You are a bully and disgusting crazy person! Enjoy your miserable life and weirdo husband that's another simon! Idiot
I told her, "Congrats. That's wonderful and please don't worry about me. The experience of being on your first sitcom was more important." Basically I called her bluff without even knowing it.
Fast forward to the day before dress shopping, I get a text message from Gretchen that she is turning down the role to spend the day with me looking for a dress (which is ironic because she did not spend one second trying to help me find a dress. She was off to the side by herself). Regardless, at the time I thought she did a sweet thing.
When we picked Gretchen up I was a little shocked to see her in a bright red jacket with no dress on underneath (it was winter and raining) and with an engagement ring on her left ring finger. It screamed "everyone look at me."
I have not seen her wear that ring in four years and she choose to wear it on the day I was looking at wedding dresses? Come on! I ignored it and tried to stay positive but Vicki on the other hand was thinking the same thing as me.
You are a bully and disgusting crazy person! Enjoy your miserable life and weirdo husband that's another simon! Idiot
I can not believe you Tamra how you have treated Gretchen, are you to stupid to see that she is your real friend, I can not understand why you would have Heather in your wedding over Gretchen and how horrible you treated her on the reunion show. I am very disgusted with how all the housewives behaved toward Gretchen when she is the only one that doesn't go around each one of you stupid housewives backs. Everybody reacts in different ways to grief and cancer, none of you have been in Gretchen's shoes so you have no right to treat her the way you did on the reunion show. This is the last season I watch. I agree that Tamra was a much better person being best friends with Gretchen than with Vicki, for some reason Vicki makes Tamra a terrible person I don't understand it but it is true. I can not believe you housewives have not seen all the crap that Heather stirred up this season, you need to watch it back and watch all the sneaky little things her and Alexis (so called Godly lady - my ass) do to stir the pot. Heather is a sneaky stab your friend in the back person. Alexis is right up there with her. I am just disappointed in how the cast behaved on the reunion show bringing pictures, bringing texts etc. I thought you were suppose to be friends, what friends do that, are you paid for how much shit you can cause or stir up. Are you paid for how many people you can stab in the back. Oh and Gretchen has to be the only one that apologizes, how rude nobody else thinks they need to, that they are all high and mighty and don't make mistakes, omg be for real.
So Gretchen getting engaged is only for the camera's? There are those of us out here that believe the reason you were pushing Eddie for a wedding date was so that you could have your own Bravo Wedding Show "only for the cameras!"
Seems to me it was well advertised at the beginning of the season and once you started showing your true self and the fans turned on you it has now turned into a "Limited Series" maybe Bravo has figured out that there will not be many viewers for your wedding event.
After watching the disgusting "strippers" in Mexico, I really didn't want to watch another episode of this "reality" show. But I decided to watch the reunion show, hoping somehow things would improve. Tamra, you are a back-stabbing, two-faced, inconsiderate bitch who doesn't deserve friends. You profess undying friendship to the each friend but then decide to dump one, gossip about them, and then wonder why you receive so many dislike comment postings. Someone before me said it best - "With friends like you, who needs enemies." And no, there is no way on God's green earth that I will watch your wedding on TV.
Tamera is and has been my favorite housewife. You never know what is going to happen next with here. And all the neg. comments really people you are no better than what you are saying she does. And if you watched the show from the beginning you would see all the girls dress better. Simon was an IDIOT! You go Tamera this season was your best. But I will say Vicki can do so much better.
With friends like you who needs enemies! I have watched the show since the RHOC started and you are by FAR the nastiest person I have ever seen! You need to take a hard look in the mirror because you must be very unhappy with yourself and your life if you have to treat "friends" the way you do! Gretchen was nothing but a true friend to you when you and Vicki were on the "outs" but as soon as you patched up your friendship with Vicki, you tossed Gretchen aside like a piece of trash! Guess what? Your the trash!!!
Tamra you used to be my favorite but being nasty to Gretchen---not cool! I am not a fan of Gretchen at all, but why couldnt you have talked to Gretchen off camera and sorted out all of the stuff you have a problem with? Instead you showed yourself as if you were not a genuine person. And really Tamra pictures from 8 years ago, girl please get your life in order, who does that? You two could have continued to be friends even if you made up with Vicki. Tamra you need to own up to kicking Gretchen to the curb, I mean there has to be at least one person whose friends/cordial with everyone in the group, how about that person be you? Again STOP bringing up crap from 100 years ago deal with whatever is happening now and keep it moving. Don't be that petty person, prime example look at the complete he say/she say Lauri retard self keeps bringing up from 200 years ago. DONT BE THAT GIRL!
I really thought you had changed this season, but after viewing the reunion show, obviously you are back to being the mean and vindictive sidekick to Vicki. You look like her little puppet, sitting on her shoulder mimicking everything she says. Wow, how you turned on Gretchen for no reason, other than that is what Vicki wanted you to do. What a nasty person you still are.
Tamara, you are disgusting. You are a bully and are dumb. You say what has to be said, you say what's on your mind...that's all BS. You're dumb and have absolutely no class and neither does your buddy Vicky. She is a pig the way she sounds when she screeches she sounds just like Ms. Piggy and she wears a lot of things that she shouldn't be wearing.
I don’t think that you have any idea how hurtful it is after someone has lost someone to be attacked about how they treated the person. It is really hard being in that kind of situation, watching someone who is dying that you love, it is beyond cruel. I wouldn’t wish that kind of thing on anyone, not even you but be careful about judging someone when you have not walked in their shoes.
What I do wish is that the rest of them would all turn on you the way you do to them. You are a horrible little ring leader. It is two faced when you become friends with someone again but ask them “not to say anything” so that you can blindside others.
Don’t blame Gretchen or anyone else for viewers disliking you, you bring that on yourself. You are not a nice person.
You are a better person all around when NOT around Vicki.. I realize we the public only see edited scenes but I think Vicki plotted to ruin your relationship with Gretchen and succeeded. Think about how you felt so comfortable in confiding with Gretchen things you NEVER told Vicki there must have been a reason in the back of your mind why you didn't confide in Vicki (like a red flag warning). Always remember to keep people that bring you up around you not ones that bring you down like Vicki. There's an old saying that if you lay down with dogs with wake up with fleas keep that in mind when it comes to your relationship with Vicki!!!
Tamra, It seems that every time you and ugly Vicki become friends, you become a complete beatch. Can't you see the bad and mean spirit Icky Vicki brings out in you? And let the Gretchen and that other guy issue go already! My god, so much happened this season that this topic is boring to all of us. Why bring it up again and agin and again. If you can't let that go, then don't fake being friends with Gretchen. I think you are just rehashing it so you look good in ugly Vicki's eyes. You want to fight with Gretchen to make Vicki feel like you are her true friend. I used to like you and now you are just a Vicki Lover. And if you can't stand people who lie, then why are you friends with Vicki? She lies all the time but you don't hold her feet to the fire the same way you torment Gretchen. Double Standard much????
people dislike you not because of Gretchen, they don't like you because of you and your personality. It really "shines" through on this show.
And, the real Tamara is back. The disgusting, immature, high school bully Tamara is back. So, was it all an act last season? Were you just acting like a decent person? I knew you couldn't keep up the likable Tamara. Grow up, and stop being such a follower. You follow Vicki. You become so insecure and horrible around Vicki. NEWS FLASH: Vicki sucks.
I can't believe Tamara said she was Gretchen"s friend and now she's bringing pictures of her to the reunion. What is she trying to do here? This was all done a long time ago. I would never treat a friend the way she has. She did nothing but talk about Gretchen behind her back and disrespect her. Gretchen is better off without a friend like that!!
The fact that Tamra instantly sees something bad in Gretchen wearing her old ring says a lot about how her mind works and it's not how a true friend would react. Same with the Malibu Country - automatically believing Gretchen was lying shows she isn't really her friend if she wants to find badness in Gretchen's actions. I can't help wonder what hold Vicki has over Tamra? Something isn't right there and I always felt that Vicki was actually more possessive of Tamra than Simon was. It's very odd. I wish Gretchen and Alexis would make up and unite against the others. Tamra is not Alexis' friend and is just using her - the apology to Jim is completely phoney and just to keep them on side. Always amazed me how the other women ganged up on Alexis for being materialistic - a silly trait that makes Alexis look like a fool at worst but doesn't hurt anyone - but yet Tamra and Vicki are allowed be downright mean to people.
Just a quick note to say the best of luck to you and to Eddie. :) I truly can't read anymore negativity from people that
watch this show. It's ridiculous how people comdemn and they only see small portion of (tiny) of your day. Soooo
with that in mine, hope that ALL of you endeavors work out and the best of luck with all of your friendships.
Really, your really hanging out with Vicki over Gretchen. Also, are you going to be friends with Alexis and her nutting husband. You and Gretchen have so much more in common. Vicki is a very sad human being. Alexis and her husband deserve each other. You and Eddie (whom I love and seems like a really nice guy) need to get rid of Vicki and Alexis.
clearly Tamra needs to be the center of attention, good or bad. You and Vickie belong together. So sad. I really thought you were turning the page on bad behavior.
You are the one that is NOT a good friend. i think that you need to watch the episodes and realize that you use and hurt people. Gretchen was just being a good friend to you, did you forget all the things that Vicki did to you, how she made you feel, who was there for you, who stuck by your side a defended you GRETCHEN!!! and what did you do, you threw that person under the bus, cast her aside, made her feel bad about herself. Even if she did tell a white lie about Malibu Country, instead of going straight to her to talk about the way you felt you decided to talk about her to the the whole group, you knew what you were doing. in summary you are a manipulative person and deep down you know you are. You are incapable of being friends with all the girls at one time because you play them off on each other.
Every time I see your phony face on tv, it validates my decision to NOT watch your spin off!! I really hope the ratings are dismal...
You are worse this season than ever before!!! You expect Gretchen to give you complete honesty - while you demand that she accept your deception - what a load of crazy.
I thought when you made friends with Gretchen you were growing and evolving as a better human - WRONG!! You seemed to become so much nicer, when you are buddies with Vicky - you come across as pure evil. The truth is you are just as psycho as Vicky -
How funny is it that trampra is in hiding? She hasn't posted since the beginning of July - almost six weeks. Will she sit it out until her "spin off" airs and then post a bunch of "Mrs. Judge" bs? Of course she will!
Well, here is the real, judgmental, bad tempered, back stabber Tamra. I knew last year you were fake. You and Vickie belong together. I can't believe Eddie agreed to marry you. He really did not seem too interested this year. I have never felt sorry for you I always thought you were just someone who let others do your thinking for you. You really need to apologize to Gretchen. She was very protective of her relationship with you. I guess you're not too bright to see who your real friends are.
The jim and Alexis thing was queer, and why do old women need a big best friend poclamation? Heather the truth bender from the looks of it and she is the one with the lame apology!
Didn't Eddie tell you that he wanted kids of his own, on that vacation? I think you are leading him on to get back at your ex. I don't think decieving him about the cost of the wedding is a good idea either - isn't that a form of lying? I think your problems stem from your inability to see the truth and I think you lie to yourself, because finances and kids are big issues in a marriage. Doesn't sound like you guys have a good start.
Have you read Heather's blog? Gretchen was NOT lying. You are such a horrible friend and person. Eddie will figure it out soon enough . . . no one can believe that he actually married you anyway.
The lowest point with you this season, was when Gretchen went to great pains to arrange your bachlorette weekend, and you abandoned her to sneak off with Vicki and Lydia. While Gretchen is not a favorite of mine? I truly felt bad for her, and believed your behavior inexcusable. It would seem that you lost what could have been a TRUE friend; those are hard to find.
They are a joke. Would maybe sympathize with them if they wrote new blogs and really read these but they don't. They just wants to see the numbers. The ones that get the most comments good or bad stay so let's all stop writing on Tamara's and Vicki's blogs and hope they will go away!!!
Tamra, I have NEVER been a fan of yours. You have proven to be catty, 2 faced and a horrible friend. That being said between last season when you FINALLY gave Gretchen a chance, and seeing you emotional/more down to earth in some episodes this season, the way you are again treating Gretchen is GROSS. Who do you think you are? I mean, you have no loyalty to anyone. You have never liked Alexis yet you are now best friends! Vicky is a horrible horrible person and you fight like crazy people yet you forgive that but won't accept Gretchen with her faults? Are you perfect???? Low low class....
Oh yeah p.s. I actually got teary eyed watching you Alexis and Jim talk... WOW that was a long time coming.... Good for you!
Tamra I'm becoming a big fan!! To me this last half of the season you were the realest you've ever been!! You did what Tamra wanted to do! You didn't conform to Gretchen and her insistence to keep you away from Vicki... You didn't let Eddies opinions sway you! like you've done in the past with Simon! You went with your heart and what your gut was telling you! This new and improved Tamra suits you well... Especially if strong is the new skinny?! Sounds like a title? I'm just saying!! Can't wait for your wedding special so glad Vicki and Heather were both bridesmaids...
They definitely need to replace the women on Orang County House Wives! They all act horrible I'm embarrassed to live in Orange County.
You are such a drama queen. What difference in the world could it make to you what ring Gretchen wears. Good lord! You used to be my favorite until this thing with Gretchen. She has only been nice to you - really, really nice. She even got over you, Vickie and Lydia (snake in the grass) ditching her in Mexico. I have to say if anyone did that to me, I would never forgive them. It was the lowest, crappiest thing I have seen. Vickie played you like a fiddle. Gretchen was a true friend. She did not lie to you. You are the one who called her a liar as soon as Heather told you girls that Gretchen was never offered a part. Seems Heather should have verified her info first before shooting off her big mouth.
LMBO. I totally agree that both Gretchen and Tamra are doing the marriage/engagement thing for the cameras. The show is boring and all of them needs to be fired.
I find it odd that Eddie, who has never been married and childless, is marrying Tamra, who had been married twice and has four children. Eddie is stupid. Where are the single childless women in Orange County for Eddie to date/marry?
On the other hand, Gretchen wants to marry a man, who barely pays child support, but she wants to have children with him.
The whole script is insane. Gretchen and Eddie should have been coupled up because they both have more in common than who they are with now.
@NettiSpaghetti I agree with you! People should try to see the best in people especially their friends. What kind of friend automatically thinks the worst of you? Tamra decided she wanted Vicki back as her friend this season and she needed to dump Gretchen and started picking her apart over stupid things. Gretchen is better off without her.
when we saw Alexis' mother from OK I knew Alexis was great. Like Mother like Daughter, both are awesome
I absolutely agree!! You hit it right on the nose. I just don't understand how Tamra can't see how bad and ugly her and Vicki are to people. They deserve each other. Alexis better watch her back. Tamra will be after her again next season and Alexis will wish she had Gretchen. Also, Eddie seems like such a nice guy, doesn't he see the bulling behavior in Tamra or how she acts different when she is with Vicki? I just don't get it.
agree. really sad but sad people hang with sad people
Oh please - do you think Eddie doesn't know that she's too old to have a child? Isn't she 45 or 46?
@cincygirl50 , I agree! Friends or not the polite thing would be to include the person who planned and paid. This woman make trailer trash look good
@MzPatty Oh geez. Too late as I just posted. This is definitely something to consider in the future. Think I'll post on Gretchen and Alexis's blogs instead. :)
@jennifer48 You are so right Jennifer. These women are vicious. Using a word that has been bandied about so much this season, they are all, each and every one of them, bar none, bullies! They become almost orgasmic when the opportunity to attack one of the season's designated victims arises, (just look at Vicki at lunch when she got the opportunity to say about Gretchen, " you mean she's a liar pants?" , she was almost drooling. These women are down right mean, rude, hateful and most certainly unchristian. I remember in the early seasons of the show, when the women actually seemed to like each, other and they did fun things, enjoying each others company. You are right, get new women and change the direction of the show. I used to feel good and enjoyed the RHOC, now I need medication when it is over ~ for both a headache and high blood pressure!
@karenhill71 her mom seems very sweet and down to earth. I think Alexis just likes shiny things and can't help herself getting excited about that stuff and is almost like a little puppy when it comes to people - it doesn't matter how mean Vicki and Tamra have been to her, she'll still go running wagging her tail when they show her a little bit of fake kindness.