get between them. I am smart enough to know that my issues with someone have no impact on anyone else. We see Vicki and Gretchen fighting all season long and I keep my mouth shut, I refuse to take sides in this fight.

I feel bad for Gretchen. I had no idea that she was going through so much with her voice. I can't wait for next week for you all to see the Vegas trip. It was great seeing Gretchen perform, she really lights up on stage. Plus, Vegas is the happiest place on earth. . .well kinda.

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Shannon Settles the Score

If Andy's asking "What's the score, Shannon Beador?" Shannon thinks she's definitely won.

This is Blog #20, my last Blog for the season! The past year was been a wild ride for both me and for my family. I have come to many realizations about myself, made lifelong friends, experienced some tough moments, and embarked on a path to a more peaceful self. So to use Andy’s phrase, “What's the score, Shannon Beador?” I would say without a doubt that I have definitely won.

I am happy that the viewers got a little glimpse into my sometimes unconventional ways! For me, it's all about good energy. I love that Vicki’s business has clearly benefited from trying feng shui with Elaine Wright. If you can't get hurt, there is no reason to try anything holistic. If you actually benefit, why wouldn't anyone want to go the natural way? If my children tend to feel better after seeing Dr. Moon and not have to take antibiotics, then I am a happy mom. It's all about creating a healthy balance!

I am an open book and am often criticized for it, but I am who I am. I don't know many couples married for 13 years that have a perfect relationship. Everyone has ups and downs, and although it may be difficult and require effort, it is possible to move through it and make things better. I have said it many times in the season that divorce is not an option. I will always fight for my marriage and my family. It truly touches my heart that so many fans have been and continue to root for David and I. I am so appreciative and grateful for all of your positive comments! Thank you!

Do Tamra and Heather truly want to move forward and potentially develop a friendship with me? Only time will tell. But for now, I have amazing friends surrounding me, including Vicki Gunvalson and Lizzie Rovsek. And most importantly, I have been blessed with the most incredible family anyone could ask for. That is where all of my energy is focused.

I will never forget this entire year, both the good and the bad, because each moment took me on the journey to where I am today. And today, I am in a phenomenal and happy place. Thank you for taking this journey with me!

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