You are such a follower, doing what the loud mouths are doing. No integrity. No independent thoughts. A true idiot.
Happy Fourth of July to all of you! We just got back from a trip with the kids to Northern Cali at a Dude Ranch! Talk about grasping what life is all about...there was NO cell phone reception, no TVs, no radios, and no WIFI! I cannot lie, I had a little anxiety the first day. To say we simplified our lives is an understatement! This has been the best week for my children and our family. Among the uninterrupted family time, some of our adventures included horseback riding, fishing, playing bingo and musical chairs, taking a hayride to the fireworks, eating breakfast in the forest, and seeing many animals -- including two bald eagles! I posted a few photos for you to see! This will probably go down as one of our best family trips ever.
You are such a follower, doing what the loud mouths are doing. No integrity. No independent thoughts. A true idiot.
Well, I don't have anything to say about you. You are so devious and creepy when it comes to Gretchen. An on top of that, you are extremely pretentious. Remember, Costa Rica is where?
I really felt badly for you... until I saw the reunion clip. You accused Gretchen of being a bully? Really? How? Look at yourself, you are part of the "mean girls crew" that you accused everyone else of being a part of now. Are you a bully? I don't really blame you though, because you are easily manipulated and you have some master manipulators on that show starting with the hypocrite (that is the right word, btw), Vicki.
Go away already. That's all....just wanted to stop by to tell you to go away. Do people actually read what you have to say? Ridiculous!
Alexis, how funny that once the group of "bullies" let you back in, it took you less than 5 seconds to "bully' Gretchen. I guess, like Vicki, it is only mean if you aren't the one doing/saying it. You are look very classy ganging up on Gretchen, what grade is this group of mean girls in this year?
Alexis, glad the others are treating you better and giving you a chance. I think your great and there was no reason for them to act like mean girls. what's interesting is that gretchen said, i didn't like when Alexis questioned our friendship yet...the other girls are questioning her friendship with them and behind her back. lolo...what goes around. comes around.
Awesome pictures! Thanks for sharing. It's great to see you happy...I have always been a fan. Stay strong and keep your distance from the fray. Dust off Gretchen's giberish. Move on - she was never a friend . You extended the olive branch and she basically cast it aside.
You and Lydia are amazing! Please be there always for Vicky! She needs the support. Heather is sill about her Acting my grand father was a REAL actor who was born in N.Y. and moived to Hollywood and was in over 200 films! His stage name was Cliff Clark and real name Sheridan Ogden.I wish you luck,but please remember that only 96% of actors are really working! You have been given a platform,that is why Heather is on the Show,but you both are already so blest! I am very much a bleliever in the faith of our Lord.Please remember when we die we only take the love which has been given too us and the love we gave! Stay away from Gretchen and Tamara. They are self centered Pigs,and that is an insult too PIGS!XOXO. Love Mary.
Alexis - You're no actress! when you and Gretchen were speaking you couldn't even rub a tear out! You are no actress! please stop with the madness. or Jim will lay hands on all of us.
That's great if Alexis, Gretchen and heather got calls for Malibu country. If a spot was removed or you couldn't make it because of previous engagements then oh well! I wish some people would back off and not make a stink and point a finger and say no you didn't get a call etc. How would you know if someone gotta call? we're you on three way calling?!
Alexis the "Malibu Country" drama was Heather showing her true colors...competitive! So sad. You are sweet and genuine. They are so ready to twist what you say to belittle you. Stay strong!
Hope you wore chaps with those bare legs horseback riding. Who dresses like that on a horse ranch????? LMAO
I agree, stick with Lydia. Gretchen is the most conceited, self-absorbed, vindictive and lying person I've ever seen on tv and I'm old enough. I really hope that Vicky finds a way to get her off of the show. Everyone talks about Brooks being an opportunist, but Gretchen and Slade wrote the book on this word. If you look up this word in the dictionary, you see their pics. All she cares about is making and creating a brand. Everything that comes out of her mouth is a lie. It was amazing that she wanted nothing to do with you until Tamra talked to you. Follow much Gretchen? If anyone knows of a petition or anything we can do to get this witch off of this show, please let the world know.
Alexis, what can I say, your heading for trouble the closer you get to Vicki and Tamra. You really do need to look in another direction like, duh, Gretchen. Make the first move bet you'll be surprised to find out she's not as bad as others make her out to be. Just a thought.
Alexis, I am rooting for you. The most decent one that you can be safe with is Lydia. Tamra is back and frontstabber. Gretchen is flaky and flighty. Heather is frightening ( frightful?) and obnoxious. Vicki is loud and overbearing. Lauri does not get explosive but we have to wait and see about her. I like the fact that you do not get reactive with everything your husband says that might be perceived as not supportive, insulting, belittling etc by some viewers. I think it reflects your gentle nature and maybe implicit understanding of how to deal with a husband with strong personality. Granted he is not gentle and meek to his wife like Terry but he must have many good characters traits or else you would not be married to him all these years.
Tamra & Vicki are best for each other, but best for you to be kind with distance. Forgiveness is always good, but distance is still best with the regulars on this show...
i am so happy the women are finally acting like ladies again. There was no reason for them to attack you all last season and I'm happy they see you and them getting along. Gretchen is being a baby cause her plan didn't work for everyone to keep hating you. Keep strong and happy :) Don't forget to help Vicky though too cause she was there for you last season. A friendship is a two way road.
I think Gretchen is jealous of you. I think Tamra was jealous of you until she found a man that has now married her.
Lauri or Laura? The ole rehash from the first season I guess...she needs to justify her time on this show I guess.
I like you better than most but not when you always feel you have to explain yourself to anyone. Just be you. Who gives a rats patoot what anyone thinks...esp Tamra or moreso you former friend Snetchen.
Alexis, I think we all learn in life all the time. People come into our lives, become part of our stories and we become a part of theirs They have lessons for us and vice versa - IF we are open. . I hope you heard the message the women were trying to convey in the jungle - tho they certainly could have conveyed it so much more kindly. I can't tell if you were being edited in a particular way last season and differently now, or if you truly learned to be less defensive, and less showy about your material things - it was coming across like you were trying to convince everyone - and/or yourself. As you've been advised - those things are important, but not as much as you seemed to feel . You do seem more secure now. Only one thing - with all the travellling you have done and the nice hotels you have no doubt stayed in, it shocked me that you didn't seemt o know what a concierge is or how to pronounce it. I am sure you have since realized that you pronounced it correctly the first time. If I didn't take a particular language in school or lived around people speaking it, I don't pretend to tell anyone how to pronounce it. Clearly you never took French!
lovely now I want to find a dude ranch around here, as I sit on the computer, husband on tv, kids playing games on on the phone.
Alexis you are my favourite please do not become friends again with Gretchen I cannot believe how she turned on you the minute Tamra wanted to become friends with her.
I am happy that you seem to be fitting in better and more adjusted to the reality TV situation. I think you have learned from last season to be more reserved with your comments as I imagine anyone would. I just wonder how it made you feel to have your husband tell you that you know nothing about art when making a comment on re-decorating a room in your house. I also wonder what makes him an authority on art. Does he have a master's degree in art I wonder. I believe in looking to the Bible for answers, but you are going to have to grow X 100 if you are going to make it in the biz. I am just saying :) Good Luck!
You are so YOU and that is a great! I agree with another poster who noted you really haven't changed at all - you are just not currently targeted by the Tamraban. You were never bad, overly catty and never vicious. You were just not allowed 'in' with the group thinking Tamraban. Looks like she (Tamra) is about to switch gears to re-target Gretchen - remember her? The woman who's back you consistently had and who repaid you by dropping you like a hot potato as soon as Tamra said it should be so?? Keep being YOU, standing up for those you love/care for, and remain honorable to your core beliefs. You are human, so therefore not perfect (nor have you ever pretended to be); but you are such a consistent class act - warts and all!.
Well I posted a comment on the other girls blog, so I might as well post one on yours too. I am glad that you and Tamara are trying to be friends. Just watch your back. She has never had anything nice to say about you in the past and she is stabbing Gretchen in the back now after becoming friends with her. Just be careful. I have never been a big fan of yours, but I don't dislike you either. I think maybe it's because until recently you haven's been your real self on the show. The last few episodes I have watched you seem to be changing and I like what I see so far. I really wish you and Gretchen would become friends again. Gretchen was a true friend to you before and I think that if you guys could sit down and have a heart to heart, you could be friends again. Love the pictures of your family.
I do find it refreshing Alexis that you put your husband and family first. So many of us women do! That's what I enjoy most about you.
I know what you mean about grasping what life is all about. My family just got back from a weekend of camping and it's the same way, no wifi, no internet, just family time. Those times are precious!
Remember Alexis and Lydia: You are called to be light in a world full of darkness! Do not join the others in their mischief! Stand for righteousness!
1 Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, 2 but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. 3 That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither— whatever they do prospers.
4 Not so the wicked! They are like chaff that the wind blows away. 5 Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous.
6 For the Lord watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked leads to destruction.
When I see comments about how people like you better this season, As opposed to last season, I cannot help thinking that they are implying that you were not exactly who you really being yourself back then. That bothers me because you we're always great! It's just that the others are showing their true colors and cannot blame you for their short comings. They were mean, and they are still mean girls. If it wasn't you they were targeting it would be someone else. Many of those here commenting are new to the show, and may not realize that Tamra has always targeted another woman on the show. But they all have that tendency. Whoever they fear will or may possibly steal their thunder is always their intended target.
@firstname.lastname@example.org Maybe just me but I don't care about Alexis I try to like her but there is something about her that just irks me.
I could care less if she is on the show or not.
@celeste3282 She is making a brand because she can. Have you not seen that with Vicky & Heather as well? Wives with Wines, Vicky Vodka, whatever. I think people will always be threatened by someone who is obviously beautiful, but is not a complete idiot or bimbo. I actually enjoy Slade & Gretchen on the show - and to say he "degrades all women" is a bit of a stretch. Vicki has said plenty of things about Slade over the years, including smirks & comments about him being a parent, but when he says something about her looks, she speaks up like Norma Rae for all women worldwide & says above all "You don't make fun of a womens looks" - but it's ok to make fun of you as a parent? I actually liked Lydia until she jumped on the Norma Rae train, even though it is clear he didn't say anything to hurt her or whisper it to Gretchen. I actually think he thought it was a compliment since all the others girls WISH they could have cheeseburgers. Misguided yes, intentionally mean to all women? NO.
Are you kidding me? How are Gretchen and Slade opportunists? Believe me I am old enough to know. Did you not notice Tamra pushing her wines and her gym or Vicky pushing her insurance business or her vodka? Did you not see Alexis with her haute couture? Everything that comes out of Tamra and Vicky's mouth is lies, lies and more lies. I know people are trying to get a petition to get Vicky, Tamra and Heather off the show. They ditched Gretchen in Mexico and lost any fans they had left. they are mean as the devil and just as ugly.
@Bigwednesday I have to disagree. I don't believe ANY of the ladies are jealous.
You hope she has learned to be less showy about her material things...the very same women who berated her for that are even more guilty of it, especially Heather!
@mgoodw4 OMG tamraban I love that too funny.
Agree with you totally.
Gretchen was a "true" friend to her last year? What show were you watching? A true friend would never !!!!!! allow a friend to be beat up by a tableful of mean girls! She is a bully! & deserves the likes of Trampra & Icky! & who is Heather to ever say anything good about anybody other than herself! Alexis has always been kind & stands up for herself including with Vicki. She doesn't deserve to have a "friend" like Gretchen! Nobody does!
@punkycat62 Gretchen wasn't a true friend to her.... she jumped on the bandwagon with everyone else, when Tamra and Heather called her out on vacation last season! Gretchen should have had her back, THAT is what a true friend would have done!
@afsouth Yah..... I also like the way he tells her to be quite when he is talking. He's done it several times. No one says a thing about that. Even saying he's the man. Jeese.. Put your family first but keep your self respect.
@mmcruz5 To late.
@mmcruz5 Can you find those psalms in the crystal hand bible that Alexis had? I have another great book you should read called "Operation Bullpin" .... Part of your psalm "but the way of the wicked leads to distruct.ion Yes it does for many.
Vicki is a friend - the other two - I seriously doubt it. I hope that Alexis will keep her guard up. I realize that she wants to be a part of this show, but I'm hoping that she doesn't compromise her heart again. Or that she joins in with all of the unnecessary strife. I was hopeful that she learned a lesson from all that she faced with these women last season. I know that it is good to make peace with people and move on - but it's also important to not lose the lesson and to grow.
@bugbearmomma @punkycat62 Uhhhhhh didn't Alexis jump on the Tamra bandwagon? And all three Tamra, Vicki and Heather have far more bad things and have treated Alexis far worse than Tamra for no reason. I feel Gretchen treated Alexis horribly. So when it come to Alexis treated Gretchen bad Gretchen deserves a piece of her own medicine.
A real friend has a heart to heart with their BF privately to discuss truths . And they say these things with a smile and love in their heart and their voice and maybe a bit of scolding if necessary. What I saw was a public humiliation for the whole world to see....and backed up by two other pit-bulls. Vicki knew it was wrong...and she was the only one that stayed out if it....