Phony, phony, phony.

I have to say I really liked you at first.  You have turned into a mean almost bitter person.  Terry works hard to provide you with the lifestyle you almost don't deserve.  You are so hard on him, he can't catch a break with you.  He is always begging for your forgiveness when it should be the other way around. I hope you grow and learn from watching yourself on this season.  I want to enjoy the show when you are on again.....Team Terry!

Heather i find you a little harsh and and hard on Terry he's cool and funny, you should be happy, he has a great personality. I watch all the housewives and Terry and Muricio are the best husbands. So smile more with that pretty face!!

I just have to tell you after watching the show tonight I really dislike you and Tamara. I do not enjoy RHOOC anymore because of you two...so disapointed in the show.

Heather,

I always loved you however, recently, I see a different side of you. You can be quite demeaning to your Husband, over and over again. Additionally, I' noticing some mean girl behavior towards others. Why? Truly, not necessary. When you joined the show, you were strong, but kind, Now..your mean streak has surfaced. I don't get it. You have everything but appear to be bitter and it's growing. Quite unattractive and very unbecoming of you;.

How much can Terry take of you ?

Heather,  I liked you so much the first season.   Now, you act like Tamra and Gretchen.  I am really surprized at this. 

Also,  watching you out to dinner tonight with your husband and childlren was so disturbing the way you treated Terry.  As I wrote one other time. you have no respect for him.  I will be surprized if your marriage lasts.  What can could take it ??????

I've been watching the new season and it seems to me that either Heather is always having problems with Terry or the camera man is being selective about these scenes.  But I will say that it doesn't paint Heather in a very good light.  I'm a woman, married for almost 43 years, 3 children, and have not had the advantages of the Dubrow's.  I only mention that because financial difficulties only add to the everyday stresses of life.  Money doesn't buy happiness but it sure buys security.  When I see Heather react to some of Terry's attempts at humor I come away feeling sorry for Terry.  Again, we don't see the whole story but it's hard to believe Terry is unsympathetic, uncaring, and not supportive of Heather.  I didn't see these exchanges last season so it makes us wonder what changed?  I can understand why people would think that the Dubrow's marriage  will be the next "Real Housewives" divorce.

Heather I watch you every week and while I love your class and sophistication I am always surprised how you treat your husband..he works extremely hard to give you and your children a wonderful lifestyle and each episode you treat him rather mean and you need to lighten up not be so serious. He obviously adores you and wants to share a laugh but you degrade him and make him feel like he is unworthy...very sad. I can def identify with you raising kids and having your career as a back burner but still show your husband respect!

Heather Please don't lower yourself to the the high school mean girl tactics of Tamra, you are much classier than that. You can separate yourself from the mean girls, do what Jesus would do, hold your head high and keep your dignity. If your daughter was on TV would you be happy if she was behaving the way you do? Say your daughter was in Alexis's position, would you want her treated that way by other people?

Stop acting like such an arrogant, haughty b*tch and treat your husband better!  Enjoy his silly sense of humor and drop the uptight "i am so put out" drama.  He's just having fun....loosen up!   Also, I think many people are getting tired of the free promotional advertising of Terry's practice.  Everyone clearly knows by now what your husband does.  If he needs that much continuous advertising on the show, it looks a little suspicious like maybe business is bad! Terry, get out of the scrubs and buy some clothes!  I also think it's VERY sad that you couldn't be in Lydia's magazine if you weren't on the cover.  So snobby of you!  Shame, shame Heather Dubrow!  

Terry I thought you had class but after watching you attack Alexis I'm not sure.

Heather Darling....You are nothing but a PHONY!  Treat your husband right...or he will leave you!  I thought you had Class...But I WAS WRONG!  Keep your mouth shut!  You really are nauseating. 

You should have gotten the onion rings.  Give in a little.  Geesh.

Please. You're awesome. Don't even defend yourself when it comes to the nonsense people say behind the safety of their computer screens. You are always genuine and honest. That's all anyone can ask for. Don't change.

I am shocked and appalled by your behavior at the warehouse/gym dinner.  I always thought you would bring some class to the show, but since you decided to tear down Alexis in front of the group in Costa Rico I have changed my opinion.  Now tonight at the dinner you had to get into the fray by thinking Alexis was  insulting you.  I watched and rewound so I could see, but all she was doing was going to the face that she was replying to.  You seem like a snob now to me.  You are in on the bullying, and yes I said bullying.  You have no right to tell anyone how they should be till you get your nose down out of the air.

Heather, I absolutely believe that you are very intelligent maybe the most out of all the women, but you use this to demean others including your husband.  I honestly can not understand how you haven't been able to see Tamara and Gretchen clearly.  Could it be that you once felt like an outsider as a young girl and now want to be part of the crowd(bullies)? 

In life we all meet people we don't like, respect or want to associate with but is it our duty to school them on how to conduct themselves?  You don't like Alexis but what gives you the right to show her the light?  I believe of all the housewives you are the most likely to see how you have behaved and try to do your best to be a better person. 

You can not kiss the ground where Lisa V walks on. PLEASE!!! Get a grip of ur self.

DISGUSTING! Heather, I TRULY hope that you are "acting" on this show! The antics of the women are entertaining and as I watch each episode, my husband always gets a good laugh! However, I'm really disgusted with the way you treat your husband! The clam bake (lobster) dinner made me disgusted and at that moment I had to re-think whether I wanted to watch this show or not. I've seen some very un-classy behavior on this show and I know that's what sells it. However, to treat your husband the way you did on national television was absolutely inexcusable. If I were him, I'd leave you in a NY Minute! Changing your name might have been your way of showing him you love him but it means nothing when you roll your eyes at him, scoff him like he's a child and make fun of him right there on TV. Unbelievable! Your condescension and egotism is disgusting! You're no better than anyone else.. and the other women are much better looking than you. Please, tell me that you're acting on here and that this isn't your real life! Either way, I feel sorry for your husband!!!

Alexis is by no means perfect, but it certainly wasn't your job to point it out to her in Costa Rica or at any point in time.  Who died and made you queen?  And just because you mask your insult and degrade others more eloquently than Tamra and Gretchen, does not exempt you from being called exactly what you are...a bully!  And yes, I too am quite well versed in that word's definition and perhaps you need to watch that episode again.

Funny, you often point out that people are defined by the company they keep...well, you're friends and allies with Tamra - enough said.

Oh and one last thing:  Your psychotic friend Tamra didn't blow up at her dinner party because she was offended on your behalf from your exchange with Alexis.  Tamra flipped her lid because Alexis had asked her to basically "shut up".  Goes to show where your head is at - it's not always about you.  Get your head out of your @$$ 

You and Alexis both looked ridiculous trying to get the last word at the dinner part. Frankly it was just embarrassing to watch.

Agreed- Husbands can be very annoying!  I heard a rumor that wives can also be annoying but I don't think that's credible information.  When it comes to irritating behavior the difference between men and women is women halt annoying behavior the moment they become aware of it while men ramp it up.  Probably for the same reason our older brothers pushed their obnoxious behavior to new heights ~ they just want to hear us scream!!! ;o)

Alexis Bellino has a gentleness, freshness, femininity and innocence that you cannot abide. You assault her mercilessly with pure pettiness... with issues that, in the grand scheme, are neither here nor there. ( like counting her blessings in front of you).  The morbidly JEALOUS   Tamra is only too happy to act out  'your' angst.  I am amused by the image you exhibit as you and your 'nasty nice' husband have the gall to demand a magazine cover to market yourselves... using 'your stuff.'   Yes, Alexis is the real lady here... and has been from the beginning.  

I think you are being mean. I used to like you but your true colors are showing. All you gals at Tamra's dinner could of just made a nice dinner and not pounce on Alexis. What ever petty stuff that happened last season, should be water under the bridge. Poor Lydia, I hope she doesn't get sucked in. I guess this makes for good TV. I thought you were better than how you acted last night.

The  fans do not watch the show just  to watch the jealousy-ridden mean women.  Alexis is part of the cast, and we want to see her.  you have got to get over your unreasonable jealousy of her.  The fact that you insisted that your home be on the cover of a magazine is just gag city.  There are many homes in the area more beautiful than yours.  You have revealed yourself as a mean spirited, spiteful woman.  Watch out.....what goes around comes around.

You were disrespectful to terry at his office. He just spent the morning in surgery and you expect him to be super attentive to this potential interview. Then you tell him to work out before surgery because that's convenient for you. Wow. He should be in top rested form for surgery and allowed to workout as his stress relief. Selfish.

Liked you last year but this year you have really gotten this holier than thou attitude! You are not as bad as Tamra & Gretchen but if you keep going you will be just as trashy as them! As for Terry, I know we don't see the whole dynamic of your marriage but I do believe you will run him off if you continue to act so disrespectful & ungrateful. I thought it was a beautiful gesture when you changed your name last year but this year it seems you are always putting him down. Don't let this stupid show go to your head like so many of the other housewives have!

You think Alexis brags about money?????  Wow, Mz. everyone is so "low rent"  and "I only drink 'champs'"???? You are such a hypocrite, it's scary.  And your backhanded comments about not judging people for breast implants?!!! Honey, your entire life was built by money from breast implants - show a little respect!

Oh, Bravo...listen: There is a tipping point on these "real housewives,"shows that make them no longer appealing to sane viewers. Thanks to your idiotic decision to bring Heather on, to enhanse the equally distasteful Tamra and Gretchen, the scales have tipped. These women have no character content that any decent woman could possibly identify or feel aligned with. This show, of all the RHO shows has become gruesome...and uninteresting. I, for one, am out.

You are a nasty, immature, phony cretin. And, I would never consider having a gossipy, "girlie man," like your husband perform any procedure on me. Your opportunistic staging on RHOC seems to have backfired!

I have to agree with you on the husband thing.  Lord knows I love my husband BUT, he can pick that last nerve.  Then again I do the same thing in return.  It is real life and I agree. I do think your husband is hilarious though.  He is a tad childlike in nature.  Not immature but very innocent and honest.  People tend to judge what they don't know.  It takes some serious thick skin to put your life public.  I don't know if I could do it.  Props to you!!! 

You have no idea what bullying  is cause Tamra, Gretchen and you all are doing it! I liked all of you, but after seeing really how childish you all are, I'm now on team Alexis. You all should be ashamed of your selves. No class at all and I believe in karma, so you 3 will get yours I'm s ure.

Who cares if you are or not?  Why so concerned about what others think?

So sad watching tonight's episode ,you are such a bully along with your wolf pack ! Shame on you !!!!!

Heather,  Alexis came to Tamra's gym celebration with good intentions, but you and the others weren't going to let peace happen.  Blessed are the peacemakers Heather.  I really didn't expect peace or any better from Tamra and Gretchen, but you're a believer and have given the church a black eye with your back biting.  So what, Alexis isn't as quick with the lies and insults as you, Tamra and Gretchen.  Does that mean you try to walk all over her.  Yes, that IS bullying.

Alexis isn't perfect, but she does try to let her light shine. Why can't you do the godly thing

and encourage her?

I really like you Heather, you and Terry adorable!  I think you're probably the most levelheaded and diplomatic out of the bunch.  But tonight, you got a little defensive when Alexis made eye contact with you, the claws came out.  I would not want to get on your bad side, because I think you would shred me to pieces, mostly because you seem very smart and articulate.  I did not like to see your mean side though.

Heather, Thank you being the classiest woman on tv. I love everything about you. Thank you for wearing classy modest clothing and for having morals. You always represent yourself well and I love how you are a mom first but you know its important to also do things for yourself. I love that you also know it's important to have your career too.

I think you're so witty and fun. You're my fav on the show!

After watching your radio show segment I'm baffled! You claimed you were bullied in high school.. You said the girls would say mean things to you, and about you! They demeaned you!! Isn't that what you do to Alexis? You saw how upset she was sitting in Costa Rica, which by the way, is pretty far from home! yet you guys still continued... Then you even commented that you had kids, and a husband at home, yet you were able to stay longer!! So was that your point, in pointing that out?! Worry about yourself! Stop caring about wether Alexis rents or owns, stop caring about wether alexis wears a fake or real ring, stop caring about Alexis' intelligence or lack thereof, stop caring about wether or not she was, or wasn't a news person, WHO CARES!!!  Known of those things are directed at you or your family!! and known of those things have affected your family!! Apologize and move on!! You maybe don't think Alexis was bullied in Costa Rica!! But I watched it, and in my opinion she was bullied!! it was collective bullying! all the little pieces added up at that table, in Costa Rica equaled bullying!! And you saw how upset Alexis was, you can't dispute that! 

You are no LisaV honey.  Also when asked how long you had been in your house,  you answered well we bought the land and built it ourselves ground up.  You are so full of yourself.  You're no actress so move on.