Vicki Gunvalson

Vicki focuses on what really matters and thanks the fans for their support.

on Mar 6, 20120

Having date night with Briana to discuss her upcoming surgery, her thoughts on commitment, marriage, and my divorce, is time well spent together. One thing that I have been blessed with is a daughter who is wise beyond her years. She has been through a lot herself in the past few years, and always has a smile on her face and always tells me like it is. There is no grey area with her. She inspires me to look at the big picture of life, which is family and close friends, and to not let the things that don't really matter in the big picture weigh heavy on me.

I can definitely see Tamra's concern when she and Eddie were talking about moving in together and taking their relationship to the next level. Having three small children is not going to be easy on them. I know how difficult it was for Donn when we were married and moved in with one another. He had been a bachelor for 42 years and lived alone, so moving in together wasn't easy on any of us. I know that Eddie loves Tamra very much, and their ultimate goal is to live together under one roof (sooner rather than later). I believe the older the kids get, the easier it will be on all of them. Either way, I wish them the very best and I am sure they will make the right decision.

Our ratings for this season are amazing, which means all of you that are watching are interested and engaged into our crazy lives. Please be careful to judge any of us. We are simply giving you an edited version of our raw, transparent lives. We are real people, with real feelings, and sometimes as I'm sure you can understand life doesn't always unfold the way you have planned it to.

248 comments
BlackButterfly13
BlackButterfly13

Vicki , you are allright in almost everything except : I was very surprised that you being noble and classy asked : "Which body part of man ( your friend's boyfriend ) I could touch ?" My answer to you ; NONE , no body part you should touch even is that man is begging you , friends are friends and boyfriends come and go . Come on women , DO NOT TOUCH , DO NOT FLIRT WITH ANOTHER WOMAN'S MAN VERY SIMPLE vicky you even asked if there is manual to teach this , there is no manual just class and common sense

Viewer1113
Viewer1113

Vicky needs simply to shut her mouth and mind her own bizness for once. If 18 year olds can do it you should yourself as well

VAGRAND
VAGRAND

I wanted to add my name to BrendaM's request to see more Philanthropy than self serving ventures.

Brenda M.
Brenda M.

I wanted to share this thought with the entire cast of O.C. Vicki, I do feel your pain with your daughter and her battle that lies ahead. Cancer is a serious matter. I will be praying for you and your family in this situation. My concern is this: I have a 19 year old daughter that is obsessed with the show and when she is lounging on the couch watching all of the recorded episodes, it sickens me. We are a middle class income family and we recently made the decision to sell our home and move back into a mobile home that we have owned for many years. We are slowly trying to fix it up (as on our income of me being a teacher and my husband working 2 jobs to make our lives a little more easy) she can't understand why we are in the situation that we are in. The show (and all of the other "real housewives" shows) are so bogus and I can't believe what America allows for "entertainment". I have taught my 3 children in their years that we can NOT be of this world...we only live here for the time that God has given us. And the show is giving my daughter and I'm sure many others, a false hope. I just would like to see a little more of what your society actually does to "give back" to a community that honestly needs it. And not for the sake of gaining publicity for you or the show, but to know that there is someone out there who cares. I am posting to your wall, because I feel out of all of the housewives, you have the most common sense. So, please, don't take offense to what I'm saying. You seem to be a strong woman (as that is how I see myself) and I feel you would understand my concern. Help me to help my daughter understand that the life we have is not so bad.

Yogigee
Yogigee

You need to think before you speak first, then maybe people won't react to you so negatively!!!

Nikki from NYC
Nikki from NYC

After watching the show several times I came here to comment on your ride to the Hospital with Briana. What a beautiful, and wise beyond her years, young lady. She is such a joy. I have prayed for her healing and will continue to do so. I will pray for her to be completely cancer free, and for angels to wrap her in their arms and protect her body, mind and heart. She is never alone. She always has her Father in Heaven with her. Always.

I lost my only sibling a brother to cancer. He had Sqamous Cell Carcinoma. It is also known as large cell caner. When they operated on him they removed 17 lymph nodes, in his neck and uner his arms. The one major rule when someone has cancer is you always have, show and speak hope. Never talk about dying. My mother also had cancer. Non Hodgkins Lymphoma. She had notes on her front and back door that said "Only positive thoughts allowed". Her friend had them printed up really pretty with flowers and birds.

So please whatever your thinking keep it to yourself, say it to your grown up friends, or talk to Brooke.....do not be negative to Briana. She needs a strong Mom. She does not need to carry you, you need to make her life a safe place to speak and feel. She can say all she wants freely, without anyone else saying anything but positive, loving thoughts, and prayers. It is very important. If you love her which I know you do, love her, be there for her, and please stop making things about you. Yes she is your daughter, and I know how much we love our children, and how we never want them hurt. She needs, wants you to be strong. Think of how great your friendship could be. I lost my brother, but I watched my mother lose her son. My mom was the best mom ever, I do not know how she did it but she did. You both are in my prayers.

May GOD Bless you Briana.

Mother of 4 adult children
Mother of 4 adult children

Vicki, I have watched this show from the beginning. I am praying for Breanna. She is a jewel and acts more like the parent to you instead of the child who needs her mom to be strong and stop being a drama queen. Give her all the support she needs instead of you getting it from her. You are a mean spirited person. Slade is not my favorite but what goes around comes around. He has never been in jail for getting behind in his child support so he must be paying. Why can't you get that? Gretchen has taken nothing but crap from you and Tamra. Jealousy that she is such a cutie...I think yes. Look what you did to Don. If I was him I would of left you years before you all split up. Your love tank will never be full until you learn to be a nicer person. Realize if you dish it out you will get it back. Happy Gretchen is finally standing up to you!!!

moosehead1
moosehead1

Hi Vickie, I first want to say that your Daughter will be fine I found out that I have thyroid cancer 5 years ago. it affected not only my thyroid but my para thyroid and a lymph node that was the size of a huge huge gum ball. I've had aton of treatments and I'm approaching the five year mark!! so it is cureable you have to keep positive and leave everything in gods hands . I'm living proof that you can survive! Don't let people get you down you are mis understood. you are a good person who only wants the best for those you love and who are around you. if your friends can't understand that then they really are'nt friends worth having. god bless and your daughter is in my prayers

NiccieU
NiccieU

I absolutely hate that so many people are bashing you. You are who you are and everyone displays their emotions differently. Each of you ladies on the show bring something unique to it. In addition, I think at times viewers forget that you're not a fictional character but someone who is actually going through a real life struggle. My cousin is on a show on the History channel and I see how things are edited, which I also think people forget when they are commenting on this blog and making harsh statements. I'm only 27 and therefore cannot imagine what Briana has went through and is possibly still going through. I wish your family all the best!

Mary Jill Schmidt
Mary Jill Schmidt

You really don't get it do you. I think it's time to leave the show, start paying spousal support to Donn as you have been so mean to him that I'm surprised he stayed with you. You also need to stop judging everyone. You are not better then anyone else. Take a clue from your Daughter. She is so intuitive, smart & very kind & I pray she gets through this. Now read your blog because what you wrote is not who you are. All of you should celebrate each other rather than rip each other apart. It really bothers me how all of you throw religion around. Are you in church every Sunday? Do you volunteer at church functions? Maybe you should get more involved. You'll learn to put others 1st, think before you talk & find peace. Clearly you are a very woman. Bringing a new man into your life will get old & you'll move on. You are not perfect, remember that.

Gloria Duke
Gloria Duke

Vicki, please trust God that your daughter will be just fine. I'm praying for her and you. I had both Burkitt's Lymphoma and Thyroid Cancer in 2006. I went thru extensive chemotherapy but am just fine. I may have lost my hair during that time but I breezed through that chemo just fine. It's just hair...it grows back. Hair is the least thing we should be concerned about. I just wanted to encourage you during this time of trials. Trust that God will be there for both of you! You are in my prayers! Much love to you both!

MeeToo
MeeToo

Anyone who watches the show can clearly see what type of person you really are. A hypocritical, mean-spirited person with severe self esteem issues. Just in case you were confused. ;)

mshannon32
mshannon32

Well, you gave Slade everything he was looking for. He played you big time and you let him! Your reaction to his comments made you look like an idiot-no wonder you're not getting the "respect" you think you deserve. It's always better to take the high road and try to be classy (I think this has been hard for you to accomplish). Put yourself above those comments and let it slide. He knows he got you where it hurt! Also, you need to focus on your life and the problems you have and stop getting involved with other people's lives. It's none of your business and whatever you think about them is not going to change the situation. You are not that powerful!

With that being said, I could not believe how you were acting while driving Brianna to the hospital. My daughter has been through literally dozens of surgeries since the very day she was born. Not once, never have I ever discussed in her presence how upset and nervous I am that she has to have surgery. The most important thing a parent can do is to make their child feel comfortable and loved and safe. Talk to anyone else about the negative feelings you may be having but definitely not her. You were a pathetic excuse for a mother last night! I thought you were so much smarter than that! I felt so bad that Brianna had to constantly hear how sick you felt, that she could die, etc...That was certainly not what she needed.

You need to seriously reevaluate your life and your attitude. It's not all about Vicki and will never be. You can't constantly degrade people and expect them to just sit back and take it. I wish you would just leave the show and move on.

Redbird
Redbird

Vicki. All I can say is that I would hate to live your life. Being humble and admitting your mistakes is not a fault but a virtue. If you really want to seek peace and serenity try it sometimes. I have done it and it is like a weight being lifted off your shoulders. What I have learned in life is to "own" my stuff. It was so disturbing to hear you say that you will apologize to Gretchen but that she also need to apologize to you. What is this? Tit for tat? Just do what is right and let nature take its course. I wish you well and I would hope that you move toward being a better person. Especially in the way that you treat others.

happy june
happy june

Bravo probably won't post this but oh well.

Vicky you are so bitter about everything in life. You tend to blame everyone else for your problems. I seriously think you are in desparate need of therapy. You act like your life is so horrible, when you don't really know what it is to have to deal with much of anything all that bad. I know your daughter is ill with her thyroic and adnoids and I do understand a parent will worry, but she is acting more mature than you are. You are making it into a big pity party about yourself. Don't look down your nose at me either. Since I do know what I am talking about with medical issues. I have had brain cancer, with a cyst and a ganglioma astrocytoma, epilepsy in my right temporal lobe, grandmals and refractory complex partials, kidney stones, oestoarthritis in every bone of my body since age 28, i'm 51 now, major crippling head pain, cataracts since my 40's,fibromyalgia, bone spurs in both feet, crushed bones in my right knee, my teeth going bad from the epilepsy meds, which will eventually affect my liver, hypertension, graves disease (which is waxing and waning of the thyroid) a cancerous goiter that is in remission, cellulitis. I have to have the teeth removed so I can have my right knee repaired and I surely can't afford dentures living on disibility. But you know what, I'm blessed, because so many more have it worse than me. I wake each day, yes my house is messy as I don't get around well, but I'm happy and I have a good sense of humor. Something you haven't had for a long time, so maybe it's time you hang it up and give some new blood a chance on the show. You have been around much to long on the show, all you have left is bitterness,

pagano
pagano

I sometimes wonder if any of you orange county house wifes ever watch your own show,you all seem to be so hypocritical. Tamra why dont you just stand up to vicki instead of always saying what you mean when she's not around. And Gretchen i just love you, your so darn cute, and vicki i feel you work so much because you have no life, and you wish you were either tamra or Gretchen. As they say make it a good show. Oh yeah vicki am so gald your not with Don anymore, just maybe he can find a real women.

Viewer111
Viewer111

Remember God will judge you just the same as you have done to others!!! Good luck

KishaAnn
KishaAnn

Vicki you are so mean and Slade was so hilarious! You beat up on him and Grechen for three years...karma.

Viewer  LORI
Viewer LORI

I think Vicki is smart and Slade could not be funny without insulting Viki and Tamarin. He was not funny and is trying to get famous by sleeping with Grethan. He was not funny. Any mother would be on Viki's side as her daughter is ill. I have had cancer and waiting to find out the results is one of the worst time in my life. You know when this show ends Grethan will move on. Brooks paid his child support and is current, Slade is not. Let Vicki be with her family as it is a very hard time. I am annoyed at Tamerin as she invited Slade and she knew Vicki was already stressed. Not such a good friend. I hope Brianna is Ok. My sister had her Thyroid removed and it was cancerous. I had breast cancer in 2001 and last year it was discovered that the chemo drug they gave me destroyed my heart muscles. The thing about cancer is that you can never let up. The worst thing a mother can go through is having your child be sick. Vicki is my favorite and she should develop her own show and get away from these jealous ladies. All the money Vicki has she made with hard work. Not like Slade who carries his girlfriends bags! Team Vicki/Team Brianna That is the Team we need to support,

Liz44
Liz44

All the Best to Brianna - Get well soon - You are in my prayers - What a brave young girl and such an inspiration to this 40-something year old! Love you both!

Nan0404
Nan0404

It sounds to me like all these *tumors* are a multi nodular thyroid goiter whose nodules have enlarged, with new ones forming. And, unless she's got an atypical thyroid malignancy, only one type of thyroid cancer is generally not contained and is rapid to spread. Wishing Brianna well. Just hoping that this show isn't turning something relatively benign into histrionic garbage, making this out to be far more than it actually is from an actual medical perspective.

beblessed55
beblessed55

rhfan2012: You are right on. And what is with Tamra? She is scared of Vicki so she plays both ends of the fence. What are these women, in junior high? I would have to read Vicki and let her know she doesn't dictate who I can be friends with and I use the word "friends" loosely because I doubt any of these women know the real definition of being a "true friend." A true friend will support you, not tear you down, but give advice without attacking, and allow you to make your own decisions no matter how bad because we are grown ups. Vicki uses every excuse in the book...now its her divorce, her daughter. Everybody goes through stuff. She wants people to feel sorry for her. While I do wish Brianna well, Vicki has put those around her through sheetr hell...Donn, for one. She says in her blog her core values is to treat others as she she would want to be treated. I can't tell. Her eyes were about to pop out their sockets when she was screaming at Tamra. She needs to watch what she says about others, then perhaps others won't attack her. She so needs to get off the show but Bravo will keep her because of the drama. Vicki and Alexis need to leave. Get off the pity box Vicki and change the childish behavior. Your daughter is far more mature than you are. Sad.......

bka
bka

I understand about your daughter but all you could talk is what it was doing to you! Driving to heaven? Stop! Put her first, it strengthens you. You have an amazing daughter. SHE will be fine and then so will you.

MrJJ12
MrJJ12

I definitely wish the best for your daughter, for both your children for that matter because I wish no ill will on anyone or their families. However Vicki, you are a hypocritical, judgemental and down right nasty individual! You think it is ok to say whatever comes to your mind regardless of how it might affect the person but the moment someone calls you on your flaws you have an attack and act like it is the end of the world. Simple things like making fun of a person's name? Just because Timree is not a name you have ever heard of does not make it any less real or valid. I personally can't stand Slade but you have no right to say the things you do about him and then be offended when he fires back! To be honest you and the rest of the housewives that act like you on the other shows all make me want to stop watching this entire series. You all have become so fame/money hungry that it has turned all of you into vapid, shallow, down right evil people! I used to watch this show as a reason to escape my life after working a 50-60 hour work week and dealing with life's everyday issues but all of you ladies on all the shows have just made it barely tolerable anymore. You all act like children and the majority of you make women in general look bad! If this is what having money does to a person than I will be getting down on my knees tonight and thanking the good lord above that I do not have any! I would rather live pay check to pay check and be a happy honest civil person than have all the money in the world and act the way you ladies do!

BrandyMS
BrandyMS

I will say this. I am having thyroid issues myself and before I complete be a bitch to you I will say yes it is scary. And I will definitely pray for your daughter. But from what I have seen of her on the show, she is very beautiful and very head strong. She is also very calm and positive. You should be a proud mother. I wish her a speedy and successful recovery.

buddysgirl
buddysgirl

Vicki, I cannot stand watching you any longer. You do not see anything you do as wrong! You can dish it out but fail to see what you do as wrong! People in glass houses should not throw stones! It is none of your business what the other castemates do. They attack back, not attack you! You are the one constantly making comments about everyones personal life and business! You continue to say things about Slade and child support yet you are dating the same type of man! Why is that OK!!! I am by no means a Slade fan but you say in this episode that your boyfriend is no ones business but Gretchen's boyfriend is? You can say it is because he is on the show, however you have introduced your boyfriend into the show! Get yourself together and take a good long look at yourself in the mirror. Unfortunately you probably will like what you see due to being in denial. I do hope that your daughter is fine. I am a cancer survivor and wish her well. She is a true lady and nothing like you! She is the voice of reason in your life!

DAWN/LI
DAWN/LI

Vicki- If your daughter calls it CANCER then YOU should too. SHE is the one with CANCER. THIS IS NOT HAPPENING TO YOU!! Respect her. You should be the strong one for HER. DON"T tell her again YOU cannot say the word...DO NOT SAY THAT TO HER! If she is facing it then YOU should too....Support her and put your feelings aside...THIS IS NOT HAPPENING TO YOU!

MollyQT
MollyQT

Vicki, For a person who makes it a point for the cameras to catch you talking about your faith, you are such a hypocritical person. Hey, pot, it's kettle - you're black! You are just another example of why those who spout religion are the ones who are ruining this world. You think that you can be as mean and as nasty as you like, as long as you ask for forgiveness later on. That's not what true faith is all about. You some inner reflection and for a woman who thinks she is so smart, you really should think before you speak. How hard is it to talk with your foot in your mouth? You have continuously been so rude over the years and I know you are just kept on the show because you are a loose cannon and people like to watch the drama, but honestly, I can't stand to watch when you come on the screen. Maybe it's time for you to move on and get out of high school - you seem too old to be acting like that. I mean, I expect it from the middle school girls I teach, but not from a woman old enough to be my mother. I wish your daughter the best, as she has never seemed to get into any school girl drama. And I hope Don is doing well after all of the embarassing things you have done to him over the years. Again, look into your faith, for real this time, before you end up finding out in the end it's not all about saying mean things and simply asking for forgiveness, but that our maker actually has a list of all the wrongs we made over the years and realizes we only apologize when we feel there is something in it for us.

Sam64
Sam64

I wish the best for Brianna. I was a little surprised that she was drinking a beer the night before her surgery...I guess the doc must have said it was ok. Vicki, you are so poor me this season. Tamara went through a divorce last year and didn't act like that. Maybe you should dismiss yourself from the show to be with your daughter and get yourself together.

vallybutterfly
vallybutterfly

Dear Vicky, I'm one of the original fans before Tamara. The show was based on a real life group of women who lived in Cota De Caza. I loved it when you all got along very well, you even got along with Slade.The ones on the show misbehaving were the kids of the housewives, but never your kids. That's what I loved and still love about you. The love you have for your kids and the love and respect they have shown you. Your kids are in the top 5 most successful kids of all the housewife shows kids. Ive never really seen you go off on Gretchen the way Tamara has throughout the seasons. I havent heard you say much. That's not your style. Your to busy running a successful insurance business and making time for your kids that take up most of your time. Youve always been cordial. I think it was Tamara dragging you into something you didnt have time for. Slade who you have known longer than Tamara may have been hurt. Let bygones be bygones you don't need the stress in your life. Live and let live with no judgement. That's when you'll find peace within. Who cares. You have two great kids you did an amazing job raising that's your biggest reward in life.

Faithful Viewer
Faithful Viewer

Vicki, come on now. Are you not being a hypocrite? I think Slade is a major looser for sure, but you are really being a hypocrite. You do talk smack about everyone, so now it's your turn to take the heat. And you are a bully.

wareislarine
wareislarine

Vicky, Vicky you were so embarassing tonight. You started everything, why should someone tell Gretchen to set down so that you could have the floor, you're full of it. You brought the drama, then was mad when no one jumped on "oh vicky" band wagon. To quote Trina Braxtion Vicky "YOU ARE A FUN SNATCHER" if it's not about you oh cry me a river. You need to act your age.

Karma is REAL
Karma is REAL

I cant believe you had the NERVE to even type this "Treat others as you wish to be treated"

dannigirl
dannigirl

Why is it that you think you're always right? You're a total drama queen that has to have the spotlight on you at all times, and it's annoying!!!

Quit runnimg your mouth and stay out out of everyones business - what goes around comes around is all I have to say!!!!

Fan of OCC
Fan of OCC

VICKI YOU HAVE NOT CHANGED AT ALL......AS USUAL YOU CAN ALWAYS DISH IT OUT BUT NEVER TAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mistory2u
mistory2u

Seriously, how old are you? I can't believe you behave the way you do. You never fit in to this group of women but I guess Bravo wanted to put one uptight female in the mix. Lighten up and perhaps stop acting as though you are better than everyone else. I've never seen you behave in a kind manner. Food for thought.

Viewer
Viewer

Vicki you need to judge not and ye will not be judged!! Don't dish if you can't take it. There is nothing like karma coming back to bite you in the butt!! I only have sympathy for your daughter, I pray all is well with her. You need to focus on the positive and try to concern yourself with your own business not Gretchen's and Slades'. Small potatoes compared to what you are going to in your life. Sweat the small stuff and that' all you will be consumed with.

tiredmommy
tiredmommy

Vicki...Yes, family is the most important thing, so I agree that you should have left the 80's night to be with your daughter. However, you have no right to be mad at slade for doing a comedy show for entertainment when you have slammed that man endlessly on national television. Hypocrite is an ugly word, but that is what you are being. Stay away from the drama, let slade say whatever he wants, you say whatever you want about him. Focus on what is important, don't be mad at slade, its pointless...focus all your attention on your family, and leave slade and gretchen alone.

tiredmommy
tiredmommy

Vicki...Yes, family is the most important thing, so I agree that you should have left the 80's night to be with your daughter. However, you have no right to be mad at slade for doing a comedy show for entertainment when you have slammed that man endlessly on national television. Hypocrite is an ugly word, but that is what you are being. Stay away from the drama, let slade say whatever he wants, you say whatever you want about him. Focus on what is important, don't be mad at slade, its pointless...focus all your attention on your family, and leave slade and gretchen alone.

krystal Waterfalls
krystal Waterfalls

Vicki you don't ever think that maybe all this attacking your doing to people at your age is maybe causing BAD karma on you? It seems to be manifested with yet another failed marriage and your daughters health condition. Your mouth has been a biting snake since you started changing up your ways around the time you started becoming "BFF" with Tamra. With age should have come wisdom but you display juvenile acts; You can dish it but never take it and you ALWAYS RUN AWAY FROM CONFRONTATION! If you were slower to speak and quicker to listen maybe you could change your KARMA!

Kreme
Kreme

Wow Vickie - you can dish it out but.......

MN Viewer
MN Viewer

Vicki you are getting worse as the show goes on, get over stuff. Yeah Slade is a creep and no one can stand him but just ignore him rather then give him more TV time. Chill out!

Lee Ann from Bel Air
Lee Ann from Bel Air

Vicki -

He got caught up? Why is ok for your boyfriend to get caught up but you can never let it go when it goes for Slade. Been watching since the beginning and you have always been a hypocrite! Double standards apply only to you? You're a ridiculous person.

Katinlq
Katinlq

Quote from your blog: My feeling and beliefs are simple and true to my core. Treat others as you wish to be treated, try to look at the glass as half full -- and not half empty, hug someone that you just met, be forgiving instead of judgmental, smile a lot (it will confuse "them"), save more and spend less, be honest and don't lie, and do a little "woo hoo" once in a while. Based on what I have seen you don't seem to practice most of your feeling/beliefs. Maybe you need to read them over and over and then actually live them. Live YOUR life and don't worry about what anyone else is doing and you will be much happier. Good luck!

Snowy river
Snowy river

Sorry Vicki . You should be embarrassed . You are two faced and just got caught. You can't accuse someone of something and then not be accountable for your words. You have said FAR worse. Reuruns don't lie missy. It's coming back to bite you

Hourel
Hourel

I think that you should mind your own business. Its ok for you to have an opinion about everybody and everything. But when someone has one about you... the world just ended...

Just me
Just me

Vicki, I wish Brianna the best. She is a beautiful young lady with her whole life a head of her. Good things happen to good people. She will be just fine. Good luck with your new business venture. I wish Bravo would replace Alexis with Peggy and Slade with, well, even a pet Hamster would be better at this point.

Kathy M
Kathy M

Keeping Brianna in my prayers! Your daughter is amazing. Being a cansur survivor myself (yes I know I spelled it wrong, I hate the word and I give it no respect so I spell it wrong on purpose). I know how horrible it is to hear the words coming out of your doctor mouth when they are talking about you. I remember it being like the teacher on Charlie Brown wah wah wah surgery, wah wah wah, chemo..... Its frightening. Sadly, when you tell your loved ones it is them you are trying to protect when your world inside of you is pure confussion, hurt and you muster up the courage to be the strong one. She is amazing and I see her strength watching her on the show. It is wild how strong one becomes when they have to be. I guess what I am trying to say is I can relate to her because I myself went thru it... I can not imagine how you as a mother felt hearing about it. I always said my treatment was much harder on the people that loved me than myself. Not physically, because of course it was a hard battle but emotionally I know their hearts were breaking watching me go thru it all. Today ~ 3 years later I am still free from the disease and stronger and wiser than ever before. Hang in there mama, remember to breath and Know that your baby girl is going to be fine. much love and lots of prayers for you and your family.

ViewerfromMiami
ViewerfromMiami

Vicki- to apologize to someone for ways that you hurt them, does not mean you have to create a new "friendship" with them. In my opinion, it is healthy for your growth to take accountability for your regressions to have PEACE within yourself. Girl...be honest...you are as much to blame. One thing that I never understand about proud opinionated people, is that the things that they are passionate about are stressed in such hate; it is extremely redundant. Be the strong, independent woman you like to be and put this behind you and move forward. I cannot imagine ever putting myself on a TV show during my personal trials in life. I am already so difficult on myself, that hearing other peoples' opinions would make me downright crazy. Excuse yourself from the show after making peace with the cast and take care of yourself and those children of yours. ENJOY LIFE

Vicki, Teresa, Ramona, Kim
Vicki, Teresa, Ramona, Kim

Vicki, You have and are my favorite housewife of all time! Love your work ethic and your family. Hope everything goes well with Briana and her future! Love love love :)