Cast Blog: #RHOC

I Don't Miss Gretchen

Alexis clarifies Lydia's statements and explains that she doesn't have any desire to be around the Gretchen she sees now.

Happy Mother’s Day to all of you wonderful moms out there! We have the best job in the world, ahem, I mean JOBS...taxi driver, cook, laundress, tutor, nurse, problem solver, grocery shopper...and the list goes on. I hope you each enjoyed the day and did something for yourselves. I got to sleep in, and we laid around in pjs til noon, then went to brunch and then church, so I had the best day ever!

I have never been wine tasting in Malibu, so I loved watching the girls' trip. Shockingly enough, the trip seemed pretty harmless (aside from the single name-calling incident). I do feel that there is one thing we can guarantee about Vicki, and that is that she is a HARD WORKER, so I truly doubt there is any way that she is slacking with Wines by Wives.

Lydia saying to Gretchen that I missed her needs clarification. I am not "missing" Gretchen because the current Gretchen is not the same person I was friends with three years ago. I do miss the old Gretchen, but not the person that I know and see now. What I had mentioned to Lydia is that Gretchen's behavior towards me hurt the most, because at one point we really were friends. I've never had a close connection to Tamra or Heather.

I feel really bad for Heather and Terry. Marriages have ups and downs and it seems theirs is in a bit of a rut right now. I hope they are able to work through this rough patch. It will be interesting to see where their relationship goes this year.

The grand opening for Sky Zone San Diego was incredible! It was packed all day and I couldn't be more proud of my husband. Although Malibu looked fun, I would not have wished to be anywhere but at Sky Zone that day. I love hearing all the kids (and adults too) laughing, screaming, jumping, and flipping. This is such a rewarding business to be a part of.

When Jim claimed he had a "hair" problem, I about died! How hilarious! Yes, I am his wife, so of course I noticed his thinning hair up top. But it never crossed my mind that he needed to do something about it! I do feel that certain heads look better with hair on them, and Jim has one of those heads. I love him hairy or bald, but he asked my opinion so I had to be honest! At this time he is not looking into plugs. . .but never say never. This is his decision and I will stand behind him with a receding hairline or with a hair transplant. LOL!

If you’d like to visit us at Sky Zone, be sure to book your visit online because we do often sell out SkyZoneAnaheim.com or SkyZoneSanDiego.com.

Check out my Spring Collection of Alexis by Tal Sheyn line at www.alexisbytalsheyn.com!

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XOXO,
Alexis

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Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Lizzie thinks Tamra's comments about her children were meant to deflect from her own problems.

Happy Labor Day!!! I am going to make this blog short and sweet. It’s a holiday and I am going to be spending the day with family in Newport wearing a Sun Kitten and a smile. I hope you all are having a great holiday weekend.

To be honest, the second half of the Reunion was hard to watch. I think it got too ugly. I am not going to insult any of your intelligence in explaining this episode. We all know that misery loves company, and "projection" is as easy to spot as a $2 dollar bill. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that everything miserable that comes out of Tamra's mouth is a direct reflection of what is going on in her life. In my opinion, children are off limits. It's quite apparent that Tamra does not fight fair and when all else fails she will throw your kids, marriage, and even your body under the bus in an attempt to hurt you. We filmed the reunion for over 10 hours and after listening to so much ugliness my heart just couldn't take it anymore.

I do not regret telling Shannon all the things that Tamra said about her. Everything I shared with Shannon was something that happened and was said on camera. I didn't take anything and create unnecessary drama. I would do it again in a heartbeat and I would think my friends would do the same for me. I simply did not know the truth about Tamra. Danielle told me all the things Tamra said about me. That is why after my birthday I was so hurt by her. It's hard for viewers to understand because these things weren't in the show. She could have called me and said she wasn't coming. I called her after sitting on the bus for over an hour. The next day she made fun of me to Danielle, in addition to asking plenty of questions looking for negative details regarding my party.

On that one-year free membership to Cut Fitness: Let's delve into this shall we? I was the one that contacted Tamra days after my party. She did not contact me to give me present. I had invited Tamra, Eddie, Danielle, Joe, Heather, and Terry to the Kentucky Derby and Tamra was the only person that had not sent in the RSVP. It was past the deadline and it was getting borderline rude at this point. Tamra, in fact, was making fun of the Kentucky Derby and the charity event that would be hosting us to Danielle. So, I reached out to Tamra regarding the Kentucky Derby and she texted me back saying, "I want to give you a free membership to CUT for your birthday." Tamra knows I am already a member to a sports club and that was the last I heard of this "free membership." I never received any kind of certificate or card for membership. I suppose she thought I would have the gall to show up and say, "I got a text message from Tamra for a free membership!" It's almost laughable. Needless to say, I don't go to her gym and she didn't attend the Kentucky Derby with me.

There is nothing else to say regarding the Shag, Marry, Kill game that I haven't already discussed in great length in any of my previous blogs. I said the word "marry" and that's that. Tamra even glared at me on the way out of the Valentine's Party and repeated it. "Marry you?" Tamra has said multiple times she couldn't even remember because she drank too much and there are even text messages where she says it too. Her story changes continually, like the words that come out both sides of her mouth.

During the Reunion, Tamra said many more hurtful things that you didn't see. She went on to talk about my son Preston and my marriage. We all remember the episode in the park where Preston hit me on the head with his elephant. He was asleep in the car and he had a mini temper tantrum. He was three -- it happens. I would assume most mothers have had it happen at some point. In addition, my husband and I got in a fight on my birthday. I feel awful about it, yet it made us closer. I just wanted what every woman wants -- to feel special because of her man. I am a big time believer in learning from your mistakes and that won't ever happen again. However none of those incidents had anything to do with Tamra. But on her quest to hurt everyone, she managed to drag in some irrelevant topics. I know it's all to deflect from what's going on in her life and to make someone else look bad. . .but it does hurt nonetheless. My babies and my marriage are my life so I guess her goal was to attack the things closest to my heart because she can't fight fair.

I hope you enjoyed this season and I hope you had a fabulous summer!!! The fall is my absolute favorite time of year, so I say bring on football and cooler weather.

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