As long as Heather and Tamra are hanging out Heather will continue to come across as a mean girl  She treats her husband like crap.  He is the reason she has everything to be all she is for her kids and husband.  She is a good mother but she is a bitch to Terry.  And she isnt even giving Alexis a chance this season.  Alexis may be a sensitive person, but I kind of like her this season..  Her and Jim are just doing their thing.

dont we all remember when heather took her husband shopping and gleefully boasted how much money they spent?   Heather is so full of herself..trying to pretend she's "classy and proper"  guess she missed the chapter in the Classy Girls Handbook.... BEING ON A REALITY SHOW IS NEVER PROPER!!!.. 

You need compassion.  I wouldn't burn your bridges with the other ladies because Tamara's ready to turn on you.  Wait until you're down and she won't be around as a friend.  She's only in it for fame and fortune.  Is that your goal as well?

You're not a bully. I'm shocked by all these haters! I think you're fabulous and gracious. Tamra on the other hand...

I think you are the bully heather. The way you treat your husband does not seem right. you seem to bully him into submission. it seems you might need to work on  your marriage before he has enough of you beating him down and degrading him. 

Heather is boring, phony and is not a leader but a follower. She follows tamra big time. She needs to go she is solo boring

It sure looks like bullying !

I would stay away from trashy Tamara. She was asking Vicki how she could be with Alexis., when she didn't like her? Maybe she should ask herself how she could be with Gretchen when not only did she not like her but she set her up to get drunk to see if she would be improper . She is scummy. Really needs anger management therapy. If anyone acts the victim she does. She really has NO class.

You aren't coming across very well Heather, after all you are the rich girl too ...too bad you are immersed in this and you ARE, because you started out the fair and even toned one, welcome to the bad girls club....Tamara is very mean, period.

i know why tamera hasnt blogged in 2 weeks because she knows that the public hates her and doesnt want anyone to respond because it will get ugly.

what did alexis do to warrant all of you ganging up on her? you were the only one who had any class but now you are just one of them now. 99% of every blowout involves tamera. it is bullying and humiliating. there is no excuse  for not just being cordial. TAMERA you are a drunk with no class. you are an e,barrassment to your children. the rest of you need to get a little backbone and get tamera to stop. the money would never be an incentive to be friends with anyone of you.

Heather, that's easy, just realign yourself with Alexis. Wait ten seconds and Tamra will redirect her viciousness on you. Ring-bling, who's got time to count carats? Will ya'll just stop jawing about Alexis' ring.

If you weren't on the show I seriously doubt you would even associate with the town bitch, Tamra or the town idiot, Gretchen.

Wow, the way you look at things does NOT jibe with what is happening at all.  You are so out of touch with reality.  I really wish they would replace you!

You are classy and wonderfully smart. Surprisingly what I love - the relationship between Terry and Collette. Understated, but touching. It's like the "sweet spot" in the show for me. Just my thoughts.

GET OVER YOURSELF HEATHER!  how dare you accuse Alexis of being fake and materialistic (thats exactly how all this started) when your 100 times worse than Alexis ever could be.  How dare you gang up and bully another human being. How dare you think your Alexis's doctor and psychologist. How dare you think you can dictate to the public that your behavior is NOT that of a bully - please girl we are NOT stupid! and know unacceptable behavior when we see it.  How on earth your husband stands for your holier than thou attitude is beyond me. Your behavior along with Tamra and Gretchens was despicable - and 98% of the public is disgusted - your family and real friends (if any) must be extremely embarrassed of you...............You need to take a good long hard look in the mirror and you really need to grow up.

Heather, you're wonderful and you know it ... I would caution you against staying on this show, though just because it will inevitably take its toll on you, your family and, especially, your marriage. Disregard the haters and keep doing you.

You, classy? Please! Class is about you behave and how you treat others. You treat your husband like a kid and yes, you are a bully! Call it what you want, you're a bully and catty. Not a fan! 

What you, Tamra & Gretchen don't seem to get is that demonizing Alexis won't exonerate you. You behaved in an absolutely disgusting manner toward another human being and obviously enjoyed the pain you inflicted. That's ugly no matter who is on the receiving end.

Heather- PLEEEEEASE.  Really.  You disagree with how Aexis and Tamra acted.  Tamra acted like an ass and Alexis handled herself with dignity, poise, and was even polite when she was escorted out of the party.  You could take a page out of her book.

Heather you are so full of yourself. You come across extremely phony and materialistic on the show. If we are only seeing a small part of what is really going on then perhaps you should think about that next time you are in front of the camera.

You and Tamra are cut from the same cloth.

Heather, I find it very interesting that Tamra hasn't blogged in two weeks and you and Gretchen have not blogged this week. You basically said in one of your earlier blogs this season that everyone should blog on time. Talk about looking guilty. Clearly you woman cannot come up with anymore BS about why you said and did the things you were doing to Alexis! We LADIES watching the RHOC can see through you, Tamra and Gretchen! Shame on YOU!

Heather take a good look in the mirror. The very thing you accuse Alexis of "phony, materialistic, Bragging" are the very same qualities in you, The truth being you all resent any good that comes into Alexis life because you  3 mean girls feel you are the only group deserving. You got recognition, and you all now have the Title - own it your behavior spoke volumes to the fans.

Healther,

It was so funny watching your lieutentant turn on you by asking if you wanted to leave, the dinner party. "No, no, no, no" you said. Next time you better say no ma'am!

How does it feel to know your lieutentant was ready to kick you out after making one false move?! Hope you realize that Tamra doesn't care about you anymore than she does Grechen. She is going to turn on you just like she did everyone else and you deserve it!

My initial though to your addition to the show was, wow, she doesn't belong here, she's so different and smart, classy etc. but you have proved me wrong. Your have put yourself so high up the pedestal, I don't think you could ever find your way back to reality. It's funny how at first glance, you all seem at least pretty but the more we watch, the more ugly comes out and external beauty becomes hideous. No one is buying into your BS. You come off terribly pretentious, back stabbing and an opportunist.

Definition:  Bullying is the use of force or coercion to abuse or intimidate others. The behavior can be habitual and involve an imbalance of social or physical power. It can include verbal harassment or threat, physical assault or coercion and may be directed repeatedly towards particular victims, perhaps on grounds of race, religion, gender, sexuality, or ability.[2][3] If bullying is done by a group, it is called mobbing. The victim of bullying is sometimes referred to as a "target".

Sound familiar - oh yeah its you Heather and your friend Tamara.

So disappointed, the sad thing is, if think about what you say about Alexis some of it applies to you.  You are pretentious, egotistical, and materialistic.  Now have a glass of Champs and hope you nannies bring up your kids better than the example you are setting for them.  

Alexis is right.  Just because she didn't slit her wrists doesn't mean you and your 3 sidekicks didn't bully her.  Seriously disgusting... Take a little ownership for your actions.  You ALL ganged up and bullied her so step up and own it.  No one is going to identify with you when you act as though you're perfect.  Come down off of your pedestal.

i didn't like you from the start & watching the new season now, it just confirmed my dislike for you even more. you have the most evil look in your eyes & face, i always picture you as the evil queen. that's how you come across & you really seem to think that you are above everyone else, even your own husband who i feel really sorry for to be honest with you.

i adore your husband, he seems so down to earth, successful & funny & you constantly put him down, laugh at him & believe that you are more successful than he is. which is really funny, cause you are just a no name wanna be actress who turned housewife. 

you lucked up getting married to a very successful rich man who loves & adores you & your children together.

for the love of god, i don't get what he sees in you, especially with your constant dictations, but he does & you need to be thankful for that. not for the money & all, but for having such a great husband who loves you dearly & who's willing to go above & beyond for you. 

you have a beautiful family, so many dream of only  that, but you have a very comfortable life as well, so be grateful & kick the mean girl act!

Heather,

You think you know everything.  But the truth is, you don't.  You are the one who brought a lot of the bullying on, along with Tamra.  I thought you were going to be a fresh new positive housewife on the show, but you have turned out to be one of the worst.  Not only do you bully Alexis, but you are the rudest wife when you talk to your husband.  You talk down to him all the time.  You need to take a long look at yourself...changes need to be made with your attitude......

BULLY .... Best word to describe you!

You are a bully...period.  I hope you set a better example for your children.  You treat your husband poorly and he is actually more fun to watch than you and seems to be a very sweet man.  Remember....true friends don't point out the faults of their buds...they except them for who they are.

So your being paid to not be yourself but to look hateful and throw insults like 15 year old girls. What a way to express who you are! You should be so proud of yourself! Your doing great work not showing your true personality!!

You are one of the mean girls! You, Tamara & Gretchen are bullies which means you gang up on Alexis in pack situation, make her cry & say that that's not bullying!!! Which planet are you living on? Until Bravo gets you 3 off show I will no longer watch! What you 3 did was disgusting! 3 grown women? Really!

Heather don't listen to all these negative people...I agree with you 100% it was NOT bullying. Yeah tamra got carried away but why would Alexis come if she felt that way!!!!!! She's scared if she doesn't interact with all you ladies she'll be the next one to leave the show. She's all about the attention always has been! You are fabulous and have a beautiful family and that's all that matters. The truth will always come to light.

You are a mean girl just like Tamra. I think you said it best "You are judge by the company you keep" I guess we can start calling you Tamra"s bully friend. 

Heather,

You are becoming (or perhaps always was) a very immature mean-girl.  You are also not so pleasant with your husband  (think about Paul on Beverly Hills and how his wife treated him).

What's going on with you? Coming across as a phony and a bully!

Miss fancy pants, not to fancy after watching Monday nights episode! It was disgusting watching your behavior along with your buddies Tamra and Gretchen. Yuck!! I'm no longer a fan...Mean girls which equals bullies!!