In past seasons I did not usually relate to you. This season and last I must agree that the other ladies have really been "mean girls" toward you and Tamra really seems to be the ring leader. I really liked her in the earlier seasons but I cannot stand to watch her anymore. She is not really a true friend to anyone and her BFF's seem to change yearly. As for Gretchen, she has not been a friend to you at all which is sad because she seemed like a really nice girl. I enjoy watching you and Vicki and I am glad you have become friends. I think you are both ladies and are more mature in your relationships with other women. You two should stick together. I do not believe Lydia is as true as she plays to be. She seems to stir up trouble and then plays innocent. I notice that you and Jim seem much happier this season which is great. It seemed that he did not respect your opinions before but that may have been how the show is edited. It is obvious this year that he adores you and I am happy for you and your family. I have never written on any site before before but I felt compelled to for some reason. I applaud you for remaining a lady and I truely wish you health, wealth and happiness. I also absolutely LOVE your new hairstyle it looks beautiful on you. Be well.