There is absolutely no way we are believing that you take care of your children alone. Let's see- nanny, housecleaner, driver, pool boy, private schools... And a husband that your children appear to love. 

Heather the way you speak to your husband is deplorable!! Why don't you just chop off his balls and hang them over the mantel?!!!

Tamera says I have special glasses for my special friends. OMG how freakin lame!! YOU HAVE 4 KIDS. You should know what childish behavior is. I can't believe your going along with this woman. I am a dark haired woman myself, I was really hoping you represent but I guess you need a leader too. And you have more than any of these girls. You should be setting the tone of how a woman that has it all should act. I just watched  the episode again. I use to like you soo much. No that girl should not of eaten the bow off your cake. how would you feel if somebody was treating your daughters like this. I hope tonight you change my mind about you and be the first to reach out to Alexis. And stop trying to make Lydia not like her.  

Heather, Heather, Heather. You are so phoney. You give real housewives a bad name.

Watching the repeat of your radio show were you describe how the sophomore girl "bullied" you.  Sounds like the same behavior you three exhibited to Alexis. 

Gosh I wish I was as "perfect" as you.  NOT.

Many of us did not have role models on how to be completely respectful partners in marriage. Yet, what you showed us at the restaurant was in no way normal in my world. My husband had grandparents who showed him the road to complete respect in a marriage and he has taught me a bit more about it. I could never treat my husband like a child, or the way you do yours, without him feeling hurt and angry. Maybe next season show us you've practiced some of that class you speak of! Possibly Teri's parents didn't have a great marriage, and he allows you to treat him like you do, yet at some point he will feel something isn't right, or resentful of your treatment! Don't be too cocky about your irreplaceable self! Also, if you treated him better, and he stood up for himself, you would be a happier couple.

I felt for you in this episode. Although I only have one baby- I often feel sensitive (perhaps overly so) to my husband's "jokes" about helping out. I just wanted to jump up and say- HEY! What wife/mom hasn't been there. And to all the people jumping all over your reactions- perhaps they don't know another way to respond to their husband. It IS okay to say "my feeling are hurt" or "I am angry right now and do not want to talk." 

After watching you on camera Heather, one quickly realizes the depth of your insecurities.  Befriending women as toxic as Tamra and as clueless as Gretchen truly speaks of your character.  Your husband Terry deserves someone kind and loving with a sense of humor.  He is witty and outstanding while you are pretentious and dull.  It is clear that you hold yourself in the highest regard, but let me assure you that this is a mistake.  You are no better than the most common mean girl around.  I think a panel of psychologists would find your behavior very interesting.  If I were Terry, I would go to a place where I was celebrated instead of staying somewhere I was tolerated. 

You had no business getting involved in the Alexis mess at Tamra's event. She was sitting there politely until Tamra asked why she was there.  After she explained it, Gretchen pops up with "If you wanted us to have a good night, why did you come?" Alexis handled it nicely by saying she would be happy to talk about it one on one and that this wasn't the time or place.  She asked people to drop it several times and again offered to have lunch or dinner with them to discuss their issues privately.  Then you go and join in when you had no business too.  Why didn't you just drop it like she asked and enjoy the evening? Gretchen brought up LA and Costa Rica not Alexis.  When you 3 continued to harass her after she asked you to stop, it became bullying.Then by saying you were "glazed" over.  How childish!

i loved it when the baby yelled Daddy!

RICH GIRL PROBLEMS!!!!

Thanks for all the pictures, but let's be honest, just trying to distract your fans from seeing the real you. 

Heather

I am concerned at how you handled your behavior while on camera with your husband. And weren't opened to his apology. He clearly stated he was just joking. You made the matter worse. Now you're writing about the poor guy in a blog. When do you stop? Both of your jobs are important. Not one more than the other. You knew what you were getting yourself into. As I watched you last week....I saw in front of me Adrienne. She was doing the same thing.....everything seemed to bother her about her husband. You might want to look at a few clips from the show. You just might see yourself in some of them. And you see where that marriage went. Right??? A person can only handle so much criticism. As for Alexis and her 'holier than thou' image. I get it! I don't like it a bit. It bothers me. I agree all of you have a fair gripe with her. Alexis tends to over analyze everyone. NOT GOOD! It's never good when people are too judgmental. You three are getting pretty close to that judgmental behavior.......since none of you are perfect. Personally I think Alexis is more fitting to be teaching bible study than to be exploiting herself and family on a reality show. It's sort of like trying to mix oil with vinegar. They just don't mix!

If I was here husband, I would run. No other man would put up with her overly sensitive, cold fish behavior. Terry you can do sooo much better.

Good Lord people you are all getting all upset over a tv show and some blogs, doesn't everyone know these things are put together to create the most drama, it obviously gets everyone to watch and comment.. Just sayin.. these ladies are no different than any other group of women together. they fight, get along, backstab eachother, hate eachother love eachother, etc....

Heather, when you first came on the show, I thought you were a tad pretentious. Some of your early comments (I live on billionaire's row, my house is 20,000 sq. ft.), alluded to extreme materialism. Yet, I did not judge you based on any of that. It's your money. How you spend it is none of my business. I wanted to like you because I know so many wealthy people are socially conscious. So, I reserved my opinion. The Costa Rica "intervention" was pivotal. That you were a willing (dare I say, eager) participant in that public scourging was alarming. I understand you and Alexis came to terms about it. Someone posted that you apologized. I hope that's true. Good for you if you did. However, that you continue to actively cultivate a friendship with Tamra, is baffling. Even if I had the time and inclination to do so, I dare not list, in nauseating detail, the extensive offenses of which Tamra is guilty. Suffice it to say, we have all witnessed her fits of unbridled rage, her callous disregard for common decency and her self-serving manipulation of the facts. I can, however, confidently predict Tamra will top the list of the most hated housewives in Bravo history. That you have gleefully chosen to align yourself with this wretched creature, tells me everything I need to know about you.

If you are smart....and want your career to go good....I would decide to stop with the fighting, make up with Alexis, even if you lose Tamra and Gretchen, which would not be a big loss if they never forgive you for not being a follower....its time to reassess your likeability, your credibility, your image and your future....be nice, girl....quit looking like a B word.

Well Heather, you and your little posse has managed to make the only character on the show that is sympathetic, Alexis. I don't really like all of her thought process, but she seems like she is genuine and sweet, and you three come off horribly. The new girl....not so good a start....if she is SMART, she will stay out of your stupid drama.

I would have to agree with some of the other's on here.  You seem to have been on the mad road lately with your husband. He in fact seems to be a very loving guy and wants nothing more than to help out his wife.  I understand that television may leave alot out so for that I'll give you this pass and hopefully the shows coming up will relate the much happier Heather. Tamra is not a very fun loving lady as you seem to be so take that to heart and try to help her in that regard if you can. She seems to be a mean spirited girl not like the rest of the show. Happy Mother's Day to you Heather hope your day was filled with lots of fun and laughter...

Heather you have a beautiful family and a wonderful career. You are what Alexis strives to be - a strong, beautiful, articulate and successful woman. The memory on some of these bloggers just confuses me. Alexis was never nice to you- she was barely civil - at best condescending and more than a little rude throughout the season and ended it by bringing along drunk Barby to lick you cake and then try to start a fight with you. Through it all you have handled it with grace and continue to try to bring people together. The fact that you can stand to be in the same room with that big blond goof at this point well I digress. You are a better woman than I. Good luck with the new show.

You, Heather are my favorite! You remind me of a real life, old school movie star. I think you are real and show real emotions. You dealt with your husband better than I would have that night. I was yelling at the t.v " Just be quiet Terry". I think your family is amazing!

Oh, and one more thing. You involved your children at the restaurant by saying, "I guess I can't help you because I am not the math genius." Blame your husband for involving the kids? Blame yourself. Just saying. You have had plenty of "moments." The narcissist vibe is mighty powerful in you this year.

I really liked you at the beginning of this show but you really are a mean girl. You expect your husband to treat you like a princess and yet you treat him like crap. You are mean to him and I you better hope that he doesn't get sick of it and leave you. You are also so mean to Alexis too. You need to just grow up already and lose the mean girl mentality and start being nicer to people. If it wasn't for him you wouldnt have that beautiful house and those beutiful kids.

I feel badly for Dr. Dubrow.  Can you imagine how his wife's treatment of him and the glimpses we are privy to into their lives is effecting him professionally ?!!?  The ribbing , humiliation he must be taking from his colleagues and staff ?  No matter how strong, secure, smart Terry is, he is human and he is a man.  This cant possibly be going well with him.  I wish them well.

dear, you can twist and spin it any way you wish, but you still ruined another family dinner with your self-centered bitchiness.  I feel so sad for your family.  We are probably only seeing the tip of the iceberg with you.

Why does Terry Dubrow wear his scrub top with jeans and a sport coat when they had dinner with Lydia and her husband? Hopefully the scrub top was not one he had worn in surgery that day?? He seems to like to wear scrubs even when he is not at work.....maybe he wants to make sure everyone knows he is THE Dr. Dubrow from all the reality shows. He is as desperate for fame as his 'mean girl' wife. 

You have an amazing husband you treats you very well!  You in turn treat him like dirt, and talk to him like one of your children!  You need to lighten up, Terry is hilarious and tries to keep things light around you.  You need to stay away from Tamra who has a very negative/toxic energy, you're getting to resemble her, I used to think you were great , "used to". . . . . You're becoming "Snarky/rude" just like Tamra!   Quit the back stabbing gossiping! 

You are so ridiculous. I loved you from day one until you jumped on the band wagon with tamra and gretchen. that was disgusting. Alexis never even spoke to you! Or looked at you! You were just chomping at the bits to throw your 2 cents in! Pathetic!

Here we go again. Your husband is an adult. You tell him to put his phone down yet you are the one that asked him to look at the home magazine site. No, he did not respond to your immediate gratification time frame. Wow, you are missing the warning signs. Your husband's expressions speaks volumes. Yes, you did overreact in the restaurant. Your husband is funny. Stop trying to control his sense of humor. I guess the real question you need to ask yourself, if you want your marriage to thrive is, "Would you rather be happy or right?"

Heather, don't know if you read this. But if you do, usually I find you more likable than say, Alexis. You have at least tried to be a little more civil than Tamara.  However, in this last episode when you wanted your husband to "be all about you" I wanted to scream "when isn't he?" From the house, to the staff, and the business ventures to keep you from being bored (what happened to that restaurant?) and the parties..esp, the name changing one which was CLEARLY all about you. Please explain when he hasn't been there for you??? Maybe he's wanting a little bit of acknowledgement and this is his way of trying to wake you up to the fact you never thank him for all he has done for you.

Did not realize how mean and classless you were!!! Yikes lady not cute!!

Not sure why you think that you are above it all.  I give you credit for your way with words.  You disguise your cruelty as being honest.  Get off your high horse.  It is not attractive.  

Why are you so mean to Alexis?  I'm not a fan of hers or anything, but it is uncomfortable to watch you, Tamra and Gretchen gang up on her.  Let's start pointing out every ones flaws and then maybe you can actually see how Alexis feels. There is no way you were bullied in school or you would not be doing your part in,  "attack Alexis every time you see her."

I think the show needs to be renamed to The Real Mean Girls of Orange County.

I think it's funny,no disturbing really, how these people/fans see a small clip and think they've got u all summed up!

you know...Terry approves of you getting the limelight...you are on this television show called OC housewives, but yet we have to watch you treat him like a bad loving cold husband while your on this show, having dinner, with him and your beautiful lil boogs...about not supporting you on a cameo???? My gosh woman, he is taking a brow beating so y'all can be on this TV show.....what else do you need??? I think a few of y'all need some carbs because the glucose isn't getting to your brain???  your on tv now dogging him and he has to apologize for that too??? I just do not get it..eat a snickers or something your coming off as so mental. Your husband isn't emotionally responsible for you..he is there to balance..relax..to share the path..If y'all don't know how to act in front of a viewing audience with your kids in tow please go work that out, do not bring that to us and act like its ok...your children seem to be very much on the back burner and you do have 4, don't play that super woman crap...no one gets anything, your kids do not like it, they are real true human beings themselves...while your worried about that hole within yourself that needs to be filled you are depriving them of what they need to fill their own holes..your not classy, you need help....your man is more than being supportive of you being on TV, he takes a brow beating every week while you are on tv.

Heather I never ever right on these blogs, but i am not trying to cyber bully in anyway. You really seem so up tight, you need to be so appreciated of your life. Terry seems to be a wonderful person and so dont you. Not sayingmhe is perfect in any way. Please set example for your children and the viewers that you do love and appreciate your great life. Goodluck

I don't like you at all! You are a mean girl.

I think you overreact and are way to uptight

I love you Heather!!! Keep telling people how you feel.

I use to like you too  until you started being mean to people for no reason

Once again, I completely agree with every sentiment. I love it. I love you too!