Heather Dubrow

Heather explains the 'Malibu County' debacle and shares why Terry and the family decided to make the move.

on Jul 22, 20130

Hi Everyone! I hope you are all enjoying your summer so far! We are having a blast! Lots of family time, camp, Junior Lifeguard programs, and a little old fashion laying around! We are moving in a few weeks and so I'm enjoying the relative calm before the storm!

On to this weeks episode. . .

I was pretty disappointed to see Gretchen read my text message to Slade with that rude "sing songy" voice. It was interesting to me that she neglected to mention that I was answering HER question in that text. Gretchen had asked if I believed the Malibu County producers were intentionally pitting us against each other. My answer was "No, these are two separate roles from different areas of the production. I was called by the exec producers and you were called by casting for a different type of role." I was trying to explain there was no conspiracy here. When you take it out of context it certainly looks different. So if that was her intention, it worked.
I'm sorry Gretchen thinks I feel in any way competitive with her. This is hardly the case. I've always been very supportive of her and her many endeavors. I just didn't like how she used a role that was written off the show as a manipulative tool against Tamra. Period. Gretchen can keep deflecting this into something else, but that's the truth.

906 comments
Zeta2
Zeta2

The only reason Heather is moving is because Lydia and husband didn't think her home was good enough for the cover of their magazine..Keeping up w/the Vanderplumps..

IcallherBay
IcallherBay

I noticed you have not blogged in well over a month.  In the past, when you would blog, I would read what you had to say but, now that I think about it....."I felt hollow" when I did.  

TabbyCarn
TabbyCarn

Heather has been co-hosting Good Day L.A. for the past two days and again tomorrow.  You can watch her if you go to GDLA.  She is interesting to watch.  Half very good and half odd.  For instance, they had a men's clothing designer on and Heather told the host that the designer outfits many stars as well as Terry.  Then she proceeded to say, "If he can make Terry look good, he can make anyone look good.  Just kidding honey."  (She doesn't like Terry's kidding, but she can sling it right back.)  She said that she has a guest appearance on Hawaii Five O coming up.  She also is promoting Tamra's Wedding Special on Twitter.  Heather sang at the wedding and my guess is that we will hear a little bit of that if you watch the special.  As to why she hasn't posted a blog...someone sent Terry a tweet and said that they enjoyed he and Heather, etc.  Terry responded with, "So, you're the one." 

Pault
Pault

I remember you from High School... and that was 40 years ago! There is a Heather in every HS, they never seem to change. Entitled, cliquish, demeaning, making the other girls feel like crap, not to mention the boys...

Oh, yes, I remember you from High School.

michelle.lucas.3150
michelle.lucas.3150

I must admit, if it wasn't for your interesting home, I would be bored with you.

Shanara
Shanara

If your acting career is so important to you, you may want to sign off of RHOC, because your reputation is taking a beating.

kackie68
kackie68

ps. Hey terry, if something ever happens to my fiance and I, hopefully NOT, look me up...I will show you what a REAL, appreciative, loving, UNselfish, UNself-absorbed woman is and you can have onion rings anytime you want!!!! :D

BravoLoverDCM
BravoLoverDCM

Heather, I loved you the first season, and I loved your TV series That's Life; I was disappointed when it was cancelled.  This season, you've just become another mean girl.  Trying so hard to discredit Gretchen over the Malibu Country gig made you look so petty and insecure.  You seem to want to establish yourself as the superior housewife, stop.  You're making yourself look foolish.  I'm embarrassed for you.

MzPatty
MzPatty

I think the price for this show is the cost of your integrity, is it worth it????

MzPatty
MzPatty

Watching you tonight glowing for the attention of the spotlight I think you smiled more on the Reunions then you did all season. You weren't being real up there you were acting and not very well....... I liked Heather from her season 1, where did she go and who are you?????

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

You're the Alex Mc. Cord and Jill Zarin of RHOC, and we all know what happened to them... I hope you end up the same way

AndyCohenIsTheMan
AndyCohenIsTheMan

Heather, if this is you trying to break back into show business I think I prefer you as a stay-at-home-Mom.

jillbilly
jillbilly

Please let go of the condescending and superior attitude...it's very unbecoming. You've got such an ego problem, which is why you had to go to such length to prove Gretchen was wrong about the audition...it ultimately made you look insecure.

aditi4
aditi4

you look exactly like Danielle from RHONJ!!!!!! wow, u could be sisters.

TillmonA
TillmonA

On top of the fact that you come across very entitled you don't even blog????!!! Not a good sign. Started off as a favorite but i'm seeing you're a tad delusional.  

Anica123
Anica123

You really are full of yourself.  You speak to other adults as if they were young children.  So condescending and rude!  Your opeining line is a joke.  You are NEVER fun!  I LOVED when Lydia came right back at you with "Just because you keep repeating it, doesn't make it true".   Brilliant!!!!!   You seem like one of those people who thinks money makes them better than others.  You are a perfect example of how it DOESN'T!!!!

debmerc888
debmerc888

Hi Heather: I think you will get more acting parts in the future because you have that "it" factor.  Your family is beautiful and you seem like a great mom.  That harshness with Alexis was not good, but now that it's in the past I'm liking you a lot more!  You are tough to go up against that's for sure! There's nothing wrong with being an intelligent assertive woman.  Just be kind and you"ll be good!

Kate_in_CA
Kate_in_CA

You were my favorite when you first started but now I can't stand watching you. Sorry to sound so blunt and cruel, but It's always the same superior attitude and haughty remarks with you. Can you ever once apologize or admit you were wrong? You are the LEAST fun housewife, ever. Just leave the show, please. Is there anyone who still wants you around?

KS1999
KS1999

You have come off as very condescending and demeaning during this season. Too bad, you seemed to be bright and thoughtful in the beginning...... 

KraftyKat
KraftyKat

"C-H-A-M-P-A-G-N-E!!!!!" not "CHAMPS!"  that is so disturbing!

mp.212
mp.212

You're a b*t*h. Period. Plain and simple. The fact that Gretchen still claims you as a "firend" is mind-boggling to me because you're clearly useless to have around.

bk1961
bk1961

Heather you are a class act. I can not believe the tone Gretchen use to read your text. You know you are better than that!

hannah79
hannah79

You are misunderstood.  You are still my favorite character.

be@ch
be@ch

Heather, you do come across as competitive and belittling for anyone else who enters the acting domain.  I didn't think you "joking" to Lydia was funny either.  It was unprofessional of her to be caught on film giggling at your request to be on the cover (should have done that behind closed doors), but come on, you versus Lisa?  No contest at all!  She has been on Bravo longer, has 2 very successful restaurants, Villa Rosa is absolutely gorgeous, and has face and name recognition that you don't have.  I believe she probably has as much acting credentials as you do too.  Either way, you do seem to think that you are much more popular to the general public than you actually are. 

sophiahartman
sophiahartman

The most offensive thing about Heather is not that she talks down to these cackling idiots that she so graciously calls "friends" . or that she feels the need to let everyone know that she is the actress among these stepford wives. no the most offensive thing that Heather does, and all of her real friends in Newport, is proclaim that they are philanthropist. You are not a philanthropist just because you are invited to some swanky benefit where your husband bids the highest on some silly trip or handbag.  If you bobble heads gave away your own money and not your husbands that would be one thing. But half of you work at Harvestor because your bored from shopping all day,  and the other half because of social status. You are a philanthropist if you do it anonymously and spend most of your time on the streets of calcutta,  or donate half of your fortune to some small country in Africa. Tacky Ladies!!!!!

8 HOURS AGO

 

sss
sss

your lydia impersonation proved why you are a failure as an actress

dumbdoglover
dumbdoglover

You could fit a small 3rd world country in your 15,000 square ft home. Yet you can't find an extra room for your baby? Poor you...You are so out of touch with reality. Do you have any idea how  many people have lost homes, jobs, cars etc... over the past couple of yrs and have had to down size or live with family members? AND yes their kids have to share a bedroom. Turn on the news some time and see how  the 99% lives! You have no clue!

amanda.l.bradley.75
amanda.l.bradley.75

OMG. Get a life lady. Drop the stick and step away from this horse. You've flogged it to death already! You're not an actress, you're a housewife with a hobby. You're making yourself look like a horse's ass.

Purple86
Purple86

I think Heather has not posted in over a month because she has received too many negative posts from the public.  People are not buying her Malibu County manipulation and don't like your condescending attitude.  Her description of Gretchen's engagment scene as hollow was probably the last straw for many.  Gretchen's engagement to  Slade 4 years into their relationship was much more sincere and warranted than Heather's elaborate name changing celebration after 15 years of marriage.

Fromtheshowmestate
Fromtheshowmestate

@Zeta2 That is just silly. If you will remember, we were introduced to Heather when she met with Tamra (in her Real Estate days) and told her then that they had been crazy enough to build a huge house with only 3 bedrooms, and that in the future they would need to find a plot of land to build a different house. She has been consistent on this from the very beginning.

Teri_R
Teri_R

 @MzPatty my guess is that Heather had little or no integrity to give up.  She dove right into the shark pool with Tamra.  What a disgrace for a woman with a good education and rich husband who could have made better choices in life.

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

 @MzPatty Of course, she was trying very hard to be liked... it's called damage control, too late Missy, we've seen your game and it's not pretty, you're one frustrated and jealous gal, who is bored spending her rich husband's money

debmerc888
debmerc888

These are harsh remarks that no one would appreciate. Maybe soften your approach so as not to hurt the person you are speaking to.

debmerc888
debmerc888

This is offensive. Try to express your thoughts without being hurtful.

Lubby
Lubby

 @bk1961 Really if your so called friend sent you a text like that AFTER calling you a liar you would just chuckle? Really? 

dragonslayer
dragonslayer

 @be@ch

 Excellent post, as well as the your other comments. You summed up Heather's persona very well.

Lubby
Lubby

 @dumbdoglover Sorry but that doesn't matter. My children never shared a room and I made sure they never would. Some people save up or have the money when they actually make that decision to have children. Don't have children if you're poor and then complain about it.

TabbyCarn
TabbyCarn

 @amanda.l.bradley.75

 She still isn't done.  Over on Twitter, she is posting tweets from Sarah Rue and Aaron Serna, the writer for the episode of Malibu Country that Heather was in.  Apparently she got them involved too.  It's embarrassing at this point. 

cindy1963
cindy1963

 @Purple86 Great post, I agree with every single word. Especially the part about the name changing party. These people throw parties at the drop of a hat. I can understand Gretchen's party because they have been through a lot and I think they deserved it!

Fromtheshowmestate
Fromtheshowmestate

 @Purple86 You could be right, but I don't think so.  For the first 4 or 5 episodes she was getting killed on these blogs - even more than Tamra and Vicki - because of how people thought she treated her nice hubby.  I mean, folks were brutal about something that is far more serious than a part on a dumb cancelled show.  They were talking about her marriage and her mothering skills.  She was never afraid to defend herself.  I am not sure why she hasn't blogged but I am bummed.  Both Heather and Alexis never missed a blog before last month and I enjoyed her take on the action. 

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

 @Purple86 Hmmm i was thinking the same thing... i guess Heather will post her last blog next week in which she will enlighten us all with her a very insightful, smart analysis of  this season's RHOC. The dumb a** thinks she is smart because she talks slowly and chooses carefully her words pssst

MzPatty
MzPatty

 @debmerc888

 People say mean things about Madonna and Miley too but nobody screens the stuff written about them. If they want to put there life on tv and allow us to see these kinds of so called friendships then they know not everyone is going to be a fan.... Everybody is entitled to their opinion since last I checked I'm from America......

LynnfromMN
LynnfromMN

 @debmerc888

 Harsh but true.  Heather is not a personal friend who we have to worry about offending.

She signed up for this.

MzPatty
MzPatty

 @debmerc888

 These women demonstrate on tv being extremely hurtful to each other usually ganging up in numbers and you don't think it's okay to write on here what you think of their behavior??????

Shanara
Shanara

 @Lubby  @bk1961 Heather lied, Gretchen proved that on the show...I wouldn't be friends with someone starting lies about me, but Gretchen is classier than most. What I find hypocritical is that Heather points out that Gretchen never apologizes, (other than saying sorry that people feel the way they do), but have you ever heard Heather apologize? It must be awesome to always be right :)

JodiLM
JodiLM

 @MzPatty  @debmerc888 Haha MzPatty, who does this debmerc888 sound like to you? I guess she can't help herself.  Trying to tell people how to act yet again LOL  Nice try Heather........

JodiLM
JodiLM

Yet she is still stupid enough to do a reality show!