Alexis Bellino

Alexis wants Heather to understand she mad about more than Costa Rica and wants Gretchen to do what Tamra wants.

on Jun 18, 20130

Whewy! What a busy week! I am officially exhausted. Happy 51st Birthday to the love of my life, Jimmy! Here is a picture from his party! Since we celebrated his 50th birthday in Sonoma, I decided to I bring Sonoma to the O.C. for his 51st. Happy Birthday Boo. 

329 comments
franco
franco

Alexis stopping dropping in and leaving early it makes you look weak. Stay, stand, and fight for what you believe. ..  This is reality TV not the 700 club. Woman up! 

angelas02
angelas02

I am sick at the way the housewives treat you! They are a mean, pretentious group who are bullies. Although I don't agree with your beliefs, I do see that the other women are not nice to you and it is shameful. I think you were very brave and admirable to go to Tamra's wedding and Lydia's party. You deserve to be respected and I am sad they haven't treated you well. I love your new hair and I think Jim is great. Please ignore Tamra and Heather. They're morons.

Gvmeserenitynow
Gvmeserenitynow

You are still one of my favorite housewives of all time! I appreciate your views on marriage and putting God first as well as how to take the high road like you did at the gym opening. Man stay away from heather. I think you must remind her of one of the girls in high school that used to bully her. I can't figure out why else she is so mean to you!! :)

southernfried
southernfried

Alexis, you are a lovely person.  One thing I've noticed about you is that you are always on track to improve yourself.  Not that you need improvement!  What I mean is, you don't stay stuck in a bad pattern - you really study a situation and try to learn and grow from even bad experiences. 

CG2012
CG2012

You look beautiful without extensions!!!  Love your new look.

connie.kline2
connie.kline2

Have watched RHOOC sine the beginning and have noticed a few things about Vickie. If you don't have the same standards as she, she'll cut you out of HER circle. When she went after Jeanna and didn't care about her feelings, she then came across as an un-caring person simply because of the fact things weren't going according to her. She has bad mouthed not only you, but Jim as well. Watch your back. People have made comments about how fast Gretchen and Tamara have become friends through all the bickering and name calling. Now, you and Vickie have become close. You need to watch your back, Alexis.

dfstone
dfstone

After watching the 100th episode the other night and seeing everything that Gretchen went thru, I think you are seriously over-reacting over that Costa Rica dinner.  You need to relax and get a grip.

ZeeB@424
ZeeB@424

Alexis; Jim is a stand-up, grounded man who knows what is important. You and Jim are true partners- all he wants is to provide for his family and you are an excellent contributor and helpmate. Your marriage will not and cannot be shaken because Jim refuses to get sucked into the vortex of insecure fellow cast members. Good to see you both stand on solid ground. Keep your focus on what really matters- Faith and Family first- then friends (emphasis on lower case 'f').

cottager83
cottager83

stand your ground Alexis, Vicki, and Gretchen are both jealous trouble makers and neither like it when they are called out for bad behavior.  Go dress shopping with girls and Tamras' real friends will attend.  Happy Bday to Jimmy, you have a good hubby.

meghan.bowers
meghan.bowers

I really like you and your mentality this season... I miss u and Gretchen being friends. Be care Paul with Vicki, she can turn on u in a hit second. Stay beautiful!

saucy1949
saucy1949

I've always like you. Why don't you just forgive Gretchen and the other girls like you have Vickie. Have you forgotten the horrible things she said about you in your first season. She is the reason Tamra didn't get along with you either.  Be the bigger person and Christian and just start over with everyone and don't let Vickie talk you out of it because she can only have one friend at a time and right now thats you.  I think everyone besides Vickie is tire of the bickering and wants to get along.  

erica8123
erica8123

I have to admit I haven't been a fan of yours.  I shift more and more each week because I really appreciate your positivity and your ability to be so forgiving.  Keep being you because you seem to be a really genuine person!

sweetcountryhoney
sweetcountryhoney

I am glad that your getting included more in the show being that your part of the cast. I have a feeling that your husband dose not want to be filmed with the other woman and if so why do you stay on the show when clearly the other partners invited and are filmed often. If Brooks starts going with Vicki then it isn't going to be easy and fun going alone.

justterri09
justterri09

I have to say, this is the first season I've enjoyed watching you on the show. I think I finally figured out that you are completely naive and clueless since I used to think you were stuck up. I love seeing you and Vicki being friends since Gretchen is such a phony! You and Jim do seem to have a wonderful marriage so my hat is off to you!

Raevyn
Raevyn

Alexis you keep going girl, don't let the small time haters bring you down!

centraljerseygirl123
centraljerseygirl123

Congrats Alexis on your 100th episode coming up! Happy Birthday to you husband Jim also. Love the show, and keep your chin up!

PreciousU
PreciousU

Alexis I do think you are the LEAST phony of the Housewives however some of what was said about your pretentiousness was a tiny bit true. Still, I do think you have a good heart.

 

Sorry, but i do NOT like your husbands slightly controlling attitude.

maria89
maria89

Heather was so rude and condescending to you...she does not have the ability to see another persons point of view

winterbluebella
winterbluebella

Wow. I always say you are the Queen of Passive/Aggressiveness and you didn't disappoint with your blog. DID you actually refer to Vick and Tamara as the "three stooges?" Hmm, lightly veiled insults much??

 

What is really bothering you, Alexis? Know what I think? I think you are GREEN with jealousy that Tamara married a gorgeous, YOUNG man, and is happy as a clam. You're stuck with a much older gentleman. I do believe you love him, and it's clear you love your kids. But I think you are deeply unhappy right now, Alexis. You've made some choices in your personal relationships that we can all see are going to be hard to live with. Marriage is really tough to begin with, but when partners are an entire generation apart, well it just makes for a real rocky road. Please stop taking out your dissatisfaction on others, Lex. 

rosyposy
rosyposy

Alexis, I have come to have a lot of respect for you.  You stick to your principles, and refuse to join the low brow trash talk so common among the others.  I realize the drunken rants and backbiting is what many tune in for, but it is just nice and refreshing to see a genuine lady for a change.  It is hilarious that they are are so obviously jealous of your beauty.

Jodie
Jodie

Dear Alexis,

 

I have been watching the reruns of all the RHOC all week and you are still my favorite housewife on this show.  You are the classiest, most honest woman on the show and you shine like a diamond among glass when compared to the other women.  Watching the evolution of the show reminds me of why you have become my favorite over the years.  You are a wonderful role model to women everywhere. 

 

Sincerely,

Jodie

TulaneMom
TulaneMom

From this point on, try not to engage with Heather. Say hello, and keep going. If she tries to start something, just 'glaze', and walk away. She (and her husband) are desperate to start something with you and your husband, the name-change party at their home last year is a perfect example of them trying to set you both up. They have shown they cannot be trusted when it comes to you and your family, and without you to focus on this year the cracks in both their character and relationship have started to show.

The viewers are behind you, and have seen what Tamra, Gretchen and Heather are all about this season.

summer123
summer123

Guess I have more of a skeptical view on things. Don't really trust Tamra/Bravo. While I get it was nice that Tamra is now including you. Watch your back. Until you are really back into the fold of the show I would hold off letting your guard down just yet. They may be trying to get the viewers to forget just so the spin-off for Tamra's show is a success. I'm still not buying it. Sorry Bravo.

Harrieth1
Harrieth1

Alexis, you are a pillar of strength.  You looked regal at the wedding.  They did bully you.  What right had they to point out alleged faults???   Oh that's right, they are without faults.  Presumptuous.

JessicaLayne94
JessicaLayne94

Alexis! First, Happy Birthday to Jim! 

 

Secondly, this is my first time posting and I want to say you are my ALL TIME FAVORITE housewife! You have been for the past two seasons. When I see you on the show, I see a genuine person who is not two-faced like a lot of the other cast members. Despite how hurt you were, I have never heard you trash talk any of the other ladies, and I think you are great!

 

I am so happy you and Tamra have reconciled and are now friends. I look forward to seeing the relationship the two of you have created.

 

I also love how good of friends you have become with Vicki. I think she is so fun (just like yourself) and the two of you get along great! There's something I realized about the two of you....NO DRAMA! 

 

Like @December89 said, keep on being you! You are awesome. 

December89
December89

You are doing GREAT! I know the situation with Gretchen hurt you the most. as she PRETENDED to be your friend only to abuse your good nature.  Never again girl!  You just keep on being you.

PenDoy
PenDoy

Be strong they are the ones in the wrong. You never did anything to them. Maybe you did have that thing with Vikki but that has nothing to do with them or what they are doing.

critic
critic

Don't waste your time with these women. I believe most if not all are jealous of you. You are a knockout with a knock out body. Heather is a new comer and get's involved with everyone's mess and acts like she is so much smarter than the rest of you. She is an ugly fool and I wish Bravo would get her off the show....I only watch the show now to watch you, the rest of them sicken me and if and when you leave the show I won't be watching anymore.

lynnesmile
lynnesmile

Oh PLEASE take Jim and leave the show.

HousewifeFan@54
HousewifeFan@54

Alexis, It seems to me that you're all turncoats (sk Jim, he'll know what that means.)  I recall a birthday party for your twins, when at the VERY FIRST it was all about kids and puppies.  Suddenly during your welcoming speech, it became about how YOU had this bleeding problem, you almost dies, but the great OBGYN saved your life.  NOW call Gretchen selfish 

boga
boga

 @dfstone 

Should one tolerate abuse only because someone else was abused more?

What kind if logic is it?

WilliamSue
WilliamSue

 @saucy1949 Gretchen's betrayal to Alexis is the worst!  Alexis was so loyal to Gretchen - just re-watched one of the reunions where Alexis told Vicki and Tamra to be quiet so Gretchen could talk.  Alexis should never, in my opinion, allow Gretchen is ever be close to her again. 

Gatorgirl1
Gatorgirl1

@erica8123 ...and she seems to be growing and I appreciate the changes she's made.

bling4747
bling4747

 @winterbluebella All of those women insult each other, not just Alexis. It;s like watching Mean Girls in high school. (But yet, I watch the show because I am utterly fascinated by their "friendship" dynamics.---unless they are acting..)

dragonslayer
dragonslayer

 @winterbluebella

 Don't listen to these comments Alexis. This blogger is definitely a wolf - snake trying to create trouble for you and Jim. Those of us who have watched this show know you love your husband and respect him. These remarks  come ffrom the heart of a troublemaker....who wants to destroy your love, family and marriage.

may God protect you from this attack and venom. 

erica8123
erica8123

 @summer123 I hope you are mistaken, but I won't be surprised if you're not :(

bgznbsb
bgznbsb

 @Harrieth1Why do you people keep forgetting that Alexis did the same thing to Vicki in the past.  Why in the world is it bullying when people put down Alexis but it's okay for Alexis to do the same.  I am just boggled by this.

 

winterbluebella
winterbluebella

 @critic I think Alexis has lately revealed HERSELF to be the jealous one. Seems Tamara's new marriage to the gorgeous and YOUNG Eddie Judge is making Alexis more than a little miserable.

Jodibelle
Jodibelle

 @critic Aside from Vicki, they all have the same.  Aside from Vicki, they're all pretty and in good shape. 

fell
fell

 @HousewifeFan@54 totally agree. i am watching the Costa Rica trip now. Alexis says that when Vicki came to her room, she made it about Vicki.  Buth that was o.k.. now we are at the beach, and Alexis and Gretchen are talking about how Gretchen did not have her back. she brings up the fact that when Gretchen came to her room she made it seem like it was all about Gretchen. but that was not o.k. with Alexis. include this in the selfish Alexis column. 

piperbeau
piperbeau

 @HousewifeFan@54  That is being petty! Alexis got caught up in the moment talking about her child birth!! Stop making that into a selfish moment! inappropriate maybe, selfish no way!

fell
fell

 @bgznbsb  @Harrieth1 same here. I guess if you live in Alexis's world you can be a "bully" all you want. But when people"bully" you, you play the world's best victim. Shame on you.

sookiedarling
sookiedarling

@winterbluebella,...yeah right, she's jealous of Tamara's third marriage.  Yeah, I'd be jealous too ;)

 

Reba39forever
Reba39forever

@Jodibelle @critic Jealous? my mom used to say this to try to make me feel better. I did eventually grow up and started having adult relationships - accepting that I am not always right - and apologizing when appropriate. Stop whining like a two year old put on your big girl panties and move on. Leave the tantrums for the playground.

mothership
mothership

 @fell  @HousewifeFan@54  @54 Naturally she would have a higher standard of behavior from he "best friend".  Nothing at all unusual in tolerating bad behavior from an,enemy but expecting more from a friend.  Don't make it a character flaw, because it isn't one.

Reba39forever
Reba39forever

@piperbeau @HousewifeFan@54 of course their party should be all about her.

HousewifeFan@54
HousewifeFan@54

 @piperbeau  @54 Nobody gets caught up like that when you're throwing that big of a party.  She wanted everyone who didn't already know what she had to go through to have these children.  That kind of talk is for a friends talking to friends type situation.

dragonslayer
dragonslayer

 @hollywoodnites  @dragonslayer  @winterbluebella

 You have your opinion and I have mine. The comments in the blog were an attack on Alexis's marriage and the words were cruel and harsh. To assume that Alexis is jealous of Tamra's Eddie - is just deceitful speculation. MANY of us comment on the behavior we can actually see - not stuff we make up to personally atttack someone's marriage and family.

Alexis didn't say that she is worried about her marriage or made any references to Eddie. All I was merely doing is warning her to disregard Winter's uncalled for remarks about jealousy and unhappiness....this blogger is attacking her with no good cause - just bloody mean attitude.  Tamra nd Alexis are moving forward in a more civil manner.

lavidaalta1985
lavidaalta1985

 @sookiedarling  @fell  @bgznbsb  @Harrieth1 If you actually watch the argument in San Francisco, Alexis tells Vicki straight up that she has NO ISSUE with how much Vicki works or how many people she needs to call. Her issue was the fact that Vicki was being insensitive about the fact that Alexis wanted to talk to her HUSBAND & CHILDREN during dinner. Alexis was not on the phone all night, but Vicki made it seem like she was. Her point during the argument was "Don't be disrespectful when I want to talk to my FAMILY and then turn around and call your office the next day. "

sookiedarling
sookiedarling

 @fell  @bgznbsb  @Harrieth1 I watched that episode, and I feel Alexis was coming from a kinder place than the three vipers.  Heather and tamra all year kept calling her stupid.  Alexis was never ungracious as there were.